Bang, Bang, I Read
“Don’t listen to anyone who tries to tell you who you should or should not bang.”
― Roosh V, Bang: The Pickup Bible That Helps You Get More Lays
First and foremost, I am not here to speak on this author’s politics, antics, and/or crimes, I know nothing of the man other than Bang and Day Bang which I have read. Secondly if it hadn’t been for women and the huge blowup sometime back I would have never bothered to look up this title, I went through a dating/self-help phase years ago but hadn’t read anything like this until as I say the controversy of yesteryear.
“The alpha male doesn’t make apologies for being a man who has sexual needs. He doesn’t hide his intentions with women, so they know how to provide him with what he wants. If a woman isn’t comfortable with sex, he moves on and finds one who is. He isn’t going to wait for a woman to serve his needs. He’s not concerned if a woman rejects him in the bedroom—if he doesn’t get it from her, he’ll get it from someone else. As a sexual being, he expects women to be sexual as well. The alpha male lives in his own reality.”
― Roosh V, Bang: The Pickup Bible That Helps You Get More Lays
My first thoughts on Bang are that it’s a bit grimier and grittier than other titles I’ve read, which were either written by women or written in the context of what women SHOULD want. From my own personal experience seems to me women like guys like Roosh V but they want the flowery words to go with it. This book is way more primal in nature, I find the truth can be a terrifying aspect and the fact that this author makes no apologies for what he’s going to say is refreshing; we’re never closer to life than when we’re facing death and this book… yeah you’re playing with fire.
“My success depends entirely on me and what I make of my environment, not on god, c* blockers, society, or culture.”
― Roosh V, Bang: The Pickup Bible That Helps You Get More Lays
At the core of this title there is confidence, it might come out as bragging, or “the game” but it all comes back to embracing a man’s primal nature with a few tricks along the way; and attempt at a cheat sheet for understanding women. I can’t say I have much experience at that but don’t take me for one that would sit at the feet of some would be master, instead I’m reminded of being in high school listening to some jock talk about all the girls he’s getting. That being said I didn’t turn my back on the guy, I listened and I do believe there is some knowledge to be gleaned from the madness.
“We don’t tell her we want to bang her, but we don’t hide it either. Our intent is strong in our heads, vague in our words, and assertive through our actions, a balance that is only mastered with experience.”
― Roosh V, Bang: The Pickup Bible That Helps You Get More Lays
People can say what they like about Roosh V but Trump says a million times worse daily and some women want to make him president; Roosh V acknowledging that men want to have sex come on. I’ve heard the words “pessimistic view” but this is no different than women reading tons of magazines on how to get a man and then feeling bad afterwards.
“As you’re walking, driving, or subwaying to the date, remind yourself that your goal is to have sex with the girl. It’s not to impress her with your amazing qualities, wow her with conversation, induce hysterical laughter, or to make out with her—it’s to bang her.”
― Roosh V, Bang: The Pickup Bible That Helps You Get More Lays
Now if you ask me why I think the author wrote this as I said I know nothing of the guy and if he has sold and influenced as many men as feminists claim then he might say "I just need to pay the mortgage." Thank You For Smoking – because women target him, target his followers, did I mention I read this strictly from the view of an artist. Speaking of art there are books that actually deal with subjects like the evils of sex, drugs, rape and trust me no book has caused more death and destruction than any book that is considered “holy”.
“I have no sympathy for a man who can’t put himself through uncomfortable situations to get what he truly wants.”
― Roosh V, Bang: The Pickup Bible That Helps You Get More Lays
What I took from this title is nothing I haven’t heard before… confidence, you got to have confidence, my lack of game because I rarely lie to women, and a true discovery that was more Amazon recommendation than Bang. I’ve been on both sides of the spectrum when it comes to women, I tried being the nice guy, the beautiful flowery words and I nearly got “fired” for being a creep on the other side I’ve been bold and aggressive as this author suggests and let me say that seems to work a better. I can’t fault someone who’s methods work in the field and that alone makes up for the price these books can run.
“She’s not going to invite you upstairs like in the movies. She’s not going to tell you she wants to have sex with you. She’s not going to grab your (member) and put it in. You must always be making the first move and always be pushing. If you’re scared she’ll think of you as a creep, that means you’re on the right path.”
― Roosh V, Bang: The Pickup Bible That Helps You Get More Lays
Books like Fifty Shades of Grey which has sold millions upon millions of copies has been called an akin to rape, I eagerly seek out darker and darker erotica and I don’t see the hatred and madness for those titles as Roosh V is receiving. Some will argue those are works of fiction, what about the Bible; not calling that a work of fiction but couldn’t Bang be taken with a grain of salt, nobody is saying you have to practice what he preaches. You want me to say something bad about this book, much like this review it might come off as a rant, a man that is tired, changed his mind set, started doing what he wanted and now is bragging to anybody who will listen.
“A guy who wishes to avoid rejection often has the most pride.”
― Roosh V, Bang: The Pickup Bible That Helps You Get More Lays
There are much better works, better written, and more easily understood but with the same message, have confidence, go for yours, you’ve been trying one way to get women here is alternative strategy. Roosh V is not the Marquis de Sade, he’s just a man who found infamy and as I say again I don’t know what he does outside of his work but in the confines of this book I see nothing truly wrong.
“If You Don’t Feel Like A Creep, You’re Not Pushing Hard Enough”
― Roosh V, Bang: The Pickup Bible That Helps You Get More Lays
When I first bought this book I don’t know what I was expecting, some step by step manual, I have yet to read one of those, some journal, or rapist manifesto, instead it’s just another dating helper, not an original premise but dirtier without the niceties of other books. Maybe this biggest concern is how this book makes women feel and we all know in this day and age that is a big no, no we are always supposed to be concerned with feelings and emotions.
“Never tell a girl that she is beautiful or hot, because that increases her value relative to yours—unless you happen to be more handsome than she is beautiful. Not complimenting will help because you’re withholding a reward that all women want, one they’ll stick around to hear.”
― Roosh V, Bang: The Pickup Bible That Helps You Get More Lays
Would I read this book again… hell yeah; just seeing the stuff that I have apparently forgotten a refresher course, things like;
“Don’t have a standing date where you go to the same club every Saturday. Don’t see her more than twice a week. Don’t talk on the phone every day. Don’t let conversations fall into a “So what did you do today?” pattern where you talk like old school chums instead of lovers. Choose silence instead of banal conversation.”
― Roosh V, Bang: The Pickup Bible That Helps You Get More Lays
How is that bad advice, I do that now with two women unfortunately, how’s your day, texting nearly most days just because.
“The first question an interested girl will ask is, “What’s your name?” Give a straight answer and ask for her name in return. I never ask a girl for her name first, because then I’d lose an opportunity to gain information about how she feels about me. (If she talks to you for one hour and doesn’t ask you for your name, that means she’s just using you to entertain herself.)”
― Roosh V, Bang: The Pickup Bible That Helps You Get More Lays
Most days I go about feeling like the gay best friend because that’s just what happens, I’m the shoulder to cry on, the devil’s advocate, the clown; as you can tell the author’s words do strike a chord with me.
“Ok five reasons men are scum and women let us get away with it. One, we only want one thing. No exceptions. Two, we fall in love with you before we can have that thing and then fall back out once we've had it, whereas women conversely fall in love afterwards. Three, we will lie, cheat, steal, or murder in order to get that thing... Why am I sugarcoating this? You're a big girl. In order to do you. Four, we freely admit the number is one through three, and women don't care. And the number five reason why men are scum and women let us get away with it, you can't live without us.” Dead Like Me Season 2 / Episode 10: - Death Defying
In closing for someone like me and seeing how this books price and controversy have not stopped sells, must be plenty of losers and people jonesing for fight. This book might not make you a better man but it will make you feel like one for a while and if you’re woman who considers herself right 24/7 and 365 well… good luck. A work not for the timid and should be taken as a man simply talking but what can the voice of one man do, what has it done?
“When you get rejected by a girl, there’s only one thought that should be in your head: “It’s her loss.” Even if you said the lamest stuff in the world or accidentally spilled your drink on her, it’s still her loss. If you tripped in front of her and she laughed at you, it’s her loss.”
― Roosh V, Bang: The Pickup Bible That Helps You Get More Lays
If you have stuck with me this far and you’re really looking for something, try “The Manual: What Women Want and How to Give It to Them” by W. Anton, that book changed my life and I owe it all to looking up Bang and Amazon’s recommendations. Bang is a decent title though but don’t believe the hype in either direction, see it for yourself.