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The Cranky Mom Fix: How to Get a Happier, More Peaceful Home by Slaying the "Momster" in All of Us
"Finding other moms who will admit to what real life in the trenches looks like is always a relief. Becky is that kind of mom friend. She's been there, and she's going to give you real-life, practical advice for how to climb out." --LISA-JO BAKER, bestselling author of Never Unfriended and Surprised by Motherhood
You want to be a great mom. But does the "Momster" inside you growl and roar at the people you love best?
If we're honest with ourselves, almost every mom knows she can go from being kind to cranky in no time flat. When we're tired, busy, anxious, preoccupied--okay, so anytime, really--we tend to default to snapping and barking at our kids. But life doesn't have to be this way.
Through coaching other moms who share a desire to be a kinder, gentler parent, Becky Kopitzke has learned the keys to taming the "momster" in all of us. And in this grace-filled book, she will help you Purchase The Cranky Mom Fix as your personal battle plan to focus on who you are and how to wield God's wisdom and strength in your family. With an extensive resource section of practical activities, tips, and self-assessment tools, this book will help you reclaim true peace for your soul and your home.
You want to be a great mom. But does the "Momster" inside you growl and roar at the people you love best?
If we're honest with ourselves, almost every mom knows she can go from being kind to cranky in no time flat. When we're tired, busy, anxious, preoccupied--okay, so anytime, really--we tend to default to snapping and barking at our kids. But life doesn't have to be this way.
Through coaching other moms who share a desire to be a kinder, gentler parent, Becky Kopitzke has learned the keys to taming the "momster" in all of us. And in this grace-filled book, she will help you Purchase The Cranky Mom Fix as your personal battle plan to focus on who you are and how to wield God's wisdom and strength in your family. With an extensive resource section of practical activities, tips, and self-assessment tools, this book will help you reclaim true peace for your soul and your home.
256 pages, Paperback
Published June 4, 2019
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Becky Kopitzke
7 books35 followersBecky Kopitzke is a writer, speaker, singer, dreamer, lunch packer, snowman builder and recovering perfectionist. She lives with her handsome husband and their two young daughters in northeast Wisconsin, where a pink indoor trampoline fills half the once formal living room.
Becky believes God works in the ordinary, and it's up to us to find him there. On her blog, Time Out with Becky Kopitzke, she offers weekly encouragement for fellow imperfect women, pointing our weaknesses, blessings, and victories to God. Becky's first book, The SuperMom Myth: Conquering the Dirty Villains of Motherhood, is slated to release December 1, 2015 with Shiloh Run Press.
Becky believes God works in the ordinary, and it's up to us to find him there. On her blog, Time Out with Becky Kopitzke, she offers weekly encouragement for fellow imperfect women, pointing our weaknesses, blessings, and victories to God. Becky's first book, The SuperMom Myth: Conquering the Dirty Villains of Motherhood, is slated to release December 1, 2015 with Shiloh Run Press.
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April 1, 2023
FTC Disclosure: I received a complimentary copy of this book from NetGalley. These are my honest thoughts.
Who doesn’t want to kick the crankiness out of their home? Well, this book is great for helping with that. I loved the personal anecdotes that the author used to convey her points. There were lots of practical tips sprinkled throughout, and I can see how they would be helpful not only for mothers but also for single ladies who simply want to improve their personalities and work on their issues (because goodness knows we’ve all got at least a handful of those). This book is a great resource for mothers and singles alike, and I’m glad I read it. I’m planning on getting a hard copy at some point, because there are some sections I want to revisit as I work on my own cranky moments.
There was one moment of entitlement: “But I also want to maintain a level of authority as the grown-up who’s due some respect.” Personally, I’ve always believed that respect is earned, especially from those in positions of authority.
There was also one odd moment when church was made out to be only fun and not responsible at all for training up Christians with biblical standards and godly character: “At church, [Jesus is] a super fun guy… It’s not the church’s responsibility to instill Christian values in our kids.” I understand the author’s follow-up that it’s the parents’ responsibility to properly train up their kids, but the church is supposed to also play a significant role here as there is a huge responsibility and souls are at stake.
Overall, I found this book to be a treasure and a fantastic resource. It will open eyes and help bring healing and camaraderie into many homes.
Content: one bleeped-out expletive
Who doesn’t want to kick the crankiness out of their home? Well, this book is great for helping with that. I loved the personal anecdotes that the author used to convey her points. There were lots of practical tips sprinkled throughout, and I can see how they would be helpful not only for mothers but also for single ladies who simply want to improve their personalities and work on their issues (because goodness knows we’ve all got at least a handful of those). This book is a great resource for mothers and singles alike, and I’m glad I read it. I’m planning on getting a hard copy at some point, because there are some sections I want to revisit as I work on my own cranky moments.
There was one moment of entitlement: “But I also want to maintain a level of authority as the grown-up who’s due some respect.” Personally, I’ve always believed that respect is earned, especially from those in positions of authority.
There was also one odd moment when church was made out to be only fun and not responsible at all for training up Christians with biblical standards and godly character: “At church, [Jesus is] a super fun guy… It’s not the church’s responsibility to instill Christian values in our kids.” I understand the author’s follow-up that it’s the parents’ responsibility to properly train up their kids, but the church is supposed to also play a significant role here as there is a huge responsibility and souls are at stake.
Overall, I found this book to be a treasure and a fantastic resource. It will open eyes and help bring healing and camaraderie into many homes.
Content: one bleeped-out expletive
September 3, 2021
Ever had a cranky mom moment? Good, then you're normal and should read this book.
March 29, 2021
Another well-written book for moms by Becky Kopitzke. With our children all young adults, this had me thinking back to their childhood. I'm sure I had my cranky moments and they had their share of meltdowns and bickering but everything fades through the years and I can only seem to remember the joy of being a full-time mom to four children born over the course of 6+ years. That being said, the kids may have different memories! I appreciate the work that Kopitzke put into writing this book, particularly all the Bible references. While I read scripture every day, I was never one for memorizing Bible passages. So, rather than trying to recall Bible references when I was in the middle of a frustrating situation, I looked to my mentor, the perfect mother, Jesus' mother Mary. In every reference to her in the Bible, she was always calm, cool and collected. When things got rough (and when they still do), I ask for her to pray for me and with me, and to give her son a little nudge in the side with her elbow and mention my pleas to Him. How could He say no to his own mother?
June 6, 2019
I received an advanced copy of the book from the publisher. I love that the book intertwines bible verses throughout to help you connect God to family to parenting. It also helps you to dig in on a deeper level at the end of each chapter with questions that get you thinking. For me, I knew that I needed some practical tips to get things to a more consistent peaceful flow in the day, even when having to rush out the door. The Cranky Mom Fix starts with moms, figuring out what things trigger us causing a snowball of emotions and reactions. Then it gentle guides you on how to change those reactions after accepting, then fix and be proactive going forward. It starts with setting up a solid foundation and then moving forward. I have begun using the three family rules she has in the book, because I realized I needed to simplify our rules and really pretty much all the rules fall under at least one main rule. The book gives you the wisdom to stand firm, but loving and how to send the mom-ster packing and knowing when it is coming from a mile away so you can stay grounded, face it, and move it out of the way.
March 30, 2019
This book is biblically based, relatable, and encouraging. Each chapter starts with practical suggestions illustrated by personal anecdotes. The author calls the second half of each chapter Let's Dig In! and it is comprised of journaling prompts tied to Bible verses. Many of the ideas are things I already knew, but they are excellent reminders for this worn out and often forgetful mom of twin preschoolers. Maybe even more helpful than the ideas themselves is knowing that many other moms share the same struggles, and I'm not alone.
Small disclaimer: The book is written with the assumption that the mom reading it is in a married, heterosexual relationship, which I find disappointing but not surprising given the publisher. These are just quick references to a husband and nothing negative is said about other family situations.
I received an ARC from NetGalley. The book will be released on June 4, 2019.
Small disclaimer: The book is written with the assumption that the mom reading it is in a married, heterosexual relationship, which I find disappointing but not surprising given the publisher. These are just quick references to a husband and nothing negative is said about other family situations.
I received an ARC from NetGalley. The book will be released on June 4, 2019.
May 21, 2019
This is probably one of the best parenting books, I've read. Probably one of the best books period that I've read. This book is biblically based. Throughout each chapter there are relatable Bible verses, Which is great if you are like me, because I a struggle trying to find a relatable verse. Also at the end of each chapter there are Digging deeper discussion questions which are great for women's studies, personal growth, and family discussion.
I Loved how Becky seemed like she stuck a camera in my home and was writing my story the whole time and than developed answers to them. Some things included in this book include; Finding out what our triggers are, Our kids are not us (Amen!), how to be a fun family and a list of suggestions for being fun, and SOOOOOO, much more.
Come join me and kill the MOMSTER! I'm reading the book for the 2nd time.
I Loved how Becky seemed like she stuck a camera in my home and was writing my story the whole time and than developed answers to them. Some things included in this book include; Finding out what our triggers are, Our kids are not us (Amen!), how to be a fun family and a list of suggestions for being fun, and SOOOOOO, much more.
Come join me and kill the MOMSTER! I'm reading the book for the 2nd time.
March 11, 2019
This book really hit home for me! I’m sure I’m not the only one who was in a pattern of snappy responses and irritability with my children. The Cranky Mom Fix put into words what was on my heart: I need to change my thinking and reactions towards my children (whom I love)! Becky Kopitzke has a way of being direct without being condemning, encouraging while being realistic. As a mom who has “been there”, I found her writing personal and relatable. I always look for the scriptural basis in these types of books and Kopitzke nails it. But is it also practical? Sure I’ve read other parenting books that left me asking “but how”? The Cranky Mom Fix did not disappoint with lots of do-able ideas to break out of my snappy responses. I’m buying extra copies to give to friends!
April 27, 2020
The Cranky Mom Fix: How to Get a Happier, More Peaceful Home by Slaying the "Momster" in All of Us by [Becky Kopitzke]All mom's have days when we are cranky, even if we hate to admit it. Becky Kopitzke addresses these times in The Cranky Mom Fix with humor. She shares her own humorous stories and shows how to :
*Sidestep the triggers
*Three family rules to help stop the bickering
*and enjoy your children more and scold them less
She shows how regular family meetings and fun activities can help to open up communication.
This book would be a wonderful addition for anyone who is a mother or about to be a mother.
I was given this book by Bethany House publisher in exchange for my honest review.
*Sidestep the triggers
*Three family rules to help stop the bickering
*and enjoy your children more and scold them less
She shows how regular family meetings and fun activities can help to open up communication.
This book would be a wonderful addition for anyone who is a mother or about to be a mother.
I was given this book by Bethany House publisher in exchange for my honest review.
May 22, 2024
This gets 4 stars for content and 2.5 for style, which I realize is subjective. My issue with style is just a preference for no gimmicks, so I had to summon some fortitude to tolerate the first few chapters' set up of the fictional "momster." The efforts at humor and style just wore me out.
However, she does root her argument in the scriptural mandates for parenting in specific and the Christian life in general. I can't complain about these reminders.
The author's audience tended to skew toward the mother of multiple kids all under 8ish. Most of the practical elements were not applicable, for example, to my life as a parent of kids 7 to 16. In all, especially for a person who's not a big reader, this is a quick and worthy read. If you've read a lot on the subject, you might not find this to be anything novel--but then again, many times we read this type of book to remind us of what we already know rather than to learn something new.
However, she does root her argument in the scriptural mandates for parenting in specific and the Christian life in general. I can't complain about these reminders.
The author's audience tended to skew toward the mother of multiple kids all under 8ish. Most of the practical elements were not applicable, for example, to my life as a parent of kids 7 to 16. In all, especially for a person who's not a big reader, this is a quick and worthy read. If you've read a lot on the subject, you might not find this to be anything novel--but then again, many times we read this type of book to remind us of what we already know rather than to learn something new.
January 10, 2023
I'm not going to lie--I picked this book because of the title and was not prepare for theology to be shoved down my throat. I didn't realize I'd need to have a Bible along side me--for the record, I didn't. I was born and raised Catholic but I was not about this right now.
Real talk: There were parts of this book that made the mom guilt even bigger. But there were also a lot of food things in the pages of this book, which is why I stuck it out to the end. I have some good take aways and am hopeful that I can use some of what I read to #slaythemomster.
Real talk: There were parts of this book that made the mom guilt even bigger. But there were also a lot of food things in the pages of this book, which is why I stuck it out to the end. I have some good take aways and am hopeful that I can use some of what I read to #slaythemomster.
May 26, 2021
Great book
We alway need advice in motherhood, especially when we think we aren’t being good enough and letting our emotions get the best of us, affecting not just us but our home and the people we love most.
This book just brings you that, not only a simple advice or how to book, but biblical view advice and balanced real changes one can make.
We alway need advice in motherhood, especially when we think we aren’t being good enough and letting our emotions get the best of us, affecting not just us but our home and the people we love most.
This book just brings you that, not only a simple advice or how to book, but biblical view advice and balanced real changes one can make.
June 22, 2021
This book was great! There is a lot of practical advice that can be used in your day-to-day, all backed up by scripture. Which I really enjoyed. An easy, enjoyable read.
Keep in mind, a lot of the examples seem to come from an upper middle class viewpoint - which is fine, just not always applicable for the average joe (like me). :)
Would recommend this book, for sure!
Keep in mind, a lot of the examples seem to come from an upper middle class viewpoint - which is fine, just not always applicable for the average joe (like me). :)
Would recommend this book, for sure!
January 31, 2021
Recommend but would recommend a hard copy of the book as there is a lot to interact with and great ideas to look back on
May 20, 2021
Amazing! All mom's should read this book!
February 8, 2024
In my idealized image of my own life, I am a mom who is always patient, present, and relaxed with my children. I never raise my voice, never lose my temper, and never have anything but soothing, kind words to offer my children. But that “ideal mom” doesn’t exist, at least not in my own home. I am frequently on edge around my children, I loose my patience (and verge on losing my sanity), and I am rarely the soothing, even-tempered presence I’d like to be.
In The Cranky Mom Fix, fellow-frazzled-mom Becky Kopitkze meets us cranky moms where we are at, but refuses to let us stay there. Kopitzke reminds us that our attitude is a choice and she sets us on a path to choosing positive attitudes and not cranky ones in a an approach that involves identifying our triggers, knowing when we have reached ur limits (and what to do when that happens), and practicing healthy self care so that we can better care for our kids. She also helps moms create environments that are less likely to make us cranky, showing us how to connect with our kids, exercise healthy and effective discipline, and foster a FUN environment in which we prioritize Forgiveness, do the Unexpected, and Nurture our kids’ interests.
This was the right book at the right time for me, in a season when I’ve been more than the usual amount of cranky. Kopitkze validated my experience as she shared her own cranky moments, helping me remember that I am not a horrible mother for not always feeling cheerful and upbeat. I also needed the reminder that feeling cranky doesn’t mean I need to ACT cranky and I found her suggestions actionable and effective. I liked her engaging, conversational writing style that is filled with anecdotes and relatable moments, and I really appreciated the heavy reliance on Scripture and Biblical principles that can guide us in our parenting and our general approach to life. Some reviewers have expressed disappointment over the heavy amount of theology; for me, this was a feature and not a flaw.
If you’re a mom who could use a slight attitude adjustment, this is an easy-to-read book that just may offer the help you need.
My Rating: 4 Stars // Book Format: Audiobook
In The Cranky Mom Fix, fellow-frazzled-mom Becky Kopitkze meets us cranky moms where we are at, but refuses to let us stay there. Kopitzke reminds us that our attitude is a choice and she sets us on a path to choosing positive attitudes and not cranky ones in a an approach that involves identifying our triggers, knowing when we have reached ur limits (and what to do when that happens), and practicing healthy self care so that we can better care for our kids. She also helps moms create environments that are less likely to make us cranky, showing us how to connect with our kids, exercise healthy and effective discipline, and foster a FUN environment in which we prioritize Forgiveness, do the Unexpected, and Nurture our kids’ interests.
This was the right book at the right time for me, in a season when I’ve been more than the usual amount of cranky. Kopitkze validated my experience as she shared her own cranky moments, helping me remember that I am not a horrible mother for not always feeling cheerful and upbeat. I also needed the reminder that feeling cranky doesn’t mean I need to ACT cranky and I found her suggestions actionable and effective. I liked her engaging, conversational writing style that is filled with anecdotes and relatable moments, and I really appreciated the heavy reliance on Scripture and Biblical principles that can guide us in our parenting and our general approach to life. Some reviewers have expressed disappointment over the heavy amount of theology; for me, this was a feature and not a flaw.
If you’re a mom who could use a slight attitude adjustment, this is an easy-to-read book that just may offer the help you need.
My Rating: 4 Stars // Book Format: Audiobook
June 7, 2019
Buying this book felt a little edgy, because it felt like I was saying “here you go, you cranky, terrible mother!” When, actually, nothing could be farther from the truth! To be honest, when it comes to motherhood, I think I am crushing it! Mostly. But, if I’m also being honest, there are moments, hours, and even days where I think I’ve just completely messed up and think I need to hit the reset button and start over. Now I know I’m not alone after reading the totally relatable excerpts from this book! When you have small children, there are many opportunities for us “too-critical” moms to think we’re blowing it…messing our kids up for life. If your sleep-deprived self has ever felt like this at all in the past, I think you’ll love this book. I know I did!
They say kids don’t come with an instruction manual, and they don’t. But thankfully there is this book! I will keep this book on hand throughout my child raising years. The book is loaded with tried and true solutions that are simple to implement, like the Three Family Rules, for instance. It’s like anything, when we have a problem, we want a quick fix. This book is your starting point! I’ve learned so much, from recognizing my triggers and practicing patience when choosing to respond differently to them, to remembering that both my kids are God’s children, creations of a perfect God who gives me grace when I mess up, and who gave my children free will to make their own choices, even with my guidance. All of this has been huge, and eye opening. One of my biggest lessons learned so far is to keep communication open to build strong, trusting bonds now, while they’re young; to speak with love; and to not take the blessing of children for granted. I’ve been putting everything I can into practice and when I feel I want to snap, I have mostly been able to tame it! And, if I do mess up and react in a way I regret, I apologize with intent. I have seen a dramatic improvement in our home.
This book is trans-formative, educational and entertaining! You WILL laugh (and cringe!) when you see yourself in the pages of this book and you will cry when portions resonate with your heart. It is riddled with tips and ideas that I can apply now, and as my children age. It has me excited for a future that could be filled with fear…puberty, middle school, teenage and high school years… now I am feeling prepared! Plus it’s loaded with scripture references, making it like a mini Bible study, which is something I know I need help with and really enjoy!
So, to all the mothers out there who love their kids like crazy and who make motherhood look beautiful, and easy…sprinkled with all sorts of cranky and crabby… and who desperately want to do better…this is a mommy-must-read! Enjoy!
They say kids don’t come with an instruction manual, and they don’t. But thankfully there is this book! I will keep this book on hand throughout my child raising years. The book is loaded with tried and true solutions that are simple to implement, like the Three Family Rules, for instance. It’s like anything, when we have a problem, we want a quick fix. This book is your starting point! I’ve learned so much, from recognizing my triggers and practicing patience when choosing to respond differently to them, to remembering that both my kids are God’s children, creations of a perfect God who gives me grace when I mess up, and who gave my children free will to make their own choices, even with my guidance. All of this has been huge, and eye opening. One of my biggest lessons learned so far is to keep communication open to build strong, trusting bonds now, while they’re young; to speak with love; and to not take the blessing of children for granted. I’ve been putting everything I can into practice and when I feel I want to snap, I have mostly been able to tame it! And, if I do mess up and react in a way I regret, I apologize with intent. I have seen a dramatic improvement in our home.
This book is trans-formative, educational and entertaining! You WILL laugh (and cringe!) when you see yourself in the pages of this book and you will cry when portions resonate with your heart. It is riddled with tips and ideas that I can apply now, and as my children age. It has me excited for a future that could be filled with fear…puberty, middle school, teenage and high school years… now I am feeling prepared! Plus it’s loaded with scripture references, making it like a mini Bible study, which is something I know I need help with and really enjoy!
So, to all the mothers out there who love their kids like crazy and who make motherhood look beautiful, and easy…sprinkled with all sorts of cranky and crabby… and who desperately want to do better…this is a mommy-must-read! Enjoy!
August 27, 2019
WHY I CHOOSE THIS BOOK
What can I say? Parenting books are incredibly intriguing to me. I've read dozens of them and still find them to be some of the most interesting books I pick up. I find it very enlightening to see the concepts behind the why and how parents are raising their kids.
(Disclaimer: I'm not married, I'm not a mom, and I'm very aware of the fact that I don't have the whole parenting thing figured out. I'm not one of those annoying single people who think I know how to raise kids. I just like reading about how others raise their kids and figure that my reviews of these books give an interesting perspective since I'm not the intended audience.)
WHAT I THOUGHT ABOUT THIS BOOK
This book isn't a book about how to raise kids.
This book is about how to be a good mom.
There's a big difference between the two and I was impressed as I read this book. My dad (who's done a fantastic job raising nine kids) has told me before that he never really liked reading parenting books written by people who's kids were still little, because how do they know that what they are teaching really works? And that makes sense. This author's kids are still young, but her approach isn't about what to do with the kids, it's about how to respond as a mom.
I really liked this book. It was encouraging, uplifting, honest, and so practical. The author talks about how she, as a mom, is working on learning to change her mindset, control herself, and become more Christ-like. Although this book was about how to be a better mom, it's applicable for pretty much anyone.
It's so easy for people to blame their reactions on other people, but this book highlighted the fact that we are responsible for how we respond to situations. The author does a fantastic job of helping the reader think through why they respond the way they do to certain things, then offers solid, Biblically-based answers for how they can change.
When I read this book I was inspired by how I can change things in my life to become more Christ-like. It also made me excited about being a mom one day if I ever have kids. From my very non-experienced viewpoint, I felt like the author did the perfect job of being inspiring, encouraging, honest, funny, and hard-hitting. She doesn't hold back from the truth, but she delivers it in a way that's easy(ish) to accept.
CONCLUSION
There were only a very few things in this book that I had an issue with which isn't common. As usual, I don't recommend or un-recommend parenting books, but I did really like this one.
RATING
I’m giving The Cranky Mom Fix 4 out of 5 stars. I'm thankful for the publisher for giving me a copy so I could review it here.
What can I say? Parenting books are incredibly intriguing to me. I've read dozens of them and still find them to be some of the most interesting books I pick up. I find it very enlightening to see the concepts behind the why and how parents are raising their kids.
(Disclaimer: I'm not married, I'm not a mom, and I'm very aware of the fact that I don't have the whole parenting thing figured out. I'm not one of those annoying single people who think I know how to raise kids. I just like reading about how others raise their kids and figure that my reviews of these books give an interesting perspective since I'm not the intended audience.)
WHAT I THOUGHT ABOUT THIS BOOK
This book isn't a book about how to raise kids.
This book is about how to be a good mom.
There's a big difference between the two and I was impressed as I read this book. My dad (who's done a fantastic job raising nine kids) has told me before that he never really liked reading parenting books written by people who's kids were still little, because how do they know that what they are teaching really works? And that makes sense. This author's kids are still young, but her approach isn't about what to do with the kids, it's about how to respond as a mom.
I really liked this book. It was encouraging, uplifting, honest, and so practical. The author talks about how she, as a mom, is working on learning to change her mindset, control herself, and become more Christ-like. Although this book was about how to be a better mom, it's applicable for pretty much anyone.
It's so easy for people to blame their reactions on other people, but this book highlighted the fact that we are responsible for how we respond to situations. The author does a fantastic job of helping the reader think through why they respond the way they do to certain things, then offers solid, Biblically-based answers for how they can change.
When I read this book I was inspired by how I can change things in my life to become more Christ-like. It also made me excited about being a mom one day if I ever have kids. From my very non-experienced viewpoint, I felt like the author did the perfect job of being inspiring, encouraging, honest, funny, and hard-hitting. She doesn't hold back from the truth, but she delivers it in a way that's easy(ish) to accept.
CONCLUSION
There were only a very few things in this book that I had an issue with which isn't common. As usual, I don't recommend or un-recommend parenting books, but I did really like this one.
RATING
I’m giving The Cranky Mom Fix 4 out of 5 stars. I'm thankful for the publisher for giving me a copy so I could review it here.
June 29, 2019
I may not have kids, but I live with another person and a dog so I definitely have my moments of crankiness. During the reading of this book, I really focused on embracing the message, so much so that at one point my husband asked me why I was being so “chill” about an otherwise home catastrophe, I happily explained to him the teaching within this book.
While this book leaned HEAVILY on scripture and felt more like a bible study at times than a read, there were many benefits I gleaned:
Know your triggers – is it a messy house, exhaustion or something else that sets you off, acknowledge these triggers, take a break and ask for forgiveness.
Relating to those around you, “are you protecting them from harsh weather, or are you sometimes causing the tornado” (p.38). This was mind blowing to me as I think of my own impact on my household.
Kopitzke’s idea of family meetings, while more formal in nature, took me back to my own childhood filled with weekly (or even more often) family dinners. These had such a profound impact on me.
I loved the three all encompassing household rules beginning with obey the first time, ending with no hurting someone on purpose, and squeezed in there was no disrespectful talk (p.153-158).
If you can get beyond the bible study feeling and heavy reference to scripture, sometimes taking away from the overall message, then there are strong lessons to be learned from this book. However, it involved MUCH wading through the bible to come out the other end of this one.
*Disclaimer: A review copy of this book was provided by the publisher. All opinions are my own.
While this book leaned HEAVILY on scripture and felt more like a bible study at times than a read, there were many benefits I gleaned:
Know your triggers – is it a messy house, exhaustion or something else that sets you off, acknowledge these triggers, take a break and ask for forgiveness.
Relating to those around you, “are you protecting them from harsh weather, or are you sometimes causing the tornado” (p.38). This was mind blowing to me as I think of my own impact on my household.
Kopitzke’s idea of family meetings, while more formal in nature, took me back to my own childhood filled with weekly (or even more often) family dinners. These had such a profound impact on me.
I loved the three all encompassing household rules beginning with obey the first time, ending with no hurting someone on purpose, and squeezed in there was no disrespectful talk (p.153-158).
If you can get beyond the bible study feeling and heavy reference to scripture, sometimes taking away from the overall message, then there are strong lessons to be learned from this book. However, it involved MUCH wading through the bible to come out the other end of this one.
*Disclaimer: A review copy of this book was provided by the publisher. All opinions are my own.
July 16, 2019
I am always looking for ways to grow as a parent and a Christian. This book really caught my eye, because lately, I have felt like just the everyday stresses of life, compounded by a bit of a curve ball that hit last year has definitely turned me into a bit more of a "cranky" mom.
I found this devotional to be just what a needed, offering some great advice and taking me through God's Word. Boy, Becky sure hit the nail on the head! She wrote about so many things I struggle with. She gave some really great pointers and Scripture on how to act, react, and become the Mom God wants us to be.
I am still working through the individual questions and study at the end of the chapters. I did a quick read through and am going back to really do a deeper study with all the verses included.
I feel like this would be a wonderful asset to many mom's out there. It would make a great personal or group study.
I know I myself have been convicted while reading through this book, but I have also been encouraged that I can tame the "momster" inside and become grace filled and a kinder, gentler parent when I put these principles into practice.
I would definitely recommend this book!
I was blessed with a copy courtesy of Bethany House Publishers. I wasn't required to give a positive review, All opinions are my own.
I found this devotional to be just what a needed, offering some great advice and taking me through God's Word. Boy, Becky sure hit the nail on the head! She wrote about so many things I struggle with. She gave some really great pointers and Scripture on how to act, react, and become the Mom God wants us to be.
I am still working through the individual questions and study at the end of the chapters. I did a quick read through and am going back to really do a deeper study with all the verses included.
I feel like this would be a wonderful asset to many mom's out there. It would make a great personal or group study.
I know I myself have been convicted while reading through this book, but I have also been encouraged that I can tame the "momster" inside and become grace filled and a kinder, gentler parent when I put these principles into practice.
I would definitely recommend this book!
I was blessed with a copy courtesy of Bethany House Publishers. I wasn't required to give a positive review, All opinions are my own.
June 11, 2019
I absolutely loved this book. It was a quick read, but you can also spend time on the "Let's Dig In" section studying God's word and reflecting more on your parenting. This book exceeded my expectations. I originally thought the book would focus only on a few ways to rephrase things or calm down and reminders to pray when we need help, but this book includes so much more than that. I like to think I have a lot of parenting techniques in my toolbox, but this book was an amazing reminder of things I already do but also full of new ideas I have already started to implement for our family. I especially liked the sections on being a F.U.N. family (Forgiveness, Unexpected, and Nurture) and have done some simple unexpected things with my children that gave us some amazing memories and strengthened my relationships with my children like a surprise park playdate! There is a great mix of Bible verses, anecdotal stories from the author and parenting ideas. This is the best book I have read on parenting. It is worth every penny. I cannot wait to spend more time reflecting on the "Let's Dig In" questions at the end of each chapter. I received an advanced copy from the publisher to review.
June 6, 2019
We’ve all been there. We do our best to not get mad, but at the end of the day, we all have a little “Momster” in us. Our patience has run thin and there is that moment after where we feel guilty for our reaction when our children burst into a puddle of tears. The Cranky Mom Fix has made me realize that I truly am not alone in this crazy journey called parenthood. Other moms and dads are going through it too and best of all, He is carrying us through it every step of the way as our personal cheerleader. Another takeaway from this book for me was the reality that “Fears ruin all our fun. They suck the joy from our blessings”. I am often guilty of letting my fears get in the way of having fun and the simple words in this book that “God hands us little tickets to happiness, and we turn them down because we’re too darn scared to strap in for the ride” was a complete eye opener for me. I know that I’m a good mom but I feel that this book gives me so many tools to be a GREAT mom and overall individual as a whole. The Let’s Dig In pieces at the end of each chapter are such a wonderful added bonus and keeps me constantly learning! Love it! I highly recommend giving this book a try. You won’t regret it!
June 7, 2019
I am definitely guilty of letting the "Momster" in me creep out at various times throughout the day....getting out the door in the morning with my two littles, trying to get dinner on the table in the evening and wrangling kids into bed at night. I have known all along that this is not the mom that I want to be, but I have never known what to do about it. The Cranky Mom Fix has been so great in helping me to tame the "Momster" in me. The book offers amazing, practical guidance to help me begin to make changes in my thinking and my parenting towards my kiddos so that I don't find myself yelling like I used to. I have begun to identify the things that trigger the "Momster" in me, and take active steps to deal with my children in ways that are peaceful and loving. And I've realized that it's so much more than getting myself under control, but it has everything to do with getting more closely connected with my kids. In the book there are so many practical suggestions about ways to connect and nurture the relationships that I have with my children. This is a great read for all moms whether they struggle with crankiness or just need some fresh inspiration.
June 7, 2019
I have 2 children... the first one was 'easy'; the second one, not so much. Reading the Cranky Mom Fix helped me to realize that I'm not a bad mom, it's just that some kids take a little different approach. This book is FULL of ideas that help us realize our triggers and what steps can be taken to avoid or diffuse them - all while reminding us about God's love and words of guidance.
After reading, I've come to realize that my daughter anticipates my reactions to her. And that I'm totally capable of making small changes - just enough to throw her off guard and begin to build her habits and foundation back up.
While Becky's books include many opportunities to 'Dig Deeper' into God's word, it is also super relevant to those non-believers also.
It's like Becky was a fly on the wall in our house! Thanks for giving me the courage and support to not give up on my kids and family!
** I was randomly chosen to receive and Advanced Readers Copy of this book. I was not compensated for my review, nor do I know the author.
After reading, I've come to realize that my daughter anticipates my reactions to her. And that I'm totally capable of making small changes - just enough to throw her off guard and begin to build her habits and foundation back up.
While Becky's books include many opportunities to 'Dig Deeper' into God's word, it is also super relevant to those non-believers also.
It's like Becky was a fly on the wall in our house! Thanks for giving me the courage and support to not give up on my kids and family!
** I was randomly chosen to receive and Advanced Readers Copy of this book. I was not compensated for my review, nor do I know the author.
May 26, 2019
“I almost sent this book back” Great start for a 4 star review, right? It’s true though, I requested an advance copy of The Cranky Mom Fix and when I got my copy a few weeks later, I was NOT in the mood for homework! LOL But….. I went back a few days later and read all the way through and you know what? I’ll be implementing some of Becky Kopitzke’s ideas. I’ll also be going back, with my Bible in hand and truly use it as a study book.
My only gripe with this book (other than it not being the novel I was in the mood for LOL) is that I prefer a different Bible version than the variety that Mrs Kopitzke chose, But I also realize that not many people use my preferred Bible version anymore.
I received an advance copy of this book from the publisher for my honest review. All opinions are my own.
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My only gripe with this book (other than it not being the novel I was in the mood for LOL) is that I prefer a different Bible version than the variety that Mrs Kopitzke chose, But I also realize that not many people use my preferred Bible version anymore.
I received an advance copy of this book from the publisher for my honest review. All opinions are my own.
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June 6, 2019
Wow! This book has been working on, in, and through me! How often as Mom’s do we get cranky just because things don’t go our way of because our kids don’t do something the same way we would!? Becky share about ridding our homes of the “Momster” and how to fix our cranky! “The Cranky Mom Fix” has helped me to be more aware of my ‘triggers’ and what makes me cranky. Also, I’ve been reminded that I am responsible for me and I cannot blame my kids for my attitude, I need to be the example! Becky works the reader through having a more peaceful home by implementing practical tips and applying God’s Word into our everyday! I love the “Let’s Dig In” parts at the end of each chapter that helped me to see more what God says! This book is really changed my heart and is making a difference in my home and family!
I received an ARC in exchange for my honest review.
I received an ARC in exchange for my honest review.
June 6, 2019
This book appealed to me because I find myself on a daily base yelling at my kids and being cranky towards them. Then I wonder why they aren’t listening to me. In this book, I was able to realize that I have triggers that causes me to be cranky towards my kids. I was able to identify my triggers and am I am currently working on them. I want my house to filled with peace and love.
As a mom, I feel like I need to be the perfect mom to my kids, but instead its okay to make mistakes. I think through our mistakes God can take those moments to teach us.
I learned through this book that you can’t obey for them, and that they may make mistakes. But what we can do is point to Jesus through teaching them about Jesus through our own faith in Jesus.
I received an advanced copy from the publisher to review.
As a mom, I feel like I need to be the perfect mom to my kids, but instead its okay to make mistakes. I think through our mistakes God can take those moments to teach us.
I learned through this book that you can’t obey for them, and that they may make mistakes. But what we can do is point to Jesus through teaching them about Jesus through our own faith in Jesus.
I received an advanced copy from the publisher to review.
June 6, 2019
I never thought that becoming a mom I would ever identify with being cranky or a “momster”, but unfortunately I do, which is why this book was so appealing to me.
I have found this to be one of the most helpful and practical parenting books I have ever read. One of the most helpful things I have gotten out of this book is recognizing my triggers before I blow up at my kids. We have also started to implement family meetings, which were taken from this book. Any mom could use this book. It has only made me want to me more purposeful with my kids and to recognize the time with them as special, when I tend to think of the negatives.
I finished it already and can’t wait to start over and read it again so I can dig even deeper this time!
I was lucky enough to receive an advanced copy from the publisher.
I have found this to be one of the most helpful and practical parenting books I have ever read. One of the most helpful things I have gotten out of this book is recognizing my triggers before I blow up at my kids. We have also started to implement family meetings, which were taken from this book. Any mom could use this book. It has only made me want to me more purposeful with my kids and to recognize the time with them as special, when I tend to think of the negatives.
I finished it already and can’t wait to start over and read it again so I can dig even deeper this time!
I was lucky enough to receive an advanced copy from the publisher.
June 6, 2019
Practical/Real-Life Advice
I love how this book is so real. As moms, we go through so many emotions every day (or hour)! This book gives you real life advice on how to enjoy your children more. From the reminder that the best way to take care of ourselves is to stay close to Jesus, to appreciating your children for who they are, to letting your child make their own decisions (mistakes and all). I love the 3 family rules and tips on how to become the F.U.N. family. There are additional questions and Bible verses at the end of each chapter in case you want to dig deeper or use it for a small group study. The book gives great tips and practical applications to tame the “momster” in you! If you are feeling like a crabby and discourage mom, this book is for you!
I received an advanced copy of the book from the publisher to review.
I love how this book is so real. As moms, we go through so many emotions every day (or hour)! This book gives you real life advice on how to enjoy your children more. From the reminder that the best way to take care of ourselves is to stay close to Jesus, to appreciating your children for who they are, to letting your child make their own decisions (mistakes and all). I love the 3 family rules and tips on how to become the F.U.N. family. There are additional questions and Bible verses at the end of each chapter in case you want to dig deeper or use it for a small group study. The book gives great tips and practical applications to tame the “momster” in you! If you are feeling like a crabby and discourage mom, this book is for you!
I received an advanced copy of the book from the publisher to review.
June 8, 2019
Becky shares her heart candidly in the Cranky Mom Fix through humorous stories and relatable examples. She provides practical suggestions of how to overcome the anger that threatens to boil over in our hearts and words. One of my favorite takeaways was how much we need to value or children and really call out their strengths and re-define their weaknesses, as well as realize that sometimes kids are just kids. Practical tips include simplifying house rules into just three so that kids can know what is expected and acceptable within your home and also having regular family meetings and fun times to keep communication open. Each chapter includes a "Let's Dig In" section that allows the reader to look more deeply into the topic at hand in both practical application and Bible study. I would definitely recommend this book to all the moms out there who need some encouragement along the way.
July 2, 2019
Note: I received a copy of this book from the publisher in return for my honest opinion.
I was very excited to see The Cranky Mom Fix as an option to review from Bethany House Publishers. I am a cranky mom and I really wanted to find a thoughtful and biblical approach to overcoming my crankiness. I found the entire book to be helpful from the beginning chapters that help the reader examine their triggers (what makes them get cranky) to the end which helps the reader implement F.U.N. in their family. I also was very happy to see printables and graphics on the website listed in the book. (I already printed out some of the pages to use in conjunction with the book.)
I made notations, underlined key ideas, and discussed topics from the book with my husband.
I highly recommend The Cranky Mom Fix!
I was very excited to see The Cranky Mom Fix as an option to review from Bethany House Publishers. I am a cranky mom and I really wanted to find a thoughtful and biblical approach to overcoming my crankiness. I found the entire book to be helpful from the beginning chapters that help the reader examine their triggers (what makes them get cranky) to the end which helps the reader implement F.U.N. in their family. I also was very happy to see printables and graphics on the website listed in the book. (I already printed out some of the pages to use in conjunction with the book.)
I made notations, underlined key ideas, and discussed topics from the book with my husband.
I highly recommend The Cranky Mom Fix!
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