Writing: 4/5
Knowledge Gained: 3/5
Enjoyment: 3/5
The author writes about otaku culture in Japan. Much of it was bland, and it was a bit outdated, I think published around 2019, but most of his field work were done before 2009. Much has changed in the landscape, since the icon in akihabara has closed, and most often in city planning, the real estate value increases, the sub-culture will shift further away from the city center.
There is one good point the author points out, namely there are maid cafes, and hostess bars (where you can be lewd with the women but no sex, heavy flirtation and light fondling) And I agree after thinking about it.
Those that go to hostess bars:
-go together with other men (usually coworkers or clients) as a group, and chill and hang out, using the hostesses as a side chat, but the main focus is on the men. they do not come alone, nor to seek out a specific woman there, they understand the women working the hostess bar is a merchandise which is rented for the moment.
-they treat the bar and the hostesses as an item, fun to play, be lewd sometimes, but that's that, no hard feelings and forget about it once they leave the store.
-hostesses women will "look up" to their clients, and accept them as true men.
-clients are still in the "real world", the bar is a temporary resting place, but not an escape, after the bar, they will continue to face reality.
-clients' end goal is reproductive success with the opposite sex and raise a family.
-talks about real life - work, love, goals, and dreams.
-hostesses pumps up and encourages the male ego
Maid cafe regulars are:
-regarded as irregular men, a failure in society, even by the maids
-use maid cafes as an escape from reality.
-usually goes alone
-tries to bond with the maid
-very civil with the maid, the maids are untouched and unblemised, even if they have boyfriends after work
-clients' end goal is not reproduction, but the continuation of the status quo, living in delusion
-avoid talking about real life - work, love, goals - maybe talks about dreams.
-tempers the male ego