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ME & MY MENOPAUSAL VAGINA: Living with Vaginal Atrophy
Living with Vaginal AtrophyOne women’s journey of menopause and vaginal atrophy. Written in collaboration with her daughter in a ‘tongue in cheek’ way to help break taboos of vaginal atrophy. This book is informative, serious, tear-jerking and guaranteed to make you laugh. Through this book you’ll learn the hidden secrets of menopause aimed to help you during your own experiences, informing women, men and health professionals of all ages.“An amazing piece of work. It made me smile and cry at the same time and really feel every woman on the planet needs to read it” – Dr Louise Newson.“If you have a vagina, know or love somebody with a vagina, you need to read this.”Diane Danzebrink, The Menopause Counsellor“This extraordinary, outstanding book is refreshingly candid and one of a kind. It is the sort of book you will buy extra copies of, to give to your daughters, your sisters and your friends.”Julie Bennett, Educational Author“I love the book and already have patients and friends in mind that I can recommend it to.”Fiona Mitchell, Women’s Health Physiotherapist“I would recommend it to everyone.”Amanda Tozer, Consultant Gynaecologist“Absolutely love it! Such an honest and informative read, smashing the taboo surrounding the conversation about our vaginas.”Sam Evans, Sexual Health Expert
- GenresWomens
131 pages, Kindle Edition
Published September 17, 2018
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Jane Lewis
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August 29, 2019
A must read for EVERYONE. Men and women included. Jane Lewis has written an easy-to-read book that offers important advice and understanding about something that will affect every single woman on this planet sometime in their life (if they live long enough). Believe me, someone you know is suffering from some form of this, whether it is your mother, your daughter, your wife, your sister, your aunt, your cousin or yourself. There is help, if you become informed. Don't expect your doctors to help you! (I have horror stories!!) They are largely uninformed on this topic and you need to be your own best friend and get informed. Help yourself. Help a loved one. Read this book.
November 16, 2022
With the UK & Ireland having Menopause awareness at an all time high at the moment (perfectly timed for me) I've been researching and reading as much as I can get my hands on. This was recommended by one of the many new Instagram accounts that I follow, it may have been Davina McCall actually. It's a very brave and heart-breaking example of just how women are suffering unbearable agony and mostly in shame. Thank goodness for the trail-blazers in our midst! For a short book (120 odd pages) it's jam-packed with info and advice all told with a bit of humour too. As one of the quotes says, "If you have a vagina, know or love someone with a vagina, you need to read this book."
January 24, 2023
Well, this was an eye opener. So much in this book I didn’t know before… which is very telling about our society and medical care systems and education. Like the author points out in this book, there’s plenty out there about other aspects of women’s reproductive health- particularly pre menopausal- but atrophy? Not so much.
The author’s condition sounds like an extreme case - at least I hope it is - and it shocked me out of my complacency. Whilst I don’t suffer at the same level, I have hit problems as I’ve aged and I certainly don’t want to end up where she is, as it sounds horrific.
I did appreciate the humour and straight talk in this book. Despite the seriousness of the topic, the author still managed to be funny and engaging.
The author’s condition sounds like an extreme case - at least I hope it is - and it shocked me out of my complacency. Whilst I don’t suffer at the same level, I have hit problems as I’ve aged and I certainly don’t want to end up where she is, as it sounds horrific.
I did appreciate the humour and straight talk in this book. Despite the seriousness of the topic, the author still managed to be funny and engaging.
December 8, 2018
This book has it all!
Any woman suffering from Vaginal Atrophy will find this book enormously helpful with information and suggestions for treatment , and also will benefit with spirit lifting understanding and humor. Written in laymen terms, it is easy to read, down to earth explanations of the condition, and most of all, offering help for those experiencing this pain. Thank you Jane for your courage, sincere concern for others, and wonderful sense of humor! You turned my life around with your wit, honesty and "can do" attitude.
Any woman suffering from Vaginal Atrophy will find this book enormously helpful with information and suggestions for treatment , and also will benefit with spirit lifting understanding and humor. Written in laymen terms, it is easy to read, down to earth explanations of the condition, and most of all, offering help for those experiencing this pain. Thank you Jane for your courage, sincere concern for others, and wonderful sense of humor! You turned my life around with your wit, honesty and "can do" attitude.
November 12, 2023
If you have a vagina or know someone who has, you need to read this. Brilliantly written and so easy to understand, it engaged me in a way that almost took me by surprise. I’ve learned things I’d never considered - and since I’m 45 years old, just learning things about my vagina now is a little shameful (but that shame is aimed at society for making it SO taboo). I have just started perimenopause so am not currently suffering from VA and hope I won’t but to get the perspective of someone suffering is really educational. Ladies, let’s not suffer in silence any longer xx
October 7, 2020
I was recommended this book by a friend so took the plunge and bought it as I’m of a certain age!
I found the book very informative in a frank funny relatable way and I’m sure it will empower women to get the best care possible me for their symptoms, any book that helps raise the subject of menopause and all its associated problems should be commended for raising awareness and hopefully leading to greater understanding of this condition.
I found the book very informative in a frank funny relatable way and I’m sure it will empower women to get the best care possible me for their symptoms, any book that helps raise the subject of menopause and all its associated problems should be commended for raising awareness and hopefully leading to greater understanding of this condition.
October 22, 2022
A real lifesaver
This book came to me at a time of need. I didn't know what menopause truly was until it hit me like a car crash. This book gave me some comfort from knowing that I am not alone, written with honesty, and humour. It's advice, suggestions, and information are invaluable. For anyone, this book is a must read. As women, we should know this stuff. As men we need to know this stuff. It's about an hour and a half read, and it's empowering.
This book came to me at a time of need. I didn't know what menopause truly was until it hit me like a car crash. This book gave me some comfort from knowing that I am not alone, written with honesty, and humour. It's advice, suggestions, and information are invaluable. For anyone, this book is a must read. As women, we should know this stuff. As men we need to know this stuff. It's about an hour and a half read, and it's empowering.
November 6, 2022
Honestly the most open and honest book I have ever read. I purchased this to learn more about the menopause in a professional sense as I am a nurse BUT equally I am a woman with a vagina and one day this could be my reality, Very informative and hopefully now I can assist my patients in ways to support them and I am forearmed with information when my times comes!!
December 25, 2024
An absolute must read for all women (and men). This book will help you understand the process of perimenopause and the effect it can have on your body, with loads of helpful advice. Even if you don’t suffer from VA (yet) we all have mums, sisters, aunties, daughters, friends in our life who might just need a little bit of understanding. Take courage.
December 31, 2024
Very helpful!
I’m so glad I came across this book from a Facebook group. I’m not sure what I’m dealing with at the moment but the horrific burning day in day out is not normal. A male GP told me I’m too young to be suffering from low hormones. I’m 45. This book has made me realise I’m not alone and that there is support out there.
I’m so glad I came across this book from a Facebook group. I’m not sure what I’m dealing with at the moment but the horrific burning day in day out is not normal. A male GP told me I’m too young to be suffering from low hormones. I’m 45. This book has made me realise I’m not alone and that there is support out there.
May 17, 2019
Me &my Menopausal Vagina
Very informative although a little long winded. Jane allows the reader to share her very painful and emotional journey. Thank's Jane. This book should be compulsory reading for all girls over 40, no all girls irrespective🤗
Very informative although a little long winded. Jane allows the reader to share her very painful and emotional journey. Thank's Jane. This book should be compulsory reading for all girls over 40, no all girls irrespective🤗
September 8, 2021
Invaluable information and advice for a subject that is never spoken about but affects all women to some degree as they age! Not just for menopausal women, everyone young and old should have this knowledge.
September 17, 2020
Helpful book
I found this book really helpful,lots of help and advice and information about different products to use,websites and books to research
I found this book really helpful,lots of help and advice and information about different products to use,websites and books to research
March 29, 2021
I am a 22 year Public Health Masters student and I read this as part of some research - but honestly I think everyone at every age should read this. Fantastic educational and amusing book :)
July 27, 2021
So informative
Great ,informative book daring to go into a topic feared and brushed under the carpet for so long. Thank you for being frank and open.
Great ,informative book daring to go into a topic feared and brushed under the carpet for so long. Thank you for being frank and open.
December 2, 2021
A must read for anyone, but especially women approaching forty and past forty.
February 16, 2023
Impacted on my menopause care
Thank you for making me a better Dr. I think this has change my approach to VA care for the better.
Thank you for making me a better Dr. I think this has change my approach to VA care for the better.
January 15, 2024
A must read! For everyone!
February 24, 2024
4.5 a very short, informative book written in a very accessible way.
Some really useful information given from one women’s own experience.
Lost 0.5 due to being a little repetitive.
Some really useful information given from one women’s own experience.
Lost 0.5 due to being a little repetitive.
January 22, 2025
all women should read this
The younger the better. I am a nurse and I did not consider that I would one day want to rip out my vagina.
Early moisturising is a quick win.
The younger the better. I am a nurse and I did not consider that I would one day want to rip out my vagina.
Early moisturising is a quick win.
March 7, 2025
Easy, educational and light hearted discussion of a very real subject. A book everyone should read.
June 20, 2026
good
Good so far. However I should not be forced to review in the middle of reading. Good reads do better
Good so far. However I should not be forced to review in the middle of reading. Good reads do better
November 25, 2022
A book written with humour by a fellow sufferer. Made me realise I’m not alone. A must read for everyone
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