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Dangled Carat
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How many faux engagements can one girl have?
Hilary learns the hard way more than you can imagine. She has no idea what to do. She's been dating perfect on paper, Marc, for years. He's everything she wants in a man except for one thing. He's beyond afraid of commitment! Tired of waiting for Marc to come to his senses, the couple's friends decide to take matters into their own hands and throw a surprise "engagement" party. Only problem is their meddling has unforeseen consequences...
In this real life chick lit story, Hilary Grossman digs deep as she explores the good, the bad, and the frustrating of dating. Dangled Carat is the perfect light hearted, funny, and relatable story for every girl who wondered if she should love him or dump him. Chick lit readers will be hooked!
How many faux engagements can one girl have?
Hilary learns the hard way more than you can imagine. She has no idea what to do. She's been dating perfect on paper, Marc, for years. He's everything she wants in a man except for one thing. He's beyond afraid of commitment! Tired of waiting for Marc to come to his senses, the couple's friends decide to take matters into their own hands and throw a surprise "engagement" party. Only problem is their meddling has unforeseen consequences...
In this real life chick lit story, Hilary Grossman digs deep as she explores the good, the bad, and the frustrating of dating. Dangled Carat is the perfect light hearted, funny, and relatable story for every girl who wondered if she should love him or dump him. Chick lit readers will be hooked!
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Hilary Grossman
21 books341 followersHilary Grossman is a recovering corporate executive. She spends her mornings and weekends hanging out with her "characters." She has an unhealthy addiction to denim and high heel shoes. She’s been known to walk into walls and fall up stairs. She only eats spicy foods and is obsessed with her cat, Lucy. She loves to find humor in everyday life. She likens life to a game of dodge ball - she tries to keep many balls in the air before they smack her in the face. She lives on the beach in Long Island.
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September 8, 2014
I don't know where to begin! I really enjoyed this book from beginning to end, I couldn't put it down!
So many questions that I have had in the past came up in this book! Is this relationship really going somewhere? My friends are telling me to run, what am I not seeing? The list could go on and on...
Hilary has been dating Marc, a man that is 13 years older than her and has been a anti-commitment from the beginning. He was always putting the breaks on. This took place for 4 years, and eventually her patience was wearing thin. I would have ran a lot sooner I am afraid.
There are so many signs telling her she's wasting her time, but I think the fact that her mother was able to wait for her father for 6 years gave her the stamina to stick through it.
There are so many twists and turns throughout their relationship which makes it exciting and fun!
Her friends even go as far as giving her a faux engagement party and I am surprised he didn't run at that very second!
This is such a fun read and I can't wait for you to see how it ends!
So many questions that I have had in the past came up in this book! Is this relationship really going somewhere? My friends are telling me to run, what am I not seeing? The list could go on and on...
Hilary has been dating Marc, a man that is 13 years older than her and has been a anti-commitment from the beginning. He was always putting the breaks on. This took place for 4 years, and eventually her patience was wearing thin. I would have ran a lot sooner I am afraid.
There are so many signs telling her she's wasting her time, but I think the fact that her mother was able to wait for her father for 6 years gave her the stamina to stick through it.
There are so many twists and turns throughout their relationship which makes it exciting and fun!
Her friends even go as far as giving her a faux engagement party and I am surprised he didn't run at that very second!
This is such a fun read and I can't wait for you to see how it ends!
January 12, 2014
I married a commitment-phobic man, so when I heard the premise of Author Hilary Grossman's book, Dangled Carat, I knew that this was a book that I HAD to read.
Many of you know Hilary as the author of the popular blog Feeling Beachie, where her keen sense of observation, as it relates to people and their idiosyncrasies, is conveyed (often with sarcasm and humor), on a daily basis. For the cat lovers that read both of our blogs, you probably came to know Hilary when she would write about her beloved cat, Alex, (who I was pleased to see was mentioned a number of times in the book), and now her current kitty, precious Lucy. Today I am pleased to introduce you to Hilary Grossman, AUTHOR (and a brilliant one at that!), of Dangled Carat, the first of what I am certain will be a succession of successful novels!
How I wish I had this book when I met my now husband! Hilary was spot on in her often hilarious, and sometimes heartbreaking, depiction of how a woman feels when dating (and WAITING!) for a commitment-phobic man to "see the light." For women who have dated and lost a commitment-phobic man, to those like myself who married one, you will commiserate with the pain, joy, frustration and wisdom that Hilary displayed throughout her relationship with Marc.
One of many things that I found to be fabulous about Dangled Carat, was even knowing Hilary, as I do through blogging, and KNOWING the final outcome, I found myself gasping at parts, saying "Ohhhh noooo" and cheering her on, (and yelling at Marc!), through every page. I found myself FORGETTING that I know her!
I would be remiss if I didn't mention the title again. It didn't click with me until I read the book, the title Dangled Carat is brilliant!
How many of you are familiar with the Carrot and Stick Approach? The Carrot and Stick Approach : "is an idiom that refers to a policy of offering a combination of rewards and punishment to induce behavior. It is named in reference to a cart driver dangling a carrot in front of a mule and holding a stick behind it. The mule would move towards the carrot because it wants the reward of food, while also moving away from the stick behind it, since it does not want the punishment of pain, thus drawing the cart."
I am by no means comparing Hilary to a MULE, but the clear message is that through Marc's obvious signals, gestures and behavior, he DID love Hilary, but enough to marry her?
Marc showed Hilary enough love and affection to make her remain in a relationship with him, but the obvious reward, marriage, remained out of reach, just like the elusive carrot of the mule. Hilary was in the "driver's seat" in the relationship, but often didn't realize that. Controlling a successful career was easy for her. Hilary endured heartbreaking traumas in her life that would have broken one with less internal strength, but she emerged victorious. Those battles in hindsight were EASY compared to what she was experiencing with Marc. While she wanted to remain in the relationship, and in her heart KNEW she would be married to Marc, she also considered moving away from it, wanting to escape the pain that she often felt would happen if she stayed, much like the mule pulling the cart.
In the Jewish religion there is a word and the word is Beshert which means "inevitable" or "preordained." It can apply to any happening which appears to bear the fingerprints of divine providence"
From Hilary and Marc's first meeting it was evident that this relationship was Beshert, it just took patience, intellect, emotional fortitude, listening to one's gut and the intervention of a VILLAGE! (Marc's friends/family) to have this 40-something commitment-phobe see the light!
Dangled Carat is a GEM!!!
Many of you know Hilary as the author of the popular blog Feeling Beachie, where her keen sense of observation, as it relates to people and their idiosyncrasies, is conveyed (often with sarcasm and humor), on a daily basis. For the cat lovers that read both of our blogs, you probably came to know Hilary when she would write about her beloved cat, Alex, (who I was pleased to see was mentioned a number of times in the book), and now her current kitty, precious Lucy. Today I am pleased to introduce you to Hilary Grossman, AUTHOR (and a brilliant one at that!), of Dangled Carat, the first of what I am certain will be a succession of successful novels!
How I wish I had this book when I met my now husband! Hilary was spot on in her often hilarious, and sometimes heartbreaking, depiction of how a woman feels when dating (and WAITING!) for a commitment-phobic man to "see the light." For women who have dated and lost a commitment-phobic man, to those like myself who married one, you will commiserate with the pain, joy, frustration and wisdom that Hilary displayed throughout her relationship with Marc.
One of many things that I found to be fabulous about Dangled Carat, was even knowing Hilary, as I do through blogging, and KNOWING the final outcome, I found myself gasping at parts, saying "Ohhhh noooo" and cheering her on, (and yelling at Marc!), through every page. I found myself FORGETTING that I know her!
I would be remiss if I didn't mention the title again. It didn't click with me until I read the book, the title Dangled Carat is brilliant!
How many of you are familiar with the Carrot and Stick Approach? The Carrot and Stick Approach : "is an idiom that refers to a policy of offering a combination of rewards and punishment to induce behavior. It is named in reference to a cart driver dangling a carrot in front of a mule and holding a stick behind it. The mule would move towards the carrot because it wants the reward of food, while also moving away from the stick behind it, since it does not want the punishment of pain, thus drawing the cart."
I am by no means comparing Hilary to a MULE, but the clear message is that through Marc's obvious signals, gestures and behavior, he DID love Hilary, but enough to marry her?
Marc showed Hilary enough love and affection to make her remain in a relationship with him, but the obvious reward, marriage, remained out of reach, just like the elusive carrot of the mule. Hilary was in the "driver's seat" in the relationship, but often didn't realize that. Controlling a successful career was easy for her. Hilary endured heartbreaking traumas in her life that would have broken one with less internal strength, but she emerged victorious. Those battles in hindsight were EASY compared to what she was experiencing with Marc. While she wanted to remain in the relationship, and in her heart KNEW she would be married to Marc, she also considered moving away from it, wanting to escape the pain that she often felt would happen if she stayed, much like the mule pulling the cart.
In the Jewish religion there is a word and the word is Beshert which means "inevitable" or "preordained." It can apply to any happening which appears to bear the fingerprints of divine providence"
From Hilary and Marc's first meeting it was evident that this relationship was Beshert, it just took patience, intellect, emotional fortitude, listening to one's gut and the intervention of a VILLAGE! (Marc's friends/family) to have this 40-something commitment-phobe see the light!
Dangled Carat is a GEM!!!
September 14, 2013
I am so happy that "Dangled Carat" is a reality!. I have been a blogger friend with Hilary Grossman for several years and have been cheering her on from afar as she as entered into the world of publishing her memoir. I had the great privilege of reading her book before it hit the shelves and am happy that is finally available to everyone.
A memoir can be a tricky thing to write but in this case it has been done with skill and style. The dialogue flows and the reader feels a part of each and every interaction. Situations that are written about on pages come to life in the reader's mind. The author definitely has a gift for bringing her words to life
Hilary Grossman has had quite a life and as a professional woman she is hugely successful and competent. In her book she relates how that was not always how she viewed herself. A diagnosis of scoliosis at age 11 found her wearing a back brace for 3 long years . She became withdrawn and quite often the object of teasing as is sometimes the case with someone who does not "fit in" with the ordinary crowd. As Hilary tells her story I could really understand the pain that she went through and her sense of insecurity. Her words were vivid and detailed and I felt like I was that 11 year old girl striving to fit in.
Perhaps the most difficult part of this book to read were the parts relating to her father and his early death. A girl needs her Daddy and Hilary was devastated by the loss of the man who loved her. It was perhaps this loss coupled with her fear of disappointment and rejection that fueled the insecurity within her.
Marc enters the scene and while at times I wanted to reach into my Kindle and choke him for his inability to commit to the woman who was obviously the best thing in his life I came to understand who he was and why Hilary was head over heels in love with him. While she felt she was undeserving of a relationship with Marc ultimately those insecurities were lessened because of Marc. My absolute favorite image from this book is Marc reassuring her when he says "You are smart, you are talented and you are beautiful." True words.
One of the things that I liked the most about this memoir is how all of the people in Hilary's life worked together to support this couple. Sometimes their ideas were perhaps a little unconventional but at the heart of their attempts was their devotion and love for both Hilary and Marc. This is one couple who is surrounded by loving family and friends. As I read this book I was struck time and time again by how well Hilary was able to convey these experiences.
I read this book quickly and loved seeing into the lives of these people. Hilary has captured her life and those who are a part of her life very skillfully and I am so thrilled to be able to tell you that this is one book that will stay on my Kindle and not be deleted.
A memoir can be a tricky thing to write but in this case it has been done with skill and style. The dialogue flows and the reader feels a part of each and every interaction. Situations that are written about on pages come to life in the reader's mind. The author definitely has a gift for bringing her words to life
Hilary Grossman has had quite a life and as a professional woman she is hugely successful and competent. In her book she relates how that was not always how she viewed herself. A diagnosis of scoliosis at age 11 found her wearing a back brace for 3 long years . She became withdrawn and quite often the object of teasing as is sometimes the case with someone who does not "fit in" with the ordinary crowd. As Hilary tells her story I could really understand the pain that she went through and her sense of insecurity. Her words were vivid and detailed and I felt like I was that 11 year old girl striving to fit in.
Perhaps the most difficult part of this book to read were the parts relating to her father and his early death. A girl needs her Daddy and Hilary was devastated by the loss of the man who loved her. It was perhaps this loss coupled with her fear of disappointment and rejection that fueled the insecurity within her.
Marc enters the scene and while at times I wanted to reach into my Kindle and choke him for his inability to commit to the woman who was obviously the best thing in his life I came to understand who he was and why Hilary was head over heels in love with him. While she felt she was undeserving of a relationship with Marc ultimately those insecurities were lessened because of Marc. My absolute favorite image from this book is Marc reassuring her when he says "You are smart, you are talented and you are beautiful." True words.
One of the things that I liked the most about this memoir is how all of the people in Hilary's life worked together to support this couple. Sometimes their ideas were perhaps a little unconventional but at the heart of their attempts was their devotion and love for both Hilary and Marc. This is one couple who is surrounded by loving family and friends. As I read this book I was struck time and time again by how well Hilary was able to convey these experiences.
I read this book quickly and loved seeing into the lives of these people. Hilary has captured her life and those who are a part of her life very skillfully and I am so thrilled to be able to tell you that this is one book that will stay on my Kindle and not be deleted.
September 15, 2013
Hilary Grossman is the author of the popular blog Feeling Beachie. She is also the CFO of a beverage company in New York. Now she has achieved another success, in writing her memoir, Dangled Carat.
In her heartfelt book, we see the young Hilary going through family situations and teenaged insecurities. We then see her grow into herself as a strong and successful woman. This brings us to the main story of Hilary's relationship with Marc, her husband.
Dangled Carat is a contemporary love story of an age-old problem. In her trademark humourous style, Hilary tells the story of Marc's "commitment phobia". She reveals how they overcame it together, with a little help from their friends. In fact, it seemed they were destined to be together, judging from the way they met.
Hilary shares the meeting and then the growing pains of their relationship. Marc is thirteen years Hilary's senior, and quite set in his ways. As they both became comfortable, there seemed no reason to change anything.
However, after four years, friends of the couple decide it is time for them to make it official. What starts as a joke, perhaps a prank on Marc, becomes serious. Hilary realizes she is ready for the next step in in life. She wants to marry Marc. Marc however, is not going to be forced into anything. Love was not the issue.
What follows is how Hilary turned Marc into a husband. Their story is one that I believe many can relate to, especially in today's world. Independence and self-reliance are common factors in our modern world, for both men and women. Yet, love can conquer even "commit phobia", as Hilary and Marc prove.
Dangled Carat is a charming memoir. It is filled with humour and lots of love.
In her heartfelt book, we see the young Hilary going through family situations and teenaged insecurities. We then see her grow into herself as a strong and successful woman. This brings us to the main story of Hilary's relationship with Marc, her husband.
Dangled Carat is a contemporary love story of an age-old problem. In her trademark humourous style, Hilary tells the story of Marc's "commitment phobia". She reveals how they overcame it together, with a little help from their friends. In fact, it seemed they were destined to be together, judging from the way they met.
Hilary shares the meeting and then the growing pains of their relationship. Marc is thirteen years Hilary's senior, and quite set in his ways. As they both became comfortable, there seemed no reason to change anything.
However, after four years, friends of the couple decide it is time for them to make it official. What starts as a joke, perhaps a prank on Marc, becomes serious. Hilary realizes she is ready for the next step in in life. She wants to marry Marc. Marc however, is not going to be forced into anything. Love was not the issue.
What follows is how Hilary turned Marc into a husband. Their story is one that I believe many can relate to, especially in today's world. Independence and self-reliance are common factors in our modern world, for both men and women. Yet, love can conquer even "commit phobia", as Hilary and Marc prove.
Dangled Carat is a charming memoir. It is filled with humour and lots of love.
September 14, 2013
I was lucky enough to receive an advance copy of this memoir. Writing isn't easy. And penning a memoir is much more difficult since the author has to relive memories from their past, especially painful ones. There's a fine balance between providing too much detail or too little. Grossman handles her story with skill and professionalism.
I found myself laughing a lot, getting emotional, and occasionally angry. Marc, the commitment-phobic man is just that. I can't say he refused to see what was right in front of him. Nor can I say that he was insensitive to the woman he loved. Marc had his own demons and I was cheering for him to conquer them just as much as I was cheering for Hilary. I really admired the balance in this memoir. Grossman could have easily made herself the good guy and Marc the bad. But she avoided this pitfall, adding to the believability, which is key to any memoir.
One of the best parts of this memoir is the inclusion of her friends and family. They are a cast of characters. Oftentimes I found them funny and had to smile since they reminded me so much of my own loved ones. Even if you haven't dated a commitment-phobic person I have a feeling you can relate to many parts of Grossman's story. Ultimately it's about the power of love and patience. All of us need that in our lives.
I found myself laughing a lot, getting emotional, and occasionally angry. Marc, the commitment-phobic man is just that. I can't say he refused to see what was right in front of him. Nor can I say that he was insensitive to the woman he loved. Marc had his own demons and I was cheering for him to conquer them just as much as I was cheering for Hilary. I really admired the balance in this memoir. Grossman could have easily made herself the good guy and Marc the bad. But she avoided this pitfall, adding to the believability, which is key to any memoir.
One of the best parts of this memoir is the inclusion of her friends and family. They are a cast of characters. Oftentimes I found them funny and had to smile since they reminded me so much of my own loved ones. Even if you haven't dated a commitment-phobic person I have a feeling you can relate to many parts of Grossman's story. Ultimately it's about the power of love and patience. All of us need that in our lives.
October 20, 2013
I was given a copy of this book by the author in return for an honest review.
Let me first begin by saying how much I admire the author for writing this story. As I read more and more, she said so many things that as a woman I have done myself (justified behaviour, talked myself out of or into things, etc.) that most of us wouldn't be willing to admit we do. We would like to say "No, I'm not putting up with that." but the truth is we all do at some point.
Throughout the book I could see that Mark genuinely cared about Hilary, and I could see why a lot of people told her to stop seeing him, but at the same time I think I would have done the same thing Hilary did- stick it out. Maybe not for that long but I would have tried to stick it out, especially if you really love the person.
I think this book asks a very good question: does the fact that someone doesn't want to get married, mean that they don't really love you? Because I think that is the conclusion we all jump to. But I don't think it means that at all, maybe they aren't ready or maybe they just never want to get married. And as long as both people are okay with the situation and circumstances then it is a healthy relationship in my books. But I understand the pressure you feel from everyone else, constantly feeling that you have to justify the situation because they aren't comfortable with it.
I admire the author for bringing all these points to light and sharing with us all.
Let me first begin by saying how much I admire the author for writing this story. As I read more and more, she said so many things that as a woman I have done myself (justified behaviour, talked myself out of or into things, etc.) that most of us wouldn't be willing to admit we do. We would like to say "No, I'm not putting up with that." but the truth is we all do at some point.
Throughout the book I could see that Mark genuinely cared about Hilary, and I could see why a lot of people told her to stop seeing him, but at the same time I think I would have done the same thing Hilary did- stick it out. Maybe not for that long but I would have tried to stick it out, especially if you really love the person.
I think this book asks a very good question: does the fact that someone doesn't want to get married, mean that they don't really love you? Because I think that is the conclusion we all jump to. But I don't think it means that at all, maybe they aren't ready or maybe they just never want to get married. And as long as both people are okay with the situation and circumstances then it is a healthy relationship in my books. But I understand the pressure you feel from everyone else, constantly feeling that you have to justify the situation because they aren't comfortable with it.
I admire the author for bringing all these points to light and sharing with us all.
August 30, 2014
The title speaks for itself: Dangled Carat: One girl's attempt to convert the ultimate commitment-phobic man into a doting husband with a lot of help from his family and friends, so I was expecting a straightforward account. Instead, I got a funny, honest, romantic journey. Glad I read this book and experienced Marc's and Hilary's growth both separately and together.
September 17, 2013
This heartfelt and at times funny, at times maddening memoir shows that there is hope at the end of the tunnel that can be a relationship with a commitment-phobe and that it doesn’t have to end in disaster. Sometimes, with an extra dose of patience and well-meaning friends, even the most commitment-phobic man can be turned into a toting husband. Hilary skillfully weaves the story of her relationship with Marc around events in her childhood, having to wear a back brace for three long years because of scoliosis and losing her father at the age of 14 because of a stroke, and how those events shaped the woman she became and the way she viewed herself. But even though Marc seemingly dragged his feet about marrying her, through-out their relationship he also helped Hilary grow and become more confident. It took him a while, that’s for sure but in the end, all’s well that ends well.
My belief has always been that when two people are in a committed, loving relationship you don’t try to change each other but instead, grow together and make compromises. After reading Hilary’s book, I know that she feels the same way. Well, I kinda knew before, having talked to her about it but her and Marc’s story confirmed it.
I so enjoyed reading the book and often found myself smiling and nodding along, or shaking my head and wiping away a tear here and there.
My belief has always been that when two people are in a committed, loving relationship you don’t try to change each other but instead, grow together and make compromises. After reading Hilary’s book, I know that she feels the same way. Well, I kinda knew before, having talked to her about it but her and Marc’s story confirmed it.
I so enjoyed reading the book and often found myself smiling and nodding along, or shaking my head and wiping away a tear here and there.
October 26, 2013
This is the true story of how one woman turned a commitment-phobic man into a loving husband (with a little help from friends and family). This is the story of Hilary and Marc.
I have to commend fellow blogger, Hilary Grossman, for her courageousness in writing this book. She opened her heart and let it flow into the pages of her story. Not many people would leave their emotions open to the world, but she did and she did it beautifully. You can feel the pain, joy, happiness, love and fear all rolled up in one relationship. Readers can’t help but feel the emotional rollercoaster ride she took on her journey to marriage.
She doesn't only talk about her relationship with Marc, but she also writes about losing her father at an early age and her relationship with her mother. She shares her life with the readers.
Dangled Carat is fast-paced. Once I started, I couldn’t stop. Hilary puts into words the fears and emotions many women go through. It’s easy to identify with her and feel everything she is going through as you flip through each page. It’s believable, realistic and well written. What an amazing job she did!
FTC Disclosure: The author provided me with a copy of this book to review. This did not influence my thoughts and opinions in any way. All opinions expressed are my own.
I have to commend fellow blogger, Hilary Grossman, for her courageousness in writing this book. She opened her heart and let it flow into the pages of her story. Not many people would leave their emotions open to the world, but she did and she did it beautifully. You can feel the pain, joy, happiness, love and fear all rolled up in one relationship. Readers can’t help but feel the emotional rollercoaster ride she took on her journey to marriage.
She doesn't only talk about her relationship with Marc, but she also writes about losing her father at an early age and her relationship with her mother. She shares her life with the readers.
Dangled Carat is fast-paced. Once I started, I couldn’t stop. Hilary puts into words the fears and emotions many women go through. It’s easy to identify with her and feel everything she is going through as you flip through each page. It’s believable, realistic and well written. What an amazing job she did!
FTC Disclosure: The author provided me with a copy of this book to review. This did not influence my thoughts and opinions in any way. All opinions expressed are my own.
September 21, 2014
If I didn't know this was a memoir as a opposed to a fictional account, I would have been on the edge of my seat the entire time wondering whether Hilary and Mark would ever get married. Mark, although clearly in love with Hilary, was the ultimate commitment phobe and Hilary...well Hilary had the patience of a nun and there were so many times I wanted to tell her to pack up her shit and move on because she deserved better. I guess this is because I've seen her story play out with much different results many times before and if my friends were going through what she did - her boyfriend constantly telling her to give him time, have patience, blah, blah, blah and as the years passed by, I don't know if I would encourage her to stick around. And if my friends got in my business the way their friends did, I'm not sure I'd be friends with them anymore. But, I have to give Hilary credit for truly trusting her gut and knowing that Mark really did just need time to trust. I cried several times during this book, especially during the 9/11 scene and when Hilary talked about the death of her father. It was a powerful read that goes to show that there are no steadfast rules in love or relationships and sometimes you just need to listen to your heart.
December 30, 2013
This is a true story with the author discussing the development of her relationship with her friend/lover/husband Marc in a very open manner. I found it an enlightening look into contemporary American relationships. Also, the book moves along quickly, and the writing is excellent.
*spoiler alert*
Frankly, I was totally fascinated by this story. I don’t understand why anyone would want to pursue a relationship with someone who appears to be unavailable. I would have smiled at Marc after that first dinner and moved right on. I also found the way that Hilary and Marc’s friends dived in and commented on their relationship during social occasions to be intrusive and rude. The so-called practical jokes where friends announced an engagement that didn’t exist in order to force Marc’s hand at the beginning, and the subsequent hiding of their engagement from Hilary’s mum at the end seemed heartless and cruel to me. Clearly I’d never make it in American society! Recommended.
*spoiler alert*
Frankly, I was totally fascinated by this story. I don’t understand why anyone would want to pursue a relationship with someone who appears to be unavailable. I would have smiled at Marc after that first dinner and moved right on. I also found the way that Hilary and Marc’s friends dived in and commented on their relationship during social occasions to be intrusive and rude. The so-called practical jokes where friends announced an engagement that didn’t exist in order to force Marc’s hand at the beginning, and the subsequent hiding of their engagement from Hilary’s mum at the end seemed heartless and cruel to me. Clearly I’d never make it in American society! Recommended.
January 11, 2016
WOW! Thank you Hilary! Thank you Marc!
I'm saying that because i was in a foreign country, alone for a day in a hotel room with nothing to do. Then i start reading your book and i couldn't put it down. i laughed, i cried and it felt as real as my best friend talking to me.
that's what i loved most about this book. the way it was written. jumping from subject to subject, remembering things and just telling them right then, just as in real life. as i said, just like you talk to your bff after not seeing each other for some time. :)
i felt really good that day. my husband was at a convention and i felt wonderful reading your beautiful story.
thank you for trusting marc and making my life easier. LOL
i'm sorry i don't have 10 stars to give this book. :)
i hope you'll love each other more everyday and we can't wait to hear the rest of your story. :)
THANK YOU!
I'm saying that because i was in a foreign country, alone for a day in a hotel room with nothing to do. Then i start reading your book and i couldn't put it down. i laughed, i cried and it felt as real as my best friend talking to me.
that's what i loved most about this book. the way it was written. jumping from subject to subject, remembering things and just telling them right then, just as in real life. as i said, just like you talk to your bff after not seeing each other for some time. :)
i felt really good that day. my husband was at a convention and i felt wonderful reading your beautiful story.
thank you for trusting marc and making my life easier. LOL
i'm sorry i don't have 10 stars to give this book. :)
i hope you'll love each other more everyday and we can't wait to hear the rest of your story. :)
THANK YOU!
October 26, 2013
I received a copy of this novel from the author in exchange for a review.
Hilary is dating the ultimate commitment-phobe, Marc. The story opens with a forced engagement by good friends of theirs that doesn't end well, and continues to tell their story as a couple through flashbacks. Every woman that has ever dated could easily relate to this book. All of the people mentioned in the story are incredibly likable, even when Marc is at his most standoffish regarding relationships it is easy to understand his perspective. The story is enjoyable, a very quick and satisfying read.
I would recommend this novel to anyone who enjoys a lighthearted memoir or a fun chicklit novel.
I will be heading to the author's blog, "feelingbeachie" to continue to read more from Hilary Grossman.
Hilary is dating the ultimate commitment-phobe, Marc. The story opens with a forced engagement by good friends of theirs that doesn't end well, and continues to tell their story as a couple through flashbacks. Every woman that has ever dated could easily relate to this book. All of the people mentioned in the story are incredibly likable, even when Marc is at his most standoffish regarding relationships it is easy to understand his perspective. The story is enjoyable, a very quick and satisfying read.
I would recommend this novel to anyone who enjoys a lighthearted memoir or a fun chicklit novel.
I will be heading to the author's blog, "feelingbeachie" to continue to read more from Hilary Grossman.
April 21, 2014
I loved this book. I was captivated from the very beginning, which says a lot for me. I am a lover of Romance Novels, and occasionally will be able to get into a paranormal type book, but rarely. Beginning this book, I did not know what to expect.
I was so pleasantly surprised when I looked down and realized I was already halfway through the book. It had my full attention from the very beginning, and I found myself rooting for Hilary to get her happily ever after!!!
I would very highly recommend this book for anyone who loves love. It was a fantastic story!!
I was so pleasantly surprised when I looked down and realized I was already halfway through the book. It had my full attention from the very beginning, and I found myself rooting for Hilary to get her happily ever after!!!
I would very highly recommend this book for anyone who loves love. It was a fantastic story!!
October 15, 2014
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I received a copy of Dangled Carat by Hilary Grossman in exchange for an honest review.
I thought this book was awesome! I thoroughly enjoyed the love story of Hilary and Marc. He was so frustrating sometimes, but could be forgiven for this because he was also so sweet. Hilary's insecurities would be relatable to many - which one of us is afraid of nothing? They had a great relationship except for the fact that Marc was commitment shy - in fact it seemed he was petrified. All the effort friends put into helping Marc to see how important Hilary was to him was remarkable, how could he not see it! I think most women would find this book relatable, for many of us have come across someone commitment-phobic at some time in life. Bravo!
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Hilary Grossman dated a guy so commitment-phobic that she was able to write a book about their relationship. She has an unhealthy addiction to denim and shoes. She loves to find humor in every day life. And she likens life to a game of dodgeball - she tries to keep many balls in the air before they smack her in the face. When she isn't writing or blogging she is the CFO of a beverage alcohol importer. She lives on Long Island.
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I received a copy of Dangled Carat by Hilary Grossman in exchange for an honest review.
I thought this book was awesome! I thoroughly enjoyed the love story of Hilary and Marc. He was so frustrating sometimes, but could be forgiven for this because he was also so sweet. Hilary's insecurities would be relatable to many - which one of us is afraid of nothing? They had a great relationship except for the fact that Marc was commitment shy - in fact it seemed he was petrified. All the effort friends put into helping Marc to see how important Hilary was to him was remarkable, how could he not see it! I think most women would find this book relatable, for many of us have come across someone commitment-phobic at some time in life. Bravo!
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Author Bio
Hilary Grossman dated a guy so commitment-phobic that she was able to write a book about their relationship. She has an unhealthy addiction to denim and shoes. She loves to find humor in every day life. And she likens life to a game of dodgeball - she tries to keep many balls in the air before they smack her in the face. When she isn't writing or blogging she is the CFO of a beverage alcohol importer. She lives on Long Island.
Author Links
blog = http://www.feelingbeachie.com
Facebook - author page = https://www.facebook.com/pages/Hilary...
Facebook blog page = https://www.facebook.com/pages/Feelin...
twitter = @feelingbeachie
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Amazon: amzn.to/1qjZQl2
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October 22, 2013
Note: This book was won on a giveaway featured on goodreads. All thoughts on the book are my own.
Rating: 4 stars
To be honest, before reading I was skeptical about this book. Thinking it would be another "WHY won't he PROPOSE?" sob story, I went into this book with some prejudice. But, the author was so charming and honest that the story did not come across as whiny at all.
Hilary Grossman's book was honest, funny, and at some points frustrating because you want to hit Marc (the significant other) with a rock to knock some sense into him. Most men might not enjoy or understand this book, but most women would probably really like it.
I really enjoyed this book and would definitely recommend it. My one criticism with the book is that it went back and forth in time quite a bit and it wasn't always immediately clear at what point of the relationship you were at.
Overall, it was a lovely book and I would like to read more from this author.
Rating: 4 stars
To be honest, before reading I was skeptical about this book. Thinking it would be another "WHY won't he PROPOSE?" sob story, I went into this book with some prejudice. But, the author was so charming and honest that the story did not come across as whiny at all.
Hilary Grossman's book was honest, funny, and at some points frustrating because you want to hit Marc (the significant other) with a rock to knock some sense into him. Most men might not enjoy or understand this book, but most women would probably really like it.
I really enjoyed this book and would definitely recommend it. My one criticism with the book is that it went back and forth in time quite a bit and it wasn't always immediately clear at what point of the relationship you were at.
Overall, it was a lovely book and I would like to read more from this author.
March 5, 2014
Dangling Carat is a true story based on Hilary's "grand adventure" getting Marc to marry her. First of all, I have to say, the writing was superb. It was like each line flowed perfectly into the next. Same with the paragraphs. One transitioned seamlessly into another. I felt on pins and needles most of the book waiting for Marc to freaking propose. And the ending was quite the surprise :)
Jaye was such a great supporting character. She really wanted the best for Hilary, even if it meant a life without Marc.
Marc's devotion to his family was also amazing. It's a rare quality to find in a man nowadays. Sadly. But each member of his family revealed a little more about Marc as a person. As well, his ability to make Hilary feel confident in herself was heart warming. Again, I've met so many men intimidated by my success. Marc wanted Hilary to succeed, and that is what a true relationship is all about.
Jaye was such a great supporting character. She really wanted the best for Hilary, even if it meant a life without Marc.
Marc's devotion to his family was also amazing. It's a rare quality to find in a man nowadays. Sadly. But each member of his family revealed a little more about Marc as a person. As well, his ability to make Hilary feel confident in herself was heart warming. Again, I've met so many men intimidated by my success. Marc wanted Hilary to succeed, and that is what a true relationship is all about.
March 18, 2014
This review was first published at M's Bookshelf - http://mssbookshelf.blogspot.be
I really enjoyed reading Hilary's story. The flashbacks give you a very clear idea of who Hilary was and has become, and how her relationship with Marc has evolved. All these anecdotes are so easy to relate to and you can't keep from respecting Hilary for her endless patience and trust. At times I got really upset with Marc and I almost felt like screaming at him for being so inconsiderate and stupid. But the beautiful thing about this story, is that Hilary really does do all she can to tell his side of things. You can feel her love for him in every page she's written about their story. Wonderful!
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I really enjoyed reading Hilary's story. The flashbacks give you a very clear idea of who Hilary was and has become, and how her relationship with Marc has evolved. All these anecdotes are so easy to relate to and you can't keep from respecting Hilary for her endless patience and trust. At times I got really upset with Marc and I almost felt like screaming at him for being so inconsiderate and stupid. But the beautiful thing about this story, is that Hilary really does do all she can to tell his side of things. You can feel her love for him in every page she's written about their story. Wonderful!
Check out M's Bookshelf for a Q&A with the wonderful Hilary!
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January 22, 2014
Hilary approached me to review her book "Dangled Carat" and I am very thankful that she did! This book is a breath of fresh air. The book is extremely well written and there are plenty of times when you want to both laugh and cry with Hilary! I wouldn't normally read memoirs/biographies/autobiographies but the fact that the book is a memoir, really adds that extra spark.
I think it's very difficult to write non-fiction the same way you would a chick lit / romance story. Hilary does this wonderfully and I was gripped right through to the end.
I definitely recommend this book to all chick lit / romance lovers. This is the story of a beautiful journey in Hilary's life.
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I think it's very difficult to write non-fiction the same way you would a chick lit / romance story. Hilary does this wonderfully and I was gripped right through to the end.
I definitely recommend this book to all chick lit / romance lovers. This is the story of a beautiful journey in Hilary's life.
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September 16, 2013
I was one of the lucky few to receive an advance ARC of this book and I couldn't put it down. Hilary's writing and descriptions where able to take me on her wild run through meeting and marrying a commitment phobic man. She showed that through love and patience and acceptance (to a point) is what Marc truly needed from her and to ensure both their happiness. Pick it up, you will not be disappointed.
January 24, 2014
I jumped into reading this book without realizing that it was a memoir. I was several chapters in before I realized the main character's name was Hilary and said, "Hey--wait a minute!" This book is well written and draws you right in. Your heart breaks along with Hilary's and you (well, at least I did) will want to slap some sense into this commitment-phobic man who can't see the gem he has in front of him. And because it is real-life, it is not predictable. A pleasant read that I recommend!
May 5, 2014
Inspired by May being Chick Lit Month, and all the sweet $.99 Kindle deals in honnor of the occassion, I purchased this little number. Cute cover, cute description, not so cute story. BORING! Even the *BIG THING* in the very beginning that was supposed to launch the whole rest of the story was lackluster. The main dame was dumb. The hunky guy seemed like a jerkface. I was not a fan.
*le sigh*
Life is too short to waste on bad books. Keep your $.99, and skip this one.
*le sigh*
Life is too short to waste on bad books. Keep your $.99, and skip this one.
August 6, 2016
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I haven't read many memoirs in my life, but I was pretty much looking forward to reading this one. I find the cover very eye catchy and totally appropriate for the content and must say Hilary is a hilarious, fun, kind lady (had the opportunity to meet her on twitter). So, when I was asked to review her book I was thrilled.
I really have no idea why I'm usually so hesitant about reading memoirs. It's maybe because they are real life stories and pretty much raw, sometimes with no HEAs. But I always find it very brave from the authors' side to share intimate moments from their lives, I really admire that.
On that note, I must admit Hilary Grossman is one brave woman for sharing her history and attempts to marry someone she loved very much. The title says pretty much about her journey and her numerous attempts to turn Marc into a loving husband unafraid to commit for a life time.
BUT this is not just Hilary and Marc's story, though pretty much of it is, but it's also a warm story about a girl, a very scared and insecure girl. Hilary won me over from the first page, and when I was reading about all the things that were happening in her life, the loss of her father, the hell she went through in school, I had teary eyes. There was one moment, so powerful and so emotional when she is talking about her dad, sharing a memory of him, that I literally couldn't restrain myself any longer. I burst into tears, thinking of my own father whom I almost lost 2 years ago. I empathized with her so much, my heart was literally breaking each time I'd read about the sad events in her life.
So, as you see, most of the book is the romance between Hilary and Marc, but the author also goes back and forth in time sharing some memories of her childhood too. I found these parts simply beautiful, well written and exceptionally emotional.
I admit, there were few times I wanted to give Hilary a good shake, because she was trying damn hard. But as much as I didn't go through what she was going in her love life, I could understand her. The romance part did remind me a bit of Carrie and Mr Big's story from Sex and The City, and there's even a reference to it. But the fact I love Sex and The City has nothing to do with me loving this book. It's just...you know, REAL! And it's brilliantly written, fun, funny yet tender and emotional.
Would I be reading more from Hilary Grossman? Oh yes, you bet! I do wonder what the next book would be about. Would it be another memoir, or a fiction? I'd sure love to see what kind of fictional worlds she would create. But I'm sure of one thing though, no matter what the next book is about, I know Hilary will put all her heart into it and deliver once again. 'Dangled Carat' is a fab chick lit memoir you'd want to check, no matter if you already got your Mr Right. Hope you enjoy!
February 7, 2016
For every girl who wondered if she should love him or dump him.....
For every girl who listened to her heart instead of her friends advice....
For every girl who l wondered if she was wasting her time dating that guy....
......meet Hilary....
She had gotten used to dating the commitment-phobic Marc, thirteen years her senior. They had a great relationship--why rush into things? She saw no need to pressure him for marriage, believing that when the time was right, he would propose. But after they had been together for four years, their friends decided to take matters into their own hands, pushing Marc to propose and making Hilary realize how much she really did want to marry the man that she loved. Unfortunately, Marc still wasn't ready--and their friends' meddling in the form of a faux engagement party led to a disastrous New Year's Eve that brought their relationship to an inevitable turning point.
Thank you to Samantha at CLP blog tours for letting me take part in this tour.
This book didn't exactly go the way I was expecting. From the first few lines of the Blurb I thought this might be an explosive on-off relationship where you weren't really sure why they were together. Did they even care about each other or were they just together because that's what was normal for them.
But that's not what happened here. Hilary and Mark really do care about each other. They have a really great relationship. They aren't always on and off. They have wonderful romantic nights together for no reason other than, just because.
OK yes he is a commitment-phobe but it was obvious from the beginning that they were meant to be. Now I don't know if it's my age or my circumstances but I don't see why everyone was pressuring him to marry her. They had been together 4 years. I know people that have been together a lot longer than that and they aren't married. Yes they love each other and they care about each other and one day I'm sure they will get married but for now the time is not right. I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years and our friends have started to do the same. Now I'm not saying I don't want to get married to him, because I do and if he asked me tomorrow I would say yes but we're happy as we are. When the time is right he will propose.
The characters are easy to relate to and easy to care about. Sometimes I did just want to knock Hilary and Marks heads together and tell them to ignore everyone else and just focus on their relationship. I'm glad she stuck with him and didn't just abandon a really good relationship over marriage.
I really liked Hilary's mum. She made me laugh a lot. Especially at the dinner she has with Hilary and Mark near the end of the book.
I have to say that I didn't realise until near the end that this book was a memoir. It is very well written and must have been difficult for Hilary to actually write. I'm not sure that I could do the same.
I really enjoyed this book, so much so that I couldn't put it down. I raced through and read it rather quickly. I would definitely recommend it to any romance lovers out there.
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October 15, 2014
4.5 stars
Did I enjoy this book: I really did enjoy Ms. Grossman’s memoir, Dangled Carat. It was a wonderful read that I think many women will relate to.
It’s an easy read that will hook you from the beginning. Although it is a memoir, it reads like chick lit. You will want to see if she can get Marc, the commitment-phobe, to marry her. As I was reading Dangled Carat, I felt as if I was sitting with Ms. Grossman, having a glass of wine, and gabbing with my friend, hearing her story.
There were a few times I just shook my and wondered what Hilary was thinking. Then there were moments that I was giddy and so happy. There were a few moments that I wanted to be there to comfort her. And there were a few moments that I was mad at Hilary and wanted to smack her. One moment in particular . . . but I’m not going to spoil it for you. (Hilary — you know what I’m referring to!!!) I liked everyone. I don’t want to call them characters because they aren’t. They are friends and family that went through this with Hilary. These friends seem like such a crew, caring and loyal. It was fun to “hang out” with them throughout Hilary and Marc’s story. I would love to meet Hilary, her mom, and Marc. I feel like I already know them just from reading this book. You will feel the same way after you read it as well.
Would I recommend it: Absolutely! I loved it.
Disclosure: I received a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
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Did I enjoy this book: I really did enjoy Ms. Grossman’s memoir, Dangled Carat. It was a wonderful read that I think many women will relate to.
It’s an easy read that will hook you from the beginning. Although it is a memoir, it reads like chick lit. You will want to see if she can get Marc, the commitment-phobe, to marry her. As I was reading Dangled Carat, I felt as if I was sitting with Ms. Grossman, having a glass of wine, and gabbing with my friend, hearing her story.
There were a few times I just shook my and wondered what Hilary was thinking. Then there were moments that I was giddy and so happy. There were a few moments that I wanted to be there to comfort her. And there were a few moments that I was mad at Hilary and wanted to smack her. One moment in particular . . . but I’m not going to spoil it for you. (Hilary — you know what I’m referring to!!!) I liked everyone. I don’t want to call them characters because they aren’t. They are friends and family that went through this with Hilary. These friends seem like such a crew, caring and loyal. It was fun to “hang out” with them throughout Hilary and Marc’s story. I would love to meet Hilary, her mom, and Marc. I feel like I already know them just from reading this book. You will feel the same way after you read it as well.
Would I recommend it: Absolutely! I loved it.
Disclosure: I received a copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.
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April 18, 2014
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It’s been a while since I read a memior, but I was so happy and excited when Hilary asked me to review her book, her personal story.
It takes a lot of courage to share your own story and big parts of your life with the whole world. I admire Hilary so much for sharing her story and writing a book about it.
This is such a lovely and wonderful story. I loved getting to know Hilary and her whole personality. I thought that she found a great way to get the reader into the story and dercribe her own emotions and feelings.
At moments I was really feeling with her and wanting to help her!
It was so great tob e taken on a journey of Hilary and Mark’s relationship, how it developed and with what both of them had to fight. Hilary was really patient and always believed in the good things.
I must admit I got annyoed with Mark from time to time and just wanted him to see the light and express his feelings.
Another thing I loved was all their family members and friends included in the story and how they all interacted with each other.
The scenes and dates between Hilary and Mark were really cute and described in such a believable and passiante way.
They story was always connected to their past as well and what childhood they had.
A true story, written with so much heart. Wonderful :)
It’s been a while since I read a memior, but I was so happy and excited when Hilary asked me to review her book, her personal story.
It takes a lot of courage to share your own story and big parts of your life with the whole world. I admire Hilary so much for sharing her story and writing a book about it.
This is such a lovely and wonderful story. I loved getting to know Hilary and her whole personality. I thought that she found a great way to get the reader into the story and dercribe her own emotions and feelings.
At moments I was really feeling with her and wanting to help her!
It was so great tob e taken on a journey of Hilary and Mark’s relationship, how it developed and with what both of them had to fight. Hilary was really patient and always believed in the good things.
I must admit I got annyoed with Mark from time to time and just wanted him to see the light and express his feelings.
Another thing I loved was all their family members and friends included in the story and how they all interacted with each other.
The scenes and dates between Hilary and Mark were really cute and described in such a believable and passiante way.
They story was always connected to their past as well and what childhood they had.
A true story, written with so much heart. Wonderful :)
June 27, 2014
Hilary wants to be engaged with her boyfriend, Marc on New Year’s Eve, but he is commitment-phobic and he wants things to go slowly, a very slowly. Hilary and Marc are in relationship about four years. Hilary doesn't know what to do, to stay with him and waits him to be prepared for commitment or to goes with her life without him. Marc loves her, but he is afraid and even if he was forty, he doesn't rush, he thinks that everything have a time to be done.
The book begins with that New Year’s Eve and then the author goes back in the pass and shows us how the things was and again back in present time. The content is written that intermittently shows us events in pass and present time. That is great because the reader could understand Marc’s behavior and Hilary’s endless patience.
It’s kind of hard to write review about nonfiction book and it’s harder about biography, so I will refrain to comment about the main characters. But I could tell you that I adore Hilary’s mother, she is so sincere with Hilary and so helpful.
The book is interesting because I have learned a lot of things about commitment-phobic people and how love could be a magic, I've learned about patience. The book is also calm and warm read and will catch you so easily.
The review is also posted on http://books-are-my-life-silvy.blogsp...
The book begins with that New Year’s Eve and then the author goes back in the pass and shows us how the things was and again back in present time. The content is written that intermittently shows us events in pass and present time. That is great because the reader could understand Marc’s behavior and Hilary’s endless patience.
It’s kind of hard to write review about nonfiction book and it’s harder about biography, so I will refrain to comment about the main characters. But I could tell you that I adore Hilary’s mother, she is so sincere with Hilary and so helpful.
The book is interesting because I have learned a lot of things about commitment-phobic people and how love could be a magic, I've learned about patience. The book is also calm and warm read and will catch you so easily.
The review is also posted on http://books-are-my-life-silvy.blogsp...
April 9, 2015
I would like to thank author Hilary Grossman for sending me a copy of this book in exchange for a fair and honest review.
I've not mentioned a cover in a while, but this is gorgeous, I love the ring. This book nearly became one of my slipped through the cracks books. I've had it in my TBR pile for a while and just never seemed to get time to read it. Still the ring kept glinting at me saying read me and I’m so glad that I did.
I was expecting a classic on/off relationship in this book, but it is far from that Marc and Hilary really do love each other but Marc really is a commitment-phobe, I cringed at the mistakes their friends made with the faux engagement and really did feel sorry for Hilary at times as it is clear how much she loves Marc. All Hilary’s family and friends pile the pressure on, except for Hilary herself, but I'm glad to say she did make Marc squirm at times. There are some wonderfully tender scenes between Marc and Hilary especially when they had nights in together just because they can do.
I was surprised to find this was actually based on Hilary’s own experience and how wonderfully open and honest she is about their relationship. I've got to say I wouldn't have had Hilary's patience but having got to know Hilary I'm sure Marc knows how wonderful she is. I also love Hilary’s mum had me laughing out loud.
I've not mentioned a cover in a while, but this is gorgeous, I love the ring. This book nearly became one of my slipped through the cracks books. I've had it in my TBR pile for a while and just never seemed to get time to read it. Still the ring kept glinting at me saying read me and I’m so glad that I did.
I was expecting a classic on/off relationship in this book, but it is far from that Marc and Hilary really do love each other but Marc really is a commitment-phobe, I cringed at the mistakes their friends made with the faux engagement and really did feel sorry for Hilary at times as it is clear how much she loves Marc. All Hilary’s family and friends pile the pressure on, except for Hilary herself, but I'm glad to say she did make Marc squirm at times. There are some wonderfully tender scenes between Marc and Hilary especially when they had nights in together just because they can do.
I was surprised to find this was actually based on Hilary’s own experience and how wonderfully open and honest she is about their relationship. I've got to say I wouldn't have had Hilary's patience but having got to know Hilary I'm sure Marc knows how wonderful she is. I also love Hilary’s mum had me laughing out loud.
August 19, 2020
I thought this book would be a light and funny Chick-lit when I picked it up as I didn't realise that it was a memoir. I was surprised by how much I enjoyed reading it, as it is a very different story to my own. I was married 6 months after meaning my husband over 20 years ago!
September 3, 2016
After I featured an excerpt of “Dangled Carat” as part of a Chick Lit Plus Blog Tour, I received an email from the author asking if I’d like to read and review this book. With my review schedule, I didn’t think I would be able to get a review out until May. However, it was a lazy weekend, so I decided to start “Dangled Carat”, even though I was reading two other books. Once I did, I literally could not put this book down, and was sad when I had to stop to go to dinner with friends that night. All I wanted to read was this book, wanting to see if Marc would finally propose.
The blurb hooked me right away. My fifth wedding anniversary is coming up, but I was with my husband for 6 years (YES, SIX) before he proposed, so I felt that I could relate to the main character, Hilary. It turns out that she and I are very similar. We both loved our men, they just wouldn’t put a ring on the finger, no matter how many times their friends nudged them about it.
There were some scenes where I cringed (the New Year’s Eve party especially), feeling sorry for Hilary, but she handled it like a pro, (I wouldn’t have). Hilary and Marc’s characters are very believable, and written very well. I liked that the author wrote scenes during their years together, making it nice to see how their relationship evolved over the years. The only thing that I thought this book was missing was more of Hilary and Marc together — I wanted to feel physical chemistry between them during the present time, because at times, I felt like they were just roommates, not lovers who have been together for so long.
If you’re looking to read an awesome book, one that you won’t want to put down, I highly recommend “Dangled Carat”! No matter what stage you’re at in your love life, you will truly enjoy this book!
I give this book 5 stars!
**Reviewer note: While “Dangled Carat” is a memoir, it doesn’t read like one, and you will not be disappointed!
The blurb hooked me right away. My fifth wedding anniversary is coming up, but I was with my husband for 6 years (YES, SIX) before he proposed, so I felt that I could relate to the main character, Hilary. It turns out that she and I are very similar. We both loved our men, they just wouldn’t put a ring on the finger, no matter how many times their friends nudged them about it.
There were some scenes where I cringed (the New Year’s Eve party especially), feeling sorry for Hilary, but she handled it like a pro, (I wouldn’t have). Hilary and Marc’s characters are very believable, and written very well. I liked that the author wrote scenes during their years together, making it nice to see how their relationship evolved over the years. The only thing that I thought this book was missing was more of Hilary and Marc together — I wanted to feel physical chemistry between them during the present time, because at times, I felt like they were just roommates, not lovers who have been together for so long.
If you’re looking to read an awesome book, one that you won’t want to put down, I highly recommend “Dangled Carat”! No matter what stage you’re at in your love life, you will truly enjoy this book!
I give this book 5 stars!
**Reviewer note: While “Dangled Carat” is a memoir, it doesn’t read like one, and you will not be disappointed!
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