Do your impulsive thoughts and actions bring only trouble? Do you often grab your head muttering “what was I thinking?” There is a our first, instinctual thoughts and actions are usually irrational and self-sabotaging. Discipline Your Thoughts will tell you why and also how can you correct it. We make thinking errors on a day-to-day basis. They come naturally, thus we don’t think that we think in a distorted way , however, they can have a severe negative effect on our lives. Knowing what they are and how to identify them, we can help ourselves making better choices. In what area of life? All of personal relationships, business choices, spending habits, health-related engagements. Our mind doesn’t work the way we think it does. This book presents the scientific background of thinking errors related to behavior, social relations, and memory through the most famous psychology experiments, behavioral economics research, neuropsychology, and the author’s own observations. What remains is an entertaining but practical and informative guide to discipline your thoughts. Become less irrational. This book aims to help you think about your thinking and find better solutions to your problems. • Why are first impressions so powerful and permanent? • Why do we rely on the first thought that pops into our mind? • How can certain advertisements make us open our wallet immediately? • How and why does our memory fool us on a daily basis? Again and again, we think we experience and understand the world as it is, but our thoughts are beset by everyday illusions. Discipline Your Thoughts reveals the many ways our intuition can deceive us, why we succumb to these everyday brain tricks and what we can do to inoculate ourselves against their effects. Simple, clear, and always surprising, this indispensable book will transform your decision making. Correct the errors in your thinking habits and resist falling into your mental ambushes. • Why we take bad decisions following the opinion of the masses? • How we underestimate the power of emotions in rational decisions? • Why we need instant confirmation to support our ideas? • How ego distorts the sense of reality? Less biased thinking will lead to smart decision making which leads to better relationships, financial decisions, health-related choices. Make fewer mistakes in your thinking – prevention is easier than correction. Improve your beliefs, social biases, and memory mix-ups by understanding how your brain works.
Whether you're new to cognitive biases or you've already read a bunch of books on this topic, this book is worth a read. It's a short and to the point book about various biases everyone has, quick examples of each bias, and actions we can take to avoid said biases. It can work as a solid introduction into the field or a reminder of biases we should be trying to avoid. It wasn't my first book on the topic, but I learned about a couple of new biases I had not heard about before.
It's a content-dense book. Even though I usually listen to audiobooks at 3.0x speed, I slowed this one down to 2.0x to get everything out of it. The narration was even and sounded great at the increased listening speed (which doesn't always happen).
This was a good book until the need for meditation came into the process. I am someone who doesn't meditate and gets nothing from it, so to see such great work hampered by my exclusion by way of not meditating makes me give the book less.
There is some great information here otherwise, a great consolidation of what biases and thinking is. A good reference guide once you boil out the need to meditate
Steven's insights on anchoring, empathy, and biases such as self-serving, ego-centric, authority, illusory, and in-group are worth noting.
It was interesting to learn that bilingual people have a greater sense of empathy than single-language speaking people due to their multi-lingual capabilities helping them know what other cultures go through. Best of all, it was great to learn that depressed people have the least amount of ego-centrism due to them truly knowing what they contributed to groups. Their displacement, thanks to in-group bias, the bias that is centered toward group fit, causes them to know that they were unfairly treated. Still, the unfair treatment hurts them and thus they remain depressed.
The quote I love from the book comes from Albert Einstein: "If you can’t explain it simply you don’t understand it enough." This book is too good to be a 3.7-star book. Steven probably is a victim of the negative readers' biases based on in-group, illusory, false consensus, self-serving, and ego-centric personality attributes and no empathy. Maybe if they recognized each of these attributes, they'd appreciate Steven's work more.
I choose 3/5, because it is short version of something big that Title promises. Saw it on amazon recomendations, because I have read similar books, but after reading a lot of similar subject, this book is mildly interesting.
But, it have large pool of references to it's sources, which I greatly apprechiated. It gave me a lot material for "reading further".
Even if I am disssatisfied with volume of the subject, it is a good read afterall. I reccomend it.