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Lovestruck: Discovering God's Design for Romance, Marriage, and Sexual Intimacy from the Song of Solomon
Have you ever felt like your " I do " in marriage has turned into " I don’t anymore? " Have you ever felt that the man you thought was your soulmate has turned into more of a roommate? If so, then Lovestruck will help you see your marriage from a fresh perspective and reignite the passion that was there in the beginning. While the extent of the church’s message has traditionally been, "If you’re not married, don’t do it," and "If you are married, don’t talk about it, " it’s time to see what God has to say sexual intimacy. With the Song of Solomon as a backdrop, bestselling author Sharon Jaynes will take you on a daring journey to discover how to When we see God's design for spiritual and physical oneness, we'll have the foundation for a love that lasts a lifetime.
224 pages, Paperback
Published August 6, 2019
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July 11, 2019
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I have been blessed for reading Sharon’s discussions on The Song of Songs.
I have read many of Sharon’s books and have never failed to be moved by them, as well as grow and learn from them. Reading Sharon’s work is like having a conversation with a trusted sister in Christ, over a nice hot cup of coffee. She is so relatable and shares her life experiences with wisdom, humor and sometimes pain. I highly recommend her books!
June 24, 2019
Sharon Jaynes always had great wisdom and understanding into the needs of women, their soul needs. She does not disappoint in this book. I have just started to read the first two chapters, can't wait to check in again on completion.
April 10, 2021
What a great study on the Song of Soloman and how it relates to todays marriage. She breaks it down to easy to understand language and helps you relate it to your own marriage. Sharon focuses not only the physical intmacy but also the emotional side of intimacy in a marriage. This book does challenge you in ways that are slightly painful but inlighting at the same time.
July 10, 2019
Lovestruck is an easy but also thought-provoking read by Sharon Jaynes. She provided clear and thorough descriptions of the meaning behind the words used in Song of Solomon. While I already have a great relationship with my husband, Sharon's book stirred me to do what I can to make our marriage even deeper. This book is a must read for those who desire to know more about an often overlooked book of the Bible as well as providing way to learn how to stir marriage to new heights. I highly recommend it.
~While this book was provided for free, I was under no obligation to provide a positive review. The pleasure was mine (2019)
~While this book was provided for free, I was under no obligation to provide a positive review. The pleasure was mine (2019)
August 6, 2019
I am 51 years old and have been married for 27 years.
I have been told time and time again that at my age and length of marriage, it is normal for romance and intimacy to diminish or disappear altogether. Something inside of me would not let me believe this, it just didn’t sound or feel right.
Once again, Sharon Jaynes shares with others what God has put on her heart in a thorough, easy to understand book that addresses this very issue.
This book, “Lovestruck” by Sharon Jaynes, showed me that romance and intimacy are all part of God’s perfect plan for marriage. The book reveals what true romance and passion, within the boundaries of marriage, looks and feels like. I learned that desire for my husband, and his desire for me, is a God given gift. The expression of that desire may change over the years, but it is meant to last a lifetime. I learned that conflicts will arise, and that forgiveness and love will overcome all those conflicts.
Lovestruck will take you on a walk through the love relationship of King Solomon, the wisest man to ever live, and his Shulamite bride as it is seen in the Song of Solomon. Who better to get advice from? The book walks through their relationship from the beginning of their courtship, through the working part of life, on through the later years. Everyone is in one of these stages of life or another with our spouses and can learn something no matter what stage we are in.
This is one book you will never regret owning.
I have been told time and time again that at my age and length of marriage, it is normal for romance and intimacy to diminish or disappear altogether. Something inside of me would not let me believe this, it just didn’t sound or feel right.
Once again, Sharon Jaynes shares with others what God has put on her heart in a thorough, easy to understand book that addresses this very issue.
This book, “Lovestruck” by Sharon Jaynes, showed me that romance and intimacy are all part of God’s perfect plan for marriage. The book reveals what true romance and passion, within the boundaries of marriage, looks and feels like. I learned that desire for my husband, and his desire for me, is a God given gift. The expression of that desire may change over the years, but it is meant to last a lifetime. I learned that conflicts will arise, and that forgiveness and love will overcome all those conflicts.
Lovestruck will take you on a walk through the love relationship of King Solomon, the wisest man to ever live, and his Shulamite bride as it is seen in the Song of Solomon. Who better to get advice from? The book walks through their relationship from the beginning of their courtship, through the working part of life, on through the later years. Everyone is in one of these stages of life or another with our spouses and can learn something no matter what stage we are in.
This is one book you will never regret owning.
March 27, 2020
Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth!
For your love is better than wine;
your anointing oils are fragrant;
your name is oil poured out;
therefore virgins love you.
Song of Songs 1:2-3
"Lovestruck … Discovering God’s Design for Romance, Marriage, & Sexual Intimacy from the Song of Solomon" begins as God began the Song of Solomon in the Bible, with kissing.
Did you know that there is a science to kissing?
According to Sheril Kirshenbaum, author of "The Science of Kissing," 5 of our 12 cranial nerves get involved when we kiss. When we passionately kiss our spouse, the cranial nerves produce dopamine, giving us a euphoric feeling (as cited in Lovestruck, p. 6).
Sharon Jaynes, author of 24 books, former Vice President of Proverbs 31 Ministries, and writer for Proverbs 31 Ministries’ Encouragement for Today devotions, writes that God created our bodies with all the intricacies of nerves, chemicals, and electrical impulses to give couples “mutual attraction and enjoyment” (p. 8).
“While we do not worship our husbands, even our kisses can be an act of worship and adoration of God for the man he has given us” (p. 8).
Our kisses as an act of worship and adoration? My mama would have shuddered to think such a thing.
“Scripture shows us that sex is not an evil that marriage permits but a gift that marriage protects” (p. xix).
Jaynes provides a fresh look at this small book of only 117 verses by applying the verses to stories of everyday couples, insight into the culture of Solomon’s day, sidebars, and a glossary of the “secret code” of the Song of Solomon.
In this particularly stress-filled time of disease, lockdowns, quarantines and isolations, layoffs, financial distress, grief, and fear, tensions in marriages are rising. This is the perfect time to refocus on God’s gift of marriage and how it honors Him when we delight in the man He has given us.
This book offers couples encouragement that God’s design for marriage includes delight in each other, including physical, emotional, and spiritual delight. Whether you have a fantastic marriage, a ho-hum marriage, or a troubled marriage, if you study this book and apply the principles revealed in it, your marriage may begin to sizzle.
Favorite quotes:
“No matter where your marriage is on a continuum of terrific to tolerable to terrible, prayer can make a bad marriage good and a good marriage great. Prayer is the conduit through which God’s power is released and his will is brought to earth as it is in heaven” (p. 49).
“Romantic love, whether one realizes it or not, always points back to God – the Creator of love itself. It’s like the rays of the sun that shine upon your face – rays that cause you to look toward the Source, God himself” (p. 62).
“If we want a Solomon, then we need to be a Shulammite” (p. 150).
“Remember, marriage is a physical example of a spiritual relationship with Christ” (p. 163).
“It’s about a covenant with the God who intertwines two souls with the thread of his presence” (p. 185).
For your love is better than wine;
your anointing oils are fragrant;
your name is oil poured out;
therefore virgins love you.
Song of Songs 1:2-3
"Lovestruck … Discovering God’s Design for Romance, Marriage, & Sexual Intimacy from the Song of Solomon" begins as God began the Song of Solomon in the Bible, with kissing.
Did you know that there is a science to kissing?
According to Sheril Kirshenbaum, author of "The Science of Kissing," 5 of our 12 cranial nerves get involved when we kiss. When we passionately kiss our spouse, the cranial nerves produce dopamine, giving us a euphoric feeling (as cited in Lovestruck, p. 6).
Sharon Jaynes, author of 24 books, former Vice President of Proverbs 31 Ministries, and writer for Proverbs 31 Ministries’ Encouragement for Today devotions, writes that God created our bodies with all the intricacies of nerves, chemicals, and electrical impulses to give couples “mutual attraction and enjoyment” (p. 8).
“While we do not worship our husbands, even our kisses can be an act of worship and adoration of God for the man he has given us” (p. 8).
Our kisses as an act of worship and adoration? My mama would have shuddered to think such a thing.
“Scripture shows us that sex is not an evil that marriage permits but a gift that marriage protects” (p. xix).
Jaynes provides a fresh look at this small book of only 117 verses by applying the verses to stories of everyday couples, insight into the culture of Solomon’s day, sidebars, and a glossary of the “secret code” of the Song of Solomon.
In this particularly stress-filled time of disease, lockdowns, quarantines and isolations, layoffs, financial distress, grief, and fear, tensions in marriages are rising. This is the perfect time to refocus on God’s gift of marriage and how it honors Him when we delight in the man He has given us.
This book offers couples encouragement that God’s design for marriage includes delight in each other, including physical, emotional, and spiritual delight. Whether you have a fantastic marriage, a ho-hum marriage, or a troubled marriage, if you study this book and apply the principles revealed in it, your marriage may begin to sizzle.
Favorite quotes:
“No matter where your marriage is on a continuum of terrific to tolerable to terrible, prayer can make a bad marriage good and a good marriage great. Prayer is the conduit through which God’s power is released and his will is brought to earth as it is in heaven” (p. 49).
“Romantic love, whether one realizes it or not, always points back to God – the Creator of love itself. It’s like the rays of the sun that shine upon your face – rays that cause you to look toward the Source, God himself” (p. 62).
“If we want a Solomon, then we need to be a Shulammite” (p. 150).
“Remember, marriage is a physical example of a spiritual relationship with Christ” (p. 163).
“It’s about a covenant with the God who intertwines two souls with the thread of his presence” (p. 185).
August 6, 2019
Lovestruck is a MUST-READ for every married woman and every woman contemplating marriage. Sharon Jaynes, with much wisdom, leads the reader through the Song of Solomon shedding light on scripture's love story between King Solomon and his wife. As a bonus, the reader also gets a glimpse into the lives of a modern day couple who exemplified love in such a beautiful, God-honoring, way. I was glued to the pages of this book, marking quotes, taking notes, and writing "must-do" so that I can remember all of the wonderful advice and wisdom that is poured into the pages of this book. I laughed, gasped, and felt sorrow as I weaved my way through the Song of Solomon with Sharon as my guide. There was obviously much research done on the culture of the time, the vocabulary used, and modern day interpretations that help the reader to understand how God meant for us to enjoy married love and intimacy. Hold on to your seats by chapter 3. Whew! Good stuff! Take your time reading this gem of a book. Glean from it's pages and the wisdom that God has imparted to Sharon as she shares the love that Solomon had for his wife. You will not regret reading this book!! Go ahead and purchase several copies because you WILL want to share them with your family and friends. Oh, and go ahead and set up a Bible study at church because this is the PERFECT Bible study for women. Women: we need to be on high alert. Because the devil is lurking around seeking whom he may destroy and he is after our marriages. Guard your hearts and minds by reading this book and soaking in the advice. There are so many wonderful quotes from this book to share. I'll end my review with this one. "In the same way, Solomon was on the lookout for anything that could sneak in and sabotage the blooming vineyard of their love. In most relationships it isn't the big problems that tear a couple apart but the daily deterioration from little annoyances that chip away at the firm foundation and ruin intimacy." Get this book!
August 6, 2019
Loving heartfelt words. Words that speak directly to you – without judgement or condemnation for past mistakes. THAT IS THIS BOOK. It is like sitting down with a close friend while they encourage you to put things in perspective. This book helped to open my eyes to do just that. The sincerity of the words, along with the factual basis of the topics was a true revelation. Sharon covers topics such as attraction, marriage, relationships, getting along, and more with a biblical basis. She carefully but openly discusses topics that are not freely talked about as people reach for the Bible seeking answers. She points out that everything in the Bible has a significant purpose and reason why God placed it in there – that includes the Song of Solomon. I found myself underlining, corner page folding, highlighting, and noting a multitude of pages in this book. This book will make you chuckle, laugh, and maybe even cry. Quotes like "In most relationships it isn't the big problems that tear a couple apart but the daily deterioration from little annoyances that chip away at the firm foundation and ruin intimacy” and "Every wife will eventually come to the realization that she does not have it in her power to make marriage work. It is only through the power of God working in both the husband and the wife to make the intertwined strand of three cords unbreakable” are so simple yet powerfully inspiring. I was so blessed to have read this timely book. The motivation for this book is best summed up as a quote in the book’s introduction: “My generation is so mixed up when it comes to sex. They hook up with people they barely know. By the time they get married, they’ve slept with so many different people that sex has lost its specialness. We need to know how to do it the right way.” Whether you are single, newly married, or not-so-newly married -- buy this book and soak up this mentor’s words of wisdom.
August 24, 2019
It took me awhile to get into reading Lovestruck by Sharon Jaynes because my experiences did not match the author’s. Sometimes it hurt to read because of the choices I had made, the choice to believe the lies that sex equals love, that I was not worthy and loveable unless I looked like society’s definition of sexy, that sex outside of marriage was ok, and that I needed a man to complete me. None of these lies led to the intimacy I longed for. It was gratifying to read about God’s redemption and forgiveness in Lovestruck.
I was looking for answers on how to love when love hasn’t been reciprocated, when someone has been betrayed, when she wants things to workout but he doesn’t…what then? While many of these questions aren’t directly answered, Sharon Jaynes does an excellent job of addressing the issues couples face in marriage and how God would have us respond. She states that some issues need to be addressed by counselors.
I wanted to understand God’s plan, His design for marriage and true sexual intimacy. Sharon Jaynes does an excellent job of going through the Song of Solomon to explain this. By the time I realized that this was the purpose of Lovestruck I was hooked and could not put it down!
The truth Sharon Jaynes presents, “marriage is more than a lifelong commitment to another person. It is a lifelong commitment to God regarding another person” has helped me to look at my husband through a different lens, one that will help me to love him more deeply as I strive to honor God with my choices.
Sharon Jaynes has written a book that will appeal to women of all ages, regardless of our current status. Women can learn God’s design and make the choice to be the woman God created them to be regardless of their circumstances.
I was looking for answers on how to love when love hasn’t been reciprocated, when someone has been betrayed, when she wants things to workout but he doesn’t…what then? While many of these questions aren’t directly answered, Sharon Jaynes does an excellent job of addressing the issues couples face in marriage and how God would have us respond. She states that some issues need to be addressed by counselors.
I wanted to understand God’s plan, His design for marriage and true sexual intimacy. Sharon Jaynes does an excellent job of going through the Song of Solomon to explain this. By the time I realized that this was the purpose of Lovestruck I was hooked and could not put it down!
The truth Sharon Jaynes presents, “marriage is more than a lifelong commitment to another person. It is a lifelong commitment to God regarding another person” has helped me to look at my husband through a different lens, one that will help me to love him more deeply as I strive to honor God with my choices.
Sharon Jaynes has written a book that will appeal to women of all ages, regardless of our current status. Women can learn God’s design and make the choice to be the woman God created them to be regardless of their circumstances.
August 11, 2019
"My Rose of Sharon Blossoms"
Book review of "Lovestruck, by Sharon Jaynes
I received this lovely pot of roses from my Beloved Casey Johnson, "Just because"!
I asked him "How come"? His response, "You've been talking extra sweet to me lately".
Inspired by this book, I had been asking Jesus to show me ways to better love my husband, and this was the result!
"Lovestruck" (received as an ARC), is a very rich and beautiful book, unpacking the Song of Solomon in a way that any Christian woman can understand.
It's raw and real, without being embarrassing.
"Every day we make decisions to cheer or to boo our men" (pg. 118).
This reminded me of the Scripture, "The wise woman builds her house, but the foolish tears it down with her own hands". Proverbs 14:1. Since Solomon was the author of both Songs and Proverbs,
I figure he really knew what he was talking about, based on his experience with the Shulamite woman.
My husband once said, "Connie, all I want is a cheerleader".
The Lord will show us many practical ways to do this, as lead by the Holy Spirit.
I believe the passion in the bedroom is sparked by this first.
As a pastor's wife, I highly recommend this book for engaged as well as seasoned married couples and Bible study groups.
The Lord once spoke to me these words, "Connie, do everything as unto Me. I'll take care of your husband".
After 10 years of marriage, I have found this to be SO True when I obey the Word of the Lord!
"Lovestruck" is full of practical wisdom from a mature saint to help us run the marriage race and win the prize!
Now I know what it means to turn water into champagne, because our cup "runneth over". Psalm 23:5
Book review of "Lovestruck, by Sharon Jaynes
I received this lovely pot of roses from my Beloved Casey Johnson, "Just because"!
I asked him "How come"? His response, "You've been talking extra sweet to me lately".
Inspired by this book, I had been asking Jesus to show me ways to better love my husband, and this was the result!
"Lovestruck" (received as an ARC), is a very rich and beautiful book, unpacking the Song of Solomon in a way that any Christian woman can understand.
It's raw and real, without being embarrassing.
"Every day we make decisions to cheer or to boo our men" (pg. 118).
This reminded me of the Scripture, "The wise woman builds her house, but the foolish tears it down with her own hands". Proverbs 14:1. Since Solomon was the author of both Songs and Proverbs,
I figure he really knew what he was talking about, based on his experience with the Shulamite woman.
My husband once said, "Connie, all I want is a cheerleader".
The Lord will show us many practical ways to do this, as lead by the Holy Spirit.
I believe the passion in the bedroom is sparked by this first.
As a pastor's wife, I highly recommend this book for engaged as well as seasoned married couples and Bible study groups.
The Lord once spoke to me these words, "Connie, do everything as unto Me. I'll take care of your husband".
After 10 years of marriage, I have found this to be SO True when I obey the Word of the Lord!
"Lovestruck" is full of practical wisdom from a mature saint to help us run the marriage race and win the prize!
Now I know what it means to turn water into champagne, because our cup "runneth over". Psalm 23:5
August 7, 2019
Thank you for inviting me to read this book. I have been blessed by the wisdom of Sharon, and I loved how she broke the book up in sections and made it very easy to understand, as well as the practical advice on how to apply it to our lives! Here's what I'd like to share about its impact:
In her latest book, Lovestruck: Discovering God's Design for Romance, Marriage, and Sexual Intimacy from Song of Solomon, Sharon Jaynes has masterfully crafted an insightful and inspirational guide for women who desire to understand and reclaim all that God has designed for them and their hearts. God has created us to glorify Him in all areas of our lives, including our sexuality. However, our current society has taught us to be ashamed of, or to deny this essential part of ourselves.
Sharon reminds readers that they can reclaim this part of their lives no matter their past and can celebrate and flourish in their intimate relationships now and in the future. This book would be invaluable for women who continue to define themselves from their past of sexual impurity or abuse, or from the present relationship lacking true intimacy.
The book's tone invites the reader to explore the difficult, often taboo, topics of sex and intimacy in a meaningful and loving way. By her frank and unapologetic approach, Jaynes helps her readers see these topics as God intended -- beautiful extensions and expressions of Himself in His creation.
Truly a must read!
In her latest book, Lovestruck: Discovering God's Design for Romance, Marriage, and Sexual Intimacy from Song of Solomon, Sharon Jaynes has masterfully crafted an insightful and inspirational guide for women who desire to understand and reclaim all that God has designed for them and their hearts. God has created us to glorify Him in all areas of our lives, including our sexuality. However, our current society has taught us to be ashamed of, or to deny this essential part of ourselves.
Sharon reminds readers that they can reclaim this part of their lives no matter their past and can celebrate and flourish in their intimate relationships now and in the future. This book would be invaluable for women who continue to define themselves from their past of sexual impurity or abuse, or from the present relationship lacking true intimacy.
The book's tone invites the reader to explore the difficult, often taboo, topics of sex and intimacy in a meaningful and loving way. By her frank and unapologetic approach, Jaynes helps her readers see these topics as God intended -- beautiful extensions and expressions of Himself in His creation.
Truly a must read!
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August 7, 2019I was interested in this book in hopes of gaining practical information to improve my marriage. Because it was about the Song of Solomon, I was intrigued because I thought that if anyone had marriage issues it was Solomon. And yet, Song of Solomon is a love story – a romantic story of two people very much in love. How did Solomon do it?
As I read the book, I began to understand that what I could glean from the book and the explanation of what was going on in the Song of Solomon. The book talked through the little foxes that can weaken and wreck a relationship. “In most relationships it isn’t the big problems that tear a couple apart but he deterioration from little annoyances that chip away at the firm foundation and ruin intimacy.” Sharon listed things like disrespect, dishonesty, jealousy, complacency, selfishness, bitterness to name a few.
This book does not shy away from some hard topics – saying “not tonight,” and what that does to a relationship. “The spirit of obligation is the enemy of joy.” This book truly made me examine my attitude and make sure I was honest with myself.
I found this book helpful and I have been married for 40 years. Those married a few years or even those engaged will glean useful practical information. This book motivates a person to work to communicate better, to forgive and not hold on to hurt. This book is easy to read and well worth it.
As I read the book, I began to understand that what I could glean from the book and the explanation of what was going on in the Song of Solomon. The book talked through the little foxes that can weaken and wreck a relationship. “In most relationships it isn’t the big problems that tear a couple apart but he deterioration from little annoyances that chip away at the firm foundation and ruin intimacy.” Sharon listed things like disrespect, dishonesty, jealousy, complacency, selfishness, bitterness to name a few.
This book does not shy away from some hard topics – saying “not tonight,” and what that does to a relationship. “The spirit of obligation is the enemy of joy.” This book truly made me examine my attitude and make sure I was honest with myself.
I found this book helpful and I have been married for 40 years. Those married a few years or even those engaged will glean useful practical information. This book motivates a person to work to communicate better, to forgive and not hold on to hurt. This book is easy to read and well worth it.
August 7, 2019
Each morning when I read my Daily Devotional emails, I get super excited when I see one from Sharon Jaynes. I love her writing and how she breaks things down to a level anyone can understand and learn from. When I saw that she wrote a new book on marriage “Lovestruck” I couldn’t wait to get my hands on it. Lovestruck absolutely did not disappoint! Sharon shares her heart and understanding of what God wants for marriage and intimacy, but she also breaks down a beautiful book of the Bible in ways that I had never heard before. Song of Solomon is a book of the Bible that I don’t recall ever hearing any teaching on. So, Sharon’s careful way of breaking down each chapter and giving the meaning behind the words totally makes sense. Song of Solomon is a beautiful love poem and Sharon carefully highlighted each chapter so that I was able to understand what was written. Through this journey, I gained a new perspective on loving my husband even though we are way past the “honeymoon phase”. The Song of Solomon (and Sharon) reminds us how our husbands should show us love and the Shulamite is a great representation of how I should love my husband. Not every day is a good day in my marriage, but this book has completely changed the way I respond on the “bad days”. The book is 11 chapters and was something I had a hard time putting down because I was learning so much. I would highly recommend this book to every married couple no matter how long they have been married.
August 22, 2019
A book all ladies need in their marriage every day!!!
As a favorite author of mine, Sharon Jaynes did not disappoint with this book either. It’s refreshing to have someone to look up to and encourage us ladies in how a Christian marriage should be. Sharon’s books have helped to get me through the recent hardest time in my marriage.
There is so much good in this book! Some of my favorite quotes are:
“Sniff out the tendency to control, the proclivity toward jealousy, the proclivity toward jealousy, the propensity to control, the bent to bully, the inclination to intimidate or manipulate.”
“I think one of the most difficult aspects of forgiveness is the lingering desire to be right when wronged. We can hang on to our hurts and almost make an idol of them. The offense becomes more important than the repentant offender. We can put the hurt in a prominent place in our hearts, dusting it off every now and then with a rag of resentment, when what we really need to do is throw it in the trash. And that’s exactly what Solomon and the Shulammite did.”
“I want us to make time for our marriages. Be intentional. Stoke the fire. And add new logs on the flame from time to time. Bring out the s’mores of passion! Do a little roasting! Enjoy the warmth in the seasons of life when a chill hits our bones.”
Please ladies, buy this book NOW!! It is so good and so needed in your life and marriage.
As a favorite author of mine, Sharon Jaynes did not disappoint with this book either. It’s refreshing to have someone to look up to and encourage us ladies in how a Christian marriage should be. Sharon’s books have helped to get me through the recent hardest time in my marriage.
There is so much good in this book! Some of my favorite quotes are:
“Sniff out the tendency to control, the proclivity toward jealousy, the proclivity toward jealousy, the propensity to control, the bent to bully, the inclination to intimidate or manipulate.”
“I think one of the most difficult aspects of forgiveness is the lingering desire to be right when wronged. We can hang on to our hurts and almost make an idol of them. The offense becomes more important than the repentant offender. We can put the hurt in a prominent place in our hearts, dusting it off every now and then with a rag of resentment, when what we really need to do is throw it in the trash. And that’s exactly what Solomon and the Shulammite did.”
“I want us to make time for our marriages. Be intentional. Stoke the fire. And add new logs on the flame from time to time. Bring out the s’mores of passion! Do a little roasting! Enjoy the warmth in the seasons of life when a chill hits our bones.”
Please ladies, buy this book NOW!! It is so good and so needed in your life and marriage.
September 16, 2019
Trusted speaker and author Sharon Jaynes provides women with a great resource on sexual intimacy in marriage in her new book, Lovestruck, published by Thomas Nelson. Jaynes takes readers on a journey through Song of Solomon, showing them God’s original design for marriage and sexual intimacy, and readers just might be surprised by what they’ll find. This timely book provides a biblical viewpoint when so many mistaken worldly views try to lure people away from God’s original design—for loving, intimate and hot sex within the marriage of one man and one woman for life. Jaynes shows how marriage is God’s idea—beginning with the marriage of Adam and Eve in Genesis and ending with the marriage supper of the Lamb in Revelation. She also points out that Jesus’ first miracle took place at a wedding. Not only that, but marriage is a picture of Christ and the church. Jaynes rightly says, “When we understand the weighty worth and sacred significance of sex, we treasure and enjoy it even more. I highly recommend this book for anyone who dares to take their marriage more seriously, who dares to take God at HIs Word, and who dares to have a more exciting sex life within their marriage. Lovestruck will not disappoint, and it will make a great resource whether you’re newly married or you’ve been married a long time.
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August 3, 2019“Lovestruck” by Sharon Jaynes was not only an informative read but it was interesting as well. A lot of times Christian non-fiction can be a little boring, but not with this book! Sharon shares so much insight from the Song of Solomon. She also shares stories and illustrations. I’ve never read a book about this book in the Bible. I love how she made this story come alive. She also made the Song of Solomon seem like it was happening in modern days.
I have highlighted so much of this book, and I love so many of Sharon’s quotes. However, some of my very favorite quotes are:
“In a growing relationship it’s so important that a woman not only receive compliments but also gives them.”
“In most relationships it isn’t the big problems that tear a couple apart but the daily deterioration from little annoyances that chip away at the firm foundation and ruin intimacy.”
“If we focus on what is best for the marriage, self has to be knocked off the throne. That is Jesus’ seat after all.”
These quotes really made me think of my marriage and how I can make it thrive.
I definitely recommend this book to every married woman out there. I think it will truly touch your life and enrich your marriage.
I received this book from the author for my honest opinion.
I have highlighted so much of this book, and I love so many of Sharon’s quotes. However, some of my very favorite quotes are:
“In a growing relationship it’s so important that a woman not only receive compliments but also gives them.”
“In most relationships it isn’t the big problems that tear a couple apart but the daily deterioration from little annoyances that chip away at the firm foundation and ruin intimacy.”
“If we focus on what is best for the marriage, self has to be knocked off the throne. That is Jesus’ seat after all.”
These quotes really made me think of my marriage and how I can make it thrive.
I definitely recommend this book to every married woman out there. I think it will truly touch your life and enrich your marriage.
I received this book from the author for my honest opinion.
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August 6, 2019Love struck is a wonderfully written book on the Song of Solomon, the love story of King Solomon and the Shulammite. Sharon has done all the work for us to understand and appreciate what God intended marriage to be. She does this by Breaking the Secret Code for Song of Solomon, explaining the meaning behind the words and history to get the full effect of the beautiful dance of their courtship and marriage. It seems she covered every aspect of marriage in a lovely way from marital sexual pleasure to how to keep the romance alive through the years.
One of the things that stood out for me is the importance of serving one another, “ To make a marriage sing, we must take ourselves off the throne and put the needs of our spouses above our own.” My husband does this so naturally, but I will need prayer and the Power of the Holy Spirit working through me to be better at this! I could go on and on but just one more little nugget that I have tucked away in my heart, “A wife has the power to bolster her husband’s confidence or break his spirit with but a word.”
I highly recommend this book and bought a copy to give to a friend.
One of the things that stood out for me is the importance of serving one another, “ To make a marriage sing, we must take ourselves off the throne and put the needs of our spouses above our own.” My husband does this so naturally, but I will need prayer and the Power of the Holy Spirit working through me to be better at this! I could go on and on but just one more little nugget that I have tucked away in my heart, “A wife has the power to bolster her husband’s confidence or break his spirit with but a word.”
I highly recommend this book and bought a copy to give to a friend.
July 29, 2019
Having been a part of various churches throughout my life, I’ve noticed that the Song of Solomon gets skipped a lot of the time. It’s “too racy” or “too taboo” or something, except it’s not. It’s a picture of what God wants a Christian marriage to look like. Sharon Jaynes does a brilliant job of sharing that in her newest book, “Lovestruck.” She does a spectacular job of reminding readers that through it all, love is intentional. (Yes, there are situations that are the exception to the norm, which she makes note of too.) “Lovestruck” is a great read for those who don’t get Song of Solomon or for those who are searching for what their marriage should look like from a Biblical perspective.
Before you go all, “But Solomon had a bajillion wives!” It’s true, but that was the nature of politics at the time. They were business transactions, more or less. What Sharon points out is that this was likely before all that. This was his “one true love” story.
Before you go all, “But Solomon had a bajillion wives!” It’s true, but that was the nature of politics at the time. They were business transactions, more or less. What Sharon points out is that this was likely before all that. This was his “one true love” story.
July 31, 2019
Lovestruck appealed to me because I needed a decoder for the Song of Solomon! Lovestruck absolutely cleared up my confusion of Song of Solomon as well as gave me more reasons to praise God for my hubby and our marriage! I am always looking for wisdom on how to keep my marriage fresh and first.
I was reading Sharon's book 'Praying for Your Husband from Head to Toe' when I saw a post about Lovestruck. I figured it would be a great next step and it certainly was! I can think of no better follow up to praying for my husband than putting into practice simple ways of showing up in our marriage!
I love how Sharon writes like she's sitting around a table having a drink with you. She is very personable and funny.
Whether you are in the Golden years, just starting out, or in the dating stage, Lovestruck has pearls of wisdom for you. It's time to learn, and teach, God's very good design for marriage.
I was reading Sharon's book 'Praying for Your Husband from Head to Toe' when I saw a post about Lovestruck. I figured it would be a great next step and it certainly was! I can think of no better follow up to praying for my husband than putting into practice simple ways of showing up in our marriage!
I love how Sharon writes like she's sitting around a table having a drink with you. She is very personable and funny.
Whether you are in the Golden years, just starting out, or in the dating stage, Lovestruck has pearls of wisdom for you. It's time to learn, and teach, God's very good design for marriage.
August 6, 2019
Lovestruck is a MUST READ! When I first began to read it, I thought, “Every married woman needs to read this.” But as I continued to read, I changed my mind. Every young woman needs to read this! Sharon truthfully and eloquently paints a beautiful picture of what God designed sex to be in the context of marriage. If any young woman is struggling with why she should wait until marriage, Lovestruck will show her what God has in store for her. Waiting is worth it!
For women who are married, reading Lovestruck will re-ignite the passion in your marriage. The way Sharon Jaynes unpacks the Song of Solomon helps you remember all the yummy feels your husband gives you. You will focus on the fire again instead of the day to day survival that can easily douse the flames you once had for each other.
Warning! Your husband might wonder what has happened to you. But I promise…He will love it!
For women who are married, reading Lovestruck will re-ignite the passion in your marriage. The way Sharon Jaynes unpacks the Song of Solomon helps you remember all the yummy feels your husband gives you. You will focus on the fire again instead of the day to day survival that can easily douse the flames you once had for each other.
Warning! Your husband might wonder what has happened to you. But I promise…He will love it!
August 7, 2019
This book exceeded my expectations! I highly recommend Sharon Jayne's new book Lovestruck to women of all ages, married or soon to be. Sharon walks us through the Song of Solomon and shows us how God intended our marriages to be. This book guides us through the struggles with society's view on sexual intimacy and helps you see that it truly is a gift from God. Sharon offers great insight on how we, as wives, can be intentional in keeping our marriages healthy. Sharon uses the examples of little foxes to represent how Satan can use little things to work their way into our marriages and slowly tear them apart. "In most relationships it isn't the big problems that tear a couple apart but the daily deterioration from the little annoyances that chip away at the firm foundation and ruin intimacy." Dive into this book, and see where the Lord can work in and through your marriage. You won't regret it!
July 29, 2019
What a fantastic read!! It is just loaded with tiny jewels of information. Lovestruck is a new way of looking at Song of Solomon that I’ve never really thought about before. In our culture we shy away from talking openly about our relationship as man and wife. This book allows us to breathe a breath of fresh air all the while exclaiming at the top of our lungs how we as women can be and are starry eyed at the sight of the man of our dreams. I highly recommend that everyone who can get their hands on this book read it. Keep your eyes open all the time and watch out for those “little foxes.”
I received an advanced copy from the publisher. After reading, I chose to provide a positive review.
I received an advanced copy from the publisher. After reading, I chose to provide a positive review.
August 4, 2019
Lovestruck dives into a fresh perspective of the Songs of Solomon, regarding God's intention and purpose for lasting love & intimacy in your marriage.
This book spoke to my heart. So much of what Sharon wrote, I could relate to in my life. I felt challenged to look at our marriage with a refreshed light. I soaked in the reminders about the sparks we had at the beginning and the insights of working toward deeper intimacy despite the realities of our current life trying to pull focus elsewhere. Then there were the other true gems of wisdom about respect, forgiveness, body image and self-acceptance.
I’d recommend Lovestruck to every couple, new or experienced, who is wanting to work towards a refreshed and deeper connection of their love.
This book spoke to my heart. So much of what Sharon wrote, I could relate to in my life. I felt challenged to look at our marriage with a refreshed light. I soaked in the reminders about the sparks we had at the beginning and the insights of working toward deeper intimacy despite the realities of our current life trying to pull focus elsewhere. Then there were the other true gems of wisdom about respect, forgiveness, body image and self-acceptance.
I’d recommend Lovestruck to every couple, new or experienced, who is wanting to work towards a refreshed and deeper connection of their love.
August 6, 2019
Lovestruck by Sharon Jaynes is a must read for married women or women who desire to be married. Jaynes carefully lays out “God’s Design for Romance, Marriage & Sexual Intimacy from the Song of Solomon.” I was drawn to this book because I love everything that Sharon has written. She did not disappoint. While I have studied the Song of Solomon on numerous occasions, this book opened my eyes to an entirely new way to read this book of the Bible.From the very beginning Jaynes challenges the way our culture views sex. One of my favorite quotes from the book is, “The problem is not that our culture focuses on sex too much but that it values sex too little.” Each chapter challenged and encouraged me to be a better wife.
August 6, 2019
I have been married for 16 years. There have been ups and downs and I am always looking for an opportunity to grow as a wife. Lovestruck exceeded my expectations!! Not only does Sharon teach biblical truth from the Song of Solomon, but also includes scientific facts about the way our bodies work, history that will help you relate, and a modern day love story that will truly touch your heart. With each word and nugget of wisdom that I have read in this book I have fallen more in love with my husband. I highly encourage you not only to get yourself a copy but also to get a couple spares to share with friends. "The problem is not that our culture focuses on sex too much but that is values sex too little" ~ Sharon Jaynes, Lovestruck
August 20, 2019
This book should be read by every girl getting married and every woman already married! I’ve been married for 14 years and even though we’ve grown into a life that is comfortable, I have been inspired to keep my marriage a priority and to practice “a giving love that creates and sustains a romantic love.”
I love the way Sharon Jaynes breaks down the Book of Solomon, a poem and love song, highlighting the beautiful and powerful imagery, deciphering the “secret code” from the culture in which it was written, explaining what Solomon and the Shulamite Woman’s courting and marriage looked like. She’s written the book in an easy to understand way that I have never heard or read before.
Get the book and read it!
I love the way Sharon Jaynes breaks down the Book of Solomon, a poem and love song, highlighting the beautiful and powerful imagery, deciphering the “secret code” from the culture in which it was written, explaining what Solomon and the Shulamite Woman’s courting and marriage looked like. She’s written the book in an easy to understand way that I have never heard or read before.
Get the book and read it!
September 1, 2019
Lovestruck by Sharon Jaynes is a beautiful application of the Biblical guidelines found in the Song of Solomon for maintaining not just a fulfilling marriage but one that will keep you in love for a lifetime. Her in depth analysis of each verse and chapter enlightens the reader with a real life understanding of how Solomon’s wisdom can be applied to the modern day relationship between a husband and wife. Interwoven with personal connections to her own life and our contemporary culture that often overlooks or minimizes the value in an intimate marital relationship, Sharon Jayne’s book will have a positive and lasting impression on a wife that wants to truly love her husband well and who wishes to value her marriage as God ordained it.
July 31, 2019
As an Creative writing major, I loved this book as it broke down the Song of Solomon like the romantic poem it is. But more importantly, as a wife, and someone who loves Jesus, this book truly spoke to my heart. It goes in depth about what God envisions for our marriages, and even for our relationship with Him! Sharon breaks down, chapter by chapter, the story of a couple in love who marries, and goes through the seasons we all go through in a life of marriage. She reminds us what a gift our spouse can be to us, and what a gift we can be to our husbands. Another beautiful work from Sharon Jaynes.
August 3, 2019
I’ve been married for almost 11 years now. We have fallen into a comfortable life that I love. Reading Lovestruck brought me back to the earlier years and why I fell for my husband. Marriage doesn’t stop the falling and reading through Lovestruck and the Song if Solomon helps reinforce God’s plan for marriage. This book is great for any stage of marriage, even if it hasn’t happened yet. Sharon Jaynes always has a way of making me feel like I’m chatting over coffee with a friend. This is one of my favorites from her.
August 4, 2019
I’ve been married for almost 11 years now. We have fallen into a comfortable life that I love. Reading Lovestruck brought me back to the earlier years and why I fell for my husband. Marriage doesn’t stop the falling and reading through Lovestruck and the Song if Solomon helps reinforce God’s plan for marriage. This book is great for any stage of marriage, even if it hasn’t happened yet. Sharon Jaynes always has a way of making me feel like I’m chatting over coffee with a friend. This is one of my favorites from her.
review by RAYCHEL
review by RAYCHEL
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