Of all the topics I have written about over the past 8 years, none have had more interest and started more conversations than the topic of dating red flags. Perhaps it’s because we are all a little too hard on ourselves when we look back on past relationships and think, “What the hell was I thinking?”. Whatever the reason, we have all grown from what can only come from life’s hardest lessons in dating and in love. In this mini book I have gathered components of my writing about red flags from my book, Girls’ Guide to Healthy Between the Breakup and the Next U-Haul, as well as articles, posts, and some new pieces. My hope is that by providing a small book that looks specifically at dating red flags that my own experience may help you know you are not alone. After all, it’s our shared experiences that connect us all.