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To All the Boys I've Loved Before #1-3
To All The Boys I've Loved Before
Lara Jean keeps her love letters in a hatbox her mother gave her. One for every boy she's ever loved. When she writes, she can pour out her heart and soul and say all the things she would never say in real life, because her letters are for her eyes only.
Until the day her secret letters are mailed, and suddenly Lara Jean's love life goes from imaginary to out of control.
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September 5, 2020
4 STARS ★★★★✩
⤐ Overall.
I suppose it's only fair that since I let terrible film adaptations (Twilight) ruin the books for me, I let great film adaptations save the books for me as well. Hence, it is with great pleasure that I announce the films have redeemed my mediocre opinion of the books.
Initially, I intended to rate them at around 3.5 Stars but the movies are so great and definitely something I'll rewatch often. I binge-watched them yesterday and I'm still over the moon for them. Can't wait for February 2021.
Admittedly, about 65% of that is owed to - you guessed it - Peter Kavinsky, who not only shares a name with my ex-bf, but also some very concerning character traits, i.e. not realising his relationship to his ex-gf was poisoning his current relationship with ... that's right ... his current gf. As opposed to my ex, however, this Peter is absolutely precious and hardworking and cute and tall and all the things I love about a crush.
I mean, Peter's so wholesome and cute and my 20-year-old self would have crushed on him so hard, my imagination would have caused my nose to break.
Also, we have established long ago that fake-relationship is one of my two favourite tropes in the romance world and nothing could ever not make me be interested in two people faking it until they're ... not anymore.
The other 35% per cent I really loved about this book was the incredible siblings-dynamic. I'm not sure whether Jenny euphemised some of that, but the whole series got me thinking 'Damn, I want siblings, too.'
Sadly, I never entirely clicked with Largene. (If any of you possess the audacity to correct my on the spelling of LJ's name, I'll die on purpose and haunt you for the rest of your life, which will be very miserable. It's Largene. Forever and always. Sue me.) She seems unable to put actual rational thought into legitimately anything at all, even in book three, by which point she should have learned some lessens instead of acting like a doe hit by a truck. It's really annoying and tiring. I know she's a teenager and I'm about 10 years too old to empathise with that mindset to full capacity, so I should be more lenient towards her faults.
I think that's why I felt the first book to be a very anticlimactic read in general. I experienced it more like the prequel to a duology instead of the first instalment in a trilogy.
Funnily enough, I did have my moments with Largene.
I felt so attacked by that quote, it's not even remotely funny. That is hands-down me. I purposely go for the most unrealistic choices because my fear of rejection thinks it's easier to see the disappointment coming. I AM MESSED UP I KNOW.
Anyhow, I think this is a great read, especially if you also watch the films to enhance the overall experience. Go Peter, go Peter!
⤐ What’s happening.
Largene has always been too afraid to pursue the boys she actually had feelings for. Needless to say matters get incredibly complicated when somebody sends out the love letters she wrote those 5 boys and kept in her secret box. Now that her secrets are not so secret anymore, her former (? wink wink) crush Peter offers her a deal: they will be in a fake relationship so people give her peace over her letters and he can get back at his ex-gf. Except things feel a little too real to be fake.
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4 STARS. Would stay up beyond my typical hours to finish it. I found some minor details I didn't like, agree with or lacked in some kind but overall, this was enjoyable and extraordinary.
This series is for you if… you've got low blood sugar. Head over here to get your dose of Peter Kavinsky and a sweet as pie fake relationship trope. You’re welcome.
⤐ Overall.
I suppose it's only fair that since I let terrible film adaptations (Twilight) ruin the books for me, I let great film adaptations save the books for me as well. Hence, it is with great pleasure that I announce the films have redeemed my mediocre opinion of the books.
Initially, I intended to rate them at around 3.5 Stars but the movies are so great and definitely something I'll rewatch often. I binge-watched them yesterday and I'm still over the moon for them. Can't wait for February 2021.
Admittedly, about 65% of that is owed to - you guessed it - Peter Kavinsky, who not only shares a name with my ex-bf, but also some very concerning character traits, i.e. not realising his relationship to his ex-gf was poisoning his current relationship with ... that's right ... his current gf. As opposed to my ex, however, this Peter is absolutely precious and hardworking and cute and tall and all the things I love about a crush.
I mean, Peter's so wholesome and cute and my 20-year-old self would have crushed on him so hard, my imagination would have caused my nose to break.
Also, we have established long ago that fake-relationship is one of my two favourite tropes in the romance world and nothing could ever not make me be interested in two people faking it until they're ... not anymore.
The other 35% per cent I really loved about this book was the incredible siblings-dynamic. I'm not sure whether Jenny euphemised some of that, but the whole series got me thinking 'Damn, I want siblings, too.'
Sadly, I never entirely clicked with Largene. (If any of you possess the audacity to correct my on the spelling of LJ's name, I'll die on purpose and haunt you for the rest of your life, which will be very miserable. It's Largene. Forever and always. Sue me.) She seems unable to put actual rational thought into legitimately anything at all, even in book three, by which point she should have learned some lessens instead of acting like a doe hit by a truck. It's really annoying and tiring. I know she's a teenager and I'm about 10 years too old to empathise with that mindset to full capacity, so I should be more lenient towards her faults.
I think that's why I felt the first book to be a very anticlimactic read in general. I experienced it more like the prequel to a duology instead of the first instalment in a trilogy.
Funnily enough, I did have my moments with Largene.
‘You only like guys you don't have a chance with, because you're scared.’
I felt so attacked by that quote, it's not even remotely funny. That is hands-down me. I purposely go for the most unrealistic choices because my fear of rejection thinks it's easier to see the disappointment coming. I AM MESSED UP I KNOW.
Anyhow, I think this is a great read, especially if you also watch the films to enhance the overall experience. Go Peter, go Peter!
⤐ What’s happening.
‘I want to say yes, but I don't want to be with a boy whose heart belongs to somebody else. Just once, I want to be somebody else's first choice.’
Largene has always been too afraid to pursue the boys she actually had feelings for. Needless to say matters get incredibly complicated when somebody sends out the love letters she wrote those 5 boys and kept in her secret box. Now that her secrets are not so secret anymore, her former (? wink wink) crush Peter offers her a deal: they will be in a fake relationship so people give her peace over her letters and he can get back at his ex-gf. Except things feel a little too real to be fake.
Con:
⇢ teenagers are MEAN
⇢ little sister has no filter
⇢ feelings of guilt towards older sister
Pro:
⇢ tight family
⇢ punk-ass best friend
⇢ dating peter kavinsky
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4 STARS. Would stay up beyond my typical hours to finish it. I found some minor details I didn't like, agree with or lacked in some kind but overall, this was enjoyable and extraordinary.
April 5, 2021
First book was great
Second book was fabulous
Third book was trash
Second book was fabulous
Third book was trash
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January 21, 2024Why is the average rating for this so abysmally high?? Request for there to be a zero stars option on Goodreads so my rating can accurately reflect my sentiments!
Honestly I was willing to give chicklit a second chance so I decided to give TATBILB a chance especially since my friend recommended it to me.
Poor, poor choice unfortunately. If TATBILB is representative of YA romance / chicklit then I guess I made the right choice in staying away.
I found so many problems with it:
1) the protagonists Lara Jean and Peter - they’re honestly so incompatible. the improbability of their relationship (an awkward, “cute”-not-pretty girl with the “most handsome of all handsome boys” who’s the very embodiment of a jock) made the entire series read more like a fan fiction intended to satisfy the fantasies of young impressionable girls who dream of dating the “perfect guy”
2) even the representation of Peter as a perfect boyfriend is flawed - he’s unfaithful to Lara Jean in the beginning, which should already be a warning and the most notable things he’s done? throwing her a surprise birthday party, buying her favourite cookies and giving them to her “warm from the oven”, etc etc. cliches, cliches
3) if not already evident, their relationship is problematic. Throughout the whole series there’s been nothing deeper than physical attraction holding them together - constant descriptions of Peter’s looks are not unwelcome but should not be the focal point. Rather, a deeper, more meaningful relationship should have been explored in order to make it more convincing - not basing it on physical attraction alone.
4) The plot was frivolous at best and insipid at worst. The biggest problems in Lara Jean’s life: whether Peter likes her, whether she’s going to break up with Peter and whether she should go to a different university and leave her family, her hometown and, most importantly, Peter!
5) To be fair, having Lara Jean be Asian had potential. But Jenny Han didn’t develop it - a cursory mention of a trip to Korea near the end of the third book, as well as occasional references to kimchi or other Korean food were the only indicators of her Asian identity, and honestly the series would have been no different had Lara Jean been American or even African-American. Jenny Han could therefore have explored this more, instead of just focusing on romance, romance, romance.
this entire series is overrated. chicklit is overrated. if anything, TATBILB has only served to reinforce my distaste toward chicklit and its shallowness, and that’s unlikely to change even with time
Honestly I was willing to give chicklit a second chance so I decided to give TATBILB a chance especially since my friend recommended it to me.
Poor, poor choice unfortunately. If TATBILB is representative of YA romance / chicklit then I guess I made the right choice in staying away.
I found so many problems with it:
1) the protagonists Lara Jean and Peter - they’re honestly so incompatible. the improbability of their relationship (an awkward, “cute”-not-pretty girl with the “most handsome of all handsome boys” who’s the very embodiment of a jock) made the entire series read more like a fan fiction intended to satisfy the fantasies of young impressionable girls who dream of dating the “perfect guy”
2) even the representation of Peter as a perfect boyfriend is flawed - he’s unfaithful to Lara Jean in the beginning, which should already be a warning and the most notable things he’s done? throwing her a surprise birthday party, buying her favourite cookies and giving them to her “warm from the oven”, etc etc. cliches, cliches
3) if not already evident, their relationship is problematic. Throughout the whole series there’s been nothing deeper than physical attraction holding them together - constant descriptions of Peter’s looks are not unwelcome but should not be the focal point. Rather, a deeper, more meaningful relationship should have been explored in order to make it more convincing - not basing it on physical attraction alone.
4) The plot was frivolous at best and insipid at worst. The biggest problems in Lara Jean’s life: whether Peter likes her, whether she’s going to break up with Peter and whether she should go to a different university and leave her family, her hometown and, most importantly, Peter!
5) To be fair, having Lara Jean be Asian had potential. But Jenny Han didn’t develop it - a cursory mention of a trip to Korea near the end of the third book, as well as occasional references to kimchi or other Korean food were the only indicators of her Asian identity, and honestly the series would have been no different had Lara Jean been American or even African-American. Jenny Han could therefore have explored this more, instead of just focusing on romance, romance, romance.
this entire series is overrated. chicklit is overrated. if anything, TATBILB has only served to reinforce my distaste toward chicklit and its shallowness, and that’s unlikely to change even with time
July 2, 2017
Cute, fluffy, heart-warmingly charming.
This contemporary trilogy follows American-Korean teen Lara Jean Song. Lara Jean writes letters to every boy she's ever loved and then keeps them hidden in her late-mother's hat box. One day, the letters are mysteriously sent out to these boys and the story follows Lara Jean as she copes with the events that follows.
I really loved this trilogy. It was so sweet and innocent and truly captured Lara Jean's character through and through. I loved seeing how Lara Jean grows from when she is sixteen at the beginning of book 1, to when she is 18 at the end of book 3. Jenny Han beautifully presents us with what it is to be a teenager; from the horrors of high school to the purity of a first love. I related so much to Lara Jean's mass of emotions such as dealing with change and the tragedy of growing up. Her character is so warm and loving. I loved reading about her baking and crafts and her loyalty and dedication to her personal creative goals. Lara Jean is hands down the friend and sister we all wish we had.
I fell in love with Lara Jean's family from the very first page. The sisterly bond between Lara Jean, Margot and Kitty was so sweet but also electrifying. Despite the contrasts in character between these sisters, they show the importance of family and I loved reading about them. Kitty is the most adorable and sassy little sister and I just loved all her retorts to her sisters. I also loved Margot as the sensible and proper sister. I think both characters actually brought out Lara Jean's character as the sweet and caring one even more so, they just work so well together. I also loved reading about the girls' father as he finally moves on from the death of his wife.
The relationship between Lara Jean and Peter was romantic perfection. I enjoyed soaking it all in, seeing how the two of them developed from childhood friends, to fellow students, to fake lovers into true love. I think this is honestly the best part of this story being a part of a trilogy as we get to see their love develop but also we see the challenges they face when together and how their love blossoms from these wounds. I usually hate how YA romances always end just as the couple get's together as we never actually see what they are like as a couple. But in this series we do! We see Lara Jean and Peter both apart and together. Not only that, but we see that it's not all happily ever after when the couple end up together. Especially in the 3rd book when we see the worries and uncertainties of a long term relationships at the age of 18. This was really nice to see and I admired Jenny Han for giving us this followup of the 'happily ever after'.
The trilogy also allowed us to experience all the little moments that we don't see in stand alone contemporary novels. We get to see the cute romantic moments such as the relationship contract and the promposal; we also get to see the funny moments such as the game of assassins; and also the real and genuine moments of everyday life. These didn't really add anything to the plot as such but I loved reading all these little cute moments as they really helped to shape the characters and their place in the story and were a genuine pleasure to read. I also loved the mini-excursions that took place in the book through both school trips and spontaneous travel. I think this made the story more varied and dynamic to read as well as really developing Lara Jean's character as she adapted to this. It is moments like these that we see her sisters' influence on her such as when her and Chris spontaneously visit UNC and Lara Jean shows elements of caution found in her sister Margot but also the wildness and fearlessness of her sister Kitty. I loved reading about these excursions as I felt like I was going on the journey with Lara Jean.
The books also cover some important themes of life changes and also endings. It was heartbreaking to read about Lara Jean's emotions as she went through the process of ending a chapter of her life in book 3. Her sudden realisation that this was the end of this part of her life was so relatable and emotional to read. I also felt for Margot as she came home after being away to find what seemed like an entirely different family and how they all coped with their father's new partner and the difficulties of these changes. I think this was made more prevalent through the fact this was a trilogy as I feel I became closer to the characters over the course of three books and I found it hard to see Lara Jean letting go of the past. But I loved the ending and it was very satisfying, we are able to get closure for the story and yet also find ourselves missing it as soon as we turn the last page.
I really enjoyed reading Lara Jean's story. It is so sweet and cute and warm and happy and it was such a great romantic read. If you haven't picked up this series yet, you definitely should! If you're looking to get out of a reading slump or you're looking for something cute and romantic for this summer then here it is, Jenny Han is your hero.
If you liked this review, please check out my blog:
http://www.thatgirlwhoreadsya.blogspo...
This contemporary trilogy follows American-Korean teen Lara Jean Song. Lara Jean writes letters to every boy she's ever loved and then keeps them hidden in her late-mother's hat box. One day, the letters are mysteriously sent out to these boys and the story follows Lara Jean as she copes with the events that follows.
I really loved this trilogy. It was so sweet and innocent and truly captured Lara Jean's character through and through. I loved seeing how Lara Jean grows from when she is sixteen at the beginning of book 1, to when she is 18 at the end of book 3. Jenny Han beautifully presents us with what it is to be a teenager; from the horrors of high school to the purity of a first love. I related so much to Lara Jean's mass of emotions such as dealing with change and the tragedy of growing up. Her character is so warm and loving. I loved reading about her baking and crafts and her loyalty and dedication to her personal creative goals. Lara Jean is hands down the friend and sister we all wish we had.
I fell in love with Lara Jean's family from the very first page. The sisterly bond between Lara Jean, Margot and Kitty was so sweet but also electrifying. Despite the contrasts in character between these sisters, they show the importance of family and I loved reading about them. Kitty is the most adorable and sassy little sister and I just loved all her retorts to her sisters. I also loved Margot as the sensible and proper sister. I think both characters actually brought out Lara Jean's character as the sweet and caring one even more so, they just work so well together. I also loved reading about the girls' father as he finally moves on from the death of his wife.
The relationship between Lara Jean and Peter was romantic perfection. I enjoyed soaking it all in, seeing how the two of them developed from childhood friends, to fellow students, to fake lovers into true love. I think this is honestly the best part of this story being a part of a trilogy as we get to see their love develop but also we see the challenges they face when together and how their love blossoms from these wounds. I usually hate how YA romances always end just as the couple get's together as we never actually see what they are like as a couple. But in this series we do! We see Lara Jean and Peter both apart and together. Not only that, but we see that it's not all happily ever after when the couple end up together. Especially in the 3rd book when we see the worries and uncertainties of a long term relationships at the age of 18. This was really nice to see and I admired Jenny Han for giving us this followup of the 'happily ever after'.
The trilogy also allowed us to experience all the little moments that we don't see in stand alone contemporary novels. We get to see the cute romantic moments such as the relationship contract and the promposal; we also get to see the funny moments such as the game of assassins; and also the real and genuine moments of everyday life. These didn't really add anything to the plot as such but I loved reading all these little cute moments as they really helped to shape the characters and their place in the story and were a genuine pleasure to read. I also loved the mini-excursions that took place in the book through both school trips and spontaneous travel. I think this made the story more varied and dynamic to read as well as really developing Lara Jean's character as she adapted to this. It is moments like these that we see her sisters' influence on her such as when her and Chris spontaneously visit UNC and Lara Jean shows elements of caution found in her sister Margot but also the wildness and fearlessness of her sister Kitty. I loved reading about these excursions as I felt like I was going on the journey with Lara Jean.
The books also cover some important themes of life changes and also endings. It was heartbreaking to read about Lara Jean's emotions as she went through the process of ending a chapter of her life in book 3. Her sudden realisation that this was the end of this part of her life was so relatable and emotional to read. I also felt for Margot as she came home after being away to find what seemed like an entirely different family and how they all coped with their father's new partner and the difficulties of these changes. I think this was made more prevalent through the fact this was a trilogy as I feel I became closer to the characters over the course of three books and I found it hard to see Lara Jean letting go of the past. But I loved the ending and it was very satisfying, we are able to get closure for the story and yet also find ourselves missing it as soon as we turn the last page.
I really enjoyed reading Lara Jean's story. It is so sweet and cute and warm and happy and it was such a great romantic read. If you haven't picked up this series yet, you definitely should! If you're looking to get out of a reading slump or you're looking for something cute and romantic for this summer then here it is, Jenny Han is your hero.
If you liked this review, please check out my blog:
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May 19, 2020
3.6/5 stars for the whole series
Overall somewhat flat writing but enjoyable nonetheless. Would recommend for early teen readers.
Overall somewhat flat writing but enjoyable nonetheless. Would recommend for early teen readers.
July 2, 2018
I had to read this before the movie came out. I ended up finishing the trilogy in about 3 days. I just couldn't put this down. Lara Jean is so relatable. From the representation of her culture, to the changes in her life and her relationship with her family, I've never felt so connected to a character and her situation. Bless Jenny Han, bless this series and honestly just bless because this trilogy is just a gift.
Lara Jean's relationship with Peter is the real highlight of this whole thing. I'm a true romantic at heart. After thinking about everything, there's so many things I want to believe that Jenny Han wrote subliminally instead of telling us directly. Like Peter's love for Lara Jean. It's like he's always loved her. He's the one that wanted to continue fake dating. He was always the one that wanted to hang out during fake dating. He made it so that she was his first kiss. He remembers the first time he ever saw her. I truly believe that this is a common theme throughout the book. When John mentions to Lara Jean that it wasn't their time in 8th grade, and it wasn't their time now but it might be one day; what if that was meant to be a message about Peter and Lara Jean? It wasn't their time in the 6th grade when he first saw her, it wasn't their time when they first kissed. Then Lara Jean mentions her and Peter's story - the fact that this is how it played out with Kitty sending the letters and her sudden burst of confidence- it was their time to finally be together. Especially with John and Lara Jean's college choices completely dis-aligning. It will never be John's time because her time will always be Peter's.
Also, we know that Gen is jealous and has always been of Lara Jean. I feel that her continuous digs (Peter liked her first and kissed Lara Jean because he couldn't kiss Gen) proved that she never really HAD him and that a part of her was probably always insecure about Lara Jean taking Peter from her. Also, to me, Peter being there first when Lara Jean got in an accident and the first person to talk to her about the love letter foreshadows that he belongs with her. And Kitty. She was the one constant thing that showed how much Peter loved Lara Jean. When Kitty tells Lara Jean that Peter is always staring at her, or when Kitty tells Lara Jean that she doesn't deserve Peter, when they break up but he still picks Kitty up for school. Not to mention she was the one who set it all in motion.
Peter's constant need of reassurance from Lara Jean is another thing. He's so sure of himself but he always needs affirmation and positive reinforcement from Lara Jean even though Peter is the one that's brought Lara Jean out of her shell. It's all so fucking wonderful. GAH!
I'm probably overanalyzing but it's just one of those things where the romantic in me wants to believe that everything worked out and they made it through college... together. The type of devotion that Peter has for Lara Jean is a thing of forever. In my perfect TATBILB universe, Lara Jean loves her first year and experiences all the wonderful things UNC has to offer but always misses home and transfers to UVA in her second year. That would be my take on the story because I feel that as much as UNC deserved a chance, so did Peter and Lara Jean. A chance where they didn't have to keep saying good night to each other.
Lara Jean's relationship with Peter is the real highlight of this whole thing. I'm a true romantic at heart. After thinking about everything, there's so many things I want to believe that Jenny Han wrote subliminally instead of telling us directly. Like Peter's love for Lara Jean. It's like he's always loved her. He's the one that wanted to continue fake dating. He was always the one that wanted to hang out during fake dating. He made it so that she was his first kiss. He remembers the first time he ever saw her. I truly believe that this is a common theme throughout the book. When John mentions to Lara Jean that it wasn't their time in 8th grade, and it wasn't their time now but it might be one day; what if that was meant to be a message about Peter and Lara Jean? It wasn't their time in the 6th grade when he first saw her, it wasn't their time when they first kissed. Then Lara Jean mentions her and Peter's story - the fact that this is how it played out with Kitty sending the letters and her sudden burst of confidence- it was their time to finally be together. Especially with John and Lara Jean's college choices completely dis-aligning. It will never be John's time because her time will always be Peter's.
Also, we know that Gen is jealous and has always been of Lara Jean. I feel that her continuous digs (Peter liked her first and kissed Lara Jean because he couldn't kiss Gen) proved that she never really HAD him and that a part of her was probably always insecure about Lara Jean taking Peter from her. Also, to me, Peter being there first when Lara Jean got in an accident and the first person to talk to her about the love letter foreshadows that he belongs with her. And Kitty. She was the one constant thing that showed how much Peter loved Lara Jean. When Kitty tells Lara Jean that Peter is always staring at her, or when Kitty tells Lara Jean that she doesn't deserve Peter, when they break up but he still picks Kitty up for school. Not to mention she was the one who set it all in motion.
Peter's constant need of reassurance from Lara Jean is another thing. He's so sure of himself but he always needs affirmation and positive reinforcement from Lara Jean even though Peter is the one that's brought Lara Jean out of her shell. It's all so fucking wonderful. GAH!
I'm probably overanalyzing but it's just one of those things where the romantic in me wants to believe that everything worked out and they made it through college... together. The type of devotion that Peter has for Lara Jean is a thing of forever. In my perfect TATBILB universe, Lara Jean loves her first year and experiences all the wonderful things UNC has to offer but always misses home and transfers to UVA in her second year. That would be my take on the story because I feel that as much as UNC deserved a chance, so did Peter and Lara Jean. A chance where they didn't have to keep saying good night to each other.
July 5, 2020
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I'll be honest, if I hadn't been incredibly impressed with the To All the Boys movie, I probably would never have read or finished To All the Boys I've Loved Before by Jenny Han. Which is horrifying. Even to me, this sounds like blasphemy considering how much I love these movies. But, the truth is, my first experience with this book left me dropping it about a third of the way through for something more entertaining to read. And then I promptly forgot about it.
For over a year.
If that's not a sign of how not blown away I was by this book, then I don't know what is.
I think there's something to be said for what actors can do to make you fall in love with a character. See, unlike a fair many who reviewed this book, I actually don't mind Larua Jean. In fact, very much so she reminds me of what I was like when I was in eighth grade. Perhaps she reads a little immature for a sixteen-year-old, but the fact of the matter is she's also a sixteen-year-old who has been somewhat of a social outcast for quite some time. So, to me, it makes sense.
But I hated Peter.
And, ultimately, out of the two of them, I preferred both movie counterparts to the books. In fact, I preferred everyone and everything about the movie to the books. And while I won't say this is necessarily a bad thing, it's definitely not great for the book. I just couldn't quite reconcile my adoration for the film with the story this novel was giving me. Everything I loved was a shadow of itself here.
Most of it, fortunately, wasn't inherently bad. I think what it really came down to were three things. First, I spent most of the book bored. I don't know what it is about contemporary novels, but they can get boring so quickly. And, much as I hate to admit it, To All the Boys I've Loved Before somehow managed to miss the mark on keeping me engaged.
Second is the fact that Laura Jean's writing skills are immensely subpar to what I imagined they were when I watched the movie. And I get it, really. It's not easy to write a character who is a brilliant writer. It's not easy to write characters writing exceptional stories or letters in the novel. And Laura Jean is a teenager, so fine, this is fair. But her letters were just awful and I hated them.
Finally, and most egregious of all, Peter is as uncharming and jerk-ish as he could possibly be without being downright unlikable. I have to give it to Noah Centineo, he took this meh and blah character and turned him into an adorable, sweet, and charming guy worth falling for. I totally get how Laura Jean and Peter fell in love when I watch the movie. But when I read the book? Oh my skies, the lack of chemistry and charm make it impossible not only to enjoy reading about them but to buy their relationship in the first place.
The movie is just so much better.
It's unavoidable, really, acknowledging this fact. And yes, I loved this film. But the book? Ugh, it would have just ended up in a long list of mediocre books that I find myself regretting reading because there are so many better books to read. And then I'd likely have missed out on the adorableness that are Lana Condor and Noah Centineo as better versions of these characters. I'm honestly so grateful that I didn't read the book first.
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I'll be honest, if I hadn't been incredibly impressed with the To All the Boys movie, I probably would never have read or finished To All the Boys I've Loved Before by Jenny Han. Which is horrifying. Even to me, this sounds like blasphemy considering how much I love these movies. But, the truth is, my first experience with this book left me dropping it about a third of the way through for something more entertaining to read. And then I promptly forgot about it.
For over a year.
If that's not a sign of how not blown away I was by this book, then I don't know what is.
I think there's something to be said for what actors can do to make you fall in love with a character. See, unlike a fair many who reviewed this book, I actually don't mind Larua Jean. In fact, very much so she reminds me of what I was like when I was in eighth grade. Perhaps she reads a little immature for a sixteen-year-old, but the fact of the matter is she's also a sixteen-year-old who has been somewhat of a social outcast for quite some time. So, to me, it makes sense.
But I hated Peter.
And, ultimately, out of the two of them, I preferred both movie counterparts to the books. In fact, I preferred everyone and everything about the movie to the books. And while I won't say this is necessarily a bad thing, it's definitely not great for the book. I just couldn't quite reconcile my adoration for the film with the story this novel was giving me. Everything I loved was a shadow of itself here.
Most of it, fortunately, wasn't inherently bad. I think what it really came down to were three things. First, I spent most of the book bored. I don't know what it is about contemporary novels, but they can get boring so quickly. And, much as I hate to admit it, To All the Boys I've Loved Before somehow managed to miss the mark on keeping me engaged.
Second is the fact that Laura Jean's writing skills are immensely subpar to what I imagined they were when I watched the movie. And I get it, really. It's not easy to write a character who is a brilliant writer. It's not easy to write characters writing exceptional stories or letters in the novel. And Laura Jean is a teenager, so fine, this is fair. But her letters were just awful and I hated them.
Finally, and most egregious of all, Peter is as uncharming and jerk-ish as he could possibly be without being downright unlikable. I have to give it to Noah Centineo, he took this meh and blah character and turned him into an adorable, sweet, and charming guy worth falling for. I totally get how Laura Jean and Peter fell in love when I watch the movie. But when I read the book? Oh my skies, the lack of chemistry and charm make it impossible not only to enjoy reading about them but to buy their relationship in the first place.
The movie is just so much better.
It's unavoidable, really, acknowledging this fact. And yes, I loved this film. But the book? Ugh, it would have just ended up in a long list of mediocre books that I find myself regretting reading because there are so many better books to read. And then I'd likely have missed out on the adorableness that are Lana Condor and Noah Centineo as better versions of these characters. I'm honestly so grateful that I didn't read the book first.
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June 13, 2022
A great collection of one of my favorite series <3, with love, friendship and letters, this series is not to be missed.
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5/5 Chev's picks
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December 12, 2024
goooooooddddddd
February 3, 2025
Soms moet je eens terug de comfort boeken uit je tienerjaren lezen
November 10, 2018
2.5, good start, boring finish. Should have been a single longer book.
October 21, 2024
2024 (annual) reread of my fave comfort books i will forever have a soft spot for these books and characters..
forever my comfort book trilogy i just love lara jean and peter!
forever my comfort book trilogy i just love lara jean and peter!
January 12, 2023
words cannot express how much laura jean and peter dont need to be together
January 6, 2022
Ok, ignore what I said before about cheesy romances, this is one of my favourite book series simply BECAUSE of how cheesy it is.
Just because it's cheesy though, doesn't mean it's overtly predictable, and I think that's what distinguished it from Han's previous works (The Summer I Turned Pretty series ehem ehem).
I can only dream of Lara Jean's once in a lifetime experience with the fake relationship which turns into a somewhat real relationship which eventually turns into a passionate and all-American teen relationship, and that's what this book provides me with, which is why I love it.
Again, I don't tend to make a lot of sense in my reviews but those who have read the book will probably have mutual feelings when I say that it is a modern classic, simply because it's memorable.
Yes, in part the Netflix adaption did add to it's huge success but I don't think the FIRST movie did that bad of a job at ALL in recreating Lara Jean's Love Story. I will not make any further comments on the next two however..
Just because it's cheesy though, doesn't mean it's overtly predictable, and I think that's what distinguished it from Han's previous works (The Summer I Turned Pretty series ehem ehem).
I can only dream of Lara Jean's once in a lifetime experience with the fake relationship which turns into a somewhat real relationship which eventually turns into a passionate and all-American teen relationship, and that's what this book provides me with, which is why I love it.
Again, I don't tend to make a lot of sense in my reviews but those who have read the book will probably have mutual feelings when I say that it is a modern classic, simply because it's memorable.
Yes, in part the Netflix adaption did add to it's huge success but I don't think the FIRST movie did that bad of a job at ALL in recreating Lara Jean's Love Story. I will not make any further comments on the next two however..
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
February 22, 2021
I gave this 3.5 stars. I enjoyed it but it’s a bit young for me. I’m 60 so it’s a long time since I was at school sending boys “ I like you”. Notes. But I enjoyed it anyway. I would recommend but will I read the next book. I dunno.
February 3, 2025
Loved it! Definitely caught some differences from the movie but it made it even more interesting. So many small details that were added that just kept me turning the page! Going to rewatch the movie and the start the second book tonight.
May 31, 2018
I loved this book!!!!
December 26, 2019
סיפור חמוד הדמות הראשית קלולסית כזו והבנים האחרים נחמדים
הייתי רוצה טיפה יותר עומק
אבל אחלה ספר להעביר את הזמן לקצת
הייתי רוצה טיפה יותר עומק
אבל אחלה ספר להעביר את הזמן לקצת
February 2, 2023
LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE
however the mothers death was unrealistic
however the mothers death was unrealistic
January 19, 2024
Me acuerdo de poco, pero sé que me gustó mucho. Recuerdo que fue una lectura entretenida y rápida. En mi opinión, el romance era muy puppy love bit it was cute. Overall, me gustó mucho.
April 8, 2025
how many times did I cry? Yes. 😭😭😭
July 13, 2021
Very cute YA
I really enjoyed this cute YA series. Lara Jean definitely lives an eventful life and I enjoyed reading about all her boy drama.
I really enjoyed this cute YA series. Lara Jean definitely lives an eventful life and I enjoyed reading about all her boy drama.
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March 17, 2023I rated ¨To all the boys ive loved before (P.s. I still love you) by Jenny Han 4 stars because this book in the series isnt as good as the second book in my opinion. Laura Jean and Peter fell inlove as a joke and now their in a serious relationship. It all started from Laura Jeans love letters getting sent out, then the love became serious. I liked when the fake love turned into real love because it really shows you can love people you weren't expecting to love. This really made me like the book because it's a cute love story that wasn't expected at all by anyone. This book is important because Laura Jean went through a lot with the love letters being sent out and she dealt with it pretty well. I already read the first book in this series and watched the movies and I really enjoyed it. I personally like the movies better because it's easier to imagine and understand what's going on, but the book you read is more personal stuff. I recommend Jenny Han's books, especially this series!
October 8, 2020
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I'll be honest, if I hadn't been incredibly impressed with the To All the Boys movie, I probably would never have read or finished To All the Boys I've Loved Before by Jenny Han. Which is horrifying. Even to me, this sounds like blasphemy considering how much I love these movies. But, the truth is, my first experience with this book left me dropping it about a third of the way through for something more entertaining to read. And then I promptly forgot about it.
For over a year.
If that's not a sign of how not blown away I was by this book, then I don't know what is.
I think there's something to be said for what actors can do to make you fall in love with a character. See, unlike a fair many who reviewed this book, I actually don't mind Larua Jean. In fact, very much so she reminds me of what I was like when I was in eighth grade. Perhaps she reads a little immature for a sixteen-year-old, but the fact of the matter is she's also a sixteen-year-old who has been somewhat of a social outcast for quite some time. So, to me, it makes sense.
But I hated Peter.
And, ultimately, out of the two of them, I preferred both movie counterparts to the books. In fact, I preferred everyone and everything about the movie to the books. And while I won't say this is necessarily a bad thing, it's definitely not great for the book. I just couldn't quite reconcile my adoration for the film with the story this novel was giving me. Everything I loved was a shadow of itself here.
Most of it, fortunately, wasn't inherently bad. I think what it really came down to were three things. First, I spent most of the book bored. I don't know what it is about contemporary novels, but they can get boring so quickly. And, much as I hate to admit it, To All the Boys I've Loved Before somehow managed to miss the mark on keeping me engaged.
Second is the fact that Laura Jean's writing skills are immensely subpar to what I imagined they were when I watched the movie. And I get it, really. It's not easy to write a character who is a brilliant writer. It's not easy to write characters writing exceptional stories or letters in the novel. And Laura Jean is a teenager, so fine, this is fair. But her letters were just awful and I hated them.
Finally, and most egregious of all, Peter is as uncharming and jerk-ish as he could possibly be without being downright unlikable. I have to give it to Noah Centineo, he took this meh and blah character and turned him into an adorable, sweet, and charming guy worth falling for. I totally get how Laura Jean and Peter fell in love when I watch the movie. But when I read the book? Oh my skies, the lack of chemistry and charm make it impossible not only to enjoy reading about them but to buy their relationship in the first place.
The movie is just so much better.
It's unavoidable, really, acknowledging this fact. And yes, I loved this film. But the book? Ugh, it would have just ended up in a long list of mediocre books that I find myself regretting reading because there are so many better books to read. And then I'd likely have missed out on the adorableness that are Lana Condor and Noah Centineo as better versions of these characters. I'm honestly so grateful that I didn't read the book first.
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I'll be honest, if I hadn't been incredibly impressed with the To All the Boys movie, I probably would never have read or finished To All the Boys I've Loved Before by Jenny Han. Which is horrifying. Even to me, this sounds like blasphemy considering how much I love these movies. But, the truth is, my first experience with this book left me dropping it about a third of the way through for something more entertaining to read. And then I promptly forgot about it.
For over a year.
If that's not a sign of how not blown away I was by this book, then I don't know what is.
I think there's something to be said for what actors can do to make you fall in love with a character. See, unlike a fair many who reviewed this book, I actually don't mind Larua Jean. In fact, very much so she reminds me of what I was like when I was in eighth grade. Perhaps she reads a little immature for a sixteen-year-old, but the fact of the matter is she's also a sixteen-year-old who has been somewhat of a social outcast for quite some time. So, to me, it makes sense.
But I hated Peter.
And, ultimately, out of the two of them, I preferred both movie counterparts to the books. In fact, I preferred everyone and everything about the movie to the books. And while I won't say this is necessarily a bad thing, it's definitely not great for the book. I just couldn't quite reconcile my adoration for the film with the story this novel was giving me. Everything I loved was a shadow of itself here.
Most of it, fortunately, wasn't inherently bad. I think what it really came down to were three things. First, I spent most of the book bored. I don't know what it is about contemporary novels, but they can get boring so quickly. And, much as I hate to admit it, To All the Boys I've Loved Before somehow managed to miss the mark on keeping me engaged.
Second is the fact that Laura Jean's writing skills are immensely subpar to what I imagined they were when I watched the movie. And I get it, really. It's not easy to write a character who is a brilliant writer. It's not easy to write characters writing exceptional stories or letters in the novel. And Laura Jean is a teenager, so fine, this is fair. But her letters were just awful and I hated them.
Finally, and most egregious of all, Peter is as uncharming and jerk-ish as he could possibly be without being downright unlikable. I have to give it to Noah Centineo, he took this meh and blah character and turned him into an adorable, sweet, and charming guy worth falling for. I totally get how Laura Jean and Peter fell in love when I watch the movie. But when I read the book? Oh my skies, the lack of chemistry and charm make it impossible not only to enjoy reading about them but to buy their relationship in the first place.
The movie is just so much better.
It's unavoidable, really, acknowledging this fact. And yes, I loved this film. But the book? Ugh, it would have just ended up in a long list of mediocre books that I find myself regretting reading because there are so many better books to read. And then I'd likely have missed out on the adorableness that are Lana Condor and Noah Centineo as better versions of these characters. I'm honestly so grateful that I didn't read the book first.
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July 14, 2025
I absolutely love this trilogy the family dynamics, the romance, the growing up, high school everything about this book is beautiful. My favourite.
August 25, 2017
3.5 Stars
I just loved Lara Jean. Her quirkiness, her innocence, her frugalness and her sincerity. She was so understanding and like an old soul.
Her relationship with her family was beautiful and endearing. And I could just put Kitty in my pocket! I crave a little sister like her if I were a teen.
Oh, but the daring little, big thing Kitty did to her middle, big sis had Lara Jean basically crapping her pants and me shouting brilliance!! Because how fun was it to see LJ come out of her shell and explain these "leaked letters!" It was mortifyingly terrific!
These books were a simple, fun series to read. The characters had great bonding and I loved how the story evolved into a sweet, young romance.
I so misjudged Peter. High fives my man for totally impressing me! You went from douche status to mcsweety in 2 chapters!
I am smiling as I write this short review of how these books made me feel. I loved the simple closure and the genuineness behind each installment of To All The Boys I've Loved Before.
I hear this is hitting the screen, so I pray the producers do these books and their story justice.
I just loved Lara Jean. Her quirkiness, her innocence, her frugalness and her sincerity. She was so understanding and like an old soul.
Her relationship with her family was beautiful and endearing. And I could just put Kitty in my pocket! I crave a little sister like her if I were a teen.
Oh, but the daring little, big thing Kitty did to her middle, big sis had Lara Jean basically crapping her pants and me shouting brilliance!! Because how fun was it to see LJ come out of her shell and explain these "leaked letters!" It was mortifyingly terrific!
These books were a simple, fun series to read. The characters had great bonding and I loved how the story evolved into a sweet, young romance.
I so misjudged Peter. High fives my man for totally impressing me! You went from douche status to mcsweety in 2 chapters!
I am smiling as I write this short review of how these books made me feel. I loved the simple closure and the genuineness behind each installment of To All The Boys I've Loved Before.
I hear this is hitting the screen, so I pray the producers do these books and their story justice.
October 22, 2021
Primera vez que leemos a Jenny Han (sí, lo sabemos, vamos tarde), y al igual que muchos, lo hicimos después de ver la película de "A todos los chicos de los que me enamoré" en Netflix, lo que hace que la experiencia de lectura sea un poco diferente, porque técnicamente ya conoces la trama y “sabes lo que va a pasar”, por lo que sin darte cuenta, a medidas que vas pasando las páginas, te encuentras comparando la trama del filme con la historia del libro.
Recordamos que cuando vimos la película, sí, nos gustó, fue linda, pero hasta ahí. No es como que al día siguiente quisimos volver a verla, o al mes. No. Más bien solo la hemos visto una vez, y de ahí directo a la secuela.
Todo lo contrario nos acaba de pasar con la novela. Porque sabemos que sí, la volveremos a leer. Una de las cosas que más nos gustó de "A todos los chicos de los que me enamoré" es la forma en la que está escrita, ya que es muy fluida, lo que la hace fácil de leer y sobre todo de disfrutar.
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Recordamos que cuando vimos la película, sí, nos gustó, fue linda, pero hasta ahí. No es como que al día siguiente quisimos volver a verla, o al mes. No. Más bien solo la hemos visto una vez, y de ahí directo a la secuela.
Todo lo contrario nos acaba de pasar con la novela. Porque sabemos que sí, la volveremos a leer. Una de las cosas que más nos gustó de "A todos los chicos de los que me enamoré" es la forma en la que está escrita, ya que es muy fluida, lo que la hace fácil de leer y sobre todo de disfrutar.
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September 22, 2022
Plot: 5⭐️
This is a light hearted and cute romance about Lara Jean who has never openly admitted her crushes, but instead wrote each one a love letter about how she felt. I enjoyed Lara Jean’s character a lot and it was fun following her story from her crushes learning about her feelings to her learning to be in a relationship while following her own dreams.
Pacing: 4⭐️
The pacing of the book was okay.
Character Development: 4.5⭐️
Jenny Han does an excellent job creating characters who are real and sympathetic. Lara Jean is charming, innocent, and pure. She also learns a lot throughout her journey in highschool which was great to see. I loved how she would challenge to get out of her comfort zone.
Writing Style: 5⭐️
Jenny Han has a wonderful writing style and I will definitely be picking up more of her books.
Would you recommend it?
I recommend this book to those who like a light hearted YA romance.
This is a light hearted and cute romance about Lara Jean who has never openly admitted her crushes, but instead wrote each one a love letter about how she felt. I enjoyed Lara Jean’s character a lot and it was fun following her story from her crushes learning about her feelings to her learning to be in a relationship while following her own dreams.
Pacing: 4⭐️
The pacing of the book was okay.
Character Development: 4.5⭐️
Jenny Han does an excellent job creating characters who are real and sympathetic. Lara Jean is charming, innocent, and pure. She also learns a lot throughout her journey in highschool which was great to see. I loved how she would challenge to get out of her comfort zone.
Writing Style: 5⭐️
Jenny Han has a wonderful writing style and I will definitely be picking up more of her books.
Would you recommend it?
I recommend this book to those who like a light hearted YA romance.
June 29, 2017
If you like the high school drama who-likes-who kind of story then it's a cute read but it was a little boring for me. There was no real substance, just some teenage drama.
July 31, 2017
Jenny Han basically wrote a single book's worth trilogy.
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