Just the book I need for this time in my life as I'm pursuing an impossible earning goal! Lots of practical information with some needed mindset shifting power. I love that this book exists!
“This book is about the kind of tangible, measurable miracles that require your active participation in producing them. They are more akin to making your biggest, scariest, and most improbable goals come true. These are the types of miracles that you have a significant degree of control over, meaning that you can consistently create them again and again in your life because you will understand how the process works. But to create this kind of miracle, first you must believe that the result you are seeking is possible and that you can produce it.” pg.14-15
“As we strive toward Level 10 success, the challenge is to find the balance between being happy and grateful and seeing the perfection of where we are now while following the innate human desire to grow and improve. The key is not to come from a place of I’m not good enough but rather from I am limitless, and I have more to give. It’s a subtle yet radical difference. It’s a difference that Miracle Mavens live by.” pg. 20
“Whereas most people habitually allow their fear and self-doubt to consume their thinking, Miracle Mavens choose to override fear with faith. They have a foundational mindset that they can and will win at everything they do, while simultaneously being willing to accept when they don’t win and quickly moving on. That way they can take advantage of more opportunities. Even if it means that they will fail some of the time, they still have more chances to win.” pg. 20
“Decision 1: I will establish and maintain Unwavering Faith that I can reach my goal of selling $20,000 during the push period, no matter what . . . there is no other option.
Decision 2: I will put forth Extraordinary Effort every single day until the last possible moment, regardless of my results along the way.” pg. 35
“After a while, we join the conformists and eventually buy into the whole ‘why I can’t be amazing’ song and dance. We accumulate an arsenal of self-sabotaging limitations that, for the most part, we don’t even realize we have. We put forth just enough effort to get by. We run through our days on autopilot, often with no clear goal or intention. We allow others to impose limits on us. Ultimately, we settle for less than we truly want and are capable of. In part, both our brains and our well-meaning friends and family members hold our life of miracles hostage.” pg. 54
“In order to become a Miracle Maven, you’re going to have to believe not only that your biggest goals and dreams are possible, probable, and inevitable . . . but that you deserve to achieve them. Without that last piece, you’ll never get to the goal because you don’t really believe you deserve to be there. You’ll always find an excuse to back away from your greatness. But when you believe that you’re entitled to success, you will fight for it.” pg. 60
“Enlightened Entitlement, which is what we should all strive for, is characterized by the fundamental belief that each of us is just as deserving, worthy, and capable of creating and having anything we want for our lives (that is, anything we’re willing to put in the effort to achieve) as any other person on Earth. Nearly every great accomplishment begins with an individual believing that he or she is capable of putting forth the effort to accomplish it and that he or she deserves the subsequent success. This kind of entitlement is healthy and a prerequisite to creating tangible, measurable miracles. It reinforces our belief in our own potential and our recognition of that potential. To be clear, this is hard for many people, myself included. We turn away from recognition of our efforts. . . . Think about how much harder it is to pursue a goal when you don’t really feel that you deserve it. It’s virtually impossible to put in the effort necessary to create miraculous results when you don’t feel entitled to them.” pg. 60-61
“The order is less important than the fact that you must own that you deserve anything you want and are willing to put in the effort for, in order for the Miracle Equation to work. Miracle Mavens own their contribution and feel deserving of the rewards of their efforts.” pg. 61
“All those who have ever gone from being average to being extraordinary began by first seeing themselves as better than they had ever been in the past. They were willing to see a vision for themselves based on their limitless capabilities and then begin living in alignment with that vision. It’s rarely easy to do at first—few things are—as it can feel inauthentic. However, when you revisit that vision often (see: daily) over time, it comes to feel more and more true, because it is the real you. Eventually, over time, your new vision becomes your new identity and inevitably your new reality.” pg. 66
“I know that this is going to sound harsh, but I just have to get it out there: Every painful emotion that you have ever felt, are feeling now, and will ever feel in the future, was, is, and will be self-created by you and is completely optional. I’m talking about every painful or even unpleasant emotion that causes you any level of internal struggle.” pg. 79
“When the timer went off, Jesse taught us that we were to say the words ‘Can’t change it’ out loud, to acknowledge that if we can’t change something, then resisting it—spending emotional energy on it and wishing it were different—is not only pointless but painful. It creates internal emotional suffering but does nothing to change the event that you perceive to be the cause of your suffering.” pg. 81-82
“However, armed with the new awareness that it was my choice whether I continued to resist my reality or chose to fully accept what was now in the past and out of my control, I started choosing acceptance. I thought, Why spend the next four minutes upset, when I can spend them doing something proactive that will move me forward? I had begun building up my emotional invincibility, so to speak, and was able to choose unconditional acceptance that much faster.” pg. 82
“For as long as you resist and wish it were different, you will continue to create and perpetuate emotional pain. The moment you accept it, you will be free.” pg. 83
“I explain that there is only one cause of emotional pain, which can be summed up in one word: resistance. Simply put, all emotional pain that we have ever experienced, are experiencing now, or will ever experience in the future is self-created by our resistance to our reality. Resistance typically shows up in the form of wishing and wanting something to be different that can’t be. It might be wishing that something did or didn’t happen in the past, resisting something that is currently happening, or worrying (another form of resistance) about something that may or may not happen in the future. And it is the degree to which we resist our reality—the degree we wish or want something that is out of our control to be different—that determines the degree of emotional pain we experience.” pg. 90-91
“Our initial emotions aren’t the problem; it’s what we do with them beyond the initial feeling that can make or break us. . . .
When we judge our emotions as ‘bad’ or ‘wrong,’ we amplify the effect that the emotion has on us. . . .
Negatively charged emotions shouldn’t be viewed as the enemy. In fact, there is value in all emotions. If you lose something or someone important to you, feeling sad and grieving are not only natural, they can be healthy. And sometimes we need to feel the pain that resulted from a choice we made so that we won’t make that choice again. The distinction here is for you to be in control of your emotional state, rather than allowing circumstances and events that are out of your control to dictate your emotions.” pg. 95
“From that perspective, we can choose to replace our judgment with empathy and to love all people unconditionally. We can accept them as they are, while simultaneously holding space for them to become the best version of themselves.” pg. 97
“The real purpose of every goal you set is to become the type of person who can consistently set and achieve significant goals. In other words, the purpose of a goal is to develop the qualities and characteristics of a goal achiever. It is who you become through the process that will serve you for the rest of your life and trumps any short-lived achievement. Ultimately, you want to use each of your goals to develop the mindset and behaviors of a Miracle Maven. You get there by applying the Miracle Equation to each goal, over and over again, thereby making your long-term success inevitable. Each goal is simply an opportunity to develop yourself and to test what is actually possible. And the more we do this, the better we become at it.” pg. 105
“You Can Now Release Your Fear of Failure.
Once you understand and embrace the real purpose of a goal, you realize that failure is nothing to be feared, because you cannot fail. Who you’re becoming is always more important than what you’re doing, yet the irony is that it’s what you’re doing that is always determining who you’re becoming. As long as you maintain Unwavering Faith and put forth Extraordinary Effort with each and every goal you set, regardless of your results, you will always learn, grow, and become more capable than you were before. And your future goals, including those you have yet to even imagine, will reap the rewards.” pg. 107-108
“Whatever future may seem like a fantasy to you now is simply a future reality that you have yet to create.” pg. 112
“When we keep thinking the same thoughts, we are confined to the same possibilities or lack of them. The reality we are living now has and is being created by the thoughts that we’ve allowed to consume our minds up to this point. To improve your life you must first improve what you habitually think about. The most effective way to do that is to craft written statements (so that you’re not relying solely on your memory) that are strategically designed to guide and focus your thinking on what matters most to you, what’s possible for you, who you need to become, and what you need to do in order to make what’s possible inevitable.” pg. 114
“The interesting thing that happens when you become hyperfocused on a singular goal and you approach that goal with Unwavering Faith and Extraordinary Effort is that you’ll also achieve other goals that you thought you’d left behind simply because they align with your new identity.” pg. 117
“It was truly the year my entire life changed, because I changed my paradigm, both of what I was capable of and what I was committed to. In short, after years of accepting less than my best, I had finally expanded my own potential and become a better version of myself. That year was one of the best of my life because I stepped up and became the person I always knew that I was capable of becoming. And that’s the experience I’m excited for you to have, as well.” pg. 117
“One of the most powerful and underutilized resources available is integrity, which I define as doing what you say you’re going to do, when you say you’re going to do it, without exceptions or excuses. When you commit to living with impeccable integrity, you gain the power to speak your life into existence, because if you say you’re going to do something and you keep your word, it’s as good as done (also known as inevitable).” pg. 139
“‘Hal, what are you doing?’ His voice was serious. ‘Listen, man. You died, and you were told that you would never walk again, but you did. I know you don’t think it’s a big deal because it’s just what you did and it’s what came naturally to you, but it’s not normal.’ He told me that I should share my story and teach people how I had responded to my adversity and how I had overcome it, so that they could do the same. ‘If I were you, I would be investing every spare minute I had into writing a book about your story, not selling another company’s product.’ I thought about what he said to me and realized that he was right. That conversation became the catalyst for my life’s work as an author and keynote speaker.” pg. 142
“Contrary to what may people think, maintaining faith isn’t limited to blindly following the beliefs and teachings of others. Rather, it is having faith in yourself and your commitment to put forth Extraordinary Effort to do whatever it takes to generate your ideal outcome.” pg. 162
“Similarly, when you believe that you are the one—the one who is just as deserving, worthy, and capable as any other person on Earth—you will gain full access to your limitless potential.” pg. 165
“You can always fall back on the universal truism that if another human being has done something that you desire, their accomplishment serves as evidence that it’s also possible for you. If the world’s top performers, in all walks of life, consciously choose to live from a place of Unwavering Faith, you can make that same conscious choice. And you can start now.” pg. 167
“Extraordinary Effort has three components:
- Actions that move you closer to your ideal results
- Actions that will most likely take you out of your comfort zone
- Consistent effort over an extended period of time (regardless of your results along the way)” pg. 175
“Consistent effort over an extended period of time (regardless of your results along the way) is the glue that holds all of this together. You aren’t going to get anywhere if you take only a few steps and then quit. You must remain committed for an extended period of time to go the distance. The flip side of this is that consistency makes things easier. Remember how you need to move out of your comfort zone? Well, after you’ve been out of your comfort zone for a few weeks, it no longer feels so uncomfortable. As you expand your comfort zone, you also expand what’s possible for you.” pg. 176
“Often our major goals are big and scary, but the process almost never is. . . .
To predetermine your process, simply ask yourself: Which activities, done consistently, will make my success inevitable?” pg. 179-180
“I’m sure you can conjure up all kinds of reasons as to why you believe you procrastinate, but there’s really only one: You associate some level of pain, fear, or discomfort with the activity you’re procrastinating about. That’s it.” pg. 190
“You’ll realize that the choice to procrastinate is exactly that, a choice–one that you no longer have to settle for now that you’re clear about what was causing it.” pg. 191
“If the ultimate goal here is for you to develop and embody the characteristics of a Miracle Maven so that you can maintain the ability to create miracles at will, you must think and act like a Miracle Maven. And you must think and act that way most of the time.
You must replace fear-based thinking with faith-based thinking. You must be willing to let go of any limitations that you’ve carried with you from your past, and see yourself as someone who is just as worthy, deserving, and capable of creating everything you want as any other person on Earth.” pg. 195
“Step1 - Miracle Mantra Template:
I am committed to maintaining Unwavering Faith that I will _____ [insert your mission], and I will continue putting forth Extraordinary Effort until I do, no matter what . . . there is no other option.” pg. 203
“Step 2- Your Why Template:
The reason(s) I am committed to my mission is because [insert your deeply meaningful why—the most significant benefit(s) you’ll experience by pursuing and/or attaining your mission].” pg. 204
“Step 3- Solidify Your Extraordinary Effort Template:
To ensure that the attainment of my mission is inevitable, I will remain committed to my process of ______ [insert your process] on _______ [dates and times] without being emotionally attached to my results.” pg. 205
“Step 4 - Establish Your Enlightened Entitlement:
Remember, Miracle Mavens live with the mindset that they can achieve anything that they want, will achieve anything that they are committed to, and that they deserve everything they’re willing to work for. Developing the qualities of a Miracle Maven includes generating feelings of deservedness, which will fuel your Unwavering Faith and, in turn, your Extraordinary Effort. You Miracle Equation Affirmations will begin by helping you to establish and reinforce your Enlightened Entitlement so that you feel authentically deserving of anything and everything you want for your life.
Template: I am committed to my mission and living every day as a Miracle Maven because I know that I am just as worthy, deserving, and capable of creating tangible, measurable miracles and achieving everything that I want, as any other person on Earth.” pg. 205-206
“The key to creating miracles is consistency. You have to stay committed as long as it takes you to get to the place in your life where you’ve always wanted to be. And there is no easier way to kick off that journey than to commit to reciting your Miracle Equation Affirmations every day. Going one step fourth, it’s also wise to recite our affirmations with some emotion. This helps your brain to match your mood in the present with your desired mood. You’re not lying to yourself; you’re simply showing your brain what you want to feel more often. You have to ‘get it’ completely.” pg. 207
“The first obstacle that usually rears one of its many heads is our irrational fears—fear of failure, fear of success, fear of change—which usually cause us to procrastinate. Know that everyone experiences fear and trepidation when they first set out toward a significant goal. Anytime we dare to venture outside the cozy confines of our comfort zone, it’s uncomfortable. Tackling something important to you, especially if you have never done anything like ie before, is scary. Having such feelings is normal and expected.” pg. 218
“If you still feel afraid or stuck, I invite you to refer back to chapter 3 and see if you can identify whether you are experiencing any of the four inherent conflicts:
- The irrational fear of opportunity versus maintaining the status quo: Do you fear opportunities?
- Misdirected Entitlement versus Enlightened Entitlement: Do you feel undeserving?
- Potential Dysmorphia versus actualized potential: Do you not see your true capabilities?
- The world defines you versus you define you: Do you allow others to limit you?” pg. 219
Book borrowed from SSF Main Library.