While I have liked this series from the start, I'm beginning to get a little annoyed with how often she keeps repeating to herself how any man wouldn't want to get involved with her because of a snake. One, she's surrounded by men who, yes are wary of a venomous snake, but who also risk takers by nature. Two, they've all seen that the snake is "tame" if they aren't attacking- frequent hugs from various people now. Three- she has the antivenin if something did go wrong which- if she's right that Red isn't really a normal snake but one with a higher brain- would also figure out that if she allowed someone to try to kiss her, then he wouldn't strike.
Also, she's over 30 now, and has spent over half her life with Alexa, her mother. She shouldn't be always thinking that that'll go away when she's not fretting. Yes, I understand that her growing up years were unstable but she's had that stability for longer than she hasn't now... Plus, she knows she is constantly making the choices that put her in danger, with mostly positive outcomes, but she should start to be at peace with making them by now.
and thirdly, while I'm not a psychologist myself nor am I close to anyone who is, I don't think all psychologist would see her as a career making prize. Some sure- no one's perfect- but not every. single. one.