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I Choose to Forgive: An Intimate Journey with God
We live in a fallen world where offenses and serious grievances occur in every person's life. These painful situations, no matter how slight or serious, demand that we face the question, "Does God expect me to forgive?" The answer is clear. The choice is ours to obey. The power comes from God alone. I Choose to Forgive tells the heartbreaking journey from devastation to freedom from the unique perspective of a mother, father, and sibling on the ultimate offense of murder. In addition, the powerful testimony of the murderer's journey of finding forgiveness is shared in his own words. These personal stories are rooted in a strong biblical foundation, which undergirds the practical steps of choosing forgiveness.
"This is the book I was hoping Dianne could write in 2010 when the first edition was published. Hearing from her husband, her daughter, and the man who murdered her son in this edition helps us to see how we process grief in different ways. The facilitation material at the end is also an excellent addition. A deeply personal, powerful book for hurting people."
--Judith Lingenfelter, Biola University Faculty Emerita
"If your adult child were murdered, could you ever forgive the killer? Is that really what God would have you do? Could you grow to experience God's love and forgiveness yourself in such a way that you then could actually face your son's killer, see his need for God's love, and forgive him?
God did just that in Dianne and Glenn Collard's lives. I Choose to Forgive tells their remarkable, heart-stirring story. As you read their story, I know you will find help to forgive and release those whose lives have hurt and traumatized you. And, in the process, God will give you new freedom yourself."
--Byron Spradlin, president, Artists in Christian Testimony Intl, Brentwood, Tennessee
"As a father, I can't quite imagine how I would forgive a person who murdered my children. I would likely be overcome by rage and suffocated by grief. And I would need to hear others share their stories, to show me how the impossible might become possible in the face of a nightmarish tragedy. That's of course the beautiful gift of this a story of Dianne's encounter with God's extraordinary grace that enables her to do the to forgive and in that gift of forgiveness to know freedom and joy."
--W. David O. Taylor, Fuller Theological Seminary
Dianne B. Collard is a missionary, international speaker, creative catalyst, and advocate for artists. She serves as the Europe Ministry Director of A.C.T. International and is the Director of ArtsCharlotte.
"This is the book I was hoping Dianne could write in 2010 when the first edition was published. Hearing from her husband, her daughter, and the man who murdered her son in this edition helps us to see how we process grief in different ways. The facilitation material at the end is also an excellent addition. A deeply personal, powerful book for hurting people."
--Judith Lingenfelter, Biola University Faculty Emerita
"If your adult child were murdered, could you ever forgive the killer? Is that really what God would have you do? Could you grow to experience God's love and forgiveness yourself in such a way that you then could actually face your son's killer, see his need for God's love, and forgive him?
God did just that in Dianne and Glenn Collard's lives. I Choose to Forgive tells their remarkable, heart-stirring story. As you read their story, I know you will find help to forgive and release those whose lives have hurt and traumatized you. And, in the process, God will give you new freedom yourself."
--Byron Spradlin, president, Artists in Christian Testimony Intl, Brentwood, Tennessee
"As a father, I can't quite imagine how I would forgive a person who murdered my children. I would likely be overcome by rage and suffocated by grief. And I would need to hear others share their stories, to show me how the impossible might become possible in the face of a nightmarish tragedy. That's of course the beautiful gift of this a story of Dianne's encounter with God's extraordinary grace that enables her to do the to forgive and in that gift of forgiveness to know freedom and joy."
--W. David O. Taylor, Fuller Theological Seminary
Dianne B. Collard is a missionary, international speaker, creative catalyst, and advocate for artists. She serves as the Europe Ministry Director of A.C.T. International and is the Director of ArtsCharlotte.
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March 23, 2017
Excellent book on Forgiveness
God has used the obedience of this woman in facing the murderer of her son by forgiving him. In it, you will see the honest struggle involved and the process of forgiveness God led her and her family through to not only bring back peace and joy for them, but also to help them teach others to forgive when they encounter offenses of all kinds. It is so very readable and so honest but also Biblical!
God has used the obedience of this woman in facing the murderer of her son by forgiving him. In it, you will see the honest struggle involved and the process of forgiveness God led her and her family through to not only bring back peace and joy for them, but also to help them teach others to forgive when they encounter offenses of all kinds. It is so very readable and so honest but also Biblical!
February 9, 2018
This is a most practical, succinct and moving book. At times I was moved to tears. Always I was challenged.
It is a book to strongly recommend and widely share.
Among the striking assertions were
forgiveness is a choice
forgiveness is a recurring process
forgiveness leads to 'blessing' the offender.
There is so much more packed into this concise and insightful book.
It is a book to strongly recommend and widely share.
Among the striking assertions were
forgiveness is a choice
forgiveness is a recurring process
forgiveness leads to 'blessing' the offender.
There is so much more packed into this concise and insightful book.
September 15, 2017
I recommend this to anyone struggling with unforgiveness or bitterness
February 8, 2021
I didn't finish this! Need to go back.
September 30, 2022
Livre très pertinant sur la question du pardon.
je le recommande fortement.
je le recommande fortement.
May 11, 2015
What a powerful story. It really puts God's commands in light of your emotions but also brings light to myths that follow forgiveness around with a stigma. If you struggle with happiness at all, this book is a good place to start on getting on par with God.
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