I had not yet reviewed this fabulous children's book, which I read in June 2018, other than to rate it a fantastic five stars. However, I recently read a review by a goodreads acquaintance, that seems to have completely missed the point of the book, viewing little Julián as "disturbing." This upset me. We live in a troubling world, and I live in the current Trump Bigotocracy. I stand for equality for ALL. Period. No exceptions, no caveats. I wish that many of my friends and acquaintances, both online and in person, who voice their beliefs about equality, would follow through on that claim. This includes equality for all children, including the right of a child to express herself or himself. As an educator with real life experience of this issue, I can say that yes, for example, it can be difficult to balance the needs of that one little kindergarten boy in a tutu, against the concerns of "certain" parents of the other kiddos. However, it CAN be done with love and diplomacy and patience: and the help of an AMAZING school guidance counselor. As the parent of a transgender teen, I also have years of experience with my own child's need to express himself howEVER he chooses.
Wearing both of those hats, I will acknowledge that this book is certainly meant to be funny, cute, joyous, silly, and full of self-expression. I will also point out, though, because I'm up on my soap-box now, that the author clearly has an underlying message that any kind of self-expression should be supported, REGARDLESS OF THE CHILD'S GENDER. IE: this book is NOT about mermaids; this book is about Julián. Below is my reply to my goodreads acquaintance's review, which can now serve as my basic review:
"I love Julián, and recommend this book to anyone who supports *kids* at all. As an educator who feels strongly that kids should always be allowed to express themselves, and as a parent of a transgender kid, I read a different message in this book: I think it's possible that, without using terms like "gender diversity" or "gender expression," the author is gently, joyously, and humorously supporting the right of a child to express himself any way he chooses. And yes, it's silly to see him outdoors in his undies, but to me it was more important to see his supportive grandmother, sharing her lipstick, loving him just as he is. The book blurb ends by describing this story as 'a jubilant picture of self love and a radiant celebration of individuality.' I think that says it all. : )"
I normally do not become this impassioned about my deepest personal views, on goodreads, nor do I "rant." This is the first time I have "publicly" said here that I'm the parent of a transgender kid. I fully expect that I'll have lost a dozen or more goodreads friends by tomorrow, because, sadly, I have a lot of experience with bigotry related to this topic. That's fine. However, I also fully expect to receive some positive comments to this review, because I KNOW that most readers are open-minded people, who are interested in views beyond their own, and read especially to explore the wider world. I encourage you to read Julián is a Mermaid. I encourage you to let your child read it. If you're the parent if a transgender or gender-diverse kid, I whole-heartedly recommend this book. Happy Reading!!
* edited for typos and layout issue, 8/18/18