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First published July 9, 2020
Being single isn't scary. What's scary is being stuck with someone who will make you miserable for the rest of your life. That's the real campfire horror story.
A funny, insightful, bingeable read with feminist themes that are nuanced and inspiring. I confess I was dubious about the book's claims to be feminist, expecting something along the lines of 'all housewives are anti-feminist' and 'only single, career-driven, bold women are real feminists' sort of cookie-cutter ideals. And I am so glad to be wrong!
The women on 'The Shelf' are so varied in socioeconomic background, age, career and lifestyle - I was pleasantly surprised that one of them is bi/pansexual! - and they were all rendered excellently. Each woman felt realistic and distinct, and I absolutely loved this portrayal of boss women working together, not against each other. Flick's arc in particular was very well done. I'm so happy that it's shown that housewives/homemakers who are happy and fulfilled in their role aren't automatically anti-feminist. Feminism is about women having the agency to decide their lives, about dismantling double standards and having society properly recognise their contributions and sacrifices in whatever form they take.
BE YOUR OWN SUNSHINE
I'd rather be a fork of lightning.
There is a vivid contrast between Amy's perspective on her fellow contestants and the viewpoints held by most of said contestants' exes (and male show host, many audience members etc.) on the women's myriad relationship-ending 'flaws'. The show tries to whittle down the women to one adjective - for example, the ambitious and outspoken lawyer Jackie Adu is made out to be 'Selfish Jackie' by the host and producers. It soon becomes clear that it's not a particular trait that these men don't respect. They simply do not respect women. Of course, we can't forget the 'but not all men!' aspect. That's obvious, but it's shown well through the character of Dr Hicks, the show's therapist. While he's not perfect, Hicks is convincing as an academic and professional, and genuinely cares about helping the contestants instead of the ratings and sensationalism.
There were only very small issues keeping this from a full five-stars. Very occasionally, the sarcasm and writing style was somewhat confusing, and there was an odd comment about Thailand. Amy mentioned how much she wants to go to Thailand, and that there's 'something in the air. It's probably opium.' which kind of brought me to a screeching halt.

I do hope it was a joke! If it was, then it brings me back to my earlier point about unclear sarcasm.
Overall, I really enjoyed this! I'd say it's a fun beach read, apart from the boiling rage you may feel at some of the more misogynistic characters and comments.
Thank you to NetGalley and Bonnier Books for the ARC in exchange for an honest review.