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These no-longer-newlyweds want out of this road trip-and their marriage. Too bad they can't find the off ramp. Mallory and Connor Duncan can't even agree on how to end their marriage. Weeks away from their one-year wedding anniversary, the couple is ready to call it quits. But when a last-minute crisis lands them on a 3,000-mile road trip together, Mallory wonders if their story may not be over after all. The trip begins to unravel before the key is even in the ignition, and an at-risk, trouble-seeking missile of an eleven-year-old is unexpectedly thrown into their travel plans. Close quarters get even tighter, and the couple starts to believe this whole experience will spell disaster. But as new challenges pop up around each bend, Mallory and Connor are surprised by the strengths they see in one another-and how they complement each other. Their first year of marriage hasn't been the arm-in-arm togetherness they expected. . .but can they find a new beginning when the road ends?

542 pages, Library Binding

First published October 1, 2018

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Cynthia Ruchti

38 books969 followers
Cynthia Ruchti tells stories hemmed-in-Hope through her novels and novellas, nonfiction books and devotionals, and through speaking for women's and writers' events. Her books have been recognized by many top industry readers', reviewers', library, retailer, and other honors. Cynthia is the Professional Relations Liaison for American Christian Fiction Writers (ACFW) and a literary agent with Books & Such Literary Management. She and her plot-tweaking husband live in the heart of Wisconsin, not far from their three children and five (to date) grandchildren.

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1,504 reviews206 followers
October 30, 2018
Miles From Where We Started

Cynthia Ruchti


MILES FROM WHERE WE STARTED is the first book I've ever read by Cynthia Ruchti. I loved everything about this beautiful story and I'm excited to read more by Ms. Ruchti. Cynthia Ruchti really has a way of grabbing her readers and she never lets us go. One week from their one year wedding anniversary, Mallory and Connor know their marriage is in trouble. They can't even agree how to end their relationship. If you are looking for a beautiful story to pull you out of your book slump, you can’t go wrong with MILES FROM WHERE WE STARTED.


Neither one of them expected their marriage would end so quickly. But you know what they say about life's plans, they hardly ever turn out the way you thought they would but they are sometimes exactly what you need. When a last minute trip arises, Mallory begins to wonder if their relationship just might stand a chance. They begin their three thousand road trip without knowing how it will end. MILES FROM WHERE WE STARTED really takes a turn that will have you unable to put this beautiful story.


MILES FROM WHERE WE STARTED is filled with twists and turns and had me staying up way too late one night to finish! I had to know where Cynthia Ruchti was taking us and what would happen to Mallory and Connor. How could Connor want to end his marriage based on the fact that he may or may not have a genetic condition? There is so much heart in Cynthia's writing that I was left with a huge smile on my face and my heart very happy. All of the characters are very interesting and believable, so much so that I felt as if I've known them for a long time. I'm so excited to read more of Cynthia Ruchti's previous books! Can Connor and Mallory save their marriage and deal with whatever comes their way as far as Connor's health goes? You are going to want to read MILES FROM WHERE WE STARTED!


I received a complimentary copy of this book from CelebrateLit. Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own.
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2,875 reviews1,436 followers
December 13, 2018
This was another story I simply couldn’t lay aside. There’s so much here, along with a very good spiritual lesson as well.

Judah felt so authentic for an out-of-control eleven-year-old. His attitude and words were just spot-on to how some kids around me act.

Mallory and Connor, though....my!! So much angst there as we peel backs the layer of what happened between the two of them. Wow. One year only and the in-love couple has ended up on two different planets. Road tripping when poles apart sure isn’t going to be easy.

I especially appreciated that Ruchti unveiled a story rather than throwing melodrama onto the page for the sake of sensation. The result is a well-crafted, believable story that feels like someone actually lived all those events. I enjoyed it immensely.

Thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for a free copy. A positive review was not required.
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561 reviews60 followers
October 25, 2018
Reviewed at The Power of Words: https://bit.ly/2PlikVV

A surly preteen was ensconced behind her, grumbling under his breath. The man she loved but couldn’t keep was positioned behind the wheel. And they were towing an impossible housing situation to parts unknown....She couldn’t think of a single reason for peace to have appeared on the scene. But there it was.

Cynthia Ruchti is consistently among my very favorite authors, and Miles from Where We Started is her latest release in a long line of outstanding, hope-filled stories. She has the ability to craft real situations and characters – imperfect characters – place them in tough circumstances where self-reliance isn’t enough, and infuse them with the hope and grace that we all long for. Miles from Where We Started is filled with Ruchti’s lyrical prose, emotional, humorous, heartwarming, and relevant to our daily Christian walk.

It’s refreshing to read a story that focuses on the marriage rather than courtship. If ever a couple needed the hope that Ruchti beautifully reflects in everything she writes, it’s Connor and Mallory, a young couple who are almost one year into what seems to be a failed marriage. Connor lived with the 50/50 chance that he had inherited the gene for a debilitating disease, and thought he was acting in Mallory’s best interests by walking away.

Mallory had a heart for troubled teens, working to help “displaced, confused, bullied or bullying, lost or listing – God love them – teens in search of a secret passageway to hope. Some had never seen a glimpse.” With no advance warming, Connor and Mallory are given a unique road-trip/video blog opportunity, which will hopefully impact their respective businesses – and maybe impact their marriage and the life of a young boy in the process. Eleven-year-old Judah tugs at the heart and is one of the most memorable characters ever. A delightful secondary cast, rich in all they contribute, populates this novel also.

"A mile of silence is longer than a regular mile" (Day 2). As each day’s journey increases the physical miles beyond the starting point, the spiritual miles also increase. Faith, mercy, grace, commitment and second chances are a huge part of this story, skillfully woven in the narrative for maximum impact. Two things stood out to me … One, that the waterfalls they visited were symbolic of God’s peace and healing. Secondly, that directions for each stop were given in daily increments, just like God only gives us enough light for the step we’re currently on.

Miles from Where We Started is to be treasured and read slowly, so as to savor each nuance and thought. “Best of the Best” list for me!

Very highly recommended.

I received a copy of this book through Celebrate Lit. The opinions expressed in this review are entirely my own.
6,162 reviews
October 16, 2018
Miles from Where We Started is yet another winner by Cynthia Ruchti. She knows how to write believable characters that readers can relate to and this book is proof of that. I enjoyed this story. My favorite character would have to be Judah. I personally he was hilarious and a perfect addition to Mallory and Connor Duncan’s world. I loved the journey they all went on. I never knew what would happen to them next.

I would give Miles from Where We Started one hundred stars if I could. I highly recommend it for readers who need to something that is clean, heartwarming, inspirational, full of faith, and lessons that so many of us all could learn from.

Miles from Where We Started is a great book that readers should not miss. I had a hard time putting the book down and wound up reading it in after a few hours.
I received this book from the publisher. This review is 100% my own honest opinion.
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3,236 reviews490 followers
October 23, 2018
It took me a bit to get into this book, but when the child arrived it became a page-turner, how I loved him, a tough little cookie.
The author has us with a couple that has been married less than a year, but are about to thrown the towel. What happens next is something you never expect, when these two take off in a mini camper with an eleven-year-old boy, not related to them. There isn’t room in this thing to even turn around and now there are three of them traveling around the country. It soon becomes so funny that I found myself falling in love, especially with the boy, you never knew what was going to happen next.
I don’t think you will be disappointed picking this one up, and as we travel we find so many people with such great compassion, this one will make you think!

I received this book through Net Galley and the Publisher Gilead, and was not required to give a positive review.


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457 reviews23 followers
January 5, 2019
I can’t even imagine the three-week trip Mallory and Connor Duncan attempt in a teardrop-shaped micro camper. Add in an at-risk, troublesome eleven-year-old, Judah, and you wonder whether it’s an adventure or a disaster. You will fall in love with the characters. Although I got a little irritated with Connor and his self-centered attitude. He seems more obsessed with the RoadRave account than working to salvage his one-year marriage to Mallory. Will they survive the trip? Will they discover a new beginning miles from where they started? Don’t miss this one!
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4,706 reviews111 followers
February 16, 2019
GNAB Connor Duncan is the son and grandson of men carrying the gene mutation that results in a 50% chance of suffering with von Hippel-Lindau or VHL, a disease that results in body-wide tumors that even if benign can result in blindness, mental and/or memory problems, or death. Mere months after his marriage to Mallory, his brother dies unexpectedly from this same disease, and Connor begins distancing himself from everyone he cares about. Mallory finds herself facing divorce before their first anniversary and to add to the frustration, a simple DNA test could verify whether or not Connor carries the mutation, but he refuses to have the test done. And he refuses to believe that Mallory loves him enough in any case, and if they draw the short straw she will deal with it, just as Connor's Mother has. He however refuses to take a chance on putting her into the situation he has watched his mother have to handle over the years.

They are both facing challenges with their chosen field of work, as well. Connor is half of a two man marketing firm courting their make-or-break national client, RoadRave. RoadRave is a firm producing innovations in camping and leisure equipment and are attempting to bring back the no-pressure, non-Interstate method of family travel, with many small, interesting destinations instead of the frantic pace to a single destination - say DisneyLand or NYC. And to launch RoadRave, Connor and his partner Nathan Troyer will be taking the show on the road, with a RoadRave low profile tear-drop camp trailer and a three week road trip - with only 24 hours of daily destinations known to the crew of Nathan, his 11 year old at-risk nephew Judah, and Connor. They will be using traditional news and advertising as well as flooding social media in hopes of having their trip go viral.

Mallory on the other hand is the director of Hope Street Youth Center, a non-profit working with at-risk, troubled and homeless teens, finding them access to lodging, sources of meals and medical assistance, educational opportunities, and mentors. Her job entails finding said sources, either donated or paid for by donations and grants, and so most of her work is done via phone and internet from home.

And then Nathan is called for Jury Duty. He flat refuses to request a deferment, stating that he has to meet this social duty and pushing his share of the trip responsibilities onto Mallorie's shoulders. She can work from anywhere, and is used to working with problem teens so Judah will be no problem, despite the fact that he doesn't know the Duncan couple. The heavily advertised launch for the RoadRave trip is non-refundable and a will make or break the marketing firm of Troyer and Duncan.

Yeah, that's going to work. Miles From Where We Started is a quick, fun Christian read suitable for teens as well as adults, the characters are likable and the road trip is enlightening. I can happily recommend this novel to friends and family.

I received a free electronic copy of this novel from Netgalley, Cynthia Ruchti and Gilead Publishing in exchange for an honest review. Thank you all for sharing your hard work with me.


pub date October 16, 2018
rec October 22, 2018
Gilead Publishing
Profile Image for Karen R.
738 reviews91 followers
November 26, 2018
Anyone up for a road trip? This one is life changing for the three people who embark on it--an adventure meant to salvage a company. Throw in a marriage on the rocks, plus a snarky preteen boy, and send them off together in a tiny camper for three weeks. Are we having fun yet?

"Love Takes Courage."
Mallory's personal slogan for the trip and ultimately her marriage says it all. The first year of any marriage takes a lot of adjustment, but this one seemed like it dropped out of the honeymoon phase early on. It reminded me of my own a bit too much at times, which made for an uncomfortable read in the beginning, with a lot of hurt and pride in the mix. As with all of this author's books that I've read so far though, she brings a lot of hope to the table and enough faith to make it work into something good. It brought the verse to mind in Romans 8:28, that says God can work all things together for good for those who love him. When they begin to consider the faith factor into their marriage, encouraged by all of the wonderful examples of various people they've met along the way, the hope meter zooms upward. Judah is a fun add to the mix, with his own needs for love and acceptance. Families come in all shapes and sizes for sure, glued together with love and commitment. "That's what families do--give everything."

Readers who enjoy contemporary character driven stories, with realistic relationships, will want to add this to their reading list. 4.5 stars

(An e-book was provided by the publisher via NetGalley. All opinions are my own.)
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2,304 reviews667 followers
September 24, 2018
Cynthia Ruchti is so good at weaving a touch of humor into a heavy matter of the heart.

In Miles from Where we Started, main characters Mallory and Connor Duncan have been married not even a year and Connor declares he wants to end the marriage. To help out Connor's business and to try to salvage their marriage, Mallory agrees to a three week road trip in a tear drop camper with Connor. At the last minute an 11 year old foster child, Judah, is added to the journey.

Mallory, Connor and Judah meet so many wonderful people during their road trip. It brings to mind if we stop to really get to know others, what might we offer to them? Learn from them? I think we are so busy, we fail to slow down enough to connect at any level with strangers.

Judah's snarky sense of humor added lightness to the heaviness of Mallory and Connor's marital problems. I adored Judah.

I was blessed to be a part of the journey in Miles From Where we Started. My gratitude to publisher Gilead for a complimentary NetGalley copy of the novel. I was not required to post a review and all opinions expressed are my own.
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500 reviews64 followers
November 1, 2018
I enjoyed this story. It had a lot of depth and substance. The 2 main characters, Mallory and Connor are dealing with some heavy issues and find themselves on a cross country road trip with a troubled pre-teen as their marriage is on the brink of dissolving. 

I appreciated the honesty in the story...neither of the characters had a deep relationship with the Lord at first and their growth came very naturally. They also struggled realistically with having a troubled youth tagging along on their trip while dealing with relationship issues. 

The story progressed naturally and along the way the characters met many interesting people and saw many sights. I love a good road trip story and this one was very well done...atmospheric and definitely worth a read. I highly recommend it!

I received this book to review. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
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2,002 reviews273 followers
September 27, 2018
'Forgive more than you think you should have to. And that includes yourself.'

This was my first book by Cynthia Ruchti and it will not be the last. This one is going on my top ten reads of 2018. Worth a re-read, too, down the road.

Connor and Mallory Duncan have decided to end their year long marriage. Well, Connor has. He has his reasons but Mallory doesn't agree with him at all. They can't agree on how to end the marriage, though. A last minute situation sends them off on a three thousand mile road trip in a mini camper and Mallory feels like their marriage just might have a chance. Then an 11 year old at risk boy is tossed into the mix and their travel quarters, while impossibly close already, become closer still. This is not a recipe for anything good to happen and quite possibly, disaster will happen. Will their marriage end for good? Can they find a new beginning on this trip?

This book captured my attention from the very first chapter and held me completely until the last word. This young couple truly do love each other, but circumstances cause one of them to think they have no future. I felt their love for each other, their pain and their heartache. The emotions ran deep, hard at times, nearly too hard, but there also was a sweetness to it all. As they set out on their journey across America, they run into some absolutely wonderful people. People that blessed me to no end, making me wish I could run into them myself. Each group they ran into imparted great wisdom and strength and love to them. These people deposited so much grace into Mallory and Connor's life and also to mine! Sometimes you read a book that just doesn't want to leave you for a while. This is such a book.

I wept through the last fourth of this book. Everything about it was so tremendously powerful. I am richer for having read this book. I highly recommend it. Truly. Do not miss this book.

*My thanks to the publisher for a copy of this book via Net Galley. All opinions stated here are entirely my own.
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Author 21 books84 followers
October 27, 2018
Welcome to this installment of Kristin’s Book Reviews. This week I’m reviewing ‘Miles from Where We Started’ by Cynthia Ruchti.

I give this book 4/5 stars.

In my last review, I took on another well known author (Rachel Hauck), and I have to say there is a reason these authors are well known. Ruchti took a story that could have been too much and gave it just the right amount of everything to make it engaging, touching, and pure awesome. I know I have a history of complaining about books where the main plot hinges on lack of communication between the two protagonists, but in this case I thought it was believable. The lack of communication I mean… not really the crazy campaign that hurls the two soon-to-be-divorced protagonists into a trip that cannot be delayed.

That part was far fetched. Yes, I believe jury duty is important, but there was just a lot of set up to get the two main characters into a predicament where they are trapped on a road trip together—with a troubled pre-teen. But you go along with Ruchti on this far-fetched journey because she’s so good at what she does. I was more than willing to suspend belief in order to travel the road set before Connor and Mallory.

I do have to admit that I thought Mallory’s mountain top moment (taped in secret by the previously mentioned troubled pre-teen) was cheesy. I couldn’t understand why her yelling what she yelled where she yelled it would go viral, but once again, I was willing to suspend my belief in order to finish this literary journey.

My favorite setting was the tiny-home park. I would love to live in a place like that! In this book, the different settings become their own characters, especially the different waterfalls.

I would easily recommend this book to anyone, but especially those who have a pre-teen stinking up their surroundings with dirty socks (I can so relate).
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Author 13 books148 followers
October 28, 2018
I love the title of this book because it applies to almost every aspect of Connor’s and Mallory’s lives—emotional, relational, geographical, occupational, spiritual, and any other -al you can think of.

Cynthia Ruchti pulls back the veil of happily-ever-after and digs into the work it takes to make a marriage work. When Connor steps in front of God, deciding what’s best for himself and his wife of less than a year, things fall apart.

The road trip (aka adventure) is a fantastic metaphor for life. Along the way, we should stop and appreciate the scenery. We’ll meet people who have walked the road before us who model what is needed but also the truth in love into our doubts and fears. Mis-directions and unexpected detours are to be expected. But most of all, the journey, though difficult at times, is better shared with those we love along for the ride.

I’m not sure why this is the first book penned by Ruchti that I’ve read, but I can say without a doubt, this author is one I’ll be reading more stories from soon.

Disclosure statement:
I receive complimentary books from publishers, publicists, and/or authors, including NetGalley. I am not required to write positive reviews. The opinions I have expressed are my own. I am disclosing this in accordance with the Federal Trade Commission’s 16 CFR, Part 255.
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755 reviews108 followers
November 2, 2018
4.5 stars

"They were that good at acting, at preserving appearances."
Sometimes you read a book, a story that does something to you. Author Cynthia Ruchti have always had that ability for me. Each of her stories that I've read stirred something, be it in my mind or my heart, it made me ponder. Her latest release, Miles from Where We Started does just that.

"Words matter. . ."

It's refreshing when a story is not about finding love, but what comes after. Many Hallmark movies will portray a couple towards marriage and that would make it a happy ever after ending. Yet, in reality, we all know that's not where it ends, but rather where life begins in a whole new adventure and journey.

After one year, still considered newlyweds, our main characters Connor and Mallory is in the midst of a breakdown of their marriage. Then, when life and circumstances throws them together on a literal journey, camping and roadtrip-ing with an "at-risk" youth, what God plans may just let them see the hope and faith in "togetherness" to travel through life's bumps on the road.

"But it might be very, very hard . . . I know. And it doesn't matter. Because . . . love."

What really have me thinking how love can bind people together, but to keep it strong, the strength of that bind needs to be mixed in with faith, trust, hope and yes, communication. What the author accomplished is for readers to experience that with our characters, but also their journey of uncertainty, for their personal lives as well as the literal sense of not knowing their destination until it was given to them. There are details to be had, and our God is a God of details, despite what we may think at times.

". . . ready to take another step up in adulting? And in a God who cares about details. . ."

In all, Miles from Where We Started has such a poetic flavor to it, from beginning to end, it gives value to the miles travel, leading to a sense of hope for what to come. It may not be for every reader, but definitely one that I know will be cherished and remembered.
"This is not how our story ends."



Disclaimer: I received a copy of this book from the author/publisher. I was not required to write a positive review, and have not been compensated for this. This is my honest opinion.
2,041 reviews
November 2, 2018
Author Ruchti knows how to write relevant stories in such a way that has you flipping pages. This story is about marriage, a marriage that is dying, and to one spouse it is dead. Mallory and Connor were two characters that I genuinely liked. Both were dedicated to their careers, but not so much each other. There was more to the problems of their marriage and Connor had already made up his mind that it would be best for them to divorce.

As we read through this story, we get more of their back story and their view points. Connor and Mallory are suddenly thrown together for a 3000 mile trip to promote a business Connor and his business partner, Nathan, have been trying to sign on. Not only that, but Nathan needs them to take his 11 year old nephew Judah as well. Judah was a very smart if not sassy kid who has had his fair share of pain in his life. So in this mix you have a broken marriage and a troubled kid, and all three are going to make a go of this trip-which will be video logged to the masses as well. The company will be sending them on an adventure where you “just add humans” as they try to promote RoadRave’s camper and other ingenious ideas to get families back on the road and spending quality time together.

What an adventure it was-heartwarming, sad, happy, and meaningful. These three would need to work together to survive this trip and to save Connor’s business. Three weeks together in the vehicle doing nothing but spending time together and seeing the sites. Mallory is hurt and wants to keep working on their marriage and I like that at the beginning of this trip she acknowledges this just might be the answer to her prayers. An answer that will take courage and some ingenuity to pull off, because in her book marriage was supposed to be forever.

While reading this I wanted to take the trip, only with a bigger camper.

I received a complimentary copy of this book. I was not required to post a positive review and all views and opinions are my own.

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1,034 reviews33 followers
February 8, 2019
Mallory and Connor Duncan are nearing their first year anniversary - and it may be their only one if Connor goes through with his intentions to separate. He carries a 50/50 chance of developing the condition that took his brother's life and has crippled his father. Although he let himself fall in love, Connor realizes now he doesn't want Mallory to face the trials of a caretaker. He's seen the toll it has taken on his mother.

While Mallory keeps busy working with at-risk youth, she can't figure out how to save her at-risk marriage. She's willing to do whatever it takes to prove to Connor that she wants to stay with him. When "whatever it takes" turns out to be a 3-week road trip in a micro camper, with the whole thing being filmed for Connor's business... well, that's a lot. Especially when his business associate's 11-year-old nephew has to come along for the ride. Can they pretend for the camera and survive in close quarters for so long?

As Connor, Mallory, and Judah travel the back roads of America, the experiences they share and the people they meet will challenge their perceptions of life. This trip will definitely change things, for better or worse.

This was a bit of a tough read. I got a little frustrated with layers of Connor and Mallory's conversation, constantly talking about the separation even when they weren't talking about it. The plot also seemed contrived in parts. There were lots of things I did enjoy, and there were twists that I did not see coming, it just was slow going at times. Cynthia Ruchti is a special storyteller who will always catch my attention!

This review originated at http://reviewsbyerin.dreamwidth.org
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5,155 reviews3,134 followers
October 11, 2018
Ruchti is a talented writer who always gets to the hearts of her characters and this transfers directly to the reader. This latest offering is a quietly intense story about commitment and surrender.
It took me quite a bit to get invested in this story. We start out not really knowing what is going on other than that this couple's one-year marriage is in trouble. Soon the reader is given more information and then the story takes off.
I loved Judah and the balance he provided between Mallory and Connor. His young street-smart perspective gave the perfect counterbalance to the couple's strengths and weaknesses.
I personally know of a couple dealing with a hereditary illness similar to the one in Connor's family. If I didn't know how devastating this has been for the older married couple, as well as the effects it has had on their young adult children wondering if it will hit them, I don't know that I would have been as invested in the story as much as I was. That part is very realistic, and those of us who don't have that threat hanging over our heads cannot fathom the far-reaching effects this has on a marriage at any stage.
I became so fascinated throughout the journey of the characters as well as the interesting people they met along the way. Wisdom about freedom, forgiveness, faith, and family resonate throughout the tale. I highly recommend setting back into this novel and letting God show you what lessons He wants you to learn, because I certainly learned some things about myself along the way.

I voluntarily reviewed a complimentary copy of this book, all opinions are my own.
458 reviews19 followers
December 31, 2020
Love love and love this story!! There are so many times in life when we just don't understand what God is doing because nothing makes any sense whatsoever. What seems to look like an absolute disaster to us could very well be the starting point for the biggest adventure of our lives. He loves to surprise us with things that take our breath away when all of the pieces come together. We just have to trust Him.
467 reviews50 followers
October 29, 2018
Miles from Where We Started by Cynthia Ruchti. Cynthia has written another book that will touch your heart. This is a story filled with hope, uncertainly and unforgettable moments. I love reading Cynthia’s books. Be sure to get your copy of Miles from Where We Started today.
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Author 6 books960 followers
October 9, 2019
Such a fun read! I loved the dynamics between the three main characters, who are stuck together on a long road trip. Memorable and sweet!
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Author 8 books72 followers
October 4, 2018
Ruchti's novels are such a joy to read. While this one took me a bit longer to get into than some, it was nonetheless enjoyable. Overall, this is a beautiful tale with hope and God's mercy woven throughout the laughter and tears.

The setting was unique, and it was interesting to "meet" the people along the way with Mallory, Connor, and Judah. The author is a master at crafting realistic scenarios, making the reader feel they've stepped into the story. Judah adds a nice twist, and he was my favorite character. The book may have the reader pondering what we can learn, and offer, to those we encounter on a daily basis.

Disclaimer: I received a complimentary from the publisher and NetGalley, but I wasn't required to leave a positive review.
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1,972 reviews35 followers
October 3, 2018
Miles From Where We Started is the first book I have read by Cynthia Rucht. I was pleasantly surprised with a charming story of a marriage on the verge of dissolution. Not even married a year yet and Connor and Mallory are ready to call it quits. Well, Connor for sure...maybe! Unresolved issues, the impending possibility of a debilitating disease and commitment seems to have lost its meaning for this young couple. Mallory agrees to a three week trip in a microcamper to help save Connor's business and then added to the mix is a troubled eleven-year-old foster child (snarky and yet you gotta love him!) and the plot thickens. It is a trip that is a mashup of anticipation, sorrow, excitement, and regret...who knows where it will take them. Following this couple on the road trip as well as a trip to perhaps reclaiming their love made for a great read. Would their brokeness offer a training ground for fixing their relationship? On their trip they will log a lot of miles but will they be miles from where they started or right back at the beginning of the end? Ruchti tells a good story, drawing the reader in early in the book and keeping interest with geographic details of the trip (lots of waterfalls--a place to go for soul healing in the Lakota language) and the beautiful characters Connor and Mallory meet along the way. Colorful characters who take interest and become invested in this threesome's tangled lives in a variety of ways. Amidst the conflicts (that couldn't be ignored) there is a wonderful measure of hope--hope that love can see you through the tough times--hope that brings healing to the heart. I look forward to reading more of this author's books.
I received a complimentary copy of this book via CelebrateLit. A favorable review was not required and opinions are my own. This review is part of a CelebrateLit blog tour.
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Author 39 books654 followers
October 23, 2018
MILES FROM WHERE WE STARTED was a slow read that packed a powerful punch. Newlyweds Connor and Mallory are weeks away from their one-year anniversary--to be celebrated with a permanent separation. Divorce. Because Connor believes he made a mistake since he might be a carrier, 0r a victim of, a fatal disease.



Then the worst case scenario happens. They have to take a trip. Together. In a teardrop camper (research this. Who knew.) With a smartmouth eleven-year-old boy in the foster system. And tour the backroads of America.



Okay, teardrop camper aside, I would love to be on this trip and see all those waterfalls. Maybe not to the magnificence of Niagara Falls, but still charming all on their own. And the people they met along the way. (I did have issues with the way she portrayed southerners as speaking, but it added another touch of comedy to a heavy story.)



I absolutely adored Slade, I laughed out loud when Judah threw his arms up and said "We found our people." And I loved, loved, loved, the character growth, development and the faith message. She did peg Millennials right. As the parent of three... all different, but all definitely Millennials I could relate. I could see some of my children.



This is women's fiction, a family facing together time, and I recommend it to readers who adore women's fiction. I would've liked better closure at the end, but readers are left to their imagination. Where did they go? What will they do? What will become of Judah?



I received a copy free. All opinions are my own.
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January 22, 2025
Okay, confession time. I hate camping. I mean, would rather have a root canal, would rather go to the gynecologist, would rather get a bikini wax. I know there's "glamping," but I've never been allowed to experience that. My camping experience has been your classic heat, bugs, grunge, exercise in boredom, "I hope Jesus gives me a fist-sized emerald in my crown for this." So why--I mean, WHY, did I end up loving a book about a nearly-divorced couple trying to work out their differences while living in a micro-camper?

Well, probably because Cynthia Ruchti is a great writer. I got on board with Miles from Where We Started because of Connor and Mallory, and micro-camper or not, I loved spending time with them. I was a little skeptical of their story, meaning I thought, "Okay, am I gonna have to watch these two bicker for 100 pages and then make out for 100 before finally getting their heads on straight?" But that's not at all what happened.

Instead, Mallory and Connor go through an organic, realistic journey. It's made up of all the little moments we don't pay attention to while they're happening, but add up to both great memories and valuable life lessons. I loved that Cynthia did restore this couple without letting Miles become a traditional romance. In fact, if you're looking for a romance, with sweet moments and kisses and pet names, Miles from Where We Started is not for you. But if you're looking for real people trying to figure out, "How does this 'marriage' thing work? Can we expect forever in this world where most marriages don't make it?" If you want that, then you want this book.

I loved how Mallory and Connor played off each other, finding out how each one was right and each one had gone wrong. For example, Connor got on my nerves a little bit because of how fixated he seemed on his 50/50 and what that would do to Mallory and his marriage. But then I realized something. I don't have a fatal disease or the genes for one, but I've gone to a version of Connor's place. I've struggled to make others understand how I felt, and that how I felt was not ridiculous.

The same was true for Mallory. I appreciated that for the most part, she doesn't fall into the beleaguered wife stereotype. But even when she goes there a little bit, I could understand. Now, I'm not married--still single, actually. But just as I've visited Connor's place, I've been in a place where I've said, "Enough! Just be honest with me. Trust me. Expect good things from me. Treat me like an equal, a partner, a good person, someone who's worth it." And so when Mallory has her epiphany, to the point of jumping on a hay bale, I was totally behind her.

And Judah--oh, how could I forget him? He's one of the best kid characters I've met this year. He made me laugh on a number of occasions and helped me stick with Miles when I thought, "Surely this is going to be a stereotypical book where only getting lost in the woods will force these characters to act like they have sense." Judah is the perfect mix of streetwise and vulnerable, sweet and snarky, and some of his scenes are the best ones in the whole book. I especially liked his spiritual conversation with Connor, and what he taught the couple about hurting people and forgiveness.

I loved the spiritual threads in Miles, too. They're somewhere between subtle and overt, which I've seen other authors do, but Cynthia pulls it off better than I've seen in a while. One of my favorite parts was how each person the Duncans met along the journey had a different thread to contribute. Charlene and the Tray Sheek family were my hands-down favorites, the ones I wanted to see more from. I also liked the moments when the main characters got alone and "real" with God, like again, Mallory's hay bale moment.

Okay, so what about the camping and wilderness element? Yes, I even enjoyed that! Again, it's mostly due to Cynthia sprinkling in interesting characters and plot threads, rather than over-focusing on three main people in a micro-camper or trying to make everything about the central issues of marriage or VHL. I've seen other authors write in a style like this and succeed at it. I've also seen other authors try to write "wilderness journey, spiritual journey" books and have them flop. In this case though, the RoadRave trip was the perfect backdrop. It tested the characters in ways they needed, without being cliched ("Oh, no, I have a cold, oh no, I broke a nail, okay, a tire's flat, let's scream at each other for five pages over whose fault it is.")

Once again, Cynthia proves herself a pro at the "mosaic" style of storytelling. Some of it is slightly thin, and some is just a smidge on the contrived side. Meaning, I loved all the secondary characters, but some of their stories seemed a bit too convenient. For example, what are the real chances of a couple facing what Connor and Mallory did, running into not only a guy who lost his wife to cancer, but a man who raised his son alone after his wife died of a rare condition? What are the actual chances that Connor and Mallory would move into a tiny-house community after living there for a handful of days?

That kind of thing pushes Miles from Where We Started into 4.75 territory, but I'm also aware, I'm probably being hyper-realistic because in my life, those things, like moving into a tiny house, can't feasibly work. I'm also aware I have a writer's eye that might be overly critical sometimes. So even though I went back and forth throughout this review, I'm settling on five stars. The great stuff is just too great, and memorable, to justify a lower rating. Basically, if you haven't read this yet, I highly recommend it. It's a great way to open spring, and a great book to take on a camping or road trip. ;) Godspeed, and Cynthia, keep writing!
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807 reviews
November 13, 2018
Quest stories cross the ages and cultures. Mythology is filled with them. Native American leaders repeated tales around the campfires of their young seeking their true names and destinies while hunting or conquering nature's challenges. And doesn't everyone know the King Arthur stories? Contemporary fiction readers latch onto series like Richard Paul Evan's THE WALK knowing ahead of time that the journey will be part of a growing and a healing. Nonfiction shelves offer such quests as Bill Byson's A WALK IN THE WOODS. Last year, I was awed and inspired reading I'LL PUSH YOU: A Journey of 500 Miles, Two Best Friends, and One Wheel Chair. It is with that kind of quest in mind that Cynthia Ruchti begins her latest book MILES FROM WHERE WE STARTED.
Mind you, Mallory Duncan and her husband Connor know nothing about this life-changing undercurrent to their story. Well, in a way they do know something in their lives is going to change. But they think it is the upcoming end to their brief marriage --- a parting of the ways because Connor cannot commit. What began as a love story fit for fairy tales is withering faster than a dry pumpkin vine. Ruchti has used the couple's several week journey across the rural spots of the southeast US in a tiny teardrop trailer with a tag-along, challenging 11 year old foster kid, to take Mallory and Connor to a quest destination that neither knew they needed or wanted. I won't say anymore. Don't want to add any spoilers. It will suffice to say that this is another one of Ruchti's wonderful, hope-filled books. Like real life, the hope is hard-earned, requiring attitude changes and more. Like the classic quest stories, characters with just the right "back story" or wisdom cross the couple's path at the exact moment needed --- almost as if there was a divine hand in this story. (Are you seeing the real purpose for this story yet?) Ruchti has said she's written this story for millennials, a group she admires for their strength and gifts. I hope they appreciate the book. We older readers recognize that first years of marriage are far from blissful and what priorities emerge during those months lay the foundation for all the years and the challenges to come. That Ruchti found a way to tell that story using a tear drop camper (we own a tear drop camper just a bit bigger than one described in the book) and a visit to a community of tiny homes ( I must confess I watch every tiny home reality show there is) is icing on the cake. There must be a tiny home/camper/quest analogy I could use here, but right now I can't find one. I recommend this novel to all that have read other Cynthia Ruchti books and to those who have not discovered her yet, I say,"What are you waiting for?" I received a copy of this novel from the publisher. All opinions are mine.
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1,436 reviews84 followers
November 6, 2018
In Miles From Where We Started, Ruchti provides a story that will resonate with readers in a way that no other book has. This is not your run of the mill romance novel, in fact it might be the opposite, and thankfully so. How many couples do we see today that have hopes and dreams on their wedding day, only a year later to struggle in simple everyday conversation with their spouse? Ruchti gets right to the heart of the matter in the very beginning by showing us a marriage that is on the brink of disaster. Yes, this does happen to Christians people, as much as the world may think that it doesn't. We're only human, we make mistakes, and we grow apart from our spouses from time to time. But what this book so importantly points out is the need to work through these times. Marriage takes work, it is as simple as that. Ruchti has brilliantly put this story together, and I feel it could serve as a book of encouragement for couples out there today.

Somehow Ruchti has managed to give us several stories in one. Yes, there is the obvious journey Mallory and Connor take on the road with young Judah. There is even the obvious journey of Mallory and Connor as a couple, and what they need to go through to get back on the right track. What you might miss, however, is their personal journey as well as their spiritual journey. Connor's especially. At one point young Judah asks him about his beliefs, and while it takes a bit of time for him to answer, I found his answer to be interesting. Then, little by little, you see his answer start to alter just a bit, until he reaches the realization of where his faith needed to be all along. Connor was easy to relate to, because he experienced things in this book (doubt, worry, fear, medical fears and more) that we have all faced a time or two. The truth is that he reacts similar to how we would as well, which makes him so likable.

Fairy tales and the Hallmark channel are quick to promote the happyily ever after stories. The reality is that doesn't always happen, in fact on a day to day basis I think it's pretty rare. Cynthia Ruchti has given us a story that is not only realistic, it could be exactly where we are right now in our own lives. I encourage you to read this for hope, inspiration, or for nothing else the knowledge that you are not alone. This is a book that will stay in my heart and mind for years to come. In fact, it's probably a book that I will pick up whenever there's a bump in my own life, to remind me of the importance of working on a marriage, and trusting the the One who created marriage to begin with.

I received a complimentary copy of this book. I was not required to write a favorable review. All thoughts and opinions are my own.
1,888 reviews
November 1, 2018
Mallory and Connor Duncan have not even been married a year, but their marriage seems headed for divorce. But then circumstances force the two together on a trip of a lifetime along with a 11-year-old boy named Judah. Imagine traveling in a tear-drop trailer that really only fits two people, but there are three people who need to sleep. They are taking this trip because Connor and his partner in a marketing firm represent RoadRave, the company making the camper. The partner Nathan (and Judah’s uncle) unexpectedly gets summoned for jury duty, so Mallory and Connor plan to take the trip together before going in their own directions. Connor feels he has a certain death sentence for his health and refuses to make Mallory go through the trauma of losing of watching him die. On top of it, they agree to become temporary foster parents for the 11-year-old and agree to take him with them. The book is down-to-earth and easy to read. I had a hard time putting it down. I really loved all the adventures they had while traveling, including having only twenty dollars a day to feed the three of them.

One of my favorite parts of this book comes from the incredible people they meet along the journey. From the older gentleman whom Judah believed was keeping the ashes of his dead wife on his fireplace mantle. Instead they discover the ashes from cookies she had burnt on the numerous times she cooked them.

Another favorite part of mine was when they met the large family with the restaraunt and Mallory ended up helping deliver her baby because there was no time to get to the hospital. I love how the family worked together and demonstrated their love for each other.

I also loved how they wound up in a tiny house community and ultimately found their way back to each other, while Judah stayed with a man and his father after Connor broke his leg. All of the people, the three ran across in their adventures caused Connor to reunite with his parents and helped him realize he wanted to stay with Mallory.

Because of my own difficult relationship with my own father, I could appreciate Connor”s dilemma in dealing with his father. Because I do not know whether my own father is dead or alive, I was glad Connor had the opportunity to make peace with his father. Both Mallory and Connor come to the realization of what is important and where their focus needs to be. I love how they are able to set aside their difficulties and focus on the future.

So if you are looking for a book with a grand adventure, check out Miles from Where We Strarted for yourself.
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740 reviews19 followers
October 17, 2018
Because today - October 16 - is the official publishing day for this book, I really don't want to give out too much of the story. I'll give you a little background so you will know you need to head out and grab your own copy of this book though. I even saw one person say "I am richer for having read this book". WOW! That's some powerful motivation to get out and pick up your copy.

The story starts with Connor and Mallory Duncan admitting the fact that they are deciding to end their one year short marriage. The truth is, though, that Connor has decided and Mallory doesn't really agree. They are having issues trying to decide exactly how to officially end the marriage, and in the midst of that situation, they end up having to head out on a 3,000 mile business trip to promote RoadRave's micro camper.

Will their marriage end for good on this road trip? Can Mallory and Duncan possibly find a new beginning on this trip? No spoilers here, folks!

I'm so happy to report that this book grabbed me from page 1 and kept me reading more even when I should have gone to sleep, should have gotten ready for work, and should have returned back from the lunch hour! All in all, I finished the book in a solid 24 hour period AND went to work! LOL! 

Duncan and Mallory really do love each other, and I felt their pain and heartache. This trip was powerful for them too - it opens their eyes to what commitment and forgiveness really mean, and it helps give them a better perspective on their lives together.  As they set out on their journey across America, they run into some really awesome folks, and it seemed that they received some great strength, wisdom and life lessons surrounded in love with each group.

I loved the author's ability to provide readers with very interesting, well-described and believably unique characters.  Miles from Where We Started is highly recommended for those who love a beautiful Christian romance, with great tales of redemption. Within the couple's problems and the journey they are on, readers see a glimmer of hope that can heal hearts and can provide the possibility of making it through tough times.

I was provided with a complimentary electronic advanced reader copy from the Author and Gilead Publishing through Net Galley in exchange for my post.  I was not required to post a positive review, but have chosen to do so because this book was amazing! Thank you!
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3,083 reviews94 followers
October 27, 2018
Miles From Where We Started by Cynthia Ruchti is a beautifully written Christian contemporary novel. The words are healing balm for your soul. Let them wash over you and restore your hope in love. The story is "in search of a secret passageway to hope."
Cynthia Ruchti writes about issues that are relevant. In this novel there is a marriage in crisis. "Marriage isn't about avoiding discomfort. It's about commitment." Possible health problems become a road block in a relationship. Instead of running towards each other, fear pulls away. When fear rules our life, there is no room for God. We need to exercise our faith muscle so at the end of our lives, people say "She walked as deliberately as she could... toward Jesus. I didn't lose her."
The novel explores the topic of fostering. An eleven year old boy has been passed from pillar to post. One of the saddest sentences in the book is his secret for survival. "The secret to survival... Not caring. I have to learn how not to care."
Huge hearts pepper the story. The biggest is God's. "We all come from the heart a' God." God's heart is seen working its way out through people.
The characters are on a journey - literally and figuratively. There are lessons to be learn along the way for both the characters and the reader. "Forgive more often than you think you should have to." This is wise advice. If in doubt - forgive because we have been forgiven.
Within the tale there are elements of the prodigal son story. I love the image in the story of the father looking out for his son, and when he sees him, he picks up his robes and runs towards him. This reminds the reader that if we make the slightest movement towards God, He will pick up His (figurative) robes and run towards us.
Cynthia Ruchti always writes such beautiful novels. The words sink into my heart and warm my soul. I savour all her books. They always leave me smiling, contented and more in love with God than ever before.
Whatever you have been through, it is not the end. "Your story doesn't end in a mistake." God says you are loved and He does not make mistakes. He has redeemed you and called you by name. Answer His call today.
A beautiful, beautiful story.
I received this book for free. A favourable review was not required and all views expressed are my own.
1,254 reviews
October 29, 2018
I have been a big fan of Cynthia Ruchti for a while now. I read her debut novel, They Almost Always Come Home, and was hooked! She always delivers highly readable and thoughtful books with big messages. Miles from Where We Started, her newest offering, is no exception. The characters drive the story, but the foundation of a road trip adventure adds fun and interest. I give this one a highly recommended rating.

Ruchti’s three main characters — married couple Connor and Mallory Duncan and 11 year old Judah — fill the pages of Miles from Where We Started with heart. With a marriage on the rocks and a foster kid with lots of trust issues, they make an unlikely trio for a trip that will promote the joys of micro-camping. As the social media world follows their wanderings on the back roads of America, with hikes to secluded waterfalls and interactions with people along the way, the three navigate love and life. I have to admit I wasn’t a big fan of Connor or Mallory at the beginning of the book, but as they grew in their relationship with each other and God, they grew on me 😉 . Judah, though, was an intriguing and sympathetic character right from the start. I couldn’t help but love and cheer on the troubled and sometimes trouble-making pre-adolescent. Secondary characters are a treat and make a big difference in Connor, Mallory, and Judah’s attitudes and understanding of God. RoadRave, the company that hires Connor’s PR firm to embark on the adventure, determines their course, but it soon became apparent to this reader (and the characters) that God had a bigger hand in the travel plans. As Mallory and Connor discover there’s “A path carved for us by a creative imagination bigger than our own.” (p 326.)

Miles from Where We Started is written with a light hand in spite of some heavy situations. I loved the wit and wisdom that is expressed along the way. I think this novel would be perfect for a book club — there’s so much to talk about. So grab this book and some friends and head out on a fun reading adventure.

Highly Recommended.

Great for Book Clubs.

(Thanks to Gilead Publishing for a complimentary copy. All opinions expressed are mine alone.)
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