An elegant and beautiful and sort of ethereal graphic novel that also serves as a kind of exploration of contemporary online sexual relationships. JH, a maker of experimental art videos, and Sarah, meet online regularly for virtual hookups, but JH wants more; he wants to meet in person. She is cagey, challenges him to four months of abstinence using what she calls "the perineum technique" which becomes a kind of strategy for her to control him (or for her to have him control himself), which I guess may hold some erotic ambience for her and some readers, though not JH. And then there is JH's assistant, a woman, who is secretly into JH, hears all of the details of the online dating relationship as reported from him, so there's that tension/erotic denial, too.
Some of it is sort of vaguely erotic (they do actually meet at a kind of "swinger's" party) but it is also clear that this sexual experience is ultimately unsatisfactory, as we might expect. All the people are beautiful, the art is drawn and colored beautifully, connoting desire and romance, but the sexual politics involved function as kind of a critique. The most interesting aspect of the book is what I would call a poetic or metaphorical dimension of how their relationship gets illustrated, some of it in fantasy (though never grossly pornographic, in the illustration), some in dreams, some in the emotional rendering of the online conversations as imagined/rendered visual experience.
I think some readers will just hate it, because almost everyone seems so (perhaps predictably) distant from each other, unlikeable, a function of alienated technology, but I think it is intriguing and especially visually interesting, even beautiful. It's all the unsaid that will provoke the most interesting analysis among readers, I suspect.