When "I Do" Becomes "I Don't": Practical Steps for Healing During Separation & Divorce

by Laura Petherbridge

When Laura Petherbridge realized her marriage was ending, she asked the gut-wrenching question, "What do I do now?" Now Laura offers practical answers about divorce that she has found through her own experience and through two decades of caring for those grieving the loss of a marriage. In the midst of pain and confusion, you might also be asking questions such as How do I find where I belong when I no longer know my identity? If my spouse asks for forgiveness, should I go back? If I get an attorney, will my spouse think I'm giving up on our marriage forever? How do I figure out a budget on my own? What should I do when others criticize my ex-spouse in front of my kids? How do I reenter the workplace after years of staying home? How will I know when it's a good time to date again? Does God still care about me? Will I ever be happy again? With straightforward, sensitive answers to these questions and others, Petherbridge offers real-life help, spiritual insights, and new hope for the future.

Includes reflection and discussion questions after each chapter and guidelines for those who love someone who is getting a divorce.

256 pages, Paperback

First published July 1, 2008

Reviews

[Pauline Plissner · Rating 5 out of 5]

A book to help people deal with unwanted separation and divorce. It is especially helpful when you have young or teen children. I found it insightful.

[Beth Rhodes · Rating 4 out of 5]

Unfortunately neccessary, but extremely helpful, especially during those dark times.

[Frans Kempe · Rating 4 out of 5]

A book that by answering different questions on very important topics related to divorce and separation brings up many needed steps to take towards healing.

[Johnnie Alexander · Rating 5 out of 5]

Practical, Biblically-based advice with deep and personal prayers. I highly recommend it to anyone who is going through a divorce or who loves someone who is going through a divorce.