4.5 rounded up
I was reading a 1-star review of this book and the main complaint was that there’s a lot of references to vomit and he didn't understand what the author was trying to say. Now, this was one white man’s opinion and he is definitely entitled to it (if anything, the world has reinforced this entitlement his entire life). But, it’s hard not to take his review personally. I mean, his one-line deduction of "Nightmare" as a story about a woman who “imagines” getting raped is pretty abhorrent. But, I'm getting ahead of myself. Let me share why I thoroughly enjoyed this collection (as well as an angry Asian woman rant below).
Flowers of Mold, a collection of short stories by Ha Seong Nan, is deeply unsettling as it explores the darkest depths of our human mind. These short stories were first published in 1999 in South Korea and translated into English in 2019. And while you can definitely find evidence of that time period when reading this, the themes of gender and economic inequality, mental illness, and prejudice still feel ever so relevant, unfortunately.
Dark and bleak, there is an undertone of terror in each story with vivid descriptions of the unsavory to ensure that you feel uncomfortable. But to read this is to take a glimpse into a part of the Korean identity that is difficult to face. A part where sexual assault is never believed. A part where mental illness is never acknowledged. A part where trauma is never discussed. A part where shame is deeply rooted in anything that is seen as outside of the norm. Ha’s writing, deliberate and even insidious, has a way of entangling you into the ugly places of the Korean identity. The places that are immoral, and eerily familiar. The places where our deepest desires and darkest thoughts manifest. The places that induce mania, obsession, and bigotry. The places I don't agree with but know exist in Korean culture. It's ugly but it's real and I think Ha brings these issues to light in the most eerie way.
Now I don’t expect everyone to enjoy this type of writing. But, what bothered me about the 1-star review is the immediate berating of a book without bothering to try to understand the cultural nuances that were missed. Instead of bashing a book about the presence of vomit and leaving comments about how much you hated it and how you would never want to visit South Korea because of it (because one book equals an entire country, right?), how about you step back, read the room (see: privileged, white man reviewing a translated work written by a woman of color set in a country he has zero background in) and try to write a critical, but respectful review? We do not need to like everything we read. In fact, we should definitely voice our opinions when we don't. But, I do think we should be respectful of the time and effort writers put into their work (as long as it's not harmful), regardless if we enjoyed it or not. And 1-star reviews by white people who do not understand the nuances of a culture they have no knowledge/experience/authority of are not only irresponsible but extremely harmful. These stories do not have to fit into a white narrative for them to be deemed worthy. And if you didn't know, these types of reviews say so much more about the type of person you are (ignorant, privileged, entitled, etc.) than it does about the actual work you're reviewing. So, please step back, read the room, and listen. You might learn something.
CW: suicidal ideation, murder ideation, murder, rape, sexual assault, transphobia, misogyny, violence.