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As I Recall: Discovering the Place of Memories in Our Spiritual Life
What if our memories are like shells we gather on a beach?
According to pastor and spiritual director Casey Tygrett, "We—and all those who have come before us—pick up the experience and we sense it: we feel its edges, notice its color, we smell the distinctive character (for shells it is the sickly seafood salt smell) of the experience and we try to make sense of what it is. Is it beautiful? How would you describe the color—the tones, the shades, wrapped around the ridges and swirls? Has it been damaged? Does the hard edge scrape our hand, leaving a blemish or a mark?"
How we hold and carry these memories—good and bad—is a part of what forms us spiritually. In this way we have a common bond with the people of Scripture who also had a sensory life, gathering shells and trying to make sense of them. In these pages Casey Tygrett explores the power of memory and offers biblical texts and practices to guide us in bringing our memories to God for spiritual transformation.
According to pastor and spiritual director Casey Tygrett, "We—and all those who have come before us—pick up the experience and we sense it: we feel its edges, notice its color, we smell the distinctive character (for shells it is the sickly seafood salt smell) of the experience and we try to make sense of what it is. Is it beautiful? How would you describe the color—the tones, the shades, wrapped around the ridges and swirls? Has it been damaged? Does the hard edge scrape our hand, leaving a blemish or a mark?"
How we hold and carry these memories—good and bad—is a part of what forms us spiritually. In this way we have a common bond with the people of Scripture who also had a sensory life, gathering shells and trying to make sense of them. In these pages Casey Tygrett explores the power of memory and offers biblical texts and practices to guide us in bringing our memories to God for spiritual transformation.
216 pages, Hardcover
First published April 9, 2019
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About the author
Casey Tygrett
4 books33 followersCasey Tygrett (DMin, Lincoln Christian Seminary) is theologian in residence at Parkview Christian Church in Orland Park, Illinois. He also oversees spiritual direction for Soul Care (www.soulcare.com), an organization that helps leaders live from a place of soul health & flourishing.
He is the author of three books:
Becoming Curious: A Spiritual Practice of Asking Questions (2017)
As I Recall: Discovering the Place of Memories In Our Spiritual Life (2019; 2020 Christianity Today Award of Merit In Spiritual Formation) RE-RELEASED as The Practice of Remembering: Uncovering the Place of Memories in Our Spiritual Life (2023).
The Gift of Restlessness: A Spirituality for Unsettled Seasons (2023)
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He is the author of three books:
Becoming Curious: A Spiritual Practice of Asking Questions (2017)
As I Recall: Discovering the Place of Memories In Our Spiritual Life (2019; 2020 Christianity Today Award of Merit In Spiritual Formation) RE-RELEASED as The Practice of Remembering: Uncovering the Place of Memories in Our Spiritual Life (2023).
The Gift of Restlessness: A Spirituality for Unsettled Seasons (2023)
@caseytygrett (IG)
@cktygrettauthor (FB)
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April 10, 2019
When was the last time you paused to really think about your memories? Everyone has them and our memories--both good and bad--are so important to who we are. However, many times we do not stop to think about all of the stories that make up our past and impact our future. Casey Tygrett's new book As I Recall: Discovering the Place of Memories in Our Spiritual Life published by InterVarsity Press sets out to change how you interact with your memories.
Frequently, we only wish to engage with our happy memories. The warm fuzzies of life or the mountain top experiences are important, but sometimes we benefit from or learn more as a person from the not so great memories. Often, the times when we completely blew it are the memories that God uses to teach us and help us grow. Tygrett uses psychology and spirituality to show how memories help us to grow as a person and a Christ-follower. He particularly emphasizes the importance of redeeming our memories instead of pretending they do not exist. Tygrett uses a wide variety of imagery to refer to memories and frequently uses the motif of shells and collecting seashells. Another image which particularly resonated with me was drywall and that you can't put up new drywall over a mess without cleaning it up first."
Casey's strengths as a spiritual director and Bible teacher shine in his book. Throughout the book, Tygrett moves easily from psychology topics and brain research related to memories to Bible teaching and spiritual exercises. Along side these researched, teaching portions, he transparently shares many stories of his own life and memories as well as stories from his ministries. His tone is very conversational even when referencing researched sections. His writing style and sharing from his own life experiences creates a very readable and engaging book that you might be tempted to read straight through. However, failure to stop and put the "Pauses" that included at the end of every chapter into practice would be a huge mistake. These spiritual exercises help you to process the content and truly serve to help you redeem your memories to further your spiritual walk.
As I Recall is a marvelous book you will want to add to your collection. You will wish to dip back into the riches frequently and will find it useful to engage in the "Pauses" on a regular basis. Individuals who work as counselors or spiritual directors will wish to encourage others to read and work through this book. Small groups who know each other well and are willing to be vulnerable with each other may find this book helpful to read together as well.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received the book As I Recall via NetGalley. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising. I am also privileged to have known and interacted with the author while he was a student.
Frequently, we only wish to engage with our happy memories. The warm fuzzies of life or the mountain top experiences are important, but sometimes we benefit from or learn more as a person from the not so great memories. Often, the times when we completely blew it are the memories that God uses to teach us and help us grow. Tygrett uses psychology and spirituality to show how memories help us to grow as a person and a Christ-follower. He particularly emphasizes the importance of redeeming our memories instead of pretending they do not exist. Tygrett uses a wide variety of imagery to refer to memories and frequently uses the motif of shells and collecting seashells. Another image which particularly resonated with me was drywall and that you can't put up new drywall over a mess without cleaning it up first."
Casey's strengths as a spiritual director and Bible teacher shine in his book. Throughout the book, Tygrett moves easily from psychology topics and brain research related to memories to Bible teaching and spiritual exercises. Along side these researched, teaching portions, he transparently shares many stories of his own life and memories as well as stories from his ministries. His tone is very conversational even when referencing researched sections. His writing style and sharing from his own life experiences creates a very readable and engaging book that you might be tempted to read straight through. However, failure to stop and put the "Pauses" that included at the end of every chapter into practice would be a huge mistake. These spiritual exercises help you to process the content and truly serve to help you redeem your memories to further your spiritual walk.
As I Recall is a marvelous book you will want to add to your collection. You will wish to dip back into the riches frequently and will find it useful to engage in the "Pauses" on a regular basis. Individuals who work as counselors or spiritual directors will wish to encourage others to read and work through this book. Small groups who know each other well and are willing to be vulnerable with each other may find this book helpful to read together as well.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received the book As I Recall via NetGalley. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255: “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising. I am also privileged to have known and interacted with the author while he was a student.
March 23, 2019
If you're chill with being stagnant where you're at in your spiritual formation, go ahead and pass on this one. But for anyone seeking Jesus in their daily lives, this book will draw you into something you probably haven't considered before and challenge you in ways that will point you to hope and to Christ.
Tygrett masterfully incorporates psychology research with personal experiences and spiritual formation in a way that allows and encourages the reader to engage his/her own memories. The book also includes a "practice" with each chapter to take the material out of the abstract and into the personal.
The topics and practices will really challenge you if you're willing to embrace some vulnerability and see what God might reveal within your own memories.
Tygrett masterfully incorporates psychology research with personal experiences and spiritual formation in a way that allows and encourages the reader to engage his/her own memories. The book also includes a "practice" with each chapter to take the material out of the abstract and into the personal.
The topics and practices will really challenge you if you're willing to embrace some vulnerability and see what God might reveal within your own memories.
February 26, 2019
Tygrett has written a book of thought-provoking depth. I wasn’t sure if this would be a book that I would connect with - I’ve just never reflected deeply on my memories, how those memories have shaped my own narrative, or how such memories could be spiritually meaningful or redemptive. Nevertheless, this book arrested my attention. Tyrett is a good story-teller and he has done his research. He recalls a time when he revisited the home of his grandparents, how things were the same, yet not the same as he remembers, along with what that memory awoke for him. This section of the book became personally meaningful to me. I will give this book to some other people who might likewise benefit from it.
August 26, 2023
This book was a fascinating read. In it, Casey Tygrett invites the reader to consider the power of memories—and their relation to our spiritual journeys. Throughout the book, the author uses the ongoing metaphor of sea shells to help talk about memories. Memories are like sea shells that we collect, and there is an art in noticing the shells. As we all know, many memories are heavy and painful, and Tygrett discusses the process of carrying around these heavier shells. He also writes about how to bring these shells before the Lord, and reflects on how the Spirit of God journeys with us even as we process our painful memories.
This book combines good storytelling, rich Biblical scholarship, and scientific research on how our brain functions (in relation to our memories. For example, one random take-away fact for me is that smells almost always enter our long-term memory).
I highly recommend this book.
This book combines good storytelling, rich Biblical scholarship, and scientific research on how our brain functions (in relation to our memories. For example, one random take-away fact for me is that smells almost always enter our long-term memory).
I highly recommend this book.
September 19, 2023
The Practice of Remembering explores the spiritual dimensions of memory. What I found particularly helpful were the spiritual exercises at the end of each chapter, which range from writing your own Psalm to doing an examen focused on a particular memory. The author’s vocation as a spiritual director surely informs these useful practices. In a world that encourages us to move forward at a relentless pace, Casey Tygrett reminds us to look back and reflect.
February 15, 2019
Casey Tygrett is a talented author who compels his readers to dig deeper into their spiritual journey with Jesus. He address real day issues while relating them to Biblical history and wisdom. A must read for those struggling with less than beautiful past memories because they can really be a strong foundation for a vibrant life giving testimony to God's compassion, healing and purpose.
February 18, 2019
Absolutely love how Casey explains things in a way that is easy to understand and relate to. His writing just draws you in. So thankful for his book to help with my journey in my relationship with God.
June 23, 2020
Casey Tygrett does an amazing job showing us how a our memories help for the future us, spiritually and emotionally. I just live the imagery he created with the sea shells and if you think about it - it is so relatable to many things going on in your own life. Great read!
February 14, 2019
An intriguing look at why we have certain memories and how these memories shape and form our future and more importantly how they should be seen as God's influence in our spiritual development.
April 27, 2019
The prophets often tell us to forget the former things. At the same time Scripture tells us to remember what God has done in the past, so that one will know that God will be faithful in the present and in the future. So, which is it? It might depend on the circumstances.
Casey Tygrett has written a book that invites us to remember. Early in the book he introduces a metaphor that will appear throughout. He notes that early on in the life of his family, they would go to Grand Cayman Island for vacation. They loved to collect shells. In this book memories are like those shells that are collected. They serve as reminders of where we've been and what we are. He notes that as with the shells, we weed through our memories. We keep some and get rid of others. So, with the metaphor serving as a foundation, Tygrett invites us to lay out our shells and ask two questions: "What do I recall?" and "Why?"
Tygrett's book weaves personal narrative with the biblical story. Memories have to do with the past. Often we hear that the past doesn't define us. He would rather we say that the past (our memories) don't determine us. The fact is, our pasts do define us. We are product of our experiences. Some of those experiences/memories will need to be redeemed. That is really the focus of the book. What are our memories? How do the define us? How do they need to be redeemed?
The book is composed of twelve chapters, that begins with a chapter that invites us to remember and find ways of narrating our memories. We move from there to a chapter on noticing shells (memories), then one on living with these shells, and then in chapter four we ponder the weight of shells. This is where the question of redemption emerges. After each of the first three chapters, Tygrett invites us to engage in a practice. In chapter one it is narrating our memories, then in chapter two journaling, and so on. After chapter four, he invites us to pause and sit with a memory and ask what God would say to it.
From there he continues with chapters that explore ways of bringing forth memories, dealing with them and finding what they say to us about who we are. As I am deeply interested in any conversation related to the Eucharist/Lord's Table, I was especially intrigued with chapter 9, titled "A Familar Table." He weaves stories of hospitality, both those he has experienced, and that of Jesus. He speaks of the open table in ways that I found helpful in my own reflections on the table, reminding us that when Jesus gathered at Table he included people like Judas and Thomas, among others. So, he notes that "when Jesus breaks the bread, he invites us to acknowledge that both the beautiful and the brutal memories belong." Then he writes a few paragraphs later that "When Jesus breaks the bread and lets the light shine on the faces of those who were the first to follow and the first to abandon, we are invited into a greater drama where our acts of brokenness or our experiences of being broken by others are brought into sacred space." (p. 155). Then Chapters ten and eleven take us into the future, using Revelation to guide our thoughts as to where memories will take us.
In the final chapter titled "A Closing Post-It Note," Tygrett seeks to tie the memories together. He writes that "the fruit of our memories is that there is something of value in the path that stretches behind us. Redeeming our memories and living out a new script in the present is the most precious thing we can pass on" (p. 192). We have shells we have collected. Some will be set aside. Others we will take with us. Some are celebrated and some must be redeemed. I wasn't sure what to make of the book as I opened it. I tend to favor heavier theology and history books. But, I did enjoy it. I believe it has a good message that can encourage and possibly bring healing to those who struggle with their own past. So, I will give it my hearty recommendation.
Casey Tygrett has written a book that invites us to remember. Early in the book he introduces a metaphor that will appear throughout. He notes that early on in the life of his family, they would go to Grand Cayman Island for vacation. They loved to collect shells. In this book memories are like those shells that are collected. They serve as reminders of where we've been and what we are. He notes that as with the shells, we weed through our memories. We keep some and get rid of others. So, with the metaphor serving as a foundation, Tygrett invites us to lay out our shells and ask two questions: "What do I recall?" and "Why?"
Tygrett's book weaves personal narrative with the biblical story. Memories have to do with the past. Often we hear that the past doesn't define us. He would rather we say that the past (our memories) don't determine us. The fact is, our pasts do define us. We are product of our experiences. Some of those experiences/memories will need to be redeemed. That is really the focus of the book. What are our memories? How do the define us? How do they need to be redeemed?
The book is composed of twelve chapters, that begins with a chapter that invites us to remember and find ways of narrating our memories. We move from there to a chapter on noticing shells (memories), then one on living with these shells, and then in chapter four we ponder the weight of shells. This is where the question of redemption emerges. After each of the first three chapters, Tygrett invites us to engage in a practice. In chapter one it is narrating our memories, then in chapter two journaling, and so on. After chapter four, he invites us to pause and sit with a memory and ask what God would say to it.
From there he continues with chapters that explore ways of bringing forth memories, dealing with them and finding what they say to us about who we are. As I am deeply interested in any conversation related to the Eucharist/Lord's Table, I was especially intrigued with chapter 9, titled "A Familar Table." He weaves stories of hospitality, both those he has experienced, and that of Jesus. He speaks of the open table in ways that I found helpful in my own reflections on the table, reminding us that when Jesus gathered at Table he included people like Judas and Thomas, among others. So, he notes that "when Jesus breaks the bread, he invites us to acknowledge that both the beautiful and the brutal memories belong." Then he writes a few paragraphs later that "When Jesus breaks the bread and lets the light shine on the faces of those who were the first to follow and the first to abandon, we are invited into a greater drama where our acts of brokenness or our experiences of being broken by others are brought into sacred space." (p. 155). Then Chapters ten and eleven take us into the future, using Revelation to guide our thoughts as to where memories will take us.
In the final chapter titled "A Closing Post-It Note," Tygrett seeks to tie the memories together. He writes that "the fruit of our memories is that there is something of value in the path that stretches behind us. Redeeming our memories and living out a new script in the present is the most precious thing we can pass on" (p. 192). We have shells we have collected. Some will be set aside. Others we will take with us. Some are celebrated and some must be redeemed. I wasn't sure what to make of the book as I opened it. I tend to favor heavier theology and history books. But, I did enjoy it. I believe it has a good message that can encourage and possibly bring healing to those who struggle with their own past. So, I will give it my hearty recommendation.
March 8, 2019
Casey is my pastor, mentor, and friend. Reading his new book As I Recall, has opened up how my memories work and how they work with God. The "shells we put in our jar" brings forth how are relationship is with God. Casey uses his calling and personal experiences to show us each how we can develop spiritually.
Easy to read and understand as Casey explains everything in an uncomplicated manner. As you read, you tap into past memories which have molded you into the person God intended.
Easy to read and understand as Casey explains everything in an uncomplicated manner. As you read, you tap into past memories which have molded you into the person God intended.
March 1, 2019
If you’re looking for a book to make you think this is is. This book will be life changing in many ways. Take the time to push yourself, your memories and your faith. The journey is SO worth it.
February 13, 2019
Just got into it and can not put it down! Casey is an amazing writer!
March 4, 2019
Tygrett takes the reader thru a journey of the past to help make sense of the future. The imagery of the seashells he uses was something that really stuck with me. A unique book on the topic of using our memories as a means of formation.
April 9, 2019
Let me begin with the caveat that I did not read this book quite the way it was intended to be read - but in spite of that, I still award it with 5 stars. I would imagine that would only be a stronger 5 stars if I'd read it the way I was supposed to. (I'll explain what I mean by that shortly). This book is about memories. The memories that shape our stories, mold our viewpoints, define our loyalties, and form our spiritual life. I had never thought of this correlation before, nor have I heard anyone else consider this concept, but it's absolutely true. Just as the Israelites continually "forgot" the provisions of God that brought them out of Egypt (and that forgetfulness caused that generation to miss out on the Promised Land), if we don't recognize the role of our memories in our spiritual formation, we will also "forget" where God has brought us and his provisions for us.
Drawing on his own experiences and studies, Casey Tygrett prompts us to look through our memories and find those defining moments and see how Christ was in them (or bring Him into them) - even in our brokenness. As a person who has very few strong memories (and those that I do have are nearly all negative), I was concerned that I would not get as much out of this book. While I haven't gleaned the same things as those who have stronger (or more positive) memories, I have gleaned a great deal of spiritual truths from this book as it relates to past, present and future. I've seen some areas in my own formation that need additional tweaking and some brokenness that I need to bring to Jesus to make whole and holy.
Each chapter builds on the others and delves deeply into the realm of memories. The end of each chapter includes either a "practice" (something to do, such as journaling) or a "pause" (something to meditate on). These all build on each other as well. This is the part that I didn't do (my caveat above), and once I opted to not do the first one, it became difficult to do any subsequent ones. Though I did not do these, I can't recommend enough taking the time to incorporate the practices and the pauses in order to get the full effect of the book. This is not a book to be devoured in one sitting as some novels tend to be for me, but should be taken slowly, bit by bit, with a good bit of quiet time to focus and complete the practices and the pauses. I strongly recommend this one to anyone who wants to learn to draw closer to Jesus, to transform their minds (Romans 12:2), and bring every thought captive (2 Cor 10:5) or even to anyone who wants to understand how or why their memories matter.
Special thanks to the author and Intervarsity Press for an advanced copy of this book. I was under no obligation to write a review and the thoughts contained herein are my own.
Drawing on his own experiences and studies, Casey Tygrett prompts us to look through our memories and find those defining moments and see how Christ was in them (or bring Him into them) - even in our brokenness. As a person who has very few strong memories (and those that I do have are nearly all negative), I was concerned that I would not get as much out of this book. While I haven't gleaned the same things as those who have stronger (or more positive) memories, I have gleaned a great deal of spiritual truths from this book as it relates to past, present and future. I've seen some areas in my own formation that need additional tweaking and some brokenness that I need to bring to Jesus to make whole and holy.
Each chapter builds on the others and delves deeply into the realm of memories. The end of each chapter includes either a "practice" (something to do, such as journaling) or a "pause" (something to meditate on). These all build on each other as well. This is the part that I didn't do (my caveat above), and once I opted to not do the first one, it became difficult to do any subsequent ones. Though I did not do these, I can't recommend enough taking the time to incorporate the practices and the pauses in order to get the full effect of the book. This is not a book to be devoured in one sitting as some novels tend to be for me, but should be taken slowly, bit by bit, with a good bit of quiet time to focus and complete the practices and the pauses. I strongly recommend this one to anyone who wants to learn to draw closer to Jesus, to transform their minds (Romans 12:2), and bring every thought captive (2 Cor 10:5) or even to anyone who wants to understand how or why their memories matter.
Special thanks to the author and Intervarsity Press for an advanced copy of this book. I was under no obligation to write a review and the thoughts contained herein are my own.
April 8, 2019
Casey Tygrett is a pastor who also leads the spiritual formation and spiritual director functions at his church. In this fascinating book he explores the impact certain memories have in shaping our spiritual formation and futures. He uses the lovely and very relatable analogy of seas shells to draw those memories out of us and enable us to reflect on the tapestry that we have evolved (with and without God's help) into.
There was one particularly outstanding chapter that many readers like myself found especially stimulating. It is Chapter 6 where he examines wilderness and burning bush experiences and their impact on our spiritual formation. This chapter alone makes the book worthwhile reading and really could be part of all introductory reading in any 'spiritual formation' reference guide.
Each chapter ends with a challenge for the reader to reflect on their own memories and connect them to the content of the chapter. In particular, he encourages the use of only a few memories that can be carried throughout the entire book providing a degree of completeness in discovering the impact they have had on one's life to date.
I found it at times a challenging read as it sometimes bordered on the philosophical as well as chapters I struggled to garner much enthusiasm for in both the examples he provided and the learning he was drawing from such a memory. I wondered at times if he was dragging out the impact of memories on our formation and thought it may have been a tighter book if it was only 150 pages.
I received a complimentary PDF from IVP and the author on exchange for an honest review.
There was one particularly outstanding chapter that many readers like myself found especially stimulating. It is Chapter 6 where he examines wilderness and burning bush experiences and their impact on our spiritual formation. This chapter alone makes the book worthwhile reading and really could be part of all introductory reading in any 'spiritual formation' reference guide.
Each chapter ends with a challenge for the reader to reflect on their own memories and connect them to the content of the chapter. In particular, he encourages the use of only a few memories that can be carried throughout the entire book providing a degree of completeness in discovering the impact they have had on one's life to date.
I found it at times a challenging read as it sometimes bordered on the philosophical as well as chapters I struggled to garner much enthusiasm for in both the examples he provided and the learning he was drawing from such a memory. I wondered at times if he was dragging out the impact of memories on our formation and thought it may have been a tighter book if it was only 150 pages.
I received a complimentary PDF from IVP and the author on exchange for an honest review.
April 2, 2019
There are books that draw us in with new information, new thoughts, new ways to see ourselves, new ways to see God. There are books that unfold landscapes of beauty, of hope, of healing. There are books that make connections we haven’t considered before and books that seemingly put their finger on something very specific in us. There are books that makes us feel like we are home and those that inspire us to continue to dig deeper still.
As I Recall is one of those rare books that brings all of these together in one binding.
I’ve been wrapped in the embrace of God as He has revealed how specific memories from my life have impacted me and my spiritual journey. There is an important distinction between experiences and memories, specifically in regard to our spiritual development. Not only have particular experiences from my past impacted my spiritual journey but the memories of those experiences have impacted my spiritual journey as well. Tygrett connects us with the impact of memories in our lives and spiritual development in a way I have never before considered. This has been emotional, challenging and very beautiful as I have sought God and asked Him to lead me through the impact of my memories on the stories I tell about Him and the script that I’m living through my life.
As I Recall has been an unexpected blessing. It’s not that I didn’t anticipate enjoying this book. I’m a Casey Tygrett fan and expected to enjoy it. What was unexpected is that I thought I was reading a book. What I didn’t realize is that the book was actually reading me...and drawing me to a God who loves me and desires connection with me in my present life and also in my past memories.
As I Recall is one of those rare books that brings all of these together in one binding.
I’ve been wrapped in the embrace of God as He has revealed how specific memories from my life have impacted me and my spiritual journey. There is an important distinction between experiences and memories, specifically in regard to our spiritual development. Not only have particular experiences from my past impacted my spiritual journey but the memories of those experiences have impacted my spiritual journey as well. Tygrett connects us with the impact of memories in our lives and spiritual development in a way I have never before considered. This has been emotional, challenging and very beautiful as I have sought God and asked Him to lead me through the impact of my memories on the stories I tell about Him and the script that I’m living through my life.
As I Recall has been an unexpected blessing. It’s not that I didn’t anticipate enjoying this book. I’m a Casey Tygrett fan and expected to enjoy it. What was unexpected is that I thought I was reading a book. What I didn’t realize is that the book was actually reading me...and drawing me to a God who loves me and desires connection with me in my present life and also in my past memories.
May 15, 2021
A good look at how memories form our attitudes. How do they affect our faith? Not just our memories, but the ones we read about in scripture and the ones in our DNA. Helpful practice exercises at the end of each chapter.
September 28, 2023
Such a kind and needed book.
April 9, 2019
When it comes to growing mentally, emotionally, or spiritually, many people assume that we need to put the past behind us. Should we do that? Can we grow and mature by ignoring out past and simply move ahead? Casey Tygrett writes in his book As I Recall that we are not able to grow well without the taking the time to remember what has gone before. We didn't come from nothing because who we are today is built from what came before.
As I recall begins with the exploration of how we got to where we are personally and also as a culture and how remembering the path to our present can help us grow. Each chapter brings the reader face to face with a different aspect of their memories. Casey guides you through pivotal memories that shape who we are in this moment, our overall spiritual autobiography, our hurts from the past, and even the cultural memories that undergird our society. From there, he begins to move forward asking not only how have memories shaped us, but how are the currently shaping us and our vision of the future as well.
As I Recall is not simply a book to read, but it's offers an opportunity to work through our memories. After each chapter, Casey offers a practice or an opportunity reflect on what he has shared. These practices are amazingly helpful and challenging in working through the practice of engaging with and growing through our memories.
If you are looking for some new practices and want to grow, this book will help you explore some new avenues for reflection and can help you work through your memories. It's easy to understand and will challenge you to grow. If you've read books like the Magnificent Journey by James Bryan Smith or Soul Keeping by John Ortberg, you will certainly enjoy this as well.
As I recall begins with the exploration of how we got to where we are personally and also as a culture and how remembering the path to our present can help us grow. Each chapter brings the reader face to face with a different aspect of their memories. Casey guides you through pivotal memories that shape who we are in this moment, our overall spiritual autobiography, our hurts from the past, and even the cultural memories that undergird our society. From there, he begins to move forward asking not only how have memories shaped us, but how are the currently shaping us and our vision of the future as well.
As I Recall is not simply a book to read, but it's offers an opportunity to work through our memories. After each chapter, Casey offers a practice or an opportunity reflect on what he has shared. These practices are amazingly helpful and challenging in working through the practice of engaging with and growing through our memories.
If you are looking for some new practices and want to grow, this book will help you explore some new avenues for reflection and can help you work through your memories. It's easy to understand and will challenge you to grow. If you've read books like the Magnificent Journey by James Bryan Smith or Soul Keeping by John Ortberg, you will certainly enjoy this as well.
February 14, 2019
I'm giving this 4 stars as I've just started reading this. I'm very intrigued by the authors premise of how memories shape us in all aspects of our lives and how memories affect our spiritual journey. I'm finding this book to be an interesting read and look forward to the rest of the book. At the end of each chapter is a practice section that encourages the reader to interact with the material on a personal level. If readers take the time to engage in these practice sessions I believe it will provide an even greater reading experience.
July 15, 2023
In "The Practice of Remembering: Rediscovering Spiritual Transformation Through Memory," Casey Tygrett explores the profound connection between memory and spiritual formation. Tygrett invites readers to consider memories as shells we gather on a beach, each with its unique characteristics and impact on our lives. Through engaging prose and insightful reflections, the author delves into the power of memory and presents biblical texts and practices to guide readers in bringing their memories to God for spiritual growth and renewal.
Tygrett skillfully weaves personal anecdotes, scriptural examples, and spiritual teachings to create a thought-provoking exploration of the human experience of memory. Drawing from his experience as a pastor and spiritual director, the author provides a compassionate and relatable perspective on the role of memory in shaping our spiritual journeys. He emphasizes that our memories, both positive and negative, play a significant role in how we perceive and relate to God and others.
One of the strengths of the book lies in Tygrett's ability to make complex theological concepts accessible to readers of all backgrounds. The author's writing style is engaging, evocative, and filled with vivid imagery. Through his words, readers can sense the textures, colors, and scents of their memories, enabling them to delve deeper into their own experiences.
"The Practice of Remembering" not only explores the transformative power of memory but also provides practical guidance on how to engage with memories in a healthy and redemptive way. Tygrett offers readers various practices and exercises, such as journaling, prayer, and contemplative reflection, to help them navigate their memories and find healing and spiritual growth. These practical tools make the book valuable for both personal reflection and group study.
While the book delves into the theological and philosophical aspects of memory, it occasionally ventures into complex territory that may be challenging for some readers. Some concepts could have benefited from further elaboration or additional real-life examples to enhance clarity and practical application. Additionally, individuals with different religious backgrounds may find some of the scriptural references and Christian terminology less relatable.
Overall, "The Practice of Remembering" is a thought-provoking and enriching exploration of memory's role in spiritual formation. Casey Tygrett's compassionate and accessible approach makes this book suitable for readers seeking to deepen their spiritual lives and develop a greater awareness of the transformative potential within their memories. The practical exercises and reflections offered throughout the book serve as valuable tools for those who desire to engage with their memories in ways that lead to healing, growth, and a deeper connection with God.
Tygrett skillfully weaves personal anecdotes, scriptural examples, and spiritual teachings to create a thought-provoking exploration of the human experience of memory. Drawing from his experience as a pastor and spiritual director, the author provides a compassionate and relatable perspective on the role of memory in shaping our spiritual journeys. He emphasizes that our memories, both positive and negative, play a significant role in how we perceive and relate to God and others.
One of the strengths of the book lies in Tygrett's ability to make complex theological concepts accessible to readers of all backgrounds. The author's writing style is engaging, evocative, and filled with vivid imagery. Through his words, readers can sense the textures, colors, and scents of their memories, enabling them to delve deeper into their own experiences.
"The Practice of Remembering" not only explores the transformative power of memory but also provides practical guidance on how to engage with memories in a healthy and redemptive way. Tygrett offers readers various practices and exercises, such as journaling, prayer, and contemplative reflection, to help them navigate their memories and find healing and spiritual growth. These practical tools make the book valuable for both personal reflection and group study.
While the book delves into the theological and philosophical aspects of memory, it occasionally ventures into complex territory that may be challenging for some readers. Some concepts could have benefited from further elaboration or additional real-life examples to enhance clarity and practical application. Additionally, individuals with different religious backgrounds may find some of the scriptural references and Christian terminology less relatable.
Overall, "The Practice of Remembering" is a thought-provoking and enriching exploration of memory's role in spiritual formation. Casey Tygrett's compassionate and accessible approach makes this book suitable for readers seeking to deepen their spiritual lives and develop a greater awareness of the transformative potential within their memories. The practical exercises and reflections offered throughout the book serve as valuable tools for those who desire to engage with their memories in ways that lead to healing, growth, and a deeper connection with God.
December 21, 2022
This book is all about how our memories affect our spiritual formation. It is also about how we can grow spiritually by letting Christ shape our memories. I’m torn on this book. It introduced me to a fascinating look at sanctification I had never considered. I think this book is onto something and early on I thought it would easily be the most impactful book I had read all year. While it introduces the idea and gives some practical guidance, I felt like it never got totally off the ground. This is certainly worth reading, but I think it could have unpacked the ideas it introduces more fully.
November 19, 2018
I got to read an early copy of this book and I loved it. Great mix of interesting brain science and spiritual formation.
May 23, 2019
This is not just a book, it's an exploration of self- your past, your faith, how you will proceed in your future.
It is equal parts personal narratives and anecdotes, science and facts, and scriptural reference and application. I appreciate his honesty and transparency. He really opens himself up and admits hard thing that help to enforce the message, but I would image also took some guts to put in a book and publish.
I started applying the knowledge from the book the day I started reading it.
I had to read it slowly, allowing myself a month in total, to chew on each chapter and revisit concepts, to cross-reference to my bible, to look at my life.
Casey's writing style is poetic and passionate. You'll find no bland explanations or partially considered ideas. He carefully selects words, and I can really appreciate that attention to detail.
There are practices and applications at the end of each chapter, which I admit, I did not do, because I was already so involved in the content. I'm not saying they're irrelevant, I'm saying I already came to the same idea by the time I had finished some of the chapters.
If you journal, read it with a journal.
I took so many notes and highlighted in margins and gave myself homework. I even threw some notes in my bible to help me remember this book as I read those chapters in years to come.
I have never read his other book Becoming Curious: A Spiritual Practice of Asking Questions but I think I will add that to my "to read" list.
I'm so glad I picked this one up :)
It is equal parts personal narratives and anecdotes, science and facts, and scriptural reference and application. I appreciate his honesty and transparency. He really opens himself up and admits hard thing that help to enforce the message, but I would image also took some guts to put in a book and publish.
I started applying the knowledge from the book the day I started reading it.
I had to read it slowly, allowing myself a month in total, to chew on each chapter and revisit concepts, to cross-reference to my bible, to look at my life.
Casey's writing style is poetic and passionate. You'll find no bland explanations or partially considered ideas. He carefully selects words, and I can really appreciate that attention to detail.
There are practices and applications at the end of each chapter, which I admit, I did not do, because I was already so involved in the content. I'm not saying they're irrelevant, I'm saying I already came to the same idea by the time I had finished some of the chapters.
If you journal, read it with a journal.
I took so many notes and highlighted in margins and gave myself homework. I even threw some notes in my bible to help me remember this book as I read those chapters in years to come.
I have never read his other book Becoming Curious: A Spiritual Practice of Asking Questions but I think I will add that to my "to read" list.
I'm so glad I picked this one up :)
January 25, 2024
"Memories light the corners of my mind," so sings Barbra Streisand in one of the most cherished classics of the modern age, "The Way We Were." As author Casey Tygrett writes, "Without memory, there is no formation," that we are "memory-made people," and that without memories, "we cannot become." We are who we are by learning and remembering. Whether it is writing a memoir or penning a journal, our acts of recalling something are crucial aspects of being. Using the various aspects of "experiences, memories, stories, and scripts," Tygrett guides us through an amazing journey of the practice of remembering.
He helps us explore the four movements of remembering:
1) Like shells that possess incredible memories, we first bring forth these shells;
2) Honest engagement with the implications;
3) Create stories out of these implications;
4) Explore how God is molding us through these.
All these can be sparked with one prompt: "I remember the moment when ________."
In the first movement, he uses the metaphors of shells to help us see how our memories are born from experiences; how memories build stories; how we listen to our own stories; and how we find ourselves in the script of life. Rather than separating the four aspects of remembering, he shows us how all of them are part of the same story. Memories make for storytelling. As we remember our past experiences and stories, we can begin writing a script of the past, present, and also the future. Not all remembering is kind. There are some that we would rather not recall at all. Tygrett guides readers into our memories with honest confessions and the gentle interplay of remembering, forgiving, and redeeming. We learn that every memory belongs and once we reconcile them, they could point us forward to help determine the paths God intended for us to go. He shares various illustrations of biblical characters who experience various challenges in life, such as freedom from captivity, Israel's time in the wilderness; and how God takes us from our weaknesses to strengths while traveling through the wilderness of life. It is interesting to see how mental memories and physical places are connected, such as forgetfulness in exile and remembrance as redemption.
There is also the part about remembering the dark side of our memories, such as disappointment, embarrassment, failures, pain, etc. This calls for a time of learning from our past. Memories also play a part in building communities and gaining wisdom. This is exemplified by teaching and passing down of history to the next generation. With each storytelling and retelling, we learn. Other memory devices used include music, emotions, incidents, and mealtimes at the table.
My Thoughts
===============
Let me give three thoughts about this book. First, this book is a profound work of art and spirituality. There are many pockets of opportunities to pause at the words and to reflect on what it means for us personally. Tygrett uses many active and lively words to guide our thoughts. Words like discipline, experience, learning, noticing, rhythms, and of course remembering. Each chapter is full of poignant quotes, with engaging examples to help us relate our invisible memories to our visible world. His use of shells is a simple yet effective one. From his personal experience of gathering shells on the beach, he begins with the gathering of shells (experiences), choosing which to keep (memories), and learning to lay them out before us (making meaning of our memories). We can bring them out, count them, reflect on them, and choose which to keep and which to discard. All of these are components of our own spiritual formation. Gathering shells as memories is both personal and communal, with lots of opportunities for self-reflection and storytelling.
Second, this book is filled with practical tips to challenge us to lay hold of our memories and to make meaning out of them. There are practices for narrating our memories, journaling, staging, pausing, writing spiritual autobiographies, sabbath rest, the prayer of examen, writing our own psalms, hospitality, and incorporating rhythms of pause. This turns this book into a 2-in-1 resource with theory and practice all in one place. The author does not shy away from incorporating the sciences of health and psychology with biblical faith and spirituality. This gives the book a more holistic treatment which should appeal to a wider audience. Some of the most challenging stuff is dealing with the dark side of our memories, something that many people tend to shy away from. With pastoral sensitivity, Tygrett is a competent guide to help us through that journey. One of the hardest things about remembering is about the dark memories of the past. Avoiding them might be okay at first but doing that might mean we lose a part of our identity. Tygrett assures us that the benefits can outweigh the cons when we courageously deal with those bad experiences. More importantly, they are part of our identity, for better or worse. With Jesus as our guide, we can reshape those memories and tell a story that heals.
Third, this book is a pointer to help us look back meaningfully and to help us live forward purposefully. The last two chapters of the book are intriguing. Tygrett merges memories with the future to encourage us with hope through love and resilience. If the past has been bad, hope urges us toward creating a better tomorrow. The fruit of doing that is increasing wisdom and a better understanding our our experiences, stories, and identities. Like what the Danish philosopher, Soren Kierkegaard used to say, "Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." We might not understand why certain events happen in our lives. When we reflect and contemplate on the meaning of it all later, we can learn from it and hopefully become better people.
May this book inspire more of us toward the rhythms of work and rest, and a constant awareness that in God, nothing is wasted, including all of our memories, past, present, and future.
Casey Tygrett is an author, pastor, and spiritual director in the Chicago, IL area. He is the author of three books as well as the host of the "Restlessness is a Gift" podcast. His passion is for compelling content that leads people to lives of beauty and grace. Booking for speaking & leading retreats as well as more information can be found here: www.caseytygrett.com or on social media (@caseytygrett)
Rating: 4.5 stars out of 5.
conrade
This book has been provided courtesy of InterVarsity Press via NetGalley without requiring a positive review. All opinions offered above are mine unless otherwise stated or implied.
He helps us explore the four movements of remembering:
1) Like shells that possess incredible memories, we first bring forth these shells;
2) Honest engagement with the implications;
3) Create stories out of these implications;
4) Explore how God is molding us through these.
All these can be sparked with one prompt: "I remember the moment when ________."
In the first movement, he uses the metaphors of shells to help us see how our memories are born from experiences; how memories build stories; how we listen to our own stories; and how we find ourselves in the script of life. Rather than separating the four aspects of remembering, he shows us how all of them are part of the same story. Memories make for storytelling. As we remember our past experiences and stories, we can begin writing a script of the past, present, and also the future. Not all remembering is kind. There are some that we would rather not recall at all. Tygrett guides readers into our memories with honest confessions and the gentle interplay of remembering, forgiving, and redeeming. We learn that every memory belongs and once we reconcile them, they could point us forward to help determine the paths God intended for us to go. He shares various illustrations of biblical characters who experience various challenges in life, such as freedom from captivity, Israel's time in the wilderness; and how God takes us from our weaknesses to strengths while traveling through the wilderness of life. It is interesting to see how mental memories and physical places are connected, such as forgetfulness in exile and remembrance as redemption.
There is also the part about remembering the dark side of our memories, such as disappointment, embarrassment, failures, pain, etc. This calls for a time of learning from our past. Memories also play a part in building communities and gaining wisdom. This is exemplified by teaching and passing down of history to the next generation. With each storytelling and retelling, we learn. Other memory devices used include music, emotions, incidents, and mealtimes at the table.
My Thoughts
===============
Let me give three thoughts about this book. First, this book is a profound work of art and spirituality. There are many pockets of opportunities to pause at the words and to reflect on what it means for us personally. Tygrett uses many active and lively words to guide our thoughts. Words like discipline, experience, learning, noticing, rhythms, and of course remembering. Each chapter is full of poignant quotes, with engaging examples to help us relate our invisible memories to our visible world. His use of shells is a simple yet effective one. From his personal experience of gathering shells on the beach, he begins with the gathering of shells (experiences), choosing which to keep (memories), and learning to lay them out before us (making meaning of our memories). We can bring them out, count them, reflect on them, and choose which to keep and which to discard. All of these are components of our own spiritual formation. Gathering shells as memories is both personal and communal, with lots of opportunities for self-reflection and storytelling.
Second, this book is filled with practical tips to challenge us to lay hold of our memories and to make meaning out of them. There are practices for narrating our memories, journaling, staging, pausing, writing spiritual autobiographies, sabbath rest, the prayer of examen, writing our own psalms, hospitality, and incorporating rhythms of pause. This turns this book into a 2-in-1 resource with theory and practice all in one place. The author does not shy away from incorporating the sciences of health and psychology with biblical faith and spirituality. This gives the book a more holistic treatment which should appeal to a wider audience. Some of the most challenging stuff is dealing with the dark side of our memories, something that many people tend to shy away from. With pastoral sensitivity, Tygrett is a competent guide to help us through that journey. One of the hardest things about remembering is about the dark memories of the past. Avoiding them might be okay at first but doing that might mean we lose a part of our identity. Tygrett assures us that the benefits can outweigh the cons when we courageously deal with those bad experiences. More importantly, they are part of our identity, for better or worse. With Jesus as our guide, we can reshape those memories and tell a story that heals.
Third, this book is a pointer to help us look back meaningfully and to help us live forward purposefully. The last two chapters of the book are intriguing. Tygrett merges memories with the future to encourage us with hope through love and resilience. If the past has been bad, hope urges us toward creating a better tomorrow. The fruit of doing that is increasing wisdom and a better understanding our our experiences, stories, and identities. Like what the Danish philosopher, Soren Kierkegaard used to say, "Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards." We might not understand why certain events happen in our lives. When we reflect and contemplate on the meaning of it all later, we can learn from it and hopefully become better people.
May this book inspire more of us toward the rhythms of work and rest, and a constant awareness that in God, nothing is wasted, including all of our memories, past, present, and future.
Casey Tygrett is an author, pastor, and spiritual director in the Chicago, IL area. He is the author of three books as well as the host of the "Restlessness is a Gift" podcast. His passion is for compelling content that leads people to lives of beauty and grace. Booking for speaking & leading retreats as well as more information can be found here: www.caseytygrett.com or on social media (@caseytygrett)
Rating: 4.5 stars out of 5.
conrade
This book has been provided courtesy of InterVarsity Press via NetGalley without requiring a positive review. All opinions offered above are mine unless otherwise stated or implied.
June 8, 2023
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This is such a great short inspiring read. The premise is all about your memories and how those memories and intertwined with what God and Jesus want for your life. It truly made me think and dig deep in my brain more than a book has in a long time. I was recalling happy memories, sad memories, hard memories, and everything in between. Reflecting on those memories and how they’ve impacted who I am today in my walk with Christ and my relationship with God was incredible. (Last 1/5 of the book was MEH but the rest was 5 🌟s).
This is such a great short inspiring read. The premise is all about your memories and how those memories and intertwined with what God and Jesus want for your life. It truly made me think and dig deep in my brain more than a book has in a long time. I was recalling happy memories, sad memories, hard memories, and everything in between. Reflecting on those memories and how they’ve impacted who I am today in my walk with Christ and my relationship with God was incredible. (Last 1/5 of the book was MEH but the rest was 5 🌟s).
April 10, 2019
Fascinating book! Pastor and spiritual director Casey Tygrett explores how memory can help to form us spiritually. As we recall the many ways God has shown up in our past, it helps us to make sense of our present and have faith for our future. In order to remember, Tygrett advocates that we liberally share and regularly write our stories. Tygrett's work is thoughtful and biblically grounded. I particularly enjoyed the final chapter on future memory.
July 16, 2019
I enjoyed Tygrett’s Becoming Curious and read his most recent book As I Recall with interest. Although I’m familiar with the psychology of memory, I’d never thought about the integration with faith. Lots of highlighting on my part. Tygrett weaves in his own stories from the past, which encouraged me to do the same. “We cannot confess to God what we do not acknowledge to ourselves.” In memory, our pasts define us, but in faith the past does not determine us.
April 21, 2024
Such goodness and on an unusual topic I’ve never really heard people talk about outside the Israelites wandering in the wilderness (ironically in the time it took me to read the book, my pastor preached a message on the concept).
I especially liked the treatment of contingency and resiliency.
This is a book I want to come back to, as I feel like I read it with distraction this time around.
Deep and thoughtful without being dense or dry.
I especially liked the treatment of contingency and resiliency.
This is a book I want to come back to, as I feel like I read it with distraction this time around.
Deep and thoughtful without being dense or dry.
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