Drawing on the theories of transactional analysis, a veterinarian explains why pets manipulate their owners and why owners allow such behavior and analyzes several common scenarios of owner manipulation by pets
New tricks: to be honest I don’t mind being manipulated by Will, a five-year-old retired racing greyhound, as long as it’s not doing actual harm to him or others. He has his ways and uses, and a diurnal clock with a flexible Google calendar that means he starts grumbling for a walk and his tea from around 3pm on, and has ideas about which walk and what he fancies to eat. It doesn’t mean I always agree, and we often have arguments, but if I pull rank he usually falls in with what I want and appears unresentful. My mother passed this book on to me - she is of a sterner generation and may be worried I am coddling the dog. But I do resist his blandishments when it comes to too much food: “there’s no call for fat greyhounds!”
Bruce Fogle was a celebrity vet before that was a thing (also husband of TV’s Julia Foster and father of TV’s Ben) and his 1980s book of anecdotes - for it is that rather than a serious psychological treatise or a pet care manual - is very much the sort of thing they’d have gone for on the chat show circuit in those days. I can picture him now on the sofa with Mavis Nicholson or popping in to Pebble Mill At One.
It’s mildly diverting, occasionally illuminating, and slightly dated - wasn’t Training Dogs The Woodhouse Way later discredited in the manner of Dr Spock with children? Anyhow he seems slightly more keen on thwacking animals with a rolled up newspaper than would now be considered acceptable. But animal stories are still big sellers and - Instagram cats aside - this hasn’t changed down the years. A good book to buy secondhand from a charity shop, preferably the Blue Cross or PDSA.