When you discover that your partner has cheated on you, shock waves reverberate through your heart. Everything dear about your significant other has been transformed from that which is familiar, comforting, and safe into a treacherous, untrustworthy stranger. If you've been cheated on, no matter how it is revealed or how it is done, where, when, or with whom, the painful fact is that cheating means you've been lied to, manipulated, and your trust has been betrayed. It is in these moments, after the betrayal is discovered, that the time for help is needed the most. When It All Breaks Bad, is born out of the collective insight, discernment, and experience of betrayed partners who have walked through the fire and come out the other side. Each of the chapters in this book outlines one thing you should do and some of the pitfalls you should avoid as you begin your first steps towards restoration and healing.
The author is a business person, not a healer. This book has no depth of understanding and lacks practical guidance. The information included within would be better suited for a superficial blog post and was obviously not researched well or very deeply at all. This feels like a money grab aimed at vulnerable and struggling people.
As a counselor I found this book to be something I’d give to my clients. It is an easy read and right in the beginning there’s a list of resources to point a betrayer partner too.
Bought it because it got good reviews and figured it's got to be at least be decent but I am not sure I read the same book at the people who said this helped them. Vapid and condescending are the 2 words that come to mind when I think about what I jus read. I've seen pamphlets more insightful and compassionate.