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How To Get A Man To Cherish You...If You're His Wife: A no-nonsense guide for every wife or bride-to-be.
When I released my book 'How to Get a Man to Cherish You...' I got a lot of similar feedback based off the title "...I don't wanna MAKE anybody do anything they don't want to do" "...he should already cherish me, if he doesn't, then I don't want to make him" "...I shouldn't have to work to make NO man love me" "...I'm not married." and many more similar sounding replies. BUT, That's not at all what the book is about. Matter of fact it's the complete opposite. Everything that the book suggest is to make him fall deeper in love with you. Meaning a man that already likes or loves you, but you want that deep long lasting connection that helps relationships last 10-20 years, AND, (according to research, and actual couples I've coached or know personally) Helps get them through times that break most relationships Think e.g., cheating, long distance, communication issues, crazy exes, baby mama drama (i hate that word lol) etc (all the usual's) Ok ready for the 5 ways? I pulled 5 chapters from the Chapter 1. Getting him to open up to you so that you can know him better than anybody Chapter 2. Being mindful of how you speak to your better half, and how it will get you more of what you want out of him. The easy way. Chapter 3. Using your feminine energy and the importance of interdependence within a relationship and how it'll affect the longevity of a couple, and using it to get get him to depend on you which makes you irreplaceable (nothing to do with sex. Get your mind out the gutter) Chapter 5. Submission. Yes, but the true meaning of submission and where it fits into modern day relationships and why it's vital to the longevity of a relationship and eventually marriage. Chapter 6. The one thing that most women overlook when it comes to their man that is so simple and can be implemented instantly and is responsible for why many men say they cheated. (their words not mine). It's simple, but very powerful. Trust me, this is a book you want to read, and will be very happy you did. Get your copy today!
- GenresRelationships
146 pages, Kindle Edition
Published September 20, 2018
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About the author
Stephan Labossiere
26 books438 followersStephan Labossiere is a man on a mission, and that mission is to make relationships happier and more fulfilling.
As a certified relationship coach, a speaker and author, Stephan seizes every opportunity to help both men and women overcome the challenges that hinder their relationships. From understanding the opposite sex, to navigating the paths and avoiding the pitfalls of relationships and self growth, Stephan’s relationship advice and insight helps countless individuals achieve an authentically amazing life. Stephan empowers millions to take charge of the difficult situations standing in the way of the life and love they seek and to make impactful changes on a daily basis.
Dedicated to helping, and devoted to keeping it real, Stephan’s straightforward, yet compassionate delivery style, attracts a versatile clientele including; notable celebrities, civic and social organizations, academic institutions, singles, and couples alike, who can and are ready to handle the truth!
Seen, heard and chronicled in national and international media outlets including; the Tom Joyner Morning Show, The Examiner, ABC, and Huffington Post Live, to name a few. Stephan is highly sought-after because he is able to dispel the myths of relationship breakdowns and obstacles–platonic, romantic, and otherwise—with fervor and finesse. To coin a phrase by an individual who attended one of his speaking engagements, “he’s definitely the relationship guy, all relationships all the time.”
With an international following of singles and couples alike, the name Stephan Labossiere is synonymous with breaking down relationship barriers, pushing past common facades, and exposing the truth. It is this understanding of REAL relationships that he brings to everyone he encounters
As a certified relationship coach, a speaker and author, Stephan seizes every opportunity to help both men and women overcome the challenges that hinder their relationships. From understanding the opposite sex, to navigating the paths and avoiding the pitfalls of relationships and self growth, Stephan’s relationship advice and insight helps countless individuals achieve an authentically amazing life. Stephan empowers millions to take charge of the difficult situations standing in the way of the life and love they seek and to make impactful changes on a daily basis.
Dedicated to helping, and devoted to keeping it real, Stephan’s straightforward, yet compassionate delivery style, attracts a versatile clientele including; notable celebrities, civic and social organizations, academic institutions, singles, and couples alike, who can and are ready to handle the truth!
Seen, heard and chronicled in national and international media outlets including; the Tom Joyner Morning Show, The Examiner, ABC, and Huffington Post Live, to name a few. Stephan is highly sought-after because he is able to dispel the myths of relationship breakdowns and obstacles–platonic, romantic, and otherwise—with fervor and finesse. To coin a phrase by an individual who attended one of his speaking engagements, “he’s definitely the relationship guy, all relationships all the time.”
With an international following of singles and couples alike, the name Stephan Labossiere is synonymous with breaking down relationship barriers, pushing past common facades, and exposing the truth. It is this understanding of REAL relationships that he brings to everyone he encounters
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November 17, 2021
More than expected
I chose this book because I began second guessing my marriage. I wasn't sure if it was going to survive. The book gave so much insight on what we were going through and how to fix it. The first day of my read I began making the suggested changes to my approach, appearance, delivery, love language and boy oh boy I began seeing a shift right away. The book also helped me to understand myself more and how to communicate better with my husband. My husband is enjoying the new me. I ordered additional books, Prayers for your Marriage and the first book from the two part series. So excited and can't wait to begin reading. Awesome job to Stephen, he is doing what he was called to do. Great ministry and blessings to all future endeavors. Thank you Sir!!!
I chose this book because I began second guessing my marriage. I wasn't sure if it was going to survive. The book gave so much insight on what we were going through and how to fix it. The first day of my read I began making the suggested changes to my approach, appearance, delivery, love language and boy oh boy I began seeing a shift right away. The book also helped me to understand myself more and how to communicate better with my husband. My husband is enjoying the new me. I ordered additional books, Prayers for your Marriage and the first book from the two part series. So excited and can't wait to begin reading. Awesome job to Stephen, he is doing what he was called to do. Great ministry and blessings to all future endeavors. Thank you Sir!!!
January 31, 2025
This is a great book.
As a divorced woman with past traumas, I have done a lot of self care, help and love. This book is great to help shift
perspectives from a past 17 year relationship since I was 18 YO, yes a baby, thinking I knew it all to a woman with self-worth and self-love.
I’ve learned to navigate through a new chapter of adulthood alone and I took my time getting to know what I wanted from a man’s personality and characteristics.
This book helped me view the spiritual male perspective on relationships. Another good read is In Sync with the Opposite Sex.
As a divorced woman with past traumas, I have done a lot of self care, help and love. This book is great to help shift
perspectives from a past 17 year relationship since I was 18 YO, yes a baby, thinking I knew it all to a woman with self-worth and self-love.
I’ve learned to navigate through a new chapter of adulthood alone and I took my time getting to know what I wanted from a man’s personality and characteristics.
This book helped me view the spiritual male perspective on relationships. Another good read is In Sync with the Opposite Sex.
October 20, 2025
This book is TRULY an asset to a MARRIED woman. I decided to give it a chance and within the first chapter I was hooked. Stephen backs up his points Biblically, clearly, and gently, even when the topic is particularly sensitive. I definitely consider this a book that I would read yearly just as a reminder and refresher to check in with MYSELF to make sure I am investing all I can into my marriage.
July 30, 2020
It’s okay
This book is okay. It lacks depth. The advice is better suited for someone single & just starting out & some of the advice I wouldn’t recommend for them.
There’s a lot of filler. I gained nothing from reading this. I was expecting a deeper dive into a man’s mind & real actionable steps to strengthening the foundation of marriage. All I got were commonly sense tips.
This book is okay. It lacks depth. The advice is better suited for someone single & just starting out & some of the advice I wouldn’t recommend for them.
There’s a lot of filler. I gained nothing from reading this. I was expecting a deeper dive into a man’s mind & real actionable steps to strengthening the foundation of marriage. All I got were commonly sense tips.
August 22, 2020
Two Thumbs Up!
This is marriage counseling in a book. Thank you for being so real on a every aspect of what goes on in marriages
This is a great guide for brides to be not only the married women. It has taught me a lot and know what is expected in marriage.
In everything, God's counsel comes first.
This is marriage counseling in a book. Thank you for being so real on a every aspect of what goes on in marriages
This is a great guide for brides to be not only the married women. It has taught me a lot and know what is expected in marriage.
In everything, God's counsel comes first.
December 2, 2018
Awesome
Enjoyed the read , thank you
May God bless you and keep on doing the great work of God. .
Enjoyed the read , thank you
May God bless you and keep on doing the great work of God. .
April 3, 2020
Sooo helpful. Harsh reality but nonetheless REAL
Sooo helpful. Harsh reality but nonetheless REAL. Loved this read. He teaches us to push through despite the mistakes we make.
Sooo helpful. Harsh reality but nonetheless REAL. Loved this read. He teaches us to push through despite the mistakes we make.
June 12, 2020
Great and specific guide
Very specific actions for you to take. This book got right to the point and spelled things out in a very easy to follow format.
Very specific actions for you to take. This book got right to the point and spelled things out in a very easy to follow format.
December 19, 2021
Simple to read relationship advice. Married women are the target but it might be of interest to other women.
March 13, 2024
Great learn something new
August 20, 2019
I love Stephan Labossiere's instagram feed so I thought I'd check out some of his longer form offerings.
This book(let) is so practical and no-nonsense. It felt like he and I were having a conversation.
A great primer for every wife or wife-to-be.
It was great to hear some of the reasons "why" behind men and their behavior directly from a man.
For me I finished the book with a challenge in an area I know I'm lacking in.
This is definitely one to revisit whenever I need a kick in the butt.
This book(let) is so practical and no-nonsense. It felt like he and I were having a conversation.
A great primer for every wife or wife-to-be.
It was great to hear some of the reasons "why" behind men and their behavior directly from a man.
For me I finished the book with a challenge in an area I know I'm lacking in.
This is definitely one to revisit whenever I need a kick in the butt.
November 28, 2020
I enjoyed reading this book. I was able to get a clear understanding of the Do's and Don't in a marriage. I was able to see one area I will need to work on before I get married. After reading this book, it was clear to me the 7 things that men need from their woman. I loved this book so much I read it in one day! This is a must-read book if you are open to everlasting love.
December 11, 2022
Nothing I didn’t already know but a great book for women who have no idea how to make a relationship work
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