The Delicate Science of Making Love

by Brian Nox

Learn the daily habits of the most successful modern couples Why is love so elusive? Why can it be there one day and gone the next? Why does everything change for some people as soon as they move in together, get married, or have children? Why do people who seem so right for each other fall out of love without warning? Or is there a warning? Is there a science, an art behind all of this? How do couples that stay madly in love for decades, truly until death does part them, do it? Figuring this out has been my mission ever since I was a young boy, given that my parents had a very unstable relationship with more yelling than your average death metal concert. Nevertheless, I didn’t want to decipher love just for me but for everyone who wants to make something great of their relationship. For anyone who finds themselves on the brink of the end of a relationship. For people who are struggling in a marriage or a relationship that simply isn’t what it used to be. For everyone who wants to feel genuinely loved by their partner. It turns out those who make love work have a secret. Many secrets, in fact. They have a set of very specific habits that keep pumping life and love into the relationship. They know the delicate science of making love. I have been coaching people with relationship and marital troubles for a very long time now, and whenever I explain what you’re about to read to people who were in trouble in their relationship, it has given them clarity. I will share some of their stories with you as well. Many books have been written about love, and some of them are really good. I am certainly not reinventing the wheel here, but I was always missing the bigger picture—an easy roadmap so to speak. After all, when you’re lost in a maze, only a map can get you out and set you back on course. I can’t wait to share that map with you. Happy reading!

Genres: Relationships, Marriage, Nonfiction

154 pages, Kindle Edition

Published October 13, 2018

Reviews

[doris · Rating 5 out of 5]

I am 70 and finally learned. Now I just need a man!

Single since 1994, and have not dated. Survived an alcoholic marriage, and have not needed a man. I always heard if you don't look for one, it will happen. Still waiting. This insight would not have worked for me, but love to watch your videos. We all have scars. God bless you for helping couples.

[Damali · Rating 5 out of 5]

An eye opener

Had great strategies for maintaining a relationship. I will apply these to my daily life. Emotional intelligence is key in a healthy relationship, this takes practice.

[Hans Guerin · Rating 5 out of 5]

Good read.

Interesting twist on somewhat familiar grounds. You don’t have to try very hard to find similar content but it is presented well and is a strategy that is understandable.

[MIKE SMALTINI · Rating 5 out of 5]

Simple and thoughtful book about serious issues

Brian offers simple strategies to stay focused and keep the relationship strong

I liked the pond analogy and found it useful to apply my own experiences

[Portland Jones · Rating 5 out of 5]

Awesome!!!!!!

I have read some great books, but this book hits the heart. Just awesome advice for a long healthy happy relationship. A must read and do.

[Foxglove · Rating 5 out of 5]

Helpful

I will definitely use this when I find a partner, it helped me understand others so much better than I did before.

[Danielle · Rating 5 out of 5]

Good read

Very clear cut advice. I appreciate the practical advice on how to build a great relationship and will definitely use what I learned to continue to grow my love story.

[Marline S. Varis · Rating 5 out of 5]

Good read

I enjoyed reading this book and I will recommend it to a few people. Learning about the different ponds is interesting.

[Jolene Ko · Rating 4 out of 5]

I skimmed most of the content, mainly because it really doesn't relate to my current dating situation. Some good ideas and concepts for those that are needing advice.

[Aimee · Rating 5 out of 5]

This was a good audiobook! The narrator's voice was pleasant. I learned a lot about how I perceive love and how my mate perceives love. I appreciated that this book was not full of a bunch of psycho-jargon or ways to psycho-analyze your partner. I also liked the use of modern examples. Like what other readers said, the use of love "ponds" was kind of weird but after hearing the term used several times, I began to hear love "bonds" which I thought was a better term. lol. If you are looking to give more love to your partner and discover ways to fill the love tank please read this book.