The title, of course, speaks of escape. But, in this case, escape means more than getting out of a relationship or away from a city. It also means escaping rules, expectations, and the confines of the self.
If you get sucked into a drone adult life, you create pathways which are harder to deviate from, and you become more homogenized, less like yourself. Therefore, fitting into the incessant monotonous routine of societal expectations is not just an act of assimilation, but one of eventual dissolution. That's why "stolen time" is the best time, because it's all yours. As the author reminds us: "The clock is a warning, a harvester of wasted days."
So, it's not just expanded freedom of the self to go places and do or say things, but also liberation from the self, the body, and the mind. The concepts of masking your true self for others, and blurring who you really are (even to yourself), are key themes. We are compressed by these forces, both from without and within. Yet, even though we are so tightly fitted, we still require being emotionally propped up. What seems like interdependence ends up a lot more like hobbling.
The author asks the intriguing question of whether we can be damaged by being seen. We think we see in the same way, but we don't. That which clings to us, also betrays where we've been. Some can see the struggle, the inner self straining to take flight. The main character tries to hide it, but:
"I live inside myself like in a moving train.
A train, from which someone jumped while it was moving."
The author uses symbolism to describe the claustrophobic shape-shifting nature of relationships. A marriage can quickly move from dynamic and spontaneous to one person being relegated to "cooking, cleaning, laundry, weeping." Suddenly, there's no space for one's thoughts, always intruded upon by an incessant clanging bell of need and attention.
The main character is drawn to true north, as if she has an internal compass which drives her, and compels her to expand all her boundaries and finally make space for herself, on terms of her choosing.