I'm trying really hard to get through everything related to The Brady Bunch. I finished the original series about two weeks ago, and as I continue to wade through the murks of the Bradyverse, I figured this book would be a nice addition to my trek. I went in with a similar mindset that I did with Chain Saw Confidential, in that it would be a thorough exploration of the show's production, behind the scenes tidbits, and an examination of the show's enduring legacy. And that IS what The Way We All Became The Brady Bunch provides, albeit in a less organized and slightly less interesting way than Chain Saw Confidential.
I think a bit of what held TWWABTBB back for me was that I had already done a decent amount of research on The Brady Bunch. And I feel like this book is marketed towards ride or die The Brady Bunch fans, fans who would already know a lot of the "revelations" Kimberly Potts talks about here. So certain bits of the book definitely left me feeling like I could skip forward a bit (though I didn't).
My biggest beef with this book is the organization of it. There are twelve chapters in total. And while the first six or seven chapters all feel somewhat distinct (the history of Sherwood Schwartz, the pre-production of the show, how the show came to a messy conclusion, and an entire chapter devoted to the enigmatic Robert Reed), the final few chapters really dropped the ball for me. Potts goes on irreverent tangents to get points across that could've been displayed much more simply, and the contents of each chapter really start to blend in with each other. The book goes on an intensive tangent about Brady Bunch parodies, some of which were more interesting to hear about than others. Did I need to know the history of Brady Bunch parodies in Family Guy? No. Ignoring the fact that I love Family Guy enough already to KNOW said history, I can't imagine that tangent would be very interesting to people who don't know anything about Family Guy. In-depth comparisons to Full House? Again, how is that engaging or particularly relevant to readers that aren't familiar with that show? (By the way, Kimberly Potts forgot a direct reference that Full House made to The Brady Bunch in season 5, episode 5, "The King and I," where Uncle Jesse subconsciously begins to play the theme to The Brady Bunch in an attempt to write a hit song. That was the one reference I was expecting to hear about the most during the little section about Full House.) And the worst moment of the book was when the writing circled back around to the introductory chapter, wherein the plot of an episode of The X-Files that featured many elements of The Brady Bunch was strenuously explained. I know nothing about The X-Files, let alone this episode, and yet the book felt the need to tell me everything that happened in this one particular episode in detail. I couldn't stand it, if I'm being honest. I also couldn't stand the story about Tom Brady's Brady Bunch parody special from 2001. I didn't know it existed, and I didn't need to know. I had more fun hearing about the Brady Bunch porn trilogy. But while I'm on the topic, the reason I was okay with learning about the Brady Bunch porn parody was because it was a direct byproduct of The Brady Bunch, and is another incredibly odd addition to the multi-faceted legacy of the show. Those are the types of quirks I wish this book examined more, not so much its impact on unrelated media like Family Guy or The X-Files.
When it comes to books that examine movies and shows in such a fashion, I prefer the approach that Gunnar Hansen took with Chain Saw Confidential, wherein after a chronological study of the media in question, each chapter will approach a specific, important aspect of the media's production or legacy that helped shape our perception of it today. I feel like TWWABTBB failed to explore the show in that way towards the end, despite how decently it was doing until that point.
I also think that Potts does tend to indulge a bit too much in the fandom, and spends too much time throughout the book praising the impact of the show when perhaps the book should've stepped back and observed it through a more objective lens. And I understand that there's a lot of love for the show in this book, and that that comes through in the voice of Potts, but I felt like the lots of fluffy diatribes the book shared, nostalgic indulgences about watching it after school or the domestic quirks of getting to watch, getting to relate to the family on the show were unnecessary. And I feel like it's odd to be reading this book in 2022, where the impact of The Brady Bunch seems to be getting smaller all the time. Or perhaps I'm just not looking in the right places.
Now, with those criticisms out of the way, I still like TWWABTBB. It was a fun, comprehensive look at the franchise the show spawned. My biggest regret in reading it is that I think I read it too soon, which is my fault. I didn't expect the book to be so thorough in exploring the spinoffs like the Variety Hour or A Very Brady Christmas. And I haven't even gotten to those yet. What I mean by all of this is that you can tell, as I've said above, that Potts has a lot of love and reverence for The Brady Bunch. And that's good, because I'd rather have no one else write this book. I don't want to hear a WORD from any of the Brady castmates. I don't trust any of the actors from the show after reading this book, besides maybe Christopher Knight and Mike Lookinland. But otherwise, everyone on the cast seems overdramatic and perhaps a bit selfish. So I'm glad that an observer chose to take on this examination of The Brady Bunch instead. While it seemed like Gunnar Hansen had a bit of an inflated ego, I still trusted his words in Chain Saw Confidential. I felt he was a more reliable character than someone like Barry Williams or Maureen McCormick, both of whom seem to have a weird, problematic history with their Brady legacies. And I appreciate that this book didn't glorify them, either. It seemed pretty objective with how it portrayed them as people.
My favorite section of TWWABTBB was definitely the chapter on Robert Reed. Not only was he an excellent actor, but a VERY interesting and enigmatic person behind the scenes. A little bit of research will tell you a few things:
1. He HATED making and being in The Brady Bunch.
2. He feuded with Sherwood Schwartz over a lot of plot ideas over the series' run, resulting in him being fired just before the series' cancellation.
3. He was a closeted homosexual.
These pieces leave nothing but more questions though. Why did he even participate in the show if he hated it so much? Did he hate his castmates, too? How did his repressed sexuality translate with his behavior, if at all? Why did he return for the spinoff? And what I love so much about this chapter is how Potts aimed to answer these questions. I feel like I know so much about Robert Reed and his time on the set that my viewing of Mike Brady is changed forever. By all accounts, he was a good man. The internet will tell you that he was a "drunken diva," or that he constantly warring with his Brady legacy until his death. But really, he loves his castmates. They were all very close, and he especially loved his on-screen children. I absolutely loved hearing about the trips the cast took together, and how Robert gifted them with cameras, how that inspired Mike Lookinland to get into camerawork. That was all very heartwarming and wholesome information. But to learn about just how much he hated the SHOW was just as interesting. And I think that, even though he would constantly nitpick and war over the stupidest things in the writing, it was a testament that he stuck around all five seasons until the show's creator had simply had enough of him. And how he came back for two TV movies and a spinoff. A part of him really did like The Brady Bunch, it seems. But like other things in his life, he set it aside and wore a mask instead. I enjoy learning about all the cast, but I think Robert Reed above all is a source of just how odd the construction of the Brady Bunch franchise really was.
Overall, The Way We All Became The Brady Bunch is a fun dive into this odd sitcom franchise that holds so much depth underneath the surface of the mothership show. Though I dislike how often the book goes off-topic, then tries to justify the ways it went off-topic, and is perhaps a bit too "close to the case," so to speak, this book is a comprehensive must-read for fans of The Brady Bunch, new or old.