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108 pages, Paperback
First published December 29, 1989
"Do not go there and listen to other people's bad advice. It is poverty taking you away from your home, mother and sister. You are poor, your mother is poor, your sister is poor and you come from a poor home. Do not go to Bananaland and start behaving like some rich man's brother." p.31
"This was the undoing by poverty, for it was poverty that had driven me away from home. This was the undoing by Acholi marriage. It was the undoing by the white man; he brought money to us: it was the undoing by the money: it was too sweet..." p.69
"Ladwong, get up immediately! You are a mere wife! I bought you with my own money." p.48
"Ladwong! Do you think it was your parents who gave me money to marry you with? Listen, the money for marrying you came from our home. Sweep and tidy up the room, and arrange the seats! I don't want laziness and clumsiness in this house. Did your mother not bring you up properly?" p.50
"You have no right to speak in my house. Women have no voice in the family or in clan matters, because they are brought home by money or are married outside the clan." p.53
"I bought the items for my little sister because she was my future wealth. Therefore, money spent on her was invested. I wanted to make her attractive and desirable to young men. Her bridewealth could fetch me a wife in future." p.83
"Wealth must be looked after: even crops in the field must be weeded if they were to yield much; goats, sheep, chickens and cattle must be husbanded before they could increase in number. if animals are not tended well, they get ruined and perish altogether. That was why I was buying all these good things for Aciro: to make her beautiful and attractive to young men.." p.83