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177 pages, Hardcover
Published May 7, 2019

They participate in a different dynamic, a role reversal in which the survivor parent needs protection & the child oddly finds himself or herself attempting to provide it, children taking responsibility--emotional & otherwise--for the situation they & their parents are in. In a strange way, the child becomes the parents' parent, protecting the parent from the after-effects of a tragedy that's difficult to discuss & yet impossible to escape.Instead, Elie Wiesel suggests that even if one's parents or grandparents are gone, one must recreate them with heart & mind, gathering what's left of the memories. For, "they may be gone physically but not metaphysically", so that "the survivor should use the surplus of love he or she feels, and not just on Jews." This is wonderfully concrete & uplifting counsel, offered not just to Howard Reich but to all of us.

