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7 Questions Wise Women Ask

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Women are often times very emotional when it comes to relationships and marriage and as a result, they make very important decisions based on feelings. However, if you desire a great marriage, then it's time you asked the right questions. This book will guide you through 7 important questions to ask before walking down the aisle.

113 pages, Kindle Edition

Published August 20, 2018

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Kingsley Okonkwo

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October 15, 2019
Easy to understand and very applicable

I loved how practical the book was,
He gave examples and the book gives clarity as to what I should know before saying yes to a man. Also helpful if you’re about to start a relationship leading to marriage.
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48 reviews3 followers
December 6, 2022
A Life Saver.

Thank you, Pastor Kingsley. This is a wonderful resource. I'm already married, but I have a young teenage daughter that I hope to share this knowledge with and also lots of mentees that will benefit greatly from this.
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April 20, 2024
I probably would have enjoyed this book more if the cultural differences weren’t so pronounced. Long before the author stated what country he is from I knew this couldn’t be America. I can’t fathom a world where my future mother in law physically assaults me or one in which my husband allows it. Nor could I envision a world where all my boyfriend’s closest friends are polygamist (apparently those are warning signs). The biblical principles (I.e. about having vision & living in purpose) are good but I am stuck on the part in the book where I just sit and wait and my husband will find me. I think that teaching keeps many Christian women single. Ruth didn’t sit and wait she got all dolled up and laid her pretty self at Boaz’s feet but we are telling Christian women they don’t have to do anything but work on their relationship with Christ and he will deliver a husband to them. Well he’s a relationship expert and I am single so feel free to take my review with a grain of salt and judge this book for yourself. 🤷🏾‍♀️
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77 reviews
March 8, 2024
Simple, and Full of Wisdom

This book is very short, but it’s filled with so much wisdom. I love the simplistic way it was written and the inclusion of many examples and scriptures. Love this book and recommend reading it 💘
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December 3, 2018
Profound

Short and straight to the point. I enjoy his preaching and I thoroughly enjoyed this book. It spoke to me.
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December 15, 2022
Loved the book!!!

I learned alot and I will keep reading and buying your books, God has made it possible for me to come across this book and I am blessed!
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83 reviews2 followers
April 26, 2023
Short and precise. He makes you want to buy all his books and learn all you can.
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August 1, 2023
Simple but important truths!! I liked his use of scripture and wisdom!
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February 12, 2024
wow, i concur with the answers.
they also challenged me alot
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November 24, 2022
The 7 questions wise women ask:
1.Why me: at least you should know why the person want to marry you, asking this question will amaze you the answers you get, but it's important you ask why
#If out of        
the 5billion women in theworld,he chose you, you           
must know why because that same thing is what will          
keep the marriage going. 
2. Do you know him well enough
You must know him well enough before deciding to marry him, first be friends.
#Be yourself! Don’t pretend! Don’t       
impress anyone just because you want to get married!         
Cultivatefriendship and let it grow.You must know         
him well enough! 
3.Who are his influences?
Know who his friends and mentors are, at least every human being must have at least 2mentors, people that can correct them when they are wrong.
#He must have a church where he is           
known, where some people can account for him and         
vouch for him. 
4. Are we compatible?
Make sure you have the same interests, are you going to the same direction.
#Amos 3:3 tells us that   
 “Can two people walk together without agreeing on the“Can two people walk together without agreeing on the 
 direction?”(NLT)
5.Is He responsible
Responsibility is what separate boys from men
If he ain't responsible marry him not for the sake of your innocent children.
Can he preside, protect and provide...you should know all these
6.When?
You should know when he intend marrying you, walking you through the aisle.
A woman can enter courtship with        
someone for 5years or 7years and at that time, she is now 32 and the guy might be 38. Suddenly, out of           
nowhere, the guy says he’s no longer interested and         
drops you. As a woman, you might not be able to find            
another spouse but a man can marry the next day.He           
can see someone else the next day and marry her.
7.Is He born again?
Don't forget to know the answer to this question
 
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42 reviews2 followers
December 27, 2025
Another insightful read from Kingsley—one I wish he had narrated himself. Given that he’s a pastor and carries such depth of wisdom on this topic, his voice would have added a personal touch. I believe I would have thoroughly enjoyed the book even more with his narration. That said, it was still an insightful listen.

I genuinely appreciate the effort and insights he poured into this book.
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