This book proves how difficult and complex of a topic abortion will always be to discuss. Even after completion, there are still so many unanswered questions and conversations to be had. I’m walking away with a better understanding that we can’t and shouldn’t always compare morals and that we as a society must trust women to make their own decisions, regardless of our agreement. (I advocate for a vegetarian/plant-based diet…that doesn’t mean I demand eating meat should be outlawed.) Chapter 9 discussing autonomy really interested me and here are quite a few quotations I bookmarked throughout:
"Who or what is more in need of protection: fetuses or women? For me, the vulnerable thing in need of protection is pluralism (a system that recognizes more than one ultimate principle.) The idea that Americans who vigorously disagree about gender, family, sex, religion, and endless other topics can all flourish in the same country. I’m not asking you to like abortion, I’m asking you to like pluralism. I’m asking you to acknowledge that your feeling, opinion, belief, or conviction about the moral status of embryos and fetuses cannot be proven to the level required to force it on others through force of law."
"Despite the fact poor women are half of abortion patients, these women are less likely to terminate an unintended pregnancy than higher income women. For women living under the poverty line, 38% of unintended pregnancies end in abortion compared with 48% of unintended pregnancies in women with incomes over 200% of the poverty line."
"Let’s transform our political bickering into productive fighting by further unpacking the 'Russian doll' of abortion and openly discussing how recent social changes are affecting people both practically and emotionally. If the underlying claim driving abortion health regulations is that people shouldn’t have abortions at all, and if some abortion conflicts are really or largely about issues like gender, sexuality, and religion, it would be more productive to identify our true disagreements and discuss them directly."
"Conflict is only productive when we’re honest about the real reason we’re fighting. Productive fighting might be painful, but the possibility of progress, new understandings, and shared resolutions makes those conflicts worth having."
"In the United States, you’re also allowed to think an embryo does not have any moral significance, just as your neighbor is free to think it is the moral equivalent of a child. 'Pro-choice' doesn’t mean you don’t have opinions about other people’s choices, or that you can’t think a woman is wrong about moral status. To be 'pro-choice' is to recognize that your neighbor is a moral thinker, too."
"An obligation to respect another’s view of embryos or fetuses can never outweigh a woman’s moral right to have an abortion under the Agent’s Rights Principal - it’s about the desirability of reducing unwanted pregnancies. The transitivity of respect would say we should try to make abortion rare not because it is bad, but because it’s hard."
"Our society still fails to respect the needs of women who want to have children and pro-life feminism that embraces anti-abortion laws fails to respect the needs of women who don’t want to have children, ever, at this time or any more than they already have."
"A feminist ethics of healthcare seeks to foster women’s agency where it has previously been restricted by patriarchal patterns and assumptions and acknowledges that rather than empowering women, the institution of medicine has historically reinforced unequal power of relations."
"When people talk about the ethical 'duty' a woman has to her fetus, where is the ethical duty society owes women to provide the education, empowerment, and access necessary to use contraception? To protect her from violence and sexual assault? Where is the duty society owes pregnant women to provide housing and neighborhoods where the streets are safe enough to use for exercise and where nutritious food is available? To support education, jobs, and childcare so pregnancy never requires the surrender of long cherished dreams?"
"JMS’s (a teenager in Utah who hired someone to assault her in attempts to cause a miscarriage) fetus was vulnerable because JMS was vulnerable. It appears as if she had a difficult life and limited choices long before she became pregnant. So although her case includes pregnancy, it’s about more than that. JMS was a minor in need who does not seem to have gotten significant resources and support from her community or her country until she tried to harm her fetus. Then her fetus got the attention she did not."
"The issue is whether the majority may use the power of the state to enforce these views on the whole society through operation of the criminal law. Our obligation is to define the liberty of all, not mandate our own moral code."