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The Reason is You
Siddhant meets Akriti during their medical residency in Delhi. Their connection is instant, blossoming from the many similarities between them. So, when Akriti faces a devastating loss, she leans on Siddhant for support. In the heat of an emotional moment, the two decide that this must be love. But as Akriti's depression begins to take a stronger hold over her, she spirals out of control, sinking deeper into an abyss of fear, insecurity and rage. And while Siddhant struggles to help her, it seems like everything he does is only making things worse.Meanwhile, Siddhant's life gets further complicated when Maahi, his ex-girlfriend whom he never stopped loving, re-enters his life.Nikita Singh returns with a stirring story - exploring emotional health, the boundaries of traditional relationships and second chances.
231 pages, Kindle Edition
Published February 14, 2019
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Nikita Singh
57 books1,139 followersNikita Singh is the bestselling author of eleven novels, including Letters to My Ex, Every Time It Rains and Like a Love Song. She is also the editor of the collections of short stories 25 Strokes of Kindness and The Turning Point.
After working in the book publishing industry in New Delhi for a few years, she got her MFA in Creative Writing (Fiction) at The New School in New York. Invested in the fight against climate change, she handles marketing for a solar energy company based in Brooklyn.
Nikita is a digital nomad, currently obsessed with travel, tea and thrillers. You can follow her adventures on Instagram and Twitter (@singh_nikita).
After working in the book publishing industry in New Delhi for a few years, she got her MFA in Creative Writing (Fiction) at The New School in New York. Invested in the fight against climate change, she handles marketing for a solar energy company based in Brooklyn.
Nikita is a digital nomad, currently obsessed with travel, tea and thrillers. You can follow her adventures on Instagram and Twitter (@singh_nikita).
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January 29, 2021
This is my first book by Nikita Singh. It's a love story that's very much predictable. The language is easy. The narration is good. The author talks about mental health issues, and how it affects people and those around them. She breaks the stereotypes about seeking help for mental health.
It's a good book. It can be finished in one or two sittings maximum. 😊
3.5/5.
It's a good book. It can be finished in one or two sittings maximum. 😊
3.5/5.
March 31, 2019
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When I picked up this book by Nikita Singh, I had only heard great things about her. This was the first time I was actually sitting down and reading something by her and I wasn't sure as to what should I expect. It was an Indian romance so my expectations weren't that high. Not because it was a romantic novel set in India but because the kind of romance I have seen (not just read, but seen) happen in India wasn't the kind that I was particularly a fan of. But then, the people who had read Nikita Singh's works in the past informed me that she was worth it. Now these were the ones who had read authors I dislike and hated them too, so I assumed there opinion was a nice thing to go on with.
Wrong! This book had almost every element that I dislike in a novel.
A person trapped in a relationship, unable to do something about it? Check.
A person in need of help but not getting it because she thinks that makes her crazy? Check. (she admits that this was not her ideology but I couldn't help thinking that it really was. Why else wouldn't she go and get help instantly?)
A drama that could very well have been resolved if the two people had sat and talked about it? Check.
An ex who would appear time and time again? Check.
A disloyal boyfriend? Check.
The only thing that kept me going through it all was knowing that Akriti was depressed and she needed help. But the fact that she went through over 200 pages without taking any of it merely made me despise her. I mean, she knew she needed it. What was stopping her then? If she was embarrassed by everything happening around, then she could help Siddhant take care of her. But na-uh, she wanted to think she was crazy.
I guess it made a lot of sense why this novel was something that was written in today's times. Had it been published as much as ten years ago, no one would have bothered to read it. The fact that people love it today suggests how the society has improved. However, I still hate the fact that half the drama in this book could have been resolved if Siddhant just booked an appointment for Akriti and taken her to a therapist or psychiatrist himself. It felt as if the drama inside was unnecessary and merely there to drag the book.
Yet, one cannot ignore the fact that Singh's writing had magic. Generally, if I see too much of a drama somewhere, I just DNF the book and not review it. Period. However, with The Reason Is You, I couldn't stop. It was such beautifully written. I was totally in love with the writing style. I guess, the characters could have been developed a little better. (Maahi was really unreasonable in the beginning and as far as Akriti was concerned, I never understood how she could possibly expect Siddhant and Priyesh to forgive her when she had tried to murder her. I am not saying that an apology wasn't needed, but she said a sorry and expected everything to be alright. Later, however, when Siddhant hung out with Maahi for a night, she accused him of being with a girl and cheating on her before he had even said something. He tells her that he is sorry for hurting her but he can't be with her and she says sorry can't cut everything. I mean, hello? Did you forget that if he had died in that accident that you planned, you wouldn't have had a person to apologize to?)
So yes, if the characters had been developed a little better and the level of the drama had been decreased by a notch, I might have just loved this book - after all, the writing was beautiful.
Thank you Writer's Melon for a review copy of this book.
When I picked up this book by Nikita Singh, I had only heard great things about her. This was the first time I was actually sitting down and reading something by her and I wasn't sure as to what should I expect. It was an Indian romance so my expectations weren't that high. Not because it was a romantic novel set in India but because the kind of romance I have seen (not just read, but seen) happen in India wasn't the kind that I was particularly a fan of. But then, the people who had read Nikita Singh's works in the past informed me that she was worth it. Now these were the ones who had read authors I dislike and hated them too, so I assumed there opinion was a nice thing to go on with.
Wrong! This book had almost every element that I dislike in a novel.
A person trapped in a relationship, unable to do something about it? Check.
A person in need of help but not getting it because she thinks that makes her crazy? Check. (she admits that this was not her ideology but I couldn't help thinking that it really was. Why else wouldn't she go and get help instantly?)
A drama that could very well have been resolved if the two people had sat and talked about it? Check.
An ex who would appear time and time again? Check.
A disloyal boyfriend? Check.
The only thing that kept me going through it all was knowing that Akriti was depressed and she needed help. But the fact that she went through over 200 pages without taking any of it merely made me despise her. I mean, she knew she needed it. What was stopping her then? If she was embarrassed by everything happening around, then she could help Siddhant take care of her. But na-uh, she wanted to think she was crazy.
I guess it made a lot of sense why this novel was something that was written in today's times. Had it been published as much as ten years ago, no one would have bothered to read it. The fact that people love it today suggests how the society has improved. However, I still hate the fact that half the drama in this book could have been resolved if Siddhant just booked an appointment for Akriti and taken her to a therapist or psychiatrist himself. It felt as if the drama inside was unnecessary and merely there to drag the book.
Yet, one cannot ignore the fact that Singh's writing had magic. Generally, if I see too much of a drama somewhere, I just DNF the book and not review it. Period. However, with The Reason Is You, I couldn't stop. It was such beautifully written. I was totally in love with the writing style. I guess, the characters could have been developed a little better. (Maahi was really unreasonable in the beginning and as far as Akriti was concerned, I never understood how she could possibly expect Siddhant and Priyesh to forgive her when she had tried to murder her. I am not saying that an apology wasn't needed, but she said a sorry and expected everything to be alright. Later, however, when Siddhant hung out with Maahi for a night, she accused him of being with a girl and cheating on her before he had even said something. He tells her that he is sorry for hurting her but he can't be with her and she says sorry can't cut everything. I mean, hello? Did you forget that if he had died in that accident that you planned, you wouldn't have had a person to apologize to?)
So yes, if the characters had been developed a little better and the level of the drama had been decreased by a notch, I might have just loved this book - after all, the writing was beautiful.
May 25, 2019
I read another nikita singh's brain child. despite being her fan I'm going to be neutral on my review.
This review going to be on professional as well as personal front.
Professional: the book reason is you is about depression. Loss. Love. And reconciliation.
It perfectly potrays how depression and mental health is important to be dealt with before its too late.
The book is basically filled with deep emotional stuff. Which sometimes gets to a point where you feel for the characters so much say that you might or will cry. If you ever been through depression and heartbreak.
Its a must read and might trigger some of the memories so definitely not a light read.
Personal: Nikita always hits hard at home for me. So much so that my ex's name was akriti and she is a doctor too. Some of the things in the book is as it is happened in my life itself.
I read this book on my daily commute from office and goddamn it i found myself weeping on most of the pages.
I felt for akriti for Siddhant hell i felt for everyone in the book. This book is her best work till now. Would love to read her next read soon. This woman keeps getting better and better. Still i liked like a love song more. But this be my third favourite after like a love song. Before it rains and the this one.
This review going to be on professional as well as personal front.
Professional: the book reason is you is about depression. Loss. Love. And reconciliation.
It perfectly potrays how depression and mental health is important to be dealt with before its too late.
The book is basically filled with deep emotional stuff. Which sometimes gets to a point where you feel for the characters so much say that you might or will cry. If you ever been through depression and heartbreak.
Its a must read and might trigger some of the memories so definitely not a light read.
Personal: Nikita always hits hard at home for me. So much so that my ex's name was akriti and she is a doctor too. Some of the things in the book is as it is happened in my life itself.
I read this book on my daily commute from office and goddamn it i found myself weeping on most of the pages.
I felt for akriti for Siddhant hell i felt for everyone in the book. This book is her best work till now. Would love to read her next read soon. This woman keeps getting better and better. Still i liked like a love song more. But this be my third favourite after like a love song. Before it rains and the this one.
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
March 20, 2019
3.5 Stars.
The Reason is You is the second book by Nikita Singh that I managed to read. Well, the credit for that goes to HarperCollins and Writersmelon for providing me with a review copy.
The Reason Is You dealt with depression, shining light on the various ways it affects the life of a person. It also showed how the people around a person suffering from depression react towards them differently, some being supportive while others breaking ties from the person.
The storyline was pretty good, albeit based on a clichè. But I felt that some of the characters weren't that well developed, that is, they seemed flat. For example, Mahi comes off as unreasonable and a bit insecure in the beginning, and yet, later on she seemed the most reasonable. It seemed as if two identities were clashing inside her.
Also, the fact that Akriti was ready to murder Sid seemed too much even after taking her depression into consideration. I'm not an expert, but I've read that it's pretty rare that a person with depression would try to hurt someone other than themselves, let alone try to kill them. That part of the plot seemed more like a means to an end (to give Sid a solid reason to leave Akriti) than something necessary to the story.
Overall, it was a good read, though it could've definitely been better.
The Reason is You is the second book by Nikita Singh that I managed to read. Well, the credit for that goes to HarperCollins and Writersmelon for providing me with a review copy.
The Reason Is You dealt with depression, shining light on the various ways it affects the life of a person. It also showed how the people around a person suffering from depression react towards them differently, some being supportive while others breaking ties from the person.
The storyline was pretty good, albeit based on a clichè. But I felt that some of the characters weren't that well developed, that is, they seemed flat. For example, Mahi comes off as unreasonable and a bit insecure in the beginning, and yet, later on she seemed the most reasonable. It seemed as if two identities were clashing inside her.
Also, the fact that Akriti was ready to murder Sid seemed too much even after taking her depression into consideration. I'm not an expert, but I've read that it's pretty rare that a person with depression would try to hurt someone other than themselves, let alone try to kill them. That part of the plot seemed more like a means to an end (to give Sid a solid reason to leave Akriti) than something necessary to the story.
Overall, it was a good read, though it could've definitely been better.
March 12, 2019
I had never read a book by Nikita Singh before this one. When I picked 'The Reason Is You' I never thought I would like it as much as I did. It surprised me with its relatable characters and immersive storytelling.
What I Liked:
- the manner in which the author has explained the symptoms of depression through the central character, Akriti.
- the two main leads Akriti and Siddhant. When Akriti is most vulnerable Siddhant becomes her shock absorber taking in his stride all the abuses that were uncalled for only because he cared for her. The kind of understanding that Siddhant shows is and I hope every soul as emotionally vulnerable as Akriti finds someone as caring and understanding as Siddhant.
- the emphasis laid on treating mental conditions with utmost seriousness and not neglect it. Despite being aware of her mood swings, frustration and frequents bouts of anger, Akriti totally ignores her condition which drags her down deeper into the bottomless pit of depression thereby ruining her life.
- Singh's writing. It caters perfectly to the target audience. I haven't read Singh's book before so I don't know how she fared in her previous book but this book I found to be well written. At least it was a lot better than most of the local romances you find out there.
What I Didn't Like:
- the title. Seems a little off doesn't it?
- the third angle to Siddhant and Akriti's love story. Maahi may be the original angle to Siddhant's story but I didn't like her in this book.
Overall, the book is a good read. Don't pick it hoping to read hot romance. Read it to understand how someone can care for you even when they don't truly love you.
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What I Liked:
- the manner in which the author has explained the symptoms of depression through the central character, Akriti.
- the two main leads Akriti and Siddhant. When Akriti is most vulnerable Siddhant becomes her shock absorber taking in his stride all the abuses that were uncalled for only because he cared for her. The kind of understanding that Siddhant shows is and I hope every soul as emotionally vulnerable as Akriti finds someone as caring and understanding as Siddhant.
- the emphasis laid on treating mental conditions with utmost seriousness and not neglect it. Despite being aware of her mood swings, frustration and frequents bouts of anger, Akriti totally ignores her condition which drags her down deeper into the bottomless pit of depression thereby ruining her life.
- Singh's writing. It caters perfectly to the target audience. I haven't read Singh's book before so I don't know how she fared in her previous book but this book I found to be well written. At least it was a lot better than most of the local romances you find out there.
What I Didn't Like:
- the title. Seems a little off doesn't it?
- the third angle to Siddhant and Akriti's love story. Maahi may be the original angle to Siddhant's story but I didn't like her in this book.
Overall, the book is a good read. Don't pick it hoping to read hot romance. Read it to understand how someone can care for you even when they don't truly love you.
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April 5, 2019
Siddhant meets Akriti during their medical residency in Delhi. On the very first date Akriti gets to know her dad died because of a stroke. After that Siddhant is always there to help her come out of this grief. Both felt as this was love. But Akriti's constant mood shift is increasing. It seems Siddhant just can't do anything right. However hard he tried each and every thing makes Akriti more angry and more upset. Siddhant knows she is suffering from depression so he supports her as hard as he could. But in the middle of this Siddhant's ex-girlfriend Mahi appears. Soon Siddhant realizes he has never stopped loving Maahi. But if that is the case then what about Akriti?
Review-
First of all I want to say a big thank you to Nikita Ma'am for writing a story based on depression that too a love story. Our generation really really need to be aware of it. Especially if you think your partner is not well it is very important to consult a specialist.
The plot of the story is very relate-able especially for today's generation. Love triangle is very normal now a days but how to identify true love and most importantly your true self is what this book is about.
Characters are amazing especially Akriti's character. The way author has shown about her personality, her grief, her anger all this thing is somewhat understandable but at the same time does not justify her actions. It is like you have love hate relationship with her.
Whole story is from Siddhant's POV but I would like to read one or two chapter from Akriti's POV as well. Siddhant is the protagonist of the story. You can very well connect to him. At times you feel like slap him and make him understand about his own self respect. But I guess this is what something every person has to learn by themselves only.
Though it is from only one person's POV but you emotionally connect to each character. I guess this is the most important thing when you read books which are based on depression and relationship. So kudos to author for writing in such a way.
If you really want to know how living in denial of depression can affect you plus as much as your close ones do read this book. An urban couple, a love triangle, a confused man in love and top it all a partner with depression. A perfect emotional roller coaster ride.
Review-
First of all I want to say a big thank you to Nikita Ma'am for writing a story based on depression that too a love story. Our generation really really need to be aware of it. Especially if you think your partner is not well it is very important to consult a specialist.
The plot of the story is very relate-able especially for today's generation. Love triangle is very normal now a days but how to identify true love and most importantly your true self is what this book is about.
Characters are amazing especially Akriti's character. The way author has shown about her personality, her grief, her anger all this thing is somewhat understandable but at the same time does not justify her actions. It is like you have love hate relationship with her.
Whole story is from Siddhant's POV but I would like to read one or two chapter from Akriti's POV as well. Siddhant is the protagonist of the story. You can very well connect to him. At times you feel like slap him and make him understand about his own self respect. But I guess this is what something every person has to learn by themselves only.
Though it is from only one person's POV but you emotionally connect to each character. I guess this is the most important thing when you read books which are based on depression and relationship. So kudos to author for writing in such a way.
If you really want to know how living in denial of depression can affect you plus as much as your close ones do read this book. An urban couple, a love triangle, a confused man in love and top it all a partner with depression. A perfect emotional roller coaster ride.
April 3, 2019
If you and I are meant to be together - if she was just a chapter and you are the book - then kissing you that night was the right thing to do.
'Are we bad people? Is this wrong, kissing each other?'
'This is the only thing that's right. In all the chaos in the world, this is the only thing that makes sense.'
The grass is always greener on the other side, but we're on this side, so we should try to water the grass on our side. Yet, when things don't go our way, we start to look for reasons for our happiness/unhappiness, for someone or something to blame. Thus, we incline to find reasons to be happy outside of ourselves. Should we be searching for reasons to be happy in someone else, or should we be turning inwards? Because maybe, the reason is you!
Cover is beautiful. It has been designed really well. Title is apt & goes in accordance with the story in hand. It justifies everything. Plot is moderately paced. It does justifications to the story presented here.
Theme talks about depression, mental illness, mental health, physical abuse, mental abuse, relationships, anxiety, trust, emotional distress, love, true love, distance relationships, unwanted feelings, family, unrequited love, Réunion, life, death, pain, joy, happiness, separation & many other aspects which are essential to build a good book.
Very less often do we come across book which talks about mental health issues, depression, anxiety & mental instability & the requisite treatment needed for it. This book explores in every moment, every aspect, every moment of life in such a diabolical way which gives a realistic approach to the story. The protagonists are demonstrated in such a way that totally justifies & etches a stirring story - which explores not only emotional health, also the boundaries of traditional relationships & second chances.
The blurb goes on like this :
Siddhant meets Akriti during their medical residency in Delhi. Their connection is instant, blossoming from the many similarities between them. So, when Akriti faces a devastating loss, she leans on Siddhant for support. In the heat of an emotional moment, the two decide that this must be love. But as Akriti's depression begins to take a stronger hold over her, she spirals out of control, sinking deeper into an abyss of fear, insecurity and rage. And while Siddhant struggles to help her, it seems like everything he does is only making things worse. Meanwhile, Siddhant's life gets further complicated when Maahi, his ex-girlfriend whom he never stopped loving, re-enters his life. Nikita Singh returns with a stirring story - exploring emotional health, the boundaries of traditional relationships and second chances.
Language is simple, good & easy to understand. Narration is okay. A good one-time read which talks about a different topic altogether.
'Are we bad people? Is this wrong, kissing each other?'
'This is the only thing that's right. In all the chaos in the world, this is the only thing that makes sense.'
The grass is always greener on the other side, but we're on this side, so we should try to water the grass on our side. Yet, when things don't go our way, we start to look for reasons for our happiness/unhappiness, for someone or something to blame. Thus, we incline to find reasons to be happy outside of ourselves. Should we be searching for reasons to be happy in someone else, or should we be turning inwards? Because maybe, the reason is you!
Cover is beautiful. It has been designed really well. Title is apt & goes in accordance with the story in hand. It justifies everything. Plot is moderately paced. It does justifications to the story presented here.
Theme talks about depression, mental illness, mental health, physical abuse, mental abuse, relationships, anxiety, trust, emotional distress, love, true love, distance relationships, unwanted feelings, family, unrequited love, Réunion, life, death, pain, joy, happiness, separation & many other aspects which are essential to build a good book.
Very less often do we come across book which talks about mental health issues, depression, anxiety & mental instability & the requisite treatment needed for it. This book explores in every moment, every aspect, every moment of life in such a diabolical way which gives a realistic approach to the story. The protagonists are demonstrated in such a way that totally justifies & etches a stirring story - which explores not only emotional health, also the boundaries of traditional relationships & second chances.
The blurb goes on like this :
Siddhant meets Akriti during their medical residency in Delhi. Their connection is instant, blossoming from the many similarities between them. So, when Akriti faces a devastating loss, she leans on Siddhant for support. In the heat of an emotional moment, the two decide that this must be love. But as Akriti's depression begins to take a stronger hold over her, she spirals out of control, sinking deeper into an abyss of fear, insecurity and rage. And while Siddhant struggles to help her, it seems like everything he does is only making things worse. Meanwhile, Siddhant's life gets further complicated when Maahi, his ex-girlfriend whom he never stopped loving, re-enters his life. Nikita Singh returns with a stirring story - exploring emotional health, the boundaries of traditional relationships and second chances.
Language is simple, good & easy to understand. Narration is okay. A good one-time read which talks about a different topic altogether.
April 20, 2019
I picked this up rather hesitantly because from the blurb I could say that this clearly is not my type but I still went ahead with it. I first read two chapters to get an idea and decide if I want to continue or not. To my surprise, I did continue after that. I would say that the whole plot was clichè with triangle love story, romance, going back to first love, love at first sight and stuffs like that but that didn't bore me because Nikitha has pulled the protagonist's (male) character perfectly. Why that impressed me is because he isn't narcissistic, misogynistic or irrespective towards women. That just blew my mind away because that didn't happen for centuries in Indian literary history (okay, maybe I am exaggerating XD). Because that's what usually happens. But here Siddhant was actually pretty descent and quite understanding of his second girlfriend while she was going through PTSD after her father's death. There were so many places where I was really impressed by his character.
The second theme of the story is 'dealing with mental illness'. so this second girlfriend is abusive, dominant and toxic all because of her PTSD. I guess that one was portrayed as honestly as possible. I wouldn't say that was any way exaggerating. because it wasn't. Anyone who has no one else but only a boyfriend would definitely expect everything from him and there is a high chance of getting anxious for being left alone. I loved how he stood by her side and did whatever he could. But their relationship was toxic and pretty fucked up and there's no future for them. I loved how the author ended it with a message conveying that 'Professional help is very important for illnesses like this'.
There is nothing new about this book but it's still a good read. I really enjoyed reading it. This book could have been so much better without the love triangle trope though.
The second theme of the story is 'dealing with mental illness'. so this second girlfriend is abusive, dominant and toxic all because of her PTSD. I guess that one was portrayed as honestly as possible. I wouldn't say that was any way exaggerating. because it wasn't. Anyone who has no one else but only a boyfriend would definitely expect everything from him and there is a high chance of getting anxious for being left alone. I loved how he stood by her side and did whatever he could. But their relationship was toxic and pretty fucked up and there's no future for them. I loved how the author ended it with a message conveying that 'Professional help is very important for illnesses like this'.
There is nothing new about this book but it's still a good read. I really enjoyed reading it. This book could have been so much better without the love triangle trope though.
March 13, 2019
A sequel to 'Like a Love Song', The Reason is You is not another run on the mill romance but talks about a very serious topic - Mental Sickness that is often not talked about much in our society. It emphasizes on how neglecting depression or mental sickness can prove to be fatal; that we should, as a human accept it as just any other sickness and help the people, we love in getting care under a psychiatrist; save them.
I really liked the book and was able to connect with the characters. It was good to see Maahi back. I liked more how Nikita Singh has developed the character of Siddhant. It will make you wonder if people like him exist in real life; people who would understand under a similar situation.
Nikita Singh keeps improving as a storyteller. The book kept me hooked and offered something quite different from her previous ones. She has this tendency to finish her books on a happy note and even though I love gloomy climaxes, I’m glad The Reason is You ends on a happy note. It is a quick read but it will definitely make you think with a wider perspective when it comes to people suffering from mental sickness.
I would definitely recommend it! If you are interested in a detailed review, you can read it at - https://www.anmolrawat.com/the-reason-is-you-book-review/
I really liked the book and was able to connect with the characters. It was good to see Maahi back. I liked more how Nikita Singh has developed the character of Siddhant. It will make you wonder if people like him exist in real life; people who would understand under a similar situation.
Nikita Singh keeps improving as a storyteller. The book kept me hooked and offered something quite different from her previous ones. She has this tendency to finish her books on a happy note and even though I love gloomy climaxes, I’m glad The Reason is You ends on a happy note. It is a quick read but it will definitely make you think with a wider perspective when it comes to people suffering from mental sickness.
I would definitely recommend it! If you are interested in a detailed review, you can read it at - https://www.anmolrawat.com/the-reason-is-you-book-review/
April 7, 2019
Name- The Reason is You
Written By- Nikita Singh
Published By- HarperCollins
Genre- Romance
Pages- 244
My Thoughts-
What is love?
Is it a feeling that can not be described? Or is there any science behind it?
Is love just understanding and adjustments between two people? Or rather it is a deep bonding?
Love is different for different people. The true description of love is not to be found in any dictionary. It is something that should be experienced.
To be very honest I avoid reading love stories nowadays. The reason is quite simple. I feel that most of the books in this genre is somewhat similar and repetitive. But Nikita Singh's unconventional style always attracted me towards her novels.
Letters to my ex is one of her books that I loved. Hence, I had high hopes from this one.
Siddhant and Akriti's story is not only heart wrenching but also realistic. They met during their medical residency in Delhi. Akriti's depression and Siddhant's desperation to help her overcome it is what I loved most about this story.
I could relate to Akriti's condition but the story being from a male perspective helped me understand Siddhant's pain and plea.
The entry of Siddhant's ex-girlfriend Maahi complicates their already complicated situation.
I loved the very essence of the book. Singh's portrayal of love is always something that I look forward to read.
To sum up my experience with this book I will simply state 'This book is about love and every experience that comes as a baggage with love. It has the capacity to break your heart and yet rebuild your hopes once more. A book that should be read and experienced.'
Written By- Nikita Singh
Published By- HarperCollins
Genre- Romance
Pages- 244
My Thoughts-
What is love?
Is it a feeling that can not be described? Or is there any science behind it?
Is love just understanding and adjustments between two people? Or rather it is a deep bonding?
Love is different for different people. The true description of love is not to be found in any dictionary. It is something that should be experienced.
To be very honest I avoid reading love stories nowadays. The reason is quite simple. I feel that most of the books in this genre is somewhat similar and repetitive. But Nikita Singh's unconventional style always attracted me towards her novels.
Letters to my ex is one of her books that I loved. Hence, I had high hopes from this one.
Siddhant and Akriti's story is not only heart wrenching but also realistic. They met during their medical residency in Delhi. Akriti's depression and Siddhant's desperation to help her overcome it is what I loved most about this story.
I could relate to Akriti's condition but the story being from a male perspective helped me understand Siddhant's pain and plea.
The entry of Siddhant's ex-girlfriend Maahi complicates their already complicated situation.
I loved the very essence of the book. Singh's portrayal of love is always something that I look forward to read.
To sum up my experience with this book I will simply state 'This book is about love and every experience that comes as a baggage with love. It has the capacity to break your heart and yet rebuild your hopes once more. A book that should be read and experienced.'
March 13, 2019
Utterly disappointed in this book. I have some views on this book which I'll share these in points.
1. The sole reason I read Nikita Singh novels is because of the cheesy and cringy romance, which this book didn't deliver. A heavy let down. I guess this means she's improving as a writer, which is good for her. NOT FOR ME.
2. She used more exclamation marks in this novel than all of Donald Trump's tweets combined.
3. I'd give a medal to anyone who can tell me the character difference between Laila and Priyesh except that they have names of different sex and are friends to different people. Their personality is LITERALLY the same.
4. The portrayal of depression is horrible. Justifying someone's shitty behaviour with depression is wrong on so many levels. I understand Nikita Singh had good intention for which I can overlook to some extent. Whether she herself has experienced depression, or one of her closed ones has, or she wrote it to raise awareness (I really respect the intention), that is not how depression works. She clearly understood it wrong. Please do not justify asshole behaviour with depression. And if anyone who reads this actually takes her book seriously and this is the idea they form of depression, I feel pity for them (especially if they are suffering from it and are unable to understand their emotions). To everyone reading this, THIS IS NOT WHAT DEPRESSION IS LIKE.
5. This book is more vague than Modi's speeches. The story revolves around 3 (2?) surgical residents, and there is no mention of anything they do except for "He had a long day at work", "Surgery was 12 hours long", "it was a straightforward surgery but got complicated." Any detail about any surgery is not mentioned, neither do what any of these surgical residents of AIIMS do, because of course only losers do research and write specifics in their novels.
6. I could make a drinking game every time the novel tried to be a LITTLE precise in expression of emotions but was discarded with phrases "and all that jazz", " ... or something like that", " ... you know how it goes" or anything else of the same effect (See? the disease is spreading). Everyone playing this game would be dead in 1 hour because of alcohol overdose.
7. She works in the marketing department of a solar energy company. So I'm guessing she is an intelligent and educated woman capable of forming wise decisions, and THIS is what she wrote? And this novel is thousand times better than her previous ones.
1. The sole reason I read Nikita Singh novels is because of the cheesy and cringy romance, which this book didn't deliver. A heavy let down. I guess this means she's improving as a writer, which is good for her. NOT FOR ME.
2. She used more exclamation marks in this novel than all of Donald Trump's tweets combined.
3. I'd give a medal to anyone who can tell me the character difference between Laila and Priyesh except that they have names of different sex and are friends to different people. Their personality is LITERALLY the same.
4. The portrayal of depression is horrible. Justifying someone's shitty behaviour with depression is wrong on so many levels. I understand Nikita Singh had good intention for which I can overlook to some extent. Whether she herself has experienced depression, or one of her closed ones has, or she wrote it to raise awareness (I really respect the intention), that is not how depression works. She clearly understood it wrong. Please do not justify asshole behaviour with depression. And if anyone who reads this actually takes her book seriously and this is the idea they form of depression, I feel pity for them (especially if they are suffering from it and are unable to understand their emotions). To everyone reading this, THIS IS NOT WHAT DEPRESSION IS LIKE.
5. This book is more vague than Modi's speeches. The story revolves around 3 (2?) surgical residents, and there is no mention of anything they do except for "He had a long day at work", "Surgery was 12 hours long", "it was a straightforward surgery but got complicated." Any detail about any surgery is not mentioned, neither do what any of these surgical residents of AIIMS do, because of course only losers do research and write specifics in their novels.
6. I could make a drinking game every time the novel tried to be a LITTLE precise in expression of emotions but was discarded with phrases "and all that jazz", " ... or something like that", " ... you know how it goes" or anything else of the same effect (See? the disease is spreading). Everyone playing this game would be dead in 1 hour because of alcohol overdose.
7. She works in the marketing department of a solar energy company. So I'm guessing she is an intelligent and educated woman capable of forming wise decisions, and THIS is what she wrote? And this novel is thousand times better than her previous ones.
March 27, 2019
The protagonist Akriti suffers from a severe case of depression after the sudden death of her father. She felt alone and unloved, even after
continuous attempts of her boyfriend Siddhant to make her feel happy and loved. She continues to feel miserable and makes Siddhant's life hell as well.
The distressing condition of Akriti and suffocation of Siddhant both has been remarkably depicted by the author.
What I missed in the book was the recovery process. The author wrote more than 200 pages about the condition of a depressed person, but she didn't write a single page about the process of her recovery. Just three lines "she is progressing". I wished to read more about her recovering phase.
continuous attempts of her boyfriend Siddhant to make her feel happy and loved. She continues to feel miserable and makes Siddhant's life hell as well.
The distressing condition of Akriti and suffocation of Siddhant both has been remarkably depicted by the author.
What I missed in the book was the recovery process. The author wrote more than 200 pages about the condition of a depressed person, but she didn't write a single page about the process of her recovery. Just three lines "she is progressing". I wished to read more about her recovering phase.
February 22, 2019
"Crazy, chaotic, messy and perfect"
A classic combination of mental health, abusive relationship and second chances.
Nikita Singh books questions and stretches boundaries of what is considered norm. All her books even though romance have it's, standalone story beyond romance.
"The Reason Is You" is one like that.
The idea of being in relationships with a, depressed person. They way it was tactically, respectfully handled yet portraying all shades of it considering how sensitive mental health issue is.
Loved reading about Maahi, Laila as this book has a whole universe in itself with a fan base and every spinoff is unique in itself.
I wish there was more than dialogue alone in the novel like setting descriptions more feeling. Even though conversation had its impact, it felt the story being told not shown at some points.
Apart from it, this is a good book for every person in a relationship.
Congratulations Nikita.
Thanks for giving us a great and unique book with our loving characters.
A classic combination of mental health, abusive relationship and second chances.
Nikita Singh books questions and stretches boundaries of what is considered norm. All her books even though romance have it's, standalone story beyond romance.
"The Reason Is You" is one like that.
The idea of being in relationships with a, depressed person. They way it was tactically, respectfully handled yet portraying all shades of it considering how sensitive mental health issue is.
Loved reading about Maahi, Laila as this book has a whole universe in itself with a fan base and every spinoff is unique in itself.
I wish there was more than dialogue alone in the novel like setting descriptions more feeling. Even though conversation had its impact, it felt the story being told not shown at some points.
Apart from it, this is a good book for every person in a relationship.
Congratulations Nikita.
Thanks for giving us a great and unique book with our loving characters.
March 28, 2019
Book :- The Reason is you
Author :- Nikita Singh
Publisher :- HarperCollins India
My ratings :- ⭐⭐⭐⭐/5
Blurb :-
Siddhant meets Akriti during their medical residency in Delhi. Their connection is instant, blossoming from the many similarities between them. So, when Akriti faces a devastating loss, she leans on Siddhant for support. In the heat of an emotional moment, the two decide that this must be love. But as Akriti's depression begins to take a stronger hold over her, she spirals out of control, sinking deeper into an abyss of fear, insecurity and rage. And while Siddhant struggles to help her, it seems like everything he does is only making things worse. Meanwhile, Siddhant's life gets further complicated when Maahi, his ex-girlfriend whom he never stopped loving, re-enters his life. Nikita Singh returns with a stirring story - exploring emotional health, the boundaries of traditional relationships and second chances.
I received this book through Writer's melon for a honest and unbiased review.
My review :-
What is Love ? What is it like to be in a relationship which is entirely concentrated on the interest of one person giving up the likes of the other ? Love isn't just about knowing each other or caring for each other. It's also about knowing what's better for the other person and giving them the space they require at times and not to force ourselves upon them. Love is about trusting and understanding other person and their situations and not making everything about one person alone. Love is without bounds and anchors.
'The reason is you' is a book by author Nikita Singh who has so beautifully communicated the entire Love story of a couple who are in a complicated relationship. The story includes not just the relationship and the events associated with it but also the importance of mental health and many more values important for a human life.
The cover of the book is simply awesome. It's too simple and elegant and that's what makes it better. A white rose, one fresh and another another withered depicting the state of their relationship. Not just that, the rose also has a significance in the story which you can know only by reading the book.
The title of the book is beautiful and related to the story. The writing style of the author bus too good, something I usually don't find in many books and it has to be appreciated. The pace of the story is slow to average. But the narration hooks you into the book and doesn't bore you a bit. The English is simple and easily comprehended so that it feels like you are listening to the events of one of your friend's life during a conversation.
Coming to the story part of it, you won't find anything extraordinary or thrilling part of it incase you are looking for it, but it is filled with emotions. It is filled with love, ambiguity, mental breakdown, pain, sufferings, drama dilemma, anger , frustrations and many more such human emotions which makes it a good read. The characterization is been great and every character has a certain role to play. Apart from all of this, there is also message that the author has intended to convey through the book and has done it exceedingly well to reach everyone in a perfect way.
The only drawback I could see in it was that it doesn't give you anything new. But overall it's a fantastic read and if you are a lover of genre of love stories, it's a must read for you.
Author :- Nikita Singh
Publisher :- HarperCollins India
My ratings :- ⭐⭐⭐⭐/5
Blurb :-
Siddhant meets Akriti during their medical residency in Delhi. Their connection is instant, blossoming from the many similarities between them. So, when Akriti faces a devastating loss, she leans on Siddhant for support. In the heat of an emotional moment, the two decide that this must be love. But as Akriti's depression begins to take a stronger hold over her, she spirals out of control, sinking deeper into an abyss of fear, insecurity and rage. And while Siddhant struggles to help her, it seems like everything he does is only making things worse. Meanwhile, Siddhant's life gets further complicated when Maahi, his ex-girlfriend whom he never stopped loving, re-enters his life. Nikita Singh returns with a stirring story - exploring emotional health, the boundaries of traditional relationships and second chances.
I received this book through Writer's melon for a honest and unbiased review.
My review :-
What is Love ? What is it like to be in a relationship which is entirely concentrated on the interest of one person giving up the likes of the other ? Love isn't just about knowing each other or caring for each other. It's also about knowing what's better for the other person and giving them the space they require at times and not to force ourselves upon them. Love is about trusting and understanding other person and their situations and not making everything about one person alone. Love is without bounds and anchors.
'The reason is you' is a book by author Nikita Singh who has so beautifully communicated the entire Love story of a couple who are in a complicated relationship. The story includes not just the relationship and the events associated with it but also the importance of mental health and many more values important for a human life.
The cover of the book is simply awesome. It's too simple and elegant and that's what makes it better. A white rose, one fresh and another another withered depicting the state of their relationship. Not just that, the rose also has a significance in the story which you can know only by reading the book.
The title of the book is beautiful and related to the story. The writing style of the author bus too good, something I usually don't find in many books and it has to be appreciated. The pace of the story is slow to average. But the narration hooks you into the book and doesn't bore you a bit. The English is simple and easily comprehended so that it feels like you are listening to the events of one of your friend's life during a conversation.
Coming to the story part of it, you won't find anything extraordinary or thrilling part of it incase you are looking for it, but it is filled with emotions. It is filled with love, ambiguity, mental breakdown, pain, sufferings, drama dilemma, anger , frustrations and many more such human emotions which makes it a good read. The characterization is been great and every character has a certain role to play. Apart from all of this, there is also message that the author has intended to convey through the book and has done it exceedingly well to reach everyone in a perfect way.
The only drawback I could see in it was that it doesn't give you anything new. But overall it's a fantastic read and if you are a lover of genre of love stories, it's a must read for you.
April 13, 2019
A story depicting a boy tensely in relationship with a girl losing her sanity struggling to cope with tragic loss and battling depression as an aftermath. The story progresses in such highly predictable manner that I found it really hard to keep going reading. I had heard good things about the author’s previous books and I was pretty excited for this one. But I couldn’t like it . If it wasn’t for the fact that the story’s central theme was depression and how it affects the person and its close ones, I would have given the book up. But I wanted to know how characters would end up, and kept wishing they’d end up in better places which (thank heavens!) they did! Which would be one thing I loved the most about the book.
I would not say I found it too dramatic or anything because I know they are numerous ways in which depression may start to drive a person to act and react in highly irrational ways that it is almost mechanical. But I found that characters were not given strong and proper physical, emotional and mental identities. Maybe I felt it because they have been introduced in previous books which I have not read. Then again, story, instead of giving vibe of something cliché, could have been more engrossing has the plot been more carefully and more thoughtfully constructed. Because on whole it is an average story. And with such an important theme at its core, it could have been more empathy inducing and thought provoking while it just felt like something you just see and do not feel no matter how hard you try.
I have to point out how much I appreciate the Siddhant in understanding Akriti’s mind state and being so patient and understanding. But I still cannot stop feeling how I would have loved if he had been more instigative to introduce or seek help of psychiatrist because he saw the Akriti’s mental state most closely that anyone else. Because it might have guided or provoked readers to understand that it is not only the patient but also the close ones who can be actively helping them to take. But then again, it can be very tough when it comes to mind, push something too hard in its way and it’ll push it farther with double strength.
What I felt so unsatisfying was the recovery phase of Akriti was not emphasized or even decently portrayed. That made the read dull for me. Because I would have found that part helpful and it would have given the book optimistic touch.
So it must already be an immensely tough task to put out such a story and step into each character ‘shoe and construct a story around such a delicate theme for which I really appreciate her. And I wish to read more work of hers in future, I feel the potential in her to create a really moving and life altering story!
I would not say I found it too dramatic or anything because I know they are numerous ways in which depression may start to drive a person to act and react in highly irrational ways that it is almost mechanical. But I found that characters were not given strong and proper physical, emotional and mental identities. Maybe I felt it because they have been introduced in previous books which I have not read. Then again, story, instead of giving vibe of something cliché, could have been more engrossing has the plot been more carefully and more thoughtfully constructed. Because on whole it is an average story. And with such an important theme at its core, it could have been more empathy inducing and thought provoking while it just felt like something you just see and do not feel no matter how hard you try.
I have to point out how much I appreciate the Siddhant in understanding Akriti’s mind state and being so patient and understanding. But I still cannot stop feeling how I would have loved if he had been more instigative to introduce or seek help of psychiatrist because he saw the Akriti’s mental state most closely that anyone else. Because it might have guided or provoked readers to understand that it is not only the patient but also the close ones who can be actively helping them to take. But then again, it can be very tough when it comes to mind, push something too hard in its way and it’ll push it farther with double strength.
What I felt so unsatisfying was the recovery phase of Akriti was not emphasized or even decently portrayed. That made the read dull for me. Because I would have found that part helpful and it would have given the book optimistic touch.
So it must already be an immensely tough task to put out such a story and step into each character ‘shoe and construct a story around such a delicate theme for which I really appreciate her. And I wish to read more work of hers in future, I feel the potential in her to create a really moving and life altering story!
April 13, 2019
We all have been in a place where either we or someone close to us have suffered mentally. But the question is how does one handle it ? How does one take steps to improve it? The reason is you is another fabulous love story written by Nikita Singh and is published by Harper Collins India.
This is a story of a guy name Siddhant and Akriti and his ex Maahi.
Nikita Singh's book Like a love song portrayed Siddhant and Maahi as couple and even showed their break up. While Like a love song was from Maahi's point of view, The reason is you is from Siddhant's perspective.
Being broken up with Maahi over a year, his love for Maahi was never gone. Meanwhile Siddhant goes on a date with Akriti who is also a surgeon unlike him and finds an instant connection. However life is unpredictable and so Akriti loses her father an suffers through mental disorder. Siddhant has always been there for her even when he wasn't at fault and yet was blamed for other things. Things were slowly falling apart until one day Akriti's mental state was totally devastated and she tried to kill Siddhant and his friend through car accident.
Even after it Akriti kept Siddhant on a leash since she was afraid of being alone. Until one day when Siddhant finally stood up for his ownself and went back to Maahi who he clearly loved and she loved him back too.
In the end Akriti went to therapy and she was back to her normal self and was trying to move ahead in life. While Siddhant had found his happiness again by being with Maahi, his life was back on tracks with his lover and best friend on his side. Siddhant and Akriti did remain Friends after all the turmoil forgiving each other for the pain they had caused to each other.
Well, to be honest this story was a bit different from the others I have read and it also depicts reality. There must the same Siddhant, Akriti who must be suffering the same in the world. I really loved her writing style. The only thing I felt was that at some parts things were a little bit dragged on.
Sometimes you cannot help others if you don't help you ownself first. Any person who suffers from depression should be handled with care and should be given a proper therapy.
I would like to Thank Harper Collins India for this review opportunity. It was truly a pleasure to review book written by Nikita Singh.
This is a story of a guy name Siddhant and Akriti and his ex Maahi.
Nikita Singh's book Like a love song portrayed Siddhant and Maahi as couple and even showed their break up. While Like a love song was from Maahi's point of view, The reason is you is from Siddhant's perspective.
Being broken up with Maahi over a year, his love for Maahi was never gone. Meanwhile Siddhant goes on a date with Akriti who is also a surgeon unlike him and finds an instant connection. However life is unpredictable and so Akriti loses her father an suffers through mental disorder. Siddhant has always been there for her even when he wasn't at fault and yet was blamed for other things. Things were slowly falling apart until one day Akriti's mental state was totally devastated and she tried to kill Siddhant and his friend through car accident.
Even after it Akriti kept Siddhant on a leash since she was afraid of being alone. Until one day when Siddhant finally stood up for his ownself and went back to Maahi who he clearly loved and she loved him back too.
In the end Akriti went to therapy and she was back to her normal self and was trying to move ahead in life. While Siddhant had found his happiness again by being with Maahi, his life was back on tracks with his lover and best friend on his side. Siddhant and Akriti did remain Friends after all the turmoil forgiving each other for the pain they had caused to each other.
Well, to be honest this story was a bit different from the others I have read and it also depicts reality. There must the same Siddhant, Akriti who must be suffering the same in the world. I really loved her writing style. The only thing I felt was that at some parts things were a little bit dragged on.
Sometimes you cannot help others if you don't help you ownself first. Any person who suffers from depression should be handled with care and should be given a proper therapy.
I would like to Thank Harper Collins India for this review opportunity. It was truly a pleasure to review book written by Nikita Singh.
June 8, 2020
ThE rEaSoN iS yOu by Nikita Singh, HarperCollins publishers.
#qotd❤️
Should we search for reasons to be happy in someone else or should we turn inwards❓ because maybe THE REASON IS YOU
READ the BOOK if YOU want TO; 🌻 know how challenging & crucial it is to be with someone dealing with #depression ... 🌻 the challenges of loving someone, taking care of them... 🌻 how overwhelming it can be to try to help someone, one is not equipped to help.. 🌻 learn about the real picture of someone dealing with mental health or depression issues... 🌻 it's also a cute love story... 🌻 it talks about the conventions of a relationship between two people- behaviour, roles, responsibilities, boundaries... My take; 🌿 A quick read, 236 pages, 23 chapters. 🌿 Very, very simple language. 🌿 I loved the title & the cover, my first read of the author's work. 🌿 I liked the theme/ crux behind the story. 🌿 Will I read more from the author, I am not sure..maybe..it was an ok read for me. 🌈 Catch the #blurb here;
Siddhant meets Akriti during their medical residency in Delhi. Their connection is instant, blossoming from the many similarities between them. So, when Akriti faces a devastating loss, she leans on Siddhant for support. In the heat of an emotional moment, the two decide that this must be love. But as Akriti's depression begins to take a stronger hold over her, she spirals out of control, sinking deeper into an abyss of fear, insecurity and rage. And while Siddhant struggles to help her, it seems like everything he does is only making things worse. Meanwhile, Siddhant's life gets further complicated when Maahi, his ex-girlfriend whom he never stopped loving, re-enters his life. Nikita Singh returns with a stirring story - exploring emotional health, the boundaries of traditional relationships and second chances. 🌈 About the Author
Nikita Singh is the bestselling author of eleven novels, including Every Time It Rains and Like a Love Song. Born in Patna and raised in Indore, Nikita worked in New Delhi for a few years before moving to New York for her MFA in Creative Writing.
Published in February, last year. Available for INR 76/- @amazonkindle
#TQRJuneReadathon
#qotd❤️
Should we search for reasons to be happy in someone else or should we turn inwards❓ because maybe THE REASON IS YOU
READ the BOOK if YOU want TO; 🌻 know how challenging & crucial it is to be with someone dealing with #depression ... 🌻 the challenges of loving someone, taking care of them... 🌻 how overwhelming it can be to try to help someone, one is not equipped to help.. 🌻 learn about the real picture of someone dealing with mental health or depression issues... 🌻 it's also a cute love story... 🌻 it talks about the conventions of a relationship between two people- behaviour, roles, responsibilities, boundaries... My take; 🌿 A quick read, 236 pages, 23 chapters. 🌿 Very, very simple language. 🌿 I loved the title & the cover, my first read of the author's work. 🌿 I liked the theme/ crux behind the story. 🌿 Will I read more from the author, I am not sure..maybe..it was an ok read for me. 🌈 Catch the #blurb here;
Siddhant meets Akriti during their medical residency in Delhi. Their connection is instant, blossoming from the many similarities between them. So, when Akriti faces a devastating loss, she leans on Siddhant for support. In the heat of an emotional moment, the two decide that this must be love. But as Akriti's depression begins to take a stronger hold over her, she spirals out of control, sinking deeper into an abyss of fear, insecurity and rage. And while Siddhant struggles to help her, it seems like everything he does is only making things worse. Meanwhile, Siddhant's life gets further complicated when Maahi, his ex-girlfriend whom he never stopped loving, re-enters his life. Nikita Singh returns with a stirring story - exploring emotional health, the boundaries of traditional relationships and second chances. 🌈 About the Author
Nikita Singh is the bestselling author of eleven novels, including Every Time It Rains and Like a Love Song. Born in Patna and raised in Indore, Nikita worked in New Delhi for a few years before moving to New York for her MFA in Creative Writing.
Published in February, last year. Available for INR 76/- @amazonkindle
#TQRJuneReadathon
September 13, 2021
‘The Reason is You’ is a story of love, loss, dealing with complicated feelings, battling depression & being there for people honestly. Siddhant & Akriti are doctors at medical residency in Delhi. The first time they had met, both felt an instant connection towards each other but soon after Akriti suffered a personal loss of her father. This loss like any daughter was unbearable and she couldn’t really come to normalcy and move on.
Throughout the period of mourning, Siddhant becomes her only support throughout her journey of recovering from the loss. But at times, their connection & conversation slowly blooms which is believed to be love. A sequence of incidents keep happening including the re-entry of Siddhant’s ex-girlfriend Maahi & this entry creates messy situations. Through the process of clearing misunderstandings and understanding each other- loving each other, Ankriti’s behavior rages making way for terrible insecurities. This book teaches us how depression is not to be taken for granted & how important it is to stay by the person’s side with due distances maintained. It also makes its readers believe that love cannot be forceful on anyone.
After reading this book, I felt how the definition of love has changed through the times we have heard or read about it. I also felt, there should be Siddhant, Maahi & Priyesh in each of our lives to have the kindest, caring, loving & understanding batch of people in our lives.
I felt that the storytelling is not as clichéd as it sounds & rather quite significant except the repetition of arguments and times of distress. I wished to know more about the personal side of Siddhant but nonetheless it’s a book that would keep you to the edge of your seat & you wouldn’t regret it.
The writing felt quick and comfortable to understand. The language is easy alongside the beautiful narration. I rarely get an opportunity to read Nikita Singh and whenever I get, she always does wonders.
Overall, it’s a different book for the suckers of romance with engaging narration that would make you fall for the author’s storytelling.
Throughout the period of mourning, Siddhant becomes her only support throughout her journey of recovering from the loss. But at times, their connection & conversation slowly blooms which is believed to be love. A sequence of incidents keep happening including the re-entry of Siddhant’s ex-girlfriend Maahi & this entry creates messy situations. Through the process of clearing misunderstandings and understanding each other- loving each other, Ankriti’s behavior rages making way for terrible insecurities. This book teaches us how depression is not to be taken for granted & how important it is to stay by the person’s side with due distances maintained. It also makes its readers believe that love cannot be forceful on anyone.
After reading this book, I felt how the definition of love has changed through the times we have heard or read about it. I also felt, there should be Siddhant, Maahi & Priyesh in each of our lives to have the kindest, caring, loving & understanding batch of people in our lives.
I felt that the storytelling is not as clichéd as it sounds & rather quite significant except the repetition of arguments and times of distress. I wished to know more about the personal side of Siddhant but nonetheless it’s a book that would keep you to the edge of your seat & you wouldn’t regret it.
The writing felt quick and comfortable to understand. The language is easy alongside the beautiful narration. I rarely get an opportunity to read Nikita Singh and whenever I get, she always does wonders.
Overall, it’s a different book for the suckers of romance with engaging narration that would make you fall for the author’s storytelling.
May 8, 2019
"The Reason Is You" by Nikita Singh was a good read. Deals with mental illness like how a person cope with a loss and how depression could affect personality of a person well educated, well established and good at heart.
Everyone has a different way of dealing with a loss of a loved one, and Akriti is the one in this story who has suffered a loss, and was slowly but steadily falling in to depression and thinking she always losses the one's she love.
Siddhant (who is a gem of a person), who genuinely supports her and care for her. Is too frightened to do anything which affect Akriti and make her sad or mad, too such an extent that he forgets about his own happiness and what he actually wants. Though throughout the book he suggests Akriti to consult with a specialist, he himself never took the appointment nor was able to make her do that.
I would say that there was a time when I begin to feel that Akriti was rude, arrogant, self-centred, irritating, unreasonable, insecure, unpredictable and forcing her love on Siddhant. But as the story progressed I too understand her situation but then too it was hard to believe somethings which she do in the rage of her state.
And what to say of Siddhant, he is rare to find person who just for care and a sense of responsibility tolerated everything which he didn't deserved. He is kind, responsible and a person who would go to any extent to help someone he cares about.
I loved the character of Maahi, a sorted and ambitious girl, who do what she loves.
All in all a well written story, was hard to start but once started read it in one sitting. Good plot. Shows what has to done must be done and don't wait for the right time. You have to make happen the things and time will itself feels right. Also shows that if you yourself are not happy and content then you cannot be able to keep others happy, there is nothing wrong in putting yourself in priority. The Reason behind your happiness is non other that YOU.
Everyone has a different way of dealing with a loss of a loved one, and Akriti is the one in this story who has suffered a loss, and was slowly but steadily falling in to depression and thinking she always losses the one's she love.
Siddhant (who is a gem of a person), who genuinely supports her and care for her. Is too frightened to do anything which affect Akriti and make her sad or mad, too such an extent that he forgets about his own happiness and what he actually wants. Though throughout the book he suggests Akriti to consult with a specialist, he himself never took the appointment nor was able to make her do that.
I would say that there was a time when I begin to feel that Akriti was rude, arrogant, self-centred, irritating, unreasonable, insecure, unpredictable and forcing her love on Siddhant. But as the story progressed I too understand her situation but then too it was hard to believe somethings which she do in the rage of her state.
And what to say of Siddhant, he is rare to find person who just for care and a sense of responsibility tolerated everything which he didn't deserved. He is kind, responsible and a person who would go to any extent to help someone he cares about.
I loved the character of Maahi, a sorted and ambitious girl, who do what she loves.
All in all a well written story, was hard to start but once started read it in one sitting. Good plot. Shows what has to done must be done and don't wait for the right time. You have to make happen the things and time will itself feels right. Also shows that if you yourself are not happy and content then you cannot be able to keep others happy, there is nothing wrong in putting yourself in priority. The Reason behind your happiness is non other that YOU.
October 3, 2020
The reason is you, penned by Nikita Singh, tells the story of Siddhant and akriti, and how their lives changes when akriti gets struck by a loss and he has to take care of her. The sequel to like a love song and every time it rains, the book is narrated from Siddhant’s perspective.
I have been waiting to read the book for a while and I enjoyed reading it too. I fell in love with Siddhant. He’s a thorough gentleman. It’s very rare to read a book from male’s perspective that doesn’t portray women as the object of lust. While I could understand akriti, I couldn’t really sympathise with her. Because her background was not established thoroughly and all we could gather about her was from her conversations and not direct instances, I couldn’t really feel for her. Depression is a serious issue, I understand. But many situations are highly exaggerated and I found akriti unreasonable. Her behaviour is mostly based on stereotypes when in reality it’s different. Almost three fourth of the book is consumed to describe her condition and behaviour while her recovery is not well written. Many of the problems in the book could have been resolved if she and Siddhant had a real conversation or if she had consulted a therapist soon. The reason she doesn’t consult one isn’t justified. For those who haven’t read every time it rains and like a love song, Maahi’s characterisation may seem weak. The author could have could have given her more depth. She has been a favourite character of mine, and I was happy for her happy ending.
The language employed by the author is simple and easy. Her writing style is smooth and the pace ia moderate. Unlike the author’s other works, it doesn’t take to take pace. The title seemed a little off. The cover is gorgeous and attractive.
Overall a light read.
Plot : 3.75/5
Title : 3/5
Cover : 4/5
Language : 4/5
Overall : 3.8/5
I have been waiting to read the book for a while and I enjoyed reading it too. I fell in love with Siddhant. He’s a thorough gentleman. It’s very rare to read a book from male’s perspective that doesn’t portray women as the object of lust. While I could understand akriti, I couldn’t really sympathise with her. Because her background was not established thoroughly and all we could gather about her was from her conversations and not direct instances, I couldn’t really feel for her. Depression is a serious issue, I understand. But many situations are highly exaggerated and I found akriti unreasonable. Her behaviour is mostly based on stereotypes when in reality it’s different. Almost three fourth of the book is consumed to describe her condition and behaviour while her recovery is not well written. Many of the problems in the book could have been resolved if she and Siddhant had a real conversation or if she had consulted a therapist soon. The reason she doesn’t consult one isn’t justified. For those who haven’t read every time it rains and like a love song, Maahi’s characterisation may seem weak. The author could have could have given her more depth. She has been a favourite character of mine, and I was happy for her happy ending.
The language employed by the author is simple and easy. Her writing style is smooth and the pace ia moderate. Unlike the author’s other works, it doesn’t take to take pace. The title seemed a little off. The cover is gorgeous and attractive.
Overall a light read.
Plot : 3.75/5
Title : 3/5
Cover : 4/5
Language : 4/5
Overall : 3.8/5
August 8, 2020
This is a story of love, loss, complicated feelings, battles with depression and sticking by the people we love. Siddhant meets Akriti during their medical residency in Delhi. Their connection is instant and they feel attracted towards each other. So when Akriti leans on Siddhant for support after suffering a great loss, Siddhant proves to be a great support for her. And in the heat of this moment they start believing that it is love. Because of suffering a great loss Akriti goes into depression which takes a hold on her making her more insecured and ragged. Things get more complicated when Maahi, Siddhant's ex-girlfriend whom he never stopped loving, re-enters his life.
We see this alot on the internet that reading novels has raised people's standard so much that we tend to look for the characteristics of our favourite fictional characters in people. So Siddhant here is going to raise these standards even more😍
When we love someone or we think we love someone we try to support them, be with them in every way possible. But sometimes that isn't enough. We need to learn to differentiate between actually loving someone and feel like loving someone. In the process of loving someone wholeheartedly, we sometimes loose ourselves which I don't think is fair. When a partner is depressed he/ she affects our well-being too. We need to understand that mental health is important.
Overall it's an engaging story. At a point of time I got angry that why Siddhant why the hell are you making yourself suffer so much. But the ending soothed my anger.
After reading this book there's one thing that I have started to dislike and that's "𝙒𝙃𝙄𝙏𝙀 𝙍𝙊𝙎𝙀𝙎".
Haha you'll get to know why once you read it 😉
We see this alot on the internet that reading novels has raised people's standard so much that we tend to look for the characteristics of our favourite fictional characters in people. So Siddhant here is going to raise these standards even more😍
When we love someone or we think we love someone we try to support them, be with them in every way possible. But sometimes that isn't enough. We need to learn to differentiate between actually loving someone and feel like loving someone. In the process of loving someone wholeheartedly, we sometimes loose ourselves which I don't think is fair. When a partner is depressed he/ she affects our well-being too. We need to understand that mental health is important.
Overall it's an engaging story. At a point of time I got angry that why Siddhant why the hell are you making yourself suffer so much. But the ending soothed my anger.
After reading this book there's one thing that I have started to dislike and that's "𝙒𝙃𝙄𝙏𝙀 𝙍𝙊𝙎𝙀𝙎".
Haha you'll get to know why once you read it 😉
April 14, 2019
Mental illness is always something that has been ignored by everyone, especially if someone loses their loved ones. It is more so in India. I we look into the lives in western countries, they make sure the bereaved consult a therapist so that they could overcome the trauma. But in India it isn't so.
Nikita Singh, through her book conveys a message of mental illness awareness as well as the need to stand up for yourself and not forcing anything into yourself out of sympathy or duty.
Siddhanth and Akriti goes for their first date but Akriti is heartbroken to hear the demise of her father. In an attempt to give her support Siddhanth makes sure that he is always with her and in a moment of confusion he Confesses his love to her just to realise later that it was a momentary feeling. But Akriti's depression makes it nearly impossible for Siddhant to turn back. Things get complicated when Siddhant's ex-girlfriend comes into the picture. What happens afterwards is the rest of the story.
The plot takes off in a quite slow pace. Akriti's depression take time to register in the minds of the readers. Siddhant's unrealistically submissive character seems exaggerated. Nonetheless once Mahira comes into picture, the pace accelerates and it gets impossible for the readers to put the book down.
Nikita's impeccable language is not a new information for the readers. Nonetheless it deserves special mention. The climax was expected though.
Overall the book is an engaging read to the romance lovers
Nikita Singh, through her book conveys a message of mental illness awareness as well as the need to stand up for yourself and not forcing anything into yourself out of sympathy or duty.
Siddhanth and Akriti goes for their first date but Akriti is heartbroken to hear the demise of her father. In an attempt to give her support Siddhanth makes sure that he is always with her and in a moment of confusion he Confesses his love to her just to realise later that it was a momentary feeling. But Akriti's depression makes it nearly impossible for Siddhant to turn back. Things get complicated when Siddhant's ex-girlfriend comes into the picture. What happens afterwards is the rest of the story.
The plot takes off in a quite slow pace. Akriti's depression take time to register in the minds of the readers. Siddhant's unrealistically submissive character seems exaggerated. Nonetheless once Mahira comes into picture, the pace accelerates and it gets impossible for the readers to put the book down.
Nikita's impeccable language is not a new information for the readers. Nonetheless it deserves special mention. The climax was expected though.
Overall the book is an engaging read to the romance lovers
April 15, 2019
The Reason is You is story of Siddhant and Akriti. While one is depressed other is desperate to help. Generally in these kind of stories you either have a neutral narration or story told from the perspective of one who is suffering. In this story, we get perspective of the other, the person who is getting affected by the depressed loved ones. In this case, it was Siddhant and thus story is told from male perspective. In a moment of weakness and confusion, Siddhant confesses his love to Akriti and because of her condition, can’t take it back. Siddhant tries to support her, be with her but things keep on getting complicated. Things get worse when his Ex, Maahi comes in the picture. Finally what does Siddhant choose? Stick with Akriti or go back to Maahi? Does Akriti go back to her normal self? Read the book to know more.
For me it’s an excessively emotional story on love and the baggage which comes with it. The plot is okay, part realistic part drama. Siddhant’s character in particular was dragged, too unrealistic and in addition quite submissive. The story was easily predictable, mainstream and high on drama quotient. Most part was dragged too much.
Language was easy yet impeccable. For my first Nikita singh book, I was impressed with her writing but bored with plot and story treatment.
Overall, an okay read. If you like drama and emotional plots, you can give it a chance.
For me it’s an excessively emotional story on love and the baggage which comes with it. The plot is okay, part realistic part drama. Siddhant’s character in particular was dragged, too unrealistic and in addition quite submissive. The story was easily predictable, mainstream and high on drama quotient. Most part was dragged too much.
Language was easy yet impeccable. For my first Nikita singh book, I was impressed with her writing but bored with plot and story treatment.
Overall, an okay read. If you like drama and emotional plots, you can give it a chance.
April 17, 2019
Reading love stories had never been my first preference. However, since the publishers are good, I thought of giving this book a try. I did not enjoy reading it much and was an okay read. I give it 3 stars out of 5 and here is my review of it.
The title of this book gives a hint that the story will be about blame game which is a common setup in India. It is a story of Akriti and Siddhant and talks about one of the biggest health issues in today’s world- Depression.
Though the characterization was strong, the theme of this book was quite generic. And what turned off my mood was the narration. At some points of time, it was too strong and the characters were described in an excellent manner. However, in other instances, things seemed to be moving at a varied pace that broke my focus while reading. Depression element in the story was explained and connected well with the characters and events. The cover is too simple and did not attract me much. However, I love the way the author chooses her title. I have read Letters To My Ex by the same author and then this book. The titles of both the books made me curious to read it.
Pick up this book if you are a blind fan of love stories.
Title- 5 / 5
Narration- 3 / 5
Plot- 2.5 / 5
Cover- 3 / 5
Overall- 3 / 5
The title of this book gives a hint that the story will be about blame game which is a common setup in India. It is a story of Akriti and Siddhant and talks about one of the biggest health issues in today’s world- Depression.
Though the characterization was strong, the theme of this book was quite generic. And what turned off my mood was the narration. At some points of time, it was too strong and the characters were described in an excellent manner. However, in other instances, things seemed to be moving at a varied pace that broke my focus while reading. Depression element in the story was explained and connected well with the characters and events. The cover is too simple and did not attract me much. However, I love the way the author chooses her title. I have read Letters To My Ex by the same author and then this book. The titles of both the books made me curious to read it.
Pick up this book if you are a blind fan of love stories.
Title- 5 / 5
Narration- 3 / 5
Plot- 2.5 / 5
Cover- 3 / 5
Overall- 3 / 5
November 11, 2020
This is the first book I've read of the author and I liked this one because it focuses on a very delicate also an important issue -depression and mental illness.We usually only talk about this but while reading this book ,one gets an idea of how depression is not just sadness,it is far from that and also it not only affects the one going through it but also the people around that particular person.The story begins where Siddhant has decided to move on after an year of his breakup with Maahi.He is a senior resident at AIIMS.He goes on a date with Akriti who also works at AIIMS.After an hour or so on their date,Akriti hears about the sudden demise of her father.Here, the protagonist,Siddhant develops a strong character as it is evident by the support he provides to Akriti while she copes up to recover from her loss but further on ,her condition worsens in ways one had not imagined.She suffers mental illness in the process and so does suffer Siddhant and their relationship.A little background details and better character development could have added on to the beauty of the book.Also,the significance and reference of the white flowers in the story and also on the book cover could have been better presented.Overall,the book is a thumbs up for a light reading.
April 3, 2019
A person never forgets the first love, no matter what. It’s always in their mind, even when they are sitting next to their new love. Getting over the one you loved is not easy. It takes some time to get some semblance of normalcy back in your life. And what would you do if you move on with your new love by your side, and your ex comes back in your life. What would you do? Our protagonist Siddhant is struck in a similar situation when he started dating Akriti and his ex Maahi comes back to his life. Akriti has gone through a major loss and was depressed while Siddhant was by her side, trying everything to make her feel better. But, will the unannounced arrival of Maahi change Siddhant’s relationship with Akriti?
This book has a lot to offer. It deals with relationships, loss, depression and many more things. It is an emotional roller coaster ride, which is both gripping and overwhelming. The author has researched the plot carefully. I liked how the book shows emotions and really gives you character traits about the characters.
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This book has a lot to offer. It deals with relationships, loss, depression and many more things. It is an emotional roller coaster ride, which is both gripping and overwhelming. The author has researched the plot carefully. I liked how the book shows emotions and really gives you character traits about the characters.
Read full review on my blog.
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March 29, 2020
Book: The reason is you
Author: @singh_nikita
Publisher: @harpercollinsin
Format: Paperback
It’s a story of Siddhant and Akriti.
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Siddhant meets Akriti during their medical residency in Delhi. Akriti gets to know that her father died due to a stroke.
She always felt alone even after her boyfriend Siddhant was there to help & make her feel happy.
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The author has tried to explain symptoms of depression through the character Akriti.
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Siddhant knew that Akriti was suffering from depression and supported her in every way but then also it made Akriti angry and upset.
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In the middle of this, he’s ex Mahi appears and he realizes that he has never stopped loving her. After this, his life gets more complicated.
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The plot takes off at a slow pace. I like the character of Siddhant as he was genuinely supporting & caring for Akriti.
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The climax is quite predictable.
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The title suites with the cover of this book. It’s a decent read and you can go for it if you are looking something in a romance genre.
Author: @singh_nikita
Publisher: @harpercollinsin
Format: Paperback
It’s a story of Siddhant and Akriti.
.
.
Siddhant meets Akriti during their medical residency in Delhi. Akriti gets to know that her father died due to a stroke.
She always felt alone even after her boyfriend Siddhant was there to help & make her feel happy.
.
.
The author has tried to explain symptoms of depression through the character Akriti.
.
.
Siddhant knew that Akriti was suffering from depression and supported her in every way but then also it made Akriti angry and upset.
.
.
In the middle of this, he’s ex Mahi appears and he realizes that he has never stopped loving her. After this, his life gets more complicated.
.
.
The plot takes off at a slow pace. I like the character of Siddhant as he was genuinely supporting & caring for Akriti.
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The climax is quite predictable.
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The title suites with the cover of this book. It’s a decent read and you can go for it if you are looking something in a romance genre.
August 6, 2024
This book left me with a question mark on my face.
The protagonist is absolutely mad. Like legit mad. I feel like most of the book was about Sid when it was supposed to be about Akriti.
Even though, getting both point of views ans of course written in third person, I found this book really....weird.
The only good thing about this book are the significance of white roses which of course means peace.
As this book is about 'being with someone who is suffering or going through depression' it not only reflects that theme, it also reflects on disorders like anxiety, schizophrenia etc and people pleasing which the author hasn't mentioned in her note.
The addition of a third person is alright, Maahi didn't cause any harm, it was only Akriti that was the villian all along. She was not only fighting battles with herself but as Piyesh said, used Sid as her 'punching bag.'
I'm giving this book a three stars because the plot has a lot of potential and I felt like the resolution lasted way too long than the climax. There are a lot of unnecessary scenes but the climax makes up for it.
The protagonist is absolutely mad. Like legit mad. I feel like most of the book was about Sid when it was supposed to be about Akriti.
Even though, getting both point of views ans of course written in third person, I found this book really....weird.
The only good thing about this book are the significance of white roses which of course means peace.
As this book is about 'being with someone who is suffering or going through depression' it not only reflects that theme, it also reflects on disorders like anxiety, schizophrenia etc and people pleasing which the author hasn't mentioned in her note.
The addition of a third person is alright, Maahi didn't cause any harm, it was only Akriti that was the villian all along. She was not only fighting battles with herself but as Piyesh said, used Sid as her 'punching bag.'
I'm giving this book a three stars because the plot has a lot of potential and I felt like the resolution lasted way too long than the climax. There are a lot of unnecessary scenes but the climax makes up for it.
May 15, 2019
The Reason is You
Talk about anxiety and mental illness, which we often fail to give more importance. Nikita Singh, the author of 'Letter to my Ex' covers the much talked about, but hardly taking seriously- mental illness, in her new book 'The Reason is You.' The female character Akriti is going through a struggle in life after the death of her father, she is unable to cope up with the loss and she goes through a mental breakdown which slowly seemed to take over her life and goes on to ruin the relationship with the people she love. Siddhant, on the other hand is trying his best to put Akriti back on track, but as we know mental illness is something which is beyond the control of the person suffering. And, that’s when the trouble in the relationship between two people in love begins.
Read my take on the book.
Complete review up on my blog post: https://bit.ly/2LLYvqg
Talk about anxiety and mental illness, which we often fail to give more importance. Nikita Singh, the author of 'Letter to my Ex' covers the much talked about, but hardly taking seriously- mental illness, in her new book 'The Reason is You.' The female character Akriti is going through a struggle in life after the death of her father, she is unable to cope up with the loss and she goes through a mental breakdown which slowly seemed to take over her life and goes on to ruin the relationship with the people she love. Siddhant, on the other hand is trying his best to put Akriti back on track, but as we know mental illness is something which is beyond the control of the person suffering. And, that’s when the trouble in the relationship between two people in love begins.
Read my take on the book.
Complete review up on my blog post: https://bit.ly/2LLYvqg
August 23, 2019
When I picked up this book, I had different expectations from it. I was hoping that this book will feature another angle to Siddhant & Maahi's story, from where it ended last. Was hoping that it would focus more on Siddhant's mental health post his breakup. But instead it was about another girl. I feel disappointed there but I guess I missed the blurb, I was so excited to jump straight into it. Also, depression or mental health is not just about ragging and lashing out on others and use them at your convenience. Here, this girl's character felt more like a bully than a survivor.
Never mind, it's not always easy to write abt a disease, a lot of research & hardwork required to process the details (especially when you do not have any firsthand experience of it) and carved a story out of it. So, for that I give one extra star to NS.
And I'm still waiting her to write something as magical as the 'The Promise' was.
Never mind, it's not always easy to write abt a disease, a lot of research & hardwork required to process the details (especially when you do not have any firsthand experience of it) and carved a story out of it. So, for that I give one extra star to NS.
And I'm still waiting her to write something as magical as the 'The Promise' was.
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