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In the Middle of the Mess Video Study: Strength for This Beautiful, Broken Life
The trials we face can seem overwhelming, and at times we may wonder if our mess is “too big” for God. Sheila Walsh knows this feeling all too well—and the shame that results from it. In this six-session video study, she shows how using spiritual disciplines such as confession, prayer, and meditation on Scripture helped her break free from the cycle of despair and experience newfound joy in Christ. She reveals that while we will never be completely “fixed” on earth, God’s power can be made perfect in our weakness. He’s waiting to accept us—and promises to love us, heal us, and carry us through to the end.
Sessions include:
Brokenness Is the Beginning (20:00)
Brokenness Is Hard (20:00)
Brokenness Is Loud (20:00)
Brokenness Is to Be Shared (21:00)
Brokenness Is the Path to Healing (20:00)
Brokenness Is Temporary (21:00)
Designed for use with the In the Middle of the Mess Study Guide (sold separately).
Sessions include:
Brokenness Is the Beginning (20:00)
Brokenness Is Hard (20:00)
Brokenness Is Loud (20:00)
Brokenness Is to Be Shared (21:00)
Brokenness Is the Path to Healing (20:00)
Brokenness Is Temporary (21:00)
Designed for use with the In the Middle of the Mess Study Guide (sold separately).
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November 26, 2017
Life changing book, I don't know one person that has the perfect life. We have all live in the real world, so we have dealt with a lot.
Walsh is a voice in the Christian world that many can relate to and she has lived it so she wants to share how she got through it. So she wants to help others.
Walsh talks about the miracles in the middle of our mess. She shares her own personal story with you, it's one you don't want to miss.
This is a very straight forward book and it's a life saver for all us women that don't have it all together.
I gave this book 5 stars and I HIGHLY recommend it.
The Mary Reader received this book from the publisher for A favorable review was not required and all views expressed are our own.
Walsh is a voice in the Christian world that many can relate to and she has lived it so she wants to share how she got through it. So she wants to help others.
Walsh talks about the miracles in the middle of our mess. She shares her own personal story with you, it's one you don't want to miss.
This is a very straight forward book and it's a life saver for all us women that don't have it all together.
I gave this book 5 stars and I HIGHLY recommend it.
The Mary Reader received this book from the publisher for A favorable review was not required and all views expressed are our own.
February 19, 2018
Most meaningful book I’ve read in a long time. Sheila Walsh reminds me that I am a loved daughter of the King, and that as a daughter, I can be totally honest with Him and myself. In being honest, light shines in darkness and helps others.
October 24, 2017
I heard Sheila Walsh speak at a women's conference a few years ago. I've always liked her -- she comes across, both in her speaking and in her writing, as genuine and insightful. When Handlebar offered me a review copy of her latest book, In the Middle of the Mess, I was happy to read it.
We all face "messes" in our lives. Sheila lists several, and I could relate to several she named. One of her major "messes" has been a years-long struggle against suicide. While I am thankful to not have that particular mess, the seriousness of it makes her advice suitably helpful to those of us facing issues that may seem lesser in the eyes of many.
Here are some things from the book I found helpful
Romans 10:13 says, "For everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved." Sheila writes about the way most of us assume that this "saving" refers to heaven, after our deaths. But she contends that "Christ came to save us in this present moment. The gift of salvation is God's active, present gift to us, no matter where we are."
She mentions always being the "good girl" since childhood, the one who keeps her problems quiet so that she won't inconvenience others. But as an adult, she has learned to tell everything to God -- almost using him as a counselor. She speaks to God about all her emotions by "owning" them and telling Him exactly how she is feeling. I can see how this would be very cathartic and healing.
Related to this, she talks about Job and his friends. They all spoke wrongly about Job, in effect blaming him for his own problems. God's response was that the friends had not spoken accurately about God, as Job had. And remember, Job had come at God pretty strongly, telling him all his problems, not holding anything back. Using this as an example, we too can "let it all out" to God. "Raw, honest pain offered to God brings us closer to His heart." Telling God our whole truth brings healing and strength. And really, who is there better to tell all our problems to than God? We don't have to worry about offending Him, or about Him telling our confidences to others.
Psalm 46:10 says "Be still and know that I am God." Sheila says that the root of "be still" is to let go, to release. She encourages us to practice "letting go" of everything that concerns us -- bad thoughts, worries, tendencies to control, expectations, things you don't like about yourself -- just let it all go, and acknowledge who God is. There's freedom in that.
She has a series of statements that have been helpful to her; she keeps these written on cards in her purse. I liked them too:
I'm not home yet.
Tears are okay.
Tomorrow the sun will rise again.
God is with me whether I feel His presence or not.
Silence can be offered as worship.
I am loved.
"Jesus loves and accepts us, and invites us to be our real, authentic, quirky selves ... The "mess" is temporary, but the love will get us all the way home."
I recommend this book to anyone facing difficulties in life, and that is pretty much all of us.
We all face "messes" in our lives. Sheila lists several, and I could relate to several she named. One of her major "messes" has been a years-long struggle against suicide. While I am thankful to not have that particular mess, the seriousness of it makes her advice suitably helpful to those of us facing issues that may seem lesser in the eyes of many.
Here are some things from the book I found helpful
Romans 10:13 says, "For everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved." Sheila writes about the way most of us assume that this "saving" refers to heaven, after our deaths. But she contends that "Christ came to save us in this present moment. The gift of salvation is God's active, present gift to us, no matter where we are."
She mentions always being the "good girl" since childhood, the one who keeps her problems quiet so that she won't inconvenience others. But as an adult, she has learned to tell everything to God -- almost using him as a counselor. She speaks to God about all her emotions by "owning" them and telling Him exactly how she is feeling. I can see how this would be very cathartic and healing.
Related to this, she talks about Job and his friends. They all spoke wrongly about Job, in effect blaming him for his own problems. God's response was that the friends had not spoken accurately about God, as Job had. And remember, Job had come at God pretty strongly, telling him all his problems, not holding anything back. Using this as an example, we too can "let it all out" to God. "Raw, honest pain offered to God brings us closer to His heart." Telling God our whole truth brings healing and strength. And really, who is there better to tell all our problems to than God? We don't have to worry about offending Him, or about Him telling our confidences to others.
Psalm 46:10 says "Be still and know that I am God." Sheila says that the root of "be still" is to let go, to release. She encourages us to practice "letting go" of everything that concerns us -- bad thoughts, worries, tendencies to control, expectations, things you don't like about yourself -- just let it all go, and acknowledge who God is. There's freedom in that.
She has a series of statements that have been helpful to her; she keeps these written on cards in her purse. I liked them too:
I'm not home yet.
Tears are okay.
Tomorrow the sun will rise again.
God is with me whether I feel His presence or not.
Silence can be offered as worship.
I am loved.
"Jesus loves and accepts us, and invites us to be our real, authentic, quirky selves ... The "mess" is temporary, but the love will get us all the way home."
I recommend this book to anyone facing difficulties in life, and that is pretty much all of us.
October 15, 2017
Honestly, it’s hard to give 3 stars to a book that is someone vulnerably sharing their heart-wrenching story of darkness and redemption; it almost seems like I’m belittling her journey and how God has worked through her mess to remind her that she is fully loved and fully accepted. But disclaimer: this book may not have been for me because it addresses a different kind of mess than I struggle with, but that does not mean it will not provide courage, comfort, and guidance for someone who shares Sheila’s battles.
I had never heard of Sheila Walsh before, and this was her first book I’ve ever read, though apparently she is a well-known name in the Christian world, especially in women’s ministries. Her newest book, In the Middle of the Mess, focuses on Sheila’s journey with depression and suicidal thoughts. As someone who has never struggled with thoughts of suicide, this book gave insight into the challenges of mental illness from a Christian perspective but it was not something I related to easily. Sheila talks about her father’s suicide and her mother’s death within the first few chapters, so be prepared for a heavy read.
The summary on the back of the book touts a “practical method for connecting with God’s strength in the midst of struggle” and while the Reflection sections at the end of each chapter were helpful, it felt more like a sharing of her personal story than a practical guide for dealing with the mess. The Reflections in each chapter make the book more relatable to all kinds of pain/struggles, but a majority focuses on the battle of depression/suicide. Sheila does promote using confession, prayer, meditation on God’s Word, and community as daily practices, but I thought the book lacked some specificity on truly implementing those practices.
Ultimately, In the Middle of the Mess provides an inside look at the mess of one leading voice in women’s Christian ministry as she shares what has helped her through her struggles. She continually emphasizes God’s love without minimizing pain. It is a book I would recommend to others, but I think it has a very specific audience.
I had never heard of Sheila Walsh before, and this was her first book I’ve ever read, though apparently she is a well-known name in the Christian world, especially in women’s ministries. Her newest book, In the Middle of the Mess, focuses on Sheila’s journey with depression and suicidal thoughts. As someone who has never struggled with thoughts of suicide, this book gave insight into the challenges of mental illness from a Christian perspective but it was not something I related to easily. Sheila talks about her father’s suicide and her mother’s death within the first few chapters, so be prepared for a heavy read.
The summary on the back of the book touts a “practical method for connecting with God’s strength in the midst of struggle” and while the Reflection sections at the end of each chapter were helpful, it felt more like a sharing of her personal story than a practical guide for dealing with the mess. The Reflections in each chapter make the book more relatable to all kinds of pain/struggles, but a majority focuses on the battle of depression/suicide. Sheila does promote using confession, prayer, meditation on God’s Word, and community as daily practices, but I thought the book lacked some specificity on truly implementing those practices.
Ultimately, In the Middle of the Mess provides an inside look at the mess of one leading voice in women’s Christian ministry as she shares what has helped her through her struggles. She continually emphasizes God’s love without minimizing pain. It is a book I would recommend to others, but I think it has a very specific audience.
October 19, 2017
Walsh wants readers to experience the salvation freedom to be who they were meant to be apart from pain and shame. She invites readers to find healing and strength in the midst of the mess. Walsh has struggled with depression and shares her battle experiences, wrapping the narrative around the death of her mother.
The primary emphasis of this book is an encouragement for us to be truthful. We know how to say the right words so that it appears all is well. Walsh wants us to speak the truth, admitting the pain, revealing the scars. Trying to hide our wounds gives a foothold to fear and shame. Believing lies about ourselves easily leads to a pit of despair. Walsh includes practical suggestions to counter lies, such as Scripture verses to use. She suggests creating a community for support consisting of safe-place sisters who confess to and pray for each other.
Walsh shares her own experiences and through them helps us understand how to find healing and strength. It is a very personal account of struggling, having a mental breakdown when she was 36 years old and being hospitalized. People who know Walsh from her speaking engagements and TV experiences will welcome these personal stories.
Walsh shares the lessons she has learned through her own experiences. Her suggestions have been tried and tested. I recommend this book to women who are ready to deal with the lies and instead walk in the truth. You'll get good encouragement and practical suggestions.
Food for thought: “Raw, honest pain offered to God brings us closer to His heart.” (63)
I received a complimentary ARC of this book through Handlebar. My comments are an independent and honest review.
The primary emphasis of this book is an encouragement for us to be truthful. We know how to say the right words so that it appears all is well. Walsh wants us to speak the truth, admitting the pain, revealing the scars. Trying to hide our wounds gives a foothold to fear and shame. Believing lies about ourselves easily leads to a pit of despair. Walsh includes practical suggestions to counter lies, such as Scripture verses to use. She suggests creating a community for support consisting of safe-place sisters who confess to and pray for each other.
Walsh shares her own experiences and through them helps us understand how to find healing and strength. It is a very personal account of struggling, having a mental breakdown when she was 36 years old and being hospitalized. People who know Walsh from her speaking engagements and TV experiences will welcome these personal stories.
Walsh shares the lessons she has learned through her own experiences. Her suggestions have been tried and tested. I recommend this book to women who are ready to deal with the lies and instead walk in the truth. You'll get good encouragement and practical suggestions.
Food for thought: “Raw, honest pain offered to God brings us closer to His heart.” (63)
I received a complimentary ARC of this book through Handlebar. My comments are an independent and honest review.
October 24, 2018
5 stars-- I will read this again.
"Raw, honest pain offered to God brings us closer to His heart."
While I do not suffer from any mental illness at the present time, I live with one who suffers from clinical depression and has had MANY of the similar thoughts Walsh describes. The only thing different about my story-- I am not sure I will ever get any man to open up as women do. And that was my main frustration. It deals mainly with women and how they are wired and how they work, even if they are more introverted. Men are created differently.
However, I recommend this to anyone who has gone through clinical depression or has a loved one in their life that is going through it. Walsh had a devastating experience as a young girl; her father committed suicide. For years she lived through so much until she had a breakdown.
Don't ask me why, but in the Christian community there is a stigma of mental illness. Once we become Christian, we no longer deal with this-- as if we are already in heaven.
"Christianity is a hospital for the broken, not a museum for the perfect."
Walsh does a WONDERFUL job of showing the brokenness of mental illness so that those that have not gone through it, can understand. But more than that, she writes the truth found in scripture.
I wish more Christians could understand mental illness. I hope many will. Thank you, Sheila. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Jesus showed His honest feelings (anguish and anxiety to the point of blood coming forth), and a crushed soul: Cannot we feel the same?
"Raw, honest pain offered to God brings us closer to His heart."
While I do not suffer from any mental illness at the present time, I live with one who suffers from clinical depression and has had MANY of the similar thoughts Walsh describes. The only thing different about my story-- I am not sure I will ever get any man to open up as women do. And that was my main frustration. It deals mainly with women and how they are wired and how they work, even if they are more introverted. Men are created differently.
However, I recommend this to anyone who has gone through clinical depression or has a loved one in their life that is going through it. Walsh had a devastating experience as a young girl; her father committed suicide. For years she lived through so much until she had a breakdown.
Don't ask me why, but in the Christian community there is a stigma of mental illness. Once we become Christian, we no longer deal with this-- as if we are already in heaven.
"Christianity is a hospital for the broken, not a museum for the perfect."
Walsh does a WONDERFUL job of showing the brokenness of mental illness so that those that have not gone through it, can understand. But more than that, she writes the truth found in scripture.
I wish more Christians could understand mental illness. I hope many will. Thank you, Sheila. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Jesus showed His honest feelings (anguish and anxiety to the point of blood coming forth), and a crushed soul: Cannot we feel the same?
December 1, 2017
Life doesn't always go the way we plan it. Right? Who has the perfect life? It does get messy and it's complicated. Having read several of Shelia's books, I wasn't sure how I would feel about this book, but I really enjoyed it! Walsh didn't mess around, but got to the heart of the issue fast. One of things that people in this world face is suicidal thoughts and tendencies. Often, we want to sweep that under the rug and pretend not to talk about it, but Shelia makes no qualms about it. She goes straight to the facts and gets to the point.
She also shares her own story, which is powerful. You don't want to miss it. The power of story can transform your life. Grab a copy of this book today. We all have messes in our life, but he takes broken and messy things and makes them beautiful! This book is a life saver for all women. Don't delay today! Grab this book. I give this book 5/5 stars. A favorable review was not required.
She also shares her own story, which is powerful. You don't want to miss it. The power of story can transform your life. Grab a copy of this book today. We all have messes in our life, but he takes broken and messy things and makes them beautiful! This book is a life saver for all women. Don't delay today! Grab this book. I give this book 5/5 stars. A favorable review was not required.
November 28, 2017
I have to say that this is my favorite book by Sheila! I have read a few others but this one I couldn't put down, which is saying a lot for a non-fiction book! She gets right in the grit of things and I LOVED so many things in this book. One of the main topics in the book is suicidal thoughts and Sheila puts it as how it feels like an attack of evil. Satan will do what he can to destroy you and this book is a perfect example on how God is the light and with Him you can overcome! She also writes that it can relate to many things not just suicidal thoughts. I liked how well written this book was, not overwhelming or boring. I highly recommend!!!! Five stars.
"I received this book from BookLook Bloggers for free. All opinions are my own."
"I received this book from BookLook Bloggers for free. All opinions are my own."
November 28, 2017
Women will find strength and hope in this book by Sheila Walsh. I found it easy to read yet deep- I was brought to tears a few times. Although I have not experienced the emotional troubles the author has, and never had depression, I was able to learn much from this book. Thus, I recommend it to women of all backgrounds and current emotional states.
I received a copy of this book from the publisher in exchange for my honest opinion.
I received a copy of this book from the publisher in exchange for my honest opinion.
October 14, 2024
WOW!
This book touched my heart in so many ways. As I was reading it, I highlighted so many amazing parts. Sheila Walsh is a fantastic author who shares her thoughts from the depths of her heart.
She encourages the reader to truly examine their own lives, see how God loves them, and believe that there is healing for their brokenness.
This book will stay with me for a long time!
I've shared it with many friends and hope it will make a difference in their lives, too.
This book touched my heart in so many ways. As I was reading it, I highlighted so many amazing parts. Sheila Walsh is a fantastic author who shares her thoughts from the depths of her heart.
She encourages the reader to truly examine their own lives, see how God loves them, and believe that there is healing for their brokenness.
This book will stay with me for a long time!
I've shared it with many friends and hope it will make a difference in their lives, too.
December 18, 2017
I have never read an author so relatable before. So many times while reading this book I was nodding my head in agreement. This book was fantastic from start to finish!
January 17, 2018
Beautifully written with surprising vulnerability, Sheila Walsh's story gives hope to this hot mess of a girl. I loved it!
July 10, 2021
WOW. What a tremendous encouragement! I really appreciated how frank the author was with her struggles with suicidal depression and how those experiences impacted her faith, especially considering her position as (what I call) a “professional” Christian. She didn’t sugarcoat grappling with mental illness and didn’t tidily wrap the book up into a neat little Christian happy ever after. Compassion and solidarity were found in abundance in these pages. What a gift and blessing this was to read. I recommend this to Christians struggling with depression and to Christians struggling to understand depression.
December 20, 2017
This is such a compelling book that will help you to see that God is with you and loves you through all things in your life.
Shelia has lived with depression and suicidal thoughts her whole life. Her childhood was full of questions after the death of her father under sad circumstances and it haunted her. She found herself feeling the same dark thoughts and feelings as she grew up and as an adult.
I love how honest and open Shelia is in this book. So often, we as Christian women, hide our true feelings from one another and that's part of the problem. We feel we have to hid the dark feelings and she shares how important it is to support each other rather than condemn. This includes our own condemnation for ourselves.
As Shelia goes farther down the dark tunnel of depression, she finally hits bottom and gets the help that she needs. The greatest help she gets is from God and her realization that His salvation is for her and He loves her unconditionally. It is this that she shares with such beauty in this book.
This is a book that everyone should read, whether they are going through depression themselves or know someone who is. It's insightful, hopeful, and, in the end, a joyful story of how God can and does support and love us through everything.
I love this book and give it 5 out of 5 stars. I highly recommend it!
*This book was provided to me for my honest review by BookLook Bloggers Program
Shelia has lived with depression and suicidal thoughts her whole life. Her childhood was full of questions after the death of her father under sad circumstances and it haunted her. She found herself feeling the same dark thoughts and feelings as she grew up and as an adult.
I love how honest and open Shelia is in this book. So often, we as Christian women, hide our true feelings from one another and that's part of the problem. We feel we have to hid the dark feelings and she shares how important it is to support each other rather than condemn. This includes our own condemnation for ourselves.
As Shelia goes farther down the dark tunnel of depression, she finally hits bottom and gets the help that she needs. The greatest help she gets is from God and her realization that His salvation is for her and He loves her unconditionally. It is this that she shares with such beauty in this book.
This is a book that everyone should read, whether they are going through depression themselves or know someone who is. It's insightful, hopeful, and, in the end, a joyful story of how God can and does support and love us through everything.
I love this book and give it 5 out of 5 stars. I highly recommend it!
*This book was provided to me for my honest review by BookLook Bloggers Program
March 1, 2021
This book is a constant re-read depending on time for me.
This books has helped me recognize a lot about my faults, proximity to Jesus and has reminded me that just because my past is broken, my future doesn’t have to be.
I love this book.
This books has helped me recognize a lot about my faults, proximity to Jesus and has reminded me that just because my past is broken, my future doesn’t have to be.
I love this book.
November 8, 2017
In the Middle of the Mess is an honest account of Sheila Walsh's Journey with depression, suicidal thoughts, and mental illness. It is a call to remove the masks we wear and to be real with God and others. We don't have to portray a perfect look, life and family. We need to get honest with God and allow Him to comfort and work on healing and transforming our thoughts, emotions, and lives. Sheila shares truths she has learned in her journey and encourages us to remove the masks we wear and find a few safe sisters to share our struggles and support each other. In this book Sheila provides a reflection section to help us identify and deal with some of our struggles so we can move forward and start the healing process and grow deeper in our relationship with Jesus. We are not alone in our struggles. We all have problems and struggles that we go through and we must find strength to continue on in the middle of our mess. This book was an encouragement to me in knowing I am not alone in my mess and struggle with mental illness. I loved the truths and that she had distinct quotes throughout the book such as "It's ok not to be okay." It gave me encouragement and guidance in dealing with some of my struggles and past hurts and regrets. It is a book I will refer to and go back and reread. I also plan to work through the reflections sections. It is a book I will share with others who struggle with mental illness or just daily issues that cause us to feel like we are a mess and others have it all together in life. I received a complimentary copy of this book from the publisher. I'm not required to write a positive review, and the opinions I have expressed are my own.
November 20, 2017
It isn't a subject we talk about much. Sharing painful experiences is never easy for anyone. Yet many of us know someone who has attempted or committed suicide. Or maybe we are the ones who have attempted suicide or thought about it a time or two. Sheila Walsh shares her personal story and experiences with this difficult topic in In The Middle of the Mess.
Walsh has often shared her story of depression and the time she spent in a psych ward early in her ministry. However, this book goes deeper. In the Middle of the Mess shares Walsh's story and family background with her father's brain anyeurism, mental illness and ultimate suicide. Walsh then shares how that family history affected her and the challenges she has had with depression and suicidal thoughts herself.
I like how Sheila Walsh writes. I have read several of her books. I always feel like we are just sharing stories over a cup of tea. Walsh shares from a "me too" perspective in this warm, vulnerable book.Walsh shares her story in the hopes that God will use that story to help others with the same struggles. I truly believe In the Middle of a Mess is a book that could help many struggling with their own suicidal thoughts or a family member who has attempted or committed suicide.
I received a copy of In the Middle of the Mess from Thomas Nelson publishing. I was not required to write a positive review in exchange for the book.
Walsh has often shared her story of depression and the time she spent in a psych ward early in her ministry. However, this book goes deeper. In the Middle of the Mess shares Walsh's story and family background with her father's brain anyeurism, mental illness and ultimate suicide. Walsh then shares how that family history affected her and the challenges she has had with depression and suicidal thoughts herself.
I like how Sheila Walsh writes. I have read several of her books. I always feel like we are just sharing stories over a cup of tea. Walsh shares from a "me too" perspective in this warm, vulnerable book.Walsh shares her story in the hopes that God will use that story to help others with the same struggles. I truly believe In the Middle of a Mess is a book that could help many struggling with their own suicidal thoughts or a family member who has attempted or committed suicide.
I received a copy of In the Middle of the Mess from Thomas Nelson publishing. I was not required to write a positive review in exchange for the book.
November 8, 2017
Honestly, I was so humbled by how Sheila poured her life out on the page. I have the privilege of being a part of the Launch team and therefore got to read an early copy. Over and over again as she describes her life struggles, she always points back to God, emphasising that our safe place, our strength can be found in him. One of my favourite quotes is "Your mess is never too big for God!" because sometimes in life, we might get caught up in circumstances and try to struggle through it in our own strength. However, we don't have to keep doing that, we don't have to keep drowning but instead should reach for the lifeline that God offers us. No matter what we have done or are going through, he loves us. A verse that he whispered to my heart when I was reading this book is Psalm 46:10-"Be still and know that I am God". Sometimes, all that we need to do is take all that we have, all that we are and lay it at the feet of the One who knows and loves us best. If you know anyone going through a tough time, I can't emphasise enough how much of a blessing this book could be to them.
August 14, 2018
Sheila Walsh's father committed suicide when she was 5 years old. She didn't remember her father when he was well and after his death her family never spoke about him. Because she was a child and nothing was explained she truly thought she was the reason for his suicide even into adulthood. Then as an adult she too suffered from clinical depression and suicidal thoughts. As a Christian, she believed that if she told people about her time in a psychiatric ward or her continuing thoughts of suicide it would be a bad witness because God hadn't "fixed" her. Finally Walsh started to realize that God was with her in her darkest moments and she didn't need to feel ashamed of her struggles with depression or suicidal thoughts. Thanks to therapy, a loving family, and a close group of "safe sister" friends Walsh is able to manage her depression better and realize that God is often the closest to us when we are In the Middle of the Mess as the title of her book says.
While I don't have clinical depression or struggle with suicidal thoughts, I could still very much relate to her struggle. So often Christians hide their struggles because they don't want people to think badly of them or show how wounded they are, but Christ came to help the sick not the healthy and whatever your particular struggle might be He can help you heal those wounds. I wasn't familiar with Sheila Walsh before, but she's a well known Christian musician, author, and speaker. I mainly picked up this book because of the title and some things that I'm working through right now in my spiritual and emotional life, but it came to me at the right time and definitely gave me some new ideas and practices to put into place.
Some quotes I really liked:
"This is the truth I would discover that night: Christ came to save us in the present moment. The gift of salvation is God's active, present gift to us, no matter where we are...If all our brokenness was healed the moment we came to Christ, we'd have no need to call on His name over and over again - but that's not my story, and I suspect it's not yours either...There is present-tense salvation, one that's offered to us right now in the middle of our mess. Salvation is far greater and more present than we imagine." (p. 8-9)
"When we don't say the true things, the things that might free us from secrets and lies, the poison seeps out of our lives and into the lives of others. The anger and sadness surface when you least expect it." (p. 24)
"Not all losses weight the same. Some disappointments may seem small measured against others, so we don't bring them into the light...They're not life-changing losses, but they are very real disappointments. Instead of speaking those out loud, though, we often stuff them inside because we don't want to seem small or petty before God. But hear this truth: Nothing that affects you is petty to God. He loves you and cares about everything that affects you. He wants to deliver you, to bring you present salvation. I don't know what losses you've had in your life. I don't know what you're walking through right now, but I want to say this: Don't hurry through it, and don't hide the pain. Don't let anyone tell you to get over it and don't hide it in secret, thinking the pain won't find you there. It will. I promise. Wouldn't you rather confess it to God, to feel Him taking your load and delivering you?" (p. 52)
"Just because a place has become familiar doesn't mean it's where you belong." (p. 139)
While I don't have clinical depression or struggle with suicidal thoughts, I could still very much relate to her struggle. So often Christians hide their struggles because they don't want people to think badly of them or show how wounded they are, but Christ came to help the sick not the healthy and whatever your particular struggle might be He can help you heal those wounds. I wasn't familiar with Sheila Walsh before, but she's a well known Christian musician, author, and speaker. I mainly picked up this book because of the title and some things that I'm working through right now in my spiritual and emotional life, but it came to me at the right time and definitely gave me some new ideas and practices to put into place.
Some quotes I really liked:
"This is the truth I would discover that night: Christ came to save us in the present moment. The gift of salvation is God's active, present gift to us, no matter where we are...If all our brokenness was healed the moment we came to Christ, we'd have no need to call on His name over and over again - but that's not my story, and I suspect it's not yours either...There is present-tense salvation, one that's offered to us right now in the middle of our mess. Salvation is far greater and more present than we imagine." (p. 8-9)
"When we don't say the true things, the things that might free us from secrets and lies, the poison seeps out of our lives and into the lives of others. The anger and sadness surface when you least expect it." (p. 24)
"Not all losses weight the same. Some disappointments may seem small measured against others, so we don't bring them into the light...They're not life-changing losses, but they are very real disappointments. Instead of speaking those out loud, though, we often stuff them inside because we don't want to seem small or petty before God. But hear this truth: Nothing that affects you is petty to God. He loves you and cares about everything that affects you. He wants to deliver you, to bring you present salvation. I don't know what losses you've had in your life. I don't know what you're walking through right now, but I want to say this: Don't hurry through it, and don't hide the pain. Don't let anyone tell you to get over it and don't hide it in secret, thinking the pain won't find you there. It will. I promise. Wouldn't you rather confess it to God, to feel Him taking your load and delivering you?" (p. 52)
"Just because a place has become familiar doesn't mean it's where you belong." (p. 139)
November 7, 2017
I loved “In the Middle of the Mess” by Sheila Walsh! Her honest, inspirational, and authentic words spoke to my soul. She beautifully writes to the reader in the same way we need to speak to Jesus, honest and soul-baring. Sheila speaks from a place of raw vulnerability and walks the reader through the trenches she traversed and later saw how God was there with her the whole time. It’s a poignant and honest perspective on our darkness and the Lord’s light. Sheila shares that we don’t need to hide our hurts or anger from Jesus thinking He’ll dismiss us, instead He will hold us closer in our times of need.
Sheila Walsh has battled depression and suicidal thoughts throughout her life. At times Sheila felt she wasn’t worth saving until the night she realized that “the gift of Salvation is God’s active, present gift to us, no matter where we are.” She goes on to tell the reader how to be free to be who we are meant to be apart from our pain and shame.
Sheila shares the heartbreaking grief of losing her Mom and Dad in such a tender, relatable way which touched my heart. She writes of the truth and healing she received as she walked through the loss of both her parents.
The author states that “In the Middle of the Mess” is an invitation to find healing and strength in the middle of our mess. I loved the message of needing to unearth the pain, anger, and fears to Jesus and to be real with Him because He will be there to give us salvation. So powerful! She goes on to say that we need to confess what we’re feeling each day, trusting Him, knowing He is with us. We need to be truthful and dig deep.
Sheila Walsh has found that confessing in the darkness to Jesus daily has made her feel secure and held and that He loves her despite and because of her darkness. She conveys that people might not be comfortable with their truths which makes them even more important to let go of. Sheila invites Christ into the dark places. She emphasizes how important it is to confess all parts of ourselves to Him, to be honest, no matter how bad or hard it is to speak it out. It's the confession that we know how much we’re loved.
A few of my many favorite quotes from “In the Middle of the Mess” by Sheila Walsh:
“When I stop reaching from a place of pain and instead respond by taking my wounds to God, I find peace. By meditating on His great love for me, even in the middle of my messy emotions, I find strength. Only then can I understand that I am a well-loved child of God. Only then can I respond from a place of love.”
“Telling the truth to Christ saves us, right there in the middle of the mess.”
“I’m not afraid of the pain; I’m afraid of the silence that leaves us all alone. I’m afraid of the secrets that left you all alone. Amid the silence and secrets, it’s easy to believe every desperate lie inside our heads, every monster that hurts us.”
“So, I’m punching a hole in the silence. I’m kicking in the door of secrets that keep us cold and lonely.”
I absolutely loved In the Middle of the Mess and I am grateful to Sheila Walsh for pouring out her heart and soul into this much-needed message. Her faith-filled words are inspirational and encouraging! Sheila’s book is a blessing and I am confident her words will touch many hearts. Thank you, Sheila, for putting words to those dark places we all carry within.
Sheila Walsh has battled depression and suicidal thoughts throughout her life. At times Sheila felt she wasn’t worth saving until the night she realized that “the gift of Salvation is God’s active, present gift to us, no matter where we are.” She goes on to tell the reader how to be free to be who we are meant to be apart from our pain and shame.
Sheila shares the heartbreaking grief of losing her Mom and Dad in such a tender, relatable way which touched my heart. She writes of the truth and healing she received as she walked through the loss of both her parents.
The author states that “In the Middle of the Mess” is an invitation to find healing and strength in the middle of our mess. I loved the message of needing to unearth the pain, anger, and fears to Jesus and to be real with Him because He will be there to give us salvation. So powerful! She goes on to say that we need to confess what we’re feeling each day, trusting Him, knowing He is with us. We need to be truthful and dig deep.
Sheila Walsh has found that confessing in the darkness to Jesus daily has made her feel secure and held and that He loves her despite and because of her darkness. She conveys that people might not be comfortable with their truths which makes them even more important to let go of. Sheila invites Christ into the dark places. She emphasizes how important it is to confess all parts of ourselves to Him, to be honest, no matter how bad or hard it is to speak it out. It's the confession that we know how much we’re loved.
A few of my many favorite quotes from “In the Middle of the Mess” by Sheila Walsh:
“When I stop reaching from a place of pain and instead respond by taking my wounds to God, I find peace. By meditating on His great love for me, even in the middle of my messy emotions, I find strength. Only then can I understand that I am a well-loved child of God. Only then can I respond from a place of love.”
“Telling the truth to Christ saves us, right there in the middle of the mess.”
“I’m not afraid of the pain; I’m afraid of the silence that leaves us all alone. I’m afraid of the secrets that left you all alone. Amid the silence and secrets, it’s easy to believe every desperate lie inside our heads, every monster that hurts us.”
“So, I’m punching a hole in the silence. I’m kicking in the door of secrets that keep us cold and lonely.”
I absolutely loved In the Middle of the Mess and I am grateful to Sheila Walsh for pouring out her heart and soul into this much-needed message. Her faith-filled words are inspirational and encouraging! Sheila’s book is a blessing and I am confident her words will touch many hearts. Thank you, Sheila, for putting words to those dark places we all carry within.
October 20, 2017
Author: Sheila Walsh
Title: In the Middle of the Mess: Strength for This Beautiful, Broken Life
Publisher: Nelson Books
Year of Publication: 2017
No matter where you look, it seems that chaos abounds. Too often we find ourselves running around at a frenetic pace, struggling to adapt to the pressures of the Zeitgeist, and, all too often we find ourselves in the proverbial mess. It really does not matter how we got into the mess—many times we just want to make sure that there is a way out.
Best-selling author, Sheila Walsh, has written a phenomenal expose on this subject in her In the Middle of the Mess. If anyone has experienced the messes of life, it is Sheila:
Sadly, Ms. Walsh’s father had suffered a brain aneurysm which had changed his personality. In a fit of rage, her dad tried to attack her when she was only five years old and was sent to an asylum for the family’s safety. While there, her dad escaped and drowned in a nearby lake. Imagine the guilt that raged through this young girl and you will begin to see that Sheila fought demonic influences that tried to convince her that all of it was her fault. She credits her time spent in recovering from her breakdown as the impetus for her to understand the messes of life.
Sadly, we see ourselves from the perspective of the mud we are sitting in, but God sees us through the blood of Christ that washes us clean, in the present, in the middle of the mess we find ourselves. God’s love cannot be turned off and he wants to save us—right here in the present of our mess. His strong desire is to give us strength for our broken, beautiful lives. The biblical Job illustrates perfectly that raw, honest pain offered to God brings us closer to his heart.
If you find yourself in a mess and what to find strength it starts with the truth. Being honest about the situation and casting all your reliance exclusively on God gives us the possibility of finding that strength. The synthesis of this work is a four part strategy to do just that:
I liked how this book had a very real devotional feel to it. There are copious sections for reflection and a healthy interspersing of Scripture. I did feel that the author took some liberties with certain biblical applications that seemed to be a stretch. On Wikipedia her biography indicates she completed a DMin degree and many websites list her as "working" on a Master's in Theology. To better understand where/what she studied, I attempted numerous times to reach her via Twitter and even tried to email her via FaceBook (The listed email address bounced back as “not found.”). 90% of the book seems sound with just a few questionable passage interpretations.
All in all, I doubt you can go wrong with this one—especially if you find yourself knee-deep in one of life’s messes.
Title: In the Middle of the Mess: Strength for This Beautiful, Broken Life
Publisher: Nelson Books
Year of Publication: 2017
No matter where you look, it seems that chaos abounds. Too often we find ourselves running around at a frenetic pace, struggling to adapt to the pressures of the Zeitgeist, and, all too often we find ourselves in the proverbial mess. It really does not matter how we got into the mess—many times we just want to make sure that there is a way out.
Best-selling author, Sheila Walsh, has written a phenomenal expose on this subject in her In the Middle of the Mess. If anyone has experienced the messes of life, it is Sheila:
• Her father committed suicide after escaping from an asylum;
• She struggled with thoughts of depression/suicide;
• & she had a psychiatric break down.
Sadly, Ms. Walsh’s father had suffered a brain aneurysm which had changed his personality. In a fit of rage, her dad tried to attack her when she was only five years old and was sent to an asylum for the family’s safety. While there, her dad escaped and drowned in a nearby lake. Imagine the guilt that raged through this young girl and you will begin to see that Sheila fought demonic influences that tried to convince her that all of it was her fault. She credits her time spent in recovering from her breakdown as the impetus for her to understand the messes of life.
Sadly, we see ourselves from the perspective of the mud we are sitting in, but God sees us through the blood of Christ that washes us clean, in the present, in the middle of the mess we find ourselves. God’s love cannot be turned off and he wants to save us—right here in the present of our mess. His strong desire is to give us strength for our broken, beautiful lives. The biblical Job illustrates perfectly that raw, honest pain offered to God brings us closer to his heart.
If you find yourself in a mess and what to find strength it starts with the truth. Being honest about the situation and casting all your reliance exclusively on God gives us the possibility of finding that strength. The synthesis of this work is a four part strategy to do just that:
1. Confess your darkest feelings to Christ
2. Let go of shame
3. Meditate on God’s great love for you
4. Confess to a safe place of sisters (or dudes…if you are male reading this book).
I liked how this book had a very real devotional feel to it. There are copious sections for reflection and a healthy interspersing of Scripture. I did feel that the author took some liberties with certain biblical applications that seemed to be a stretch. On Wikipedia her biography indicates she completed a DMin degree and many websites list her as "working" on a Master's in Theology. To better understand where/what she studied, I attempted numerous times to reach her via Twitter and even tried to email her via FaceBook (The listed email address bounced back as “not found.”). 90% of the book seems sound with just a few questionable passage interpretations.
All in all, I doubt you can go wrong with this one—especially if you find yourself knee-deep in one of life’s messes.
February 5, 2018
About the Book:
How do you turn your struggles into strengths? Beloved Bible teacher Sheila Walsh teaches readers how the daily spiritual practices of confession, meditation on God’s Word, and prayer result in fresh freedom in Christ.
In her long-awaited new book, Sheila Walsh equips women with a practical method for connecting with God’s strength in the midst of struggle. From daily frustrations that can feel like overwhelming obstacles to hard challenges that turn into rock-bottom crises, women will find the means to equip themselves for standing strong with God. Using the spiritual applications of confession, prayer, and meditation on Scripture to form a daily connection to Jesus, women will learn how to experience new joy as a child of God who is fully known, fully loved, and fully accepted.
In In the Middle of the Mess, Walsh reveals the hardened defenses that kept her from allowing God into her deepest hurts and shares how entering into a safe place with God and practicing this daily connection with him have saved her from the devil’s prowling attacks. Though we will never be completely “fixed” on earth, we are continually held by Jesus, whatever our circumstances.
My Review:
There is an old adage I heard one--don't know who said it but it goes like this--God will meet you in the middle of your mess. This book by Sheila Walsh describes just that. She, like many of us have a life that could be considered a mess by some but completely a mess is how she describes it. God meets us in those dark and scary places to deliver us from horrors that most of us can only imagine.
These so called horrors are nothing to Him but to us they are everything. The grip us and stir us like nothing else can or will. Once taken under by them many of us find it hard to get back to the surface. Sheila has had a hard life but she shares with us how God met her in the middle of it to life her out to safety, like only He can.
A great look into the life of the author as she discusses her battles with depression and she gives us encouragement to keep going and letting God take over.
**Disclosure** This book was sent to me free of charge for my honest review from the publisher. All opinions are my own.
How do you turn your struggles into strengths? Beloved Bible teacher Sheila Walsh teaches readers how the daily spiritual practices of confession, meditation on God’s Word, and prayer result in fresh freedom in Christ.
In her long-awaited new book, Sheila Walsh equips women with a practical method for connecting with God’s strength in the midst of struggle. From daily frustrations that can feel like overwhelming obstacles to hard challenges that turn into rock-bottom crises, women will find the means to equip themselves for standing strong with God. Using the spiritual applications of confession, prayer, and meditation on Scripture to form a daily connection to Jesus, women will learn how to experience new joy as a child of God who is fully known, fully loved, and fully accepted.
In In the Middle of the Mess, Walsh reveals the hardened defenses that kept her from allowing God into her deepest hurts and shares how entering into a safe place with God and practicing this daily connection with him have saved her from the devil’s prowling attacks. Though we will never be completely “fixed” on earth, we are continually held by Jesus, whatever our circumstances.
My Review:
There is an old adage I heard one--don't know who said it but it goes like this--God will meet you in the middle of your mess. This book by Sheila Walsh describes just that. She, like many of us have a life that could be considered a mess by some but completely a mess is how she describes it. God meets us in those dark and scary places to deliver us from horrors that most of us can only imagine.
These so called horrors are nothing to Him but to us they are everything. The grip us and stir us like nothing else can or will. Once taken under by them many of us find it hard to get back to the surface. Sheila has had a hard life but she shares with us how God met her in the middle of it to life her out to safety, like only He can.
A great look into the life of the author as she discusses her battles with depression and she gives us encouragement to keep going and letting God take over.
**Disclosure** This book was sent to me free of charge for my honest review from the publisher. All opinions are my own.
June 17, 2019
Let go and know that He is God. The hardest thing to do is to let go. We are always trying to control things. We don’t accept time. As someone who has spent years creating my dream life in my head and when the universe has prevented that life from happening, I’ve questioned if there was something wrong with me. What happens when you speak your dreams into existence and you do the work to make them happen and they still don’t happen? This causes stress, anger, sadness, and hatred for God. It begins to make you question everything.
“Where do adults go to express emotions that have been buried for so long that they don’t even feel as if they belong in their story anymore?” It’s possible to detach from that pain that when you try to dig it up it feels inauthentic, like reading the script from someone else’s story.”
I love how *real* this book is. It’s not telling you that it’s easy. It’s not easy to believe God is listening to you and will take all your problems away. It’s not easy to go on when somedays you simply just don’t want to be here.
I’m glad she tells her story instead of throwing a bunch of scriptures at you telling you that’ll all be okay. She tells you how she turns to God in times of darkness and how it can help you as well.
This book is comforting to me because it’s honest. It doesn’t tell you that the pain will go away just because you believe in God. You have to trust in God. Listen to God and tell him your fears, stop being ashamed of coming to him in the darkest times. As someone who runs as far away as possible from God and religion in my darkest times, this book teaches me an alternative. I’ve always thought that believing in God and being saved meant that God would prevent the darkness from occurring. This isn’t true. There’ll always be problems, but it’s all divine. And as my favorite singer Kem sings, people go from good to bad in just the blink of an eye, if they can go from good to bad, I guess then so can I.
“Confessing darkness to God, letting go and allowing him to speak love to us is imperative if we want to find strength in the middle of our messy lives. But without genuine community, community where we are known, loved, and received, it’s hard to push past the lies that haunt us.“
“Where do adults go to express emotions that have been buried for so long that they don’t even feel as if they belong in their story anymore?” It’s possible to detach from that pain that when you try to dig it up it feels inauthentic, like reading the script from someone else’s story.”
I love how *real* this book is. It’s not telling you that it’s easy. It’s not easy to believe God is listening to you and will take all your problems away. It’s not easy to go on when somedays you simply just don’t want to be here.
I’m glad she tells her story instead of throwing a bunch of scriptures at you telling you that’ll all be okay. She tells you how she turns to God in times of darkness and how it can help you as well.
This book is comforting to me because it’s honest. It doesn’t tell you that the pain will go away just because you believe in God. You have to trust in God. Listen to God and tell him your fears, stop being ashamed of coming to him in the darkest times. As someone who runs as far away as possible from God and religion in my darkest times, this book teaches me an alternative. I’ve always thought that believing in God and being saved meant that God would prevent the darkness from occurring. This isn’t true. There’ll always be problems, but it’s all divine. And as my favorite singer Kem sings, people go from good to bad in just the blink of an eye, if they can go from good to bad, I guess then so can I.
“Confessing darkness to God, letting go and allowing him to speak love to us is imperative if we want to find strength in the middle of our messy lives. But without genuine community, community where we are known, loved, and received, it’s hard to push past the lies that haunt us.“
January 24, 2018
Rating 3.5 stars
Your reaction has little to do with what's in front of you and everything to do with what's inside you.
We are messy people. Behind all that glitters and all that is gold is usually heart that is a mess. Staying in our mess only brings isolation, depression, fear, shame, and loneliness. These feelings can lead a heart without any hope.
Sheila Walsh shares her experience of the mess she found herself in that goes back to her childhood when her father committed suicide. She lived with the blame and usually sin does that. There is blame and shame that can be paralyzing. I am not familiar with Sheila Walsh or her story but the title can be my story and it could be yours. There are lies that we believe and truths that we must place deep in our hearts to begin to live in the light instead of being in the darkness. Walsh is transparent in her story and her cry for help. The walls she built and the walls that fell down.
She also discusses the death of her mother that brought back the pain of her childhood and how facing and dealing with the pain and shame, she was able to cling to the promises of Jesus. These promises are not just for Sheila but for all of us that cry out. Lord Save me a sinful man/woman. I was encouraged by her meaning of salvation that is freedom. Freedom from the past. "There are three tenses of salvation: we have been set free from the penalty of sin, we are being set free from the power of sin and we will be set free from the presence of sin."
One of the key confessions she made was her struggle of self-protection. How I struggle with that and in doing so keeps me from being all that God created me to be and it keeps me from living in freedom. How that self-protection keeps you from relationships and loving others well.
There is beauty in the pain and there is hope in the mess. It is good to know that we are not alone in this struggle.
A Special Thank You to Thomas Nelson Books and Netgalley for the ARC and the opportunity to post an honest review.
Your reaction has little to do with what's in front of you and everything to do with what's inside you.
We are messy people. Behind all that glitters and all that is gold is usually heart that is a mess. Staying in our mess only brings isolation, depression, fear, shame, and loneliness. These feelings can lead a heart without any hope.
Sheila Walsh shares her experience of the mess she found herself in that goes back to her childhood when her father committed suicide. She lived with the blame and usually sin does that. There is blame and shame that can be paralyzing. I am not familiar with Sheila Walsh or her story but the title can be my story and it could be yours. There are lies that we believe and truths that we must place deep in our hearts to begin to live in the light instead of being in the darkness. Walsh is transparent in her story and her cry for help. The walls she built and the walls that fell down.
She also discusses the death of her mother that brought back the pain of her childhood and how facing and dealing with the pain and shame, she was able to cling to the promises of Jesus. These promises are not just for Sheila but for all of us that cry out. Lord Save me a sinful man/woman. I was encouraged by her meaning of salvation that is freedom. Freedom from the past. "There are three tenses of salvation: we have been set free from the penalty of sin, we are being set free from the power of sin and we will be set free from the presence of sin."
One of the key confessions she made was her struggle of self-protection. How I struggle with that and in doing so keeps me from being all that God created me to be and it keeps me from living in freedom. How that self-protection keeps you from relationships and loving others well.
There is beauty in the pain and there is hope in the mess. It is good to know that we are not alone in this struggle.
A Special Thank You to Thomas Nelson Books and Netgalley for the ARC and the opportunity to post an honest review.
December 9, 2017
A few years ago Bissell had a slogan, “Life’s messy, clean it up”. I don’t know if it helped them sell vacuum cleaners or not, but it brought a truth to the forefront of our minds. Life is messy and needs to be cleaned up.
Life is messy and it oozes it’s mess all over. Life is messy when those we love don’t love us in return. Life is messy when friends say good-bye. Life is messy when mates say good-bye either by death or divorce. Life is messy when people are in it.
Sometimes life seems more messy for some than for others. This is, or can be, especially true when we’re on the outside looking in, or on the inside looking out. We all have a tendency to judge our neighbor’s outside by our inside.
And we lose badly when we do that.
We need to realize we each have pain. And each life is messy.
Is there hope? Is there a cure? What can we do? Can a Bissell vacuum clean up this mess?
Sheila Walsh knows very well how messy life can be, she knows well the sting of gut-wrenching, leg crippling pain. Her father passed away when Sheila was still a very young girl, she grew up believing she was responsible for his death. She has battled depression and thoughts of suicide.
She has written several books about her struggles, the latest of these is In the Middle of the Mess. It’s a book about finding Jesus in the middle of our mess. It’s finding Him and His strength and healing. It’s a book about inviting Him into the middle of our messes and experiencing His life and His healing. It’s inviting Him in so we can hear His voice right there in the middle of our messy life.
This was a very difficult book for me to me to read and review. I'm living in the middle of my own hard.
You can get this book through your local Christian bookstore or online retailer.
I received a free copy of this book from the publisher for the purpose of review. All opinions are my own.
Life is messy and it oozes it’s mess all over. Life is messy when those we love don’t love us in return. Life is messy when friends say good-bye. Life is messy when mates say good-bye either by death or divorce. Life is messy when people are in it.
Sometimes life seems more messy for some than for others. This is, or can be, especially true when we’re on the outside looking in, or on the inside looking out. We all have a tendency to judge our neighbor’s outside by our inside.
And we lose badly when we do that.
We need to realize we each have pain. And each life is messy.
Is there hope? Is there a cure? What can we do? Can a Bissell vacuum clean up this mess?
Sheila Walsh knows very well how messy life can be, she knows well the sting of gut-wrenching, leg crippling pain. Her father passed away when Sheila was still a very young girl, she grew up believing she was responsible for his death. She has battled depression and thoughts of suicide.
She has written several books about her struggles, the latest of these is In the Middle of the Mess. It’s a book about finding Jesus in the middle of our mess. It’s finding Him and His strength and healing. It’s a book about inviting Him into the middle of our messes and experiencing His life and His healing. It’s inviting Him in so we can hear His voice right there in the middle of our messy life.
This was a very difficult book for me to me to read and review. I'm living in the middle of my own hard.
You can get this book through your local Christian bookstore or online retailer.
I received a free copy of this book from the publisher for the purpose of review. All opinions are my own.
February 2, 2018
The Middle of the Mess is insightful, informative, and filled with the perfect blend of real talk and vulnerability.
Walsh excels in her gentle combination of story and reflection. Her ability to bring life to her words by letting the stories take their time to ebb and flow adds depth that only an experienced storyteller can bring.
I spend a lot of time with my nose buried in psychology and self-help books (counselling classes tend to do that to a person) but the most impactful are always the ones where the author weaves together heart with truth, a mix Walsh has mastered.Walsh has walked through the darkest of valleys and calls out to readers from a place of familiarity not superiority. I loved this as it makes the book relatable and referable. Let's face it, everyone today is touched by mental health. It's also probably one of the more stigmatized categories of illness. Walsh's book seeks to battle the stigma with information, heart, and humanity, the best weapons.
Obviously, for those familiar with Walsh's career the presence of a strong faith/theological component will come as no surprise. While there are no startling revelations in her material such as the importance of community, the journey of salvation, God's desire in our lives - the straightforwardness with which she pairs these truths with the realities facing those battling mental illness is encouraging and a great resource for those in the middle of such a battle or supporting someone who is.
4.5 out of 5 stars.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher through the BookLook Bloggers book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 : “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.
Walsh excels in her gentle combination of story and reflection. Her ability to bring life to her words by letting the stories take their time to ebb and flow adds depth that only an experienced storyteller can bring.
I spend a lot of time with my nose buried in psychology and self-help books (counselling classes tend to do that to a person) but the most impactful are always the ones where the author weaves together heart with truth, a mix Walsh has mastered.Walsh has walked through the darkest of valleys and calls out to readers from a place of familiarity not superiority. I loved this as it makes the book relatable and referable. Let's face it, everyone today is touched by mental health. It's also probably one of the more stigmatized categories of illness. Walsh's book seeks to battle the stigma with information, heart, and humanity, the best weapons.
Obviously, for those familiar with Walsh's career the presence of a strong faith/theological component will come as no surprise. While there are no startling revelations in her material such as the importance of community, the journey of salvation, God's desire in our lives - the straightforwardness with which she pairs these truths with the realities facing those battling mental illness is encouraging and a great resource for those in the middle of such a battle or supporting someone who is.
4.5 out of 5 stars.
Disclosure of Material Connection: I received this book free from the publisher through the BookLook Bloggers book review bloggers program. I was not required to write a positive review. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255 : “Guides Concerning the Use of Endorsements and Testimonials in Advertising.
November 8, 2017
How can i review such an amazing work it is one of those book that is needed by so many whether they know it or not, please that is not a arrogant boast I just have been blown away by this book. When I first heard of this book before it was published I was longing to read it but then I saw it was for Ladies. Now I have read it I am convinced that it will benefit many many men as well, ( just know your GOD's man as opposed to his special girl) so please please do not let that put you off. Anyone who encourages you to shout out to GOD all that's going on inside of you has stepped into the heart of GOD in my view. I do want to come clean and say that Sheila has played a large part in my history, we don't know each other personally but in the 80,s I saw her perform many times in England (sorry never Scotland) and still find strength from Triumph in the air plus to every season turn turn. Now those song have a renewed strength knowing some of what went on in her life back then, it's worth utubing if that's the word some of Her songs. But back to the book please don't miss out on this incredible healing and freeing work, I believe from God through Sheila, She goes from broken to mending a journey that she isn't on on her own but you may feel you are, trust me your not if not me then trust the bravery of Sheila Walsh. Here is one of her quotes
No matter your circumstances, here’s the truth: You have a story, and that story has its own peculiar mess. You can confess that story to Christ and let go. You can let Him start a work of healing, even now, right in the middle of your mess.
I have been given a free copy of this book from NetGalley in return for a honest review, but I now intend to buy some copies for some of my hurting friends.
No matter your circumstances, here’s the truth: You have a story, and that story has its own peculiar mess. You can confess that story to Christ and let go. You can let Him start a work of healing, even now, right in the middle of your mess.
I have been given a free copy of this book from NetGalley in return for a honest review, but I now intend to buy some copies for some of my hurting friends.
December 19, 2017
In her long-awaited new book, Sheila Walsh equips women with a practical method for connecting with God’s strength in the midst of struggle. From daily frustrations that can feel like overwhelming obstacles to hard challenges that turn into rock-bottom crises, women will find the means to equip themselves for standing strong with God. Using the spiritual applications of confession, prayer, and meditation on Scripture to form a daily connection to Jesus, women will learn how to experience new joy as a child of God who is fully known, fully loved, and fully accepted. In In the Middle of the Mess, Walsh reveals the hardened defenses that kept her from allowing God into her deepest hurts and shares how entering into a safe place with God and practicing this daily connection with him have saved her from the devil’s prowling attacks. Though we will never be completely “fixed” on earth, we are continually held by Jesus, whatever our circumstances.
In another coffee-shop style book (where the author seems to be conversing with the reader over coffee and pastries, rather than preaching to the reader), we hear from a woman who has walked through the darkness and lived to share her story. Grief and depression nearly broke her, but she found healing and strength ‘in the middle of {her} mess,’ and she wants us to, too. She encourages those suffering hard times to really let out that anger, fear, sadness, and other raw emotions – talk to God about it – because he will take it in and give us what we need. Whether we do it with others, or just unload ourselves onto God, it’s about knowing that you’re not alone in the middle of it all.
In another coffee-shop style book (where the author seems to be conversing with the reader over coffee and pastries, rather than preaching to the reader), we hear from a woman who has walked through the darkness and lived to share her story. Grief and depression nearly broke her, but she found healing and strength ‘in the middle of {her} mess,’ and she wants us to, too. She encourages those suffering hard times to really let out that anger, fear, sadness, and other raw emotions – talk to God about it – because he will take it in and give us what we need. Whether we do it with others, or just unload ourselves onto God, it’s about knowing that you’re not alone in the middle of it all.
November 30, 2017
My Review of: In the Middle of the Mess: Strength For This Beautiful, Broken Life
By Sheila Walsh
Real Hope For Real Life
Sheila Walsh has written a book full of hope, encouragement and truth. In the Middle of the Mess: Strength For This Beautiful, Broken Life, Sheila gives practical waysof handling struggles, challenges, and discouragement. She draws on truth from the Bible, guiding readers back to the Lord.
This book showed me that God is with me in the middle of my messes, my real life. I found comfort knowing that I am deeply loved by the Lord; He cares about what I am going through, and He is right beside me. Real hope for my very real life.
Sheila writes openly and honestly from her heart. She shares her own personal struggles, and the lies that were defeated by applying the truth of God's Word. In the Middle of the Mess is fresh hope and encouragement for those facing times of disappointment, difficult circumstances, or are worn out and feel hopeless.
I have read several of Sheila's previous books, and In the Middle of the Mess does not disappoint. I very highly recommend In the Middle of the Mess: Strength For This Beautiful, Broken Life. I know I will be reading this book over and over again, gleaning truths and insights that provide strength and comfort. Sheila Walsh has written another wonderful book!
*I received an Advanced Reader's Copy from Handlebar Marketing in exchange for my honest review. The opinion stated is my own. I have not been compensated in any way.*
By Sheila Walsh
Real Hope For Real Life
Sheila Walsh has written a book full of hope, encouragement and truth. In the Middle of the Mess: Strength For This Beautiful, Broken Life, Sheila gives practical waysof handling struggles, challenges, and discouragement. She draws on truth from the Bible, guiding readers back to the Lord.
This book showed me that God is with me in the middle of my messes, my real life. I found comfort knowing that I am deeply loved by the Lord; He cares about what I am going through, and He is right beside me. Real hope for my very real life.
Sheila writes openly and honestly from her heart. She shares her own personal struggles, and the lies that were defeated by applying the truth of God's Word. In the Middle of the Mess is fresh hope and encouragement for those facing times of disappointment, difficult circumstances, or are worn out and feel hopeless.
I have read several of Sheila's previous books, and In the Middle of the Mess does not disappoint. I very highly recommend In the Middle of the Mess: Strength For This Beautiful, Broken Life. I know I will be reading this book over and over again, gleaning truths and insights that provide strength and comfort. Sheila Walsh has written another wonderful book!
*I received an Advanced Reader's Copy from Handlebar Marketing in exchange for my honest review. The opinion stated is my own. I have not been compensated in any way.*
December 1, 2017
I must admit, when I picked up this book to read it for the first time, I had to put it down. It was too much for me. I had just gotten married and the stress of wedding planning and having the large scale event in another country was still quite fresh in my mind. I felt as though "Whew....I'll be glad to read about someone else's journey now that I'm on the other side of this momentous, emotion-filled occasion." As a week or two went by and I picked the book back up. I was ready to dive into someone else's journey and stressors--ones much different and deeper than I had ever experienced.
Sheila Walsh shows us an insider's view on a topic that most often goes unspoken:suicide and sucidial thoughts. Being more of an autobiographical book, the author brings to light family secrets that many of us have and yet have kept hidden. Walsh shows us the power in being honest with God and others about these struggles and breaking the power they have when they are kept in the dark.
As someone who wasn't familiar with Sheila Walsh before this book, I read it from a point of view of another person sharing her everyday story. Since reading it, I have seen her on Life Today and realize the book may have even more impact on someone who has seen her in this public role and now can see the internal struggle.
This review is part of my partnership with Handlebar Press to post a review in exchange for an advance copy of the book "In the Middle of the Mess, Strength for This Beautiful, Broken Life" by Sheila Walsh.
Sheila Walsh shows us an insider's view on a topic that most often goes unspoken:suicide and sucidial thoughts. Being more of an autobiographical book, the author brings to light family secrets that many of us have and yet have kept hidden. Walsh shows us the power in being honest with God and others about these struggles and breaking the power they have when they are kept in the dark.
As someone who wasn't familiar with Sheila Walsh before this book, I read it from a point of view of another person sharing her everyday story. Since reading it, I have seen her on Life Today and realize the book may have even more impact on someone who has seen her in this public role and now can see the internal struggle.
This review is part of my partnership with Handlebar Press to post a review in exchange for an advance copy of the book "In the Middle of the Mess, Strength for This Beautiful, Broken Life" by Sheila Walsh.
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