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The Dating Charade
Just when you think you’ve met your match . . . the charade begins.
Cassie Everson is an expert at escaping bad first dates. And, after years of meeting, greeting, and running from the men who try to woo her, Cassie is almost ready to retire her hopes for a husband—and children—altogether.
But fate has other plans, and Cassie’s online dating profile catches the eye of firefighter Jett Bentley. In Jett’s memory, Cassie Everson is the unreachable girl-of-legend from their high school days. Nervously, he messages her, setting off a chain of events that forces a reluctant Cassie back into the dating game.
No one is more surprised than Cassie when her first date with Jett is a knockout. But when they both go home and find three children dropped in their laps—each—they independently decide to do the right and mature thing: hide the kids from each other while sorting it all out. What could go wrong?
Melissa Ferguson’s hilarious and warmhearted debut reminds us that love can come in very small packages—and that sometimes our best-laid plans aren’t nearly as rewarding and fun as the surprises that come our way.
Cassie Everson is an expert at escaping bad first dates. And, after years of meeting, greeting, and running from the men who try to woo her, Cassie is almost ready to retire her hopes for a husband—and children—altogether.
But fate has other plans, and Cassie’s online dating profile catches the eye of firefighter Jett Bentley. In Jett’s memory, Cassie Everson is the unreachable girl-of-legend from their high school days. Nervously, he messages her, setting off a chain of events that forces a reluctant Cassie back into the dating game.
No one is more surprised than Cassie when her first date with Jett is a knockout. But when they both go home and find three children dropped in their laps—each—they independently decide to do the right and mature thing: hide the kids from each other while sorting it all out. What could go wrong?
Melissa Ferguson’s hilarious and warmhearted debut reminds us that love can come in very small packages—and that sometimes our best-laid plans aren’t nearly as rewarding and fun as the surprises that come our way.
314 pages, Paperback
First published December 3, 2019
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Melissa Ferguson
15 books2,525 followersBestselling author Melissa Ferguson lives in Tennessee, where she enjoys chasing her children and writing romantic comedies full of humor and heart. Her favorite hobby is taking friends and acquaintances and turning them into characters in her books without their knowledge.
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Connect with her (and prepare for the possibility of becoming her next character) at:
Instagram: @our_friendly_farmhouse
TikTok: @ourfriendlyfarmhouse
Website: https://melissaferguson.com/
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June 21, 2022
3.5 stars
A cute and quirky read with more than meets the eye.
The Dating Charade tells the story of Cassie and Jett. Both are out of luck in the dating scene and aren’t planning to have their own children, each for different reasons. Cassie and Jett coincidentally know each other from high school. They end up being matched online and get together with the help of their friends.
Everything changes when two sets of three kids enters the picture. Cassie works at a Girls Haven and has the opportunity to take care of three girls. Jett takes responsibility for his sister’s kids, while she is battling addiction. Each party tries to hide the children from one another, thinking that they won’t be supportive.
With some shallow drama, an unexpected turn of events, and a tragic accident, Jett and Cassie both come to realize what’s most important to them. Can they work out a relationship that also includes their expanded families?
At the beginning of the book, it was a bit difficult to relate to Cassie. Cassie and Jett’s relationship was meant to be awkward but at times it was a little too out there, and I struggled to understand the humor. However, the main characters were developed well as the story went on. They learned the power of honesty and communication. I liked how Cassie and Jett were both selfless and realistic in taking on their new roles. They became more open to the future looking different than they expected and recognized their changing priorities.
This book also had some entertaining and endearing sideline characters that added to the the story’s charm and depth. The dialogue and descriptions were both silly while dipping into serious matters. This aspect was balanced well.
Overall, this was a fun and playful romantic comedy read that touched on some important topics, made you think, and also had a sweet ending. I look forward to reading the author’s other novels. 😊
A cute and quirky read with more than meets the eye.
The Dating Charade tells the story of Cassie and Jett. Both are out of luck in the dating scene and aren’t planning to have their own children, each for different reasons. Cassie and Jett coincidentally know each other from high school. They end up being matched online and get together with the help of their friends.
Everything changes when two sets of three kids enters the picture. Cassie works at a Girls Haven and has the opportunity to take care of three girls. Jett takes responsibility for his sister’s kids, while she is battling addiction. Each party tries to hide the children from one another, thinking that they won’t be supportive.
With some shallow drama, an unexpected turn of events, and a tragic accident, Jett and Cassie both come to realize what’s most important to them. Can they work out a relationship that also includes their expanded families?
At the beginning of the book, it was a bit difficult to relate to Cassie. Cassie and Jett’s relationship was meant to be awkward but at times it was a little too out there, and I struggled to understand the humor. However, the main characters were developed well as the story went on. They learned the power of honesty and communication. I liked how Cassie and Jett were both selfless and realistic in taking on their new roles. They became more open to the future looking different than they expected and recognized their changing priorities.
This book also had some entertaining and endearing sideline characters that added to the the story’s charm and depth. The dialogue and descriptions were both silly while dipping into serious matters. This aspect was balanced well.
Overall, this was a fun and playful romantic comedy read that touched on some important topics, made you think, and also had a sweet ending. I look forward to reading the author’s other novels. 😊
December 30, 2019
2.5 stars
Oh how I wish I liked this novel more. Especially because there wasn't anything specifically 'bad' about it. It just wasn't the story for me but I am willing to appreciate the important topics that were brought into the story.
This novel included tough yet important issues such as addiction, neglect, foster parenting, and adoption. It really was a story that could open readers' eyes towards foster parenting and adoption and for that, I really wish I liked the overall story more. It opens the door to discussions regarding the different forms of 'family' that are out there and is informative while telling an emotionally powerful story.
Between the writing style, the pace, and the dwindling chemistry between the two main characters, it wasn't the novel for me but I know that there will be others out there that enjoy this story more.
***Thank you to the publisher for supplying me with an ARC of this book via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review***
Oh how I wish I liked this novel more. Especially because there wasn't anything specifically 'bad' about it. It just wasn't the story for me but I am willing to appreciate the important topics that were brought into the story.
This novel included tough yet important issues such as addiction, neglect, foster parenting, and adoption. It really was a story that could open readers' eyes towards foster parenting and adoption and for that, I really wish I liked the overall story more. It opens the door to discussions regarding the different forms of 'family' that are out there and is informative while telling an emotionally powerful story.
Between the writing style, the pace, and the dwindling chemistry between the two main characters, it wasn't the novel for me but I know that there will be others out there that enjoy this story more.
***Thank you to the publisher for supplying me with an ARC of this book via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review***
September 3, 2019
This started out really good for me but then fizzled a bit. Cassie is fed up with online dating and I loved her escape plan. Jett’s excitement in connecting with Cassie again was adorable. But once the story lines regarding both sets of children were introduced, the romance took a back seat. Cassie and Jett barely had any interactions, which made the ending a bit far fetched for me. The writing was good, but I think the children really overpowered the romance.
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July 2, 2019A jolt of energy featuring one of the most unique romantic hooks I have ever read. Personality and zest shine through Ferguson's evident enjoyment at crafting hi-jinx and misadventures as two people slowly make way for love in the midst of major life upheaval. A marvellous treaty on unexpected grace and its life changing chaos, Cassie and Jett find beautiful vulnerability in redefining what it means to live happily-ever-after.
December 5, 2019
I am almost always sucked in by a cute cover and a moderately interesting blurb. This book has both. At least to me. Y’all know by now that I am almost always going to click on a book that mentions online dating. And this blurb mentions single parenting. I felt like I had to read it.
Then I noticed it was published by Harlequin’s Christian Printing imprint. I debated not reading it, but I decided to give it a go. I watch plenty of Hallmark movies that kind of dance around faith/religion. I figured this couldn’t be much different. And it wasn’t. Cutesy story of a woman in her early 30’s trying to find love. She is giving online dating a try. But then she decides it is trash and opts to just live her life. (I feel like there is a lesson in there for me.) Naturally before she completely deletes her profile she connects with a handsome man who just happens to be someone she went to high school and wouldn’t you know it he works across the street.
CW & Spoilers
Back to the book. The love match was cutesy and had moments of sweetness but that was only about half the focus of the book. There is some mention of faith- Jett takes his family to church. There were a few mentions of prayer. It didn’t feel too heavy handed but also I had bigger issues to work through.
Cassie works at an all girls organization that read to me like Boys & Girls Club, except all girls. Star is one of the girls that attends the after school program. Star and her sisters are removed from the home due to child neglect and abandonment. Cassie decides to take Star and her sisters home with her and provide care for them. She truly cares for them and wants to see them stay together as a unit and doesn’t want them to go to foster care. There was one early mention of Star’s hair that felt like code for Star being black. Once Cassie takes in the girls, the author states the girls are black. Cassie is white. The whole situation made me uncomfortable. So much so that I researched the number of children in foster care. Per Statista, in 2018 there were over 190,000 white kids in foster care and 99,000 black or African American kids in foster care. Childwelfare.gov shows similar stats with 44% White, 25% Black or African American children in foster care.
Weirdly enough, the hero, Jett also ends up parenting children that are not his. His sister, who is battling some sort of addiction, show up on his doorstep with her three children. She is there for a day and then leaves the kids in his care. There were a few times that Jett described his sisters addiction battle that made me feel slightly uncomfortable. He was pretty judgey.
Once Cassie and Jett are caregivers to their respective charges, they don’t tell each other about their situations and hilarity does not ensue. They don’t talk about it until close to the end and then there is a big misunderstanding that was ridiculous but also I was not invested in the story and just wanted to know how it ended.
Spoiler Ending
Star’s long lost uncle agrees to take Star, Diedre and Kennedy. This is after Cassie finds out that their mother has surrendered her parental rights. Cassie is devastated. The girls leave her care. But in the epilogue they are back together. We don’t know why.
Jett’s sister takes her kids from Jett’s house without telling him and is driving impaired and causes a major accident that kills someone and causes injury to the children and because Jett is a fire fighter/EMT he is there to save them. They all end up together with a happily ever after.
I am not here to say that the author didn’t research this (foster care and/or transracial adoption) and attempt and want to handle the situation with care. I am here to say that there were no other characters of color that I could easily identify. To have the only characters of color be a neglectful mother whose children end up in foster care seems to be a potentially very hurtful narrative. I know that children of all races end up in foster care for a variety of reasons. But it had me feeling uneasy that the only time I was easily able to identify people of color was because they committed a crime or they were children in foster care. Jett’s niece and nephews are white and perhaps that is a balance and I am overthinking it. However, I felt how I felt and that is okay.
Long story short I didn’t love this book. I felt the romance was completely overshadowed by each of the main characters journey with becoming a caretaker. It felt like they didn’t really get to know enough about each other in order to sustain a long term relationship. When I factor in how I felt about the children, I didn’t enjoy this book.
Then I noticed it was published by Harlequin’s Christian Printing imprint. I debated not reading it, but I decided to give it a go. I watch plenty of Hallmark movies that kind of dance around faith/religion. I figured this couldn’t be much different. And it wasn’t. Cutesy story of a woman in her early 30’s trying to find love. She is giving online dating a try. But then she decides it is trash and opts to just live her life. (I feel like there is a lesson in there for me.) Naturally before she completely deletes her profile she connects with a handsome man who just happens to be someone she went to high school and wouldn’t you know it he works across the street.
CW & Spoilers
Back to the book. The love match was cutesy and had moments of sweetness but that was only about half the focus of the book. There is some mention of faith- Jett takes his family to church. There were a few mentions of prayer. It didn’t feel too heavy handed but also I had bigger issues to work through.
Cassie works at an all girls organization that read to me like Boys & Girls Club, except all girls. Star is one of the girls that attends the after school program. Star and her sisters are removed from the home due to child neglect and abandonment. Cassie decides to take Star and her sisters home with her and provide care for them. She truly cares for them and wants to see them stay together as a unit and doesn’t want them to go to foster care. There was one early mention of Star’s hair that felt like code for Star being black. Once Cassie takes in the girls, the author states the girls are black. Cassie is white. The whole situation made me uncomfortable. So much so that I researched the number of children in foster care. Per Statista, in 2018 there were over 190,000 white kids in foster care and 99,000 black or African American kids in foster care. Childwelfare.gov shows similar stats with 44% White, 25% Black or African American children in foster care.
Weirdly enough, the hero, Jett also ends up parenting children that are not his. His sister, who is battling some sort of addiction, show up on his doorstep with her three children. She is there for a day and then leaves the kids in his care. There were a few times that Jett described his sisters addiction battle that made me feel slightly uncomfortable. He was pretty judgey.
Once Cassie and Jett are caregivers to their respective charges, they don’t tell each other about their situations and hilarity does not ensue. They don’t talk about it until close to the end and then there is a big misunderstanding that was ridiculous but also I was not invested in the story and just wanted to know how it ended.
Spoiler Ending
Star’s long lost uncle agrees to take Star, Diedre and Kennedy. This is after Cassie finds out that their mother has surrendered her parental rights. Cassie is devastated. The girls leave her care. But in the epilogue they are back together. We don’t know why.
Jett’s sister takes her kids from Jett’s house without telling him and is driving impaired and causes a major accident that kills someone and causes injury to the children and because Jett is a fire fighter/EMT he is there to save them. They all end up together with a happily ever after.
I am not here to say that the author didn’t research this (foster care and/or transracial adoption) and attempt and want to handle the situation with care. I am here to say that there were no other characters of color that I could easily identify. To have the only characters of color be a neglectful mother whose children end up in foster care seems to be a potentially very hurtful narrative. I know that children of all races end up in foster care for a variety of reasons. But it had me feeling uneasy that the only time I was easily able to identify people of color was because they committed a crime or they were children in foster care. Jett’s niece and nephews are white and perhaps that is a balance and I am overthinking it. However, I felt how I felt and that is okay.
Long story short I didn’t love this book. I felt the romance was completely overshadowed by each of the main characters journey with becoming a caretaker. It felt like they didn’t really get to know enough about each other in order to sustain a long term relationship. When I factor in how I felt about the children, I didn’t enjoy this book.
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March 30, 2020
Cute story about two singles adopting children and hiding them from each other only to end up as a big patchwork family.
February 19, 2020
Charming and funny with a surprising serious undertone.
I was expecting Rom/Com but I wouldn't technically categorize The Dating Charade as a romance. It has the beginnings and endings of one but the middle is something else entirely. Not quite women's fiction either. I think chic lit might suit this book best -- even though we get the hero's point of view and usually chic lit is all from the heroine's perspective.
Despite being difficult to classify, Cassie and Jett's story makes for a captivating read with plenty of ups and downs. The first few chapters are full of classic comedic flare fueled by miscommunication. Still grinning over some of those scenes. But when both the hero and heroine are faced with the challenge of temporary parenthood things become more serious. Especially since they both decide to keep their unexpected charges a secret from each other which leads to even more communication problems and the story quickly slips into a heart-tugging drama centered around child abandonment, family dysfunction and addictions.
Through it all, Ferguson delivers a nice mix of humour and poignancy as she untangles the complicated lives of two characters who definitely deserve a chance at their very own happily ever after...even if it looks entirely different then they imagined!
The one thing I really missed in this story was an inspirational thread. This is another Thomas Nelson publication (a Christian Publisher who is becoming known for it's faith-free fiction.)
I enjoyed listening to the audible version of this book. Loved that there were two narrators -- one for each point of view. Kevin Kilpatrick and Liz Stanislawski made a great team, delivering an easy-to-listen-to style that held me captive right to the very end.
I was expecting Rom/Com but I wouldn't technically categorize The Dating Charade as a romance. It has the beginnings and endings of one but the middle is something else entirely. Not quite women's fiction either. I think chic lit might suit this book best -- even though we get the hero's point of view and usually chic lit is all from the heroine's perspective.
Despite being difficult to classify, Cassie and Jett's story makes for a captivating read with plenty of ups and downs. The first few chapters are full of classic comedic flare fueled by miscommunication. Still grinning over some of those scenes. But when both the hero and heroine are faced with the challenge of temporary parenthood things become more serious. Especially since they both decide to keep their unexpected charges a secret from each other which leads to even more communication problems and the story quickly slips into a heart-tugging drama centered around child abandonment, family dysfunction and addictions.
Through it all, Ferguson delivers a nice mix of humour and poignancy as she untangles the complicated lives of two characters who definitely deserve a chance at their very own happily ever after...even if it looks entirely different then they imagined!
The one thing I really missed in this story was an inspirational thread. This is another Thomas Nelson publication (a Christian Publisher who is becoming known for it's faith-free fiction.)
I enjoyed listening to the audible version of this book. Loved that there were two narrators -- one for each point of view. Kevin Kilpatrick and Liz Stanislawski made a great team, delivering an easy-to-listen-to style that held me captive right to the very end.
December 13, 2019
Wow! I loved this story!!! I cannot believe that this is Melissa Ferguson’s debut! I am definitely going to be watching out for more of her work! I hope she’s a fast writer! This book was full of everything I love in a romance - humor, heart, wonderful main characters, great secondary characters, and, of course, a happily ever after with a few bumps along the way!
Jett and Cassie are both such wonderful and giving characters. There are some serious and sad parts to this story, which really brought out just how giving they both are. And the humor? I laughed out loud so many times while reading this story! Cassie’s sure way out of a date is so funny. And Jett with the toddlers at church is hilarious! I think I laughed nonstop that entire scene! My only one tiny issue with this story is that I wished Jett and Cassie had more page time together.
I’m really hoping we get Bree’s story next. But, if not, I’ll be reading whatever Melissa Ferguson writes next! Wonderful debut!
I received a complimentary copy of this book from NetGalley. I was not required to write a positive review.
Jett and Cassie are both such wonderful and giving characters. There are some serious and sad parts to this story, which really brought out just how giving they both are. And the humor? I laughed out loud so many times while reading this story! Cassie’s sure way out of a date is so funny. And Jett with the toddlers at church is hilarious! I think I laughed nonstop that entire scene! My only one tiny issue with this story is that I wished Jett and Cassie had more page time together.
I’m really hoping we get Bree’s story next. But, if not, I’ll be reading whatever Melissa Ferguson writes next! Wonderful debut!
I received a complimentary copy of this book from NetGalley. I was not required to write a positive review.
January 14, 2020
I like the plot and the characters. The writing is good. I didn't feel like there was enough development of the romantic relationship for my taste. I like that Cassie's and Jett's POV went back and forth between chapters. There is a too much focus on the children for this one to be considered a "romcom" in my opinion. Love the cute cover!
March 23, 2020
I was sent a copy from the author for a honest review.
I wanted to like this book so badly but with the chaos of kids always causing issues and me not feeling a connection for the couple, it was hard for me to finish this one.
I wanted to like this book so badly but with the chaos of kids always causing issues and me not feeling a connection for the couple, it was hard for me to finish this one.
December 3, 2019
This book was a delightfully hilarious and also poignant read. A firefighter sees the opportunity to reconnect with his high school crush, now a woman who provides a safe haven for impoverished girls. Sparks fly- and then surprises drop from the sky. Our hero finds himself responsible for twin terrors and a nearly newborn infant, and our heroine finds her hands full with a teenager and two school age children. He calls upon the help of his roommate and neighbor, and she upon her best friend and mom- but neither dare tell the other about their unexpected, possibly permanent family additions for fear of scaring away their potential soul mate whose profile says they don't want kids. Between frantic attempts to learn how to parent and simultaneously woo each other, while keeping the former a secret, this book had me in stiches. Until it had me freaking out. A wonderful, unique read.
I received a copy of this book from the publisher, and the opinions are my own.
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August 4, 2023
This was a 2.5 for me but giving it a 3 for the sake of rounding up instead of down. For the month of August I am challenging myself to read only Christian books. I previously have read two other Melissa Ferguson books so I thought I may enjoy this one. I was okay but I don't think Melissa's books are for me. The first 30% was hard to get through but as the children came into the story, I started to enjoy it more. In the end I found it lacking in general and felt it was kind of all over the place. I found the female narrator had the perfect voice for news broadcast but I found myself distracted by her inflection.
August 16, 2019
Ferguson’s voice is fresh, flirty, and fun! The book deals with some weighty situations—child abandonment, adoption, social work—but it’s also laugh out loud funny. I think fans of romcom are really going to like this one.
July 20, 2019
I have been desperately searching for a new contemporary romance author to love and I have just found her! You guys. This book was amazing! Everything I wanted it to be and so so so much more!! From the very beginning I was completely hooked and I read the whole thing in one sitting! Everything was expertly crafted, from the characters, to the plot, to the romance, to the humor! Cannot believe that this is a debut-it was that well done!
I loved Jett and Cassie, both of them work in jobs that require sacrifice and they both care passionately about the people they take care of. They both immediately step up and in when it is needed almost without thought to how it will disrupt their lives. They were so perfectly matched for each other and I loved their easy connection and the banter between them!
One of my favorite parts about this book was how much it made me laugh out loud! The humor was brilliantly woven in so naturally and just perfectly timed! There was the antics of the kids, the teasing of the friends, the scheming of little old ladies, and a bunch of other hilarious moments.
The secondary cast of characters were all so entertaining and I loved each of them for their own reasons!
Basically every single part of this book was awesomely fantastic and Melissa Ferguson has launched herself on to my favorite authors list! Cannot wait to see what else she has in store for us!
I received a ebook copy of this book from NetGalley and was not required to write a positive review. All thoughts and opinions are my own
I loved Jett and Cassie, both of them work in jobs that require sacrifice and they both care passionately about the people they take care of. They both immediately step up and in when it is needed almost without thought to how it will disrupt their lives. They were so perfectly matched for each other and I loved their easy connection and the banter between them!
One of my favorite parts about this book was how much it made me laugh out loud! The humor was brilliantly woven in so naturally and just perfectly timed! There was the antics of the kids, the teasing of the friends, the scheming of little old ladies, and a bunch of other hilarious moments.
The secondary cast of characters were all so entertaining and I loved each of them for their own reasons!
Basically every single part of this book was awesomely fantastic and Melissa Ferguson has launched herself on to my favorite authors list! Cannot wait to see what else she has in store for us!
I received a ebook copy of this book from NetGalley and was not required to write a positive review. All thoughts and opinions are my own
August 9, 2019
Cute! This book totally reminded me of the movie Instant Family. The best parts were with Jett and the kids. As a mom who hasn’t been out of the toddler years for too long, I could soooo relate...and it makes me wonder just how much personal experience Melissa Ferguson pulled from her own kids. 😅.
March 21, 2023
I tend to love stories that include heavier topics within an otherwise light read. And what a unique way this book brought in discussions of the foster system, addiction, abandonment, and more.
Having not seen each other since high school, Cassie and Jet reconnect via a dating app—and the sparks fly between them. It seems Cassie may have finally met her match after a series of disastrous dates.
But then they unexpectedly obtain custody of three children EACH ... and attempt to temporarily keep it a secret from one another. Good luck, right?
Both being thrust into parenting without notice, I loved the moments of them gracefully fumbling through the chaos and emotions. I'd say the romance takes a backseat to the theme of family, but I truly didn't mind. The sprinkles of humour and overall heartwarming story won me over!
(heat level: kissing only)
Having not seen each other since high school, Cassie and Jet reconnect via a dating app—and the sparks fly between them. It seems Cassie may have finally met her match after a series of disastrous dates.
But then they unexpectedly obtain custody of three children EACH ... and attempt to temporarily keep it a secret from one another. Good luck, right?
Both being thrust into parenting without notice, I loved the moments of them gracefully fumbling through the chaos and emotions. I'd say the romance takes a backseat to the theme of family, but I truly didn't mind. The sprinkles of humour and overall heartwarming story won me over!
(heat level: kissing only)
December 3, 2019
There were so many bits I enjoyed in this book. The main characters are genuinely good people so it was easy to like them and root for them. The brief moments they were actually together and interacting were great but those were few and far between. It was mostly about Cassie and Jett in their separate lives, dealing with unexpected events and struggles. The story sometimes got a little long winded with the secondary characters and I will admit to some skimming. 😳 I guess I thought this was more of a romance than it turned out to be but it was a love story. A love for children however they come to you and how that love makes a family. Family isn't always about who you were born to- sometimes it's more about who you choose to love. It was a feel good aspect of this book.
I thought the ending was cute and again, I loved the overall message of this book. I just wish there were more moments of connection between the two main characters and less of the secondary characters.
Content: abuse mentioned in several different forms, mention of drug abuse. Kissing.
- I received a complimentary copy of this book. All opinions expressed are my own.
I thought the ending was cute and again, I loved the overall message of this book. I just wish there were more moments of connection between the two main characters and less of the secondary characters.
Content: abuse mentioned in several different forms, mention of drug abuse. Kissing.
- I received a complimentary copy of this book. All opinions expressed are my own.
February 6, 2020
My first read of 2020! I really enjoyed it! Laughs AND tears too! This book is more than a Romance, in fact I feel the Romantic love isn’t even the focus so much (don’t worry. It’s a HEA type anyway) love making a group of people family is foremost in this book. You’ll laugh and cheer!!
December 10, 2019
Full review and author q&a on FaithfullyBookish.com
All the hearts on the cover of The Dating Charade are entirely fitting because this story has heart in a big way! I laughed, I cried, I hugged my kids, I told one of my kids to read this book! There is entirely too much I love about this story to put it all into words! The author has nestled Cassie and Jett’s story in a diverse and dynamic community of friends, family, and coworkers like a big ‘ol hug that’s always there when you need it.
The romantic element is innocent and sweet with more almost-kisses than I could keep track of amidst two simultaneous (and semi-secretive) parenting crash courses… and I can’t find a single thing to complain about besides the fact that the story had to end. Melissa Fergeson’s debut is a “nothing but net” three-point shot for the win! I highly recommend this story!
I received a complimentary copy of this book from the publisher and was under no obligation to post a review. The opinions expressed are my own.
All the hearts on the cover of The Dating Charade are entirely fitting because this story has heart in a big way! I laughed, I cried, I hugged my kids, I told one of my kids to read this book! There is entirely too much I love about this story to put it all into words! The author has nestled Cassie and Jett’s story in a diverse and dynamic community of friends, family, and coworkers like a big ‘ol hug that’s always there when you need it.
The romantic element is innocent and sweet with more almost-kisses than I could keep track of amidst two simultaneous (and semi-secretive) parenting crash courses… and I can’t find a single thing to complain about besides the fact that the story had to end. Melissa Fergeson’s debut is a “nothing but net” three-point shot for the win! I highly recommend this story!
I received a complimentary copy of this book from the publisher and was under no obligation to post a review. The opinions expressed are my own.
January 13, 2020
I was anticipating this novel with equal parts eagerness and trepidation. Eagerness, because I’m always on the lookout for a great romcom; trepidation, because there were aspects of this story that had very real potential to annoy me rather than entertain. My verdict? I’m so glad I took the risk. Not only was it an entertaining and engaging read, but there is a serious, heart-tugging story at its core.
There were two things in particular that caused my trepidation. The first was that I wondered how believable it would be for Cassie and Jett to find themselves suddenly responsible for three children each. Second was the fact that they would hide it from each other—even more so if that became the basis for the humour. You know, near misses, ridiculous explanations to cover up the truth. That kind of thing. Definitely NOT the kind of humour I’m looking for.
As it turned out, my fears were unfounded. Not only was it entirely believable (though still quite a coincidence) that Cassie and Jett suddenly found themselves the sole guardian of three children each, but the children’s situation was never made light of, despite the humorous tone to the rest of the story. In fact, the story gave me a deeper appreciation of the complicated emotions children in foster care (and the adults who become their carers) deal with.
And as for the whole hiding it from each other thing—I completely understood why they didn’t mention their respective situations to start with, and I loved that it played out from there in such an unpredictable way, including the way it changed both Cassie and Jett. I don’t want to give anything away, so I won’t say any more than that. The romance did take a back-seat at times, but I think the author stayed true to the story rather than writing to preconceived genre expectations.
My one slight criticism was that I felt the resolution was a little out of left field—almost as though there was a scene or two missing. But in all other ways, this was an excellent debut, and I’m looking forward to whatever’s next from Melissa Ferguson.
I received a copy of this novel from the publisher. This has not influenced the content of my review, which is my honest and unbiased opinion.
There were two things in particular that caused my trepidation. The first was that I wondered how believable it would be for Cassie and Jett to find themselves suddenly responsible for three children each. Second was the fact that they would hide it from each other—even more so if that became the basis for the humour. You know, near misses, ridiculous explanations to cover up the truth. That kind of thing. Definitely NOT the kind of humour I’m looking for.
As it turned out, my fears were unfounded. Not only was it entirely believable (though still quite a coincidence) that Cassie and Jett suddenly found themselves the sole guardian of three children each, but the children’s situation was never made light of, despite the humorous tone to the rest of the story. In fact, the story gave me a deeper appreciation of the complicated emotions children in foster care (and the adults who become their carers) deal with.
And as for the whole hiding it from each other thing—I completely understood why they didn’t mention their respective situations to start with, and I loved that it played out from there in such an unpredictable way, including the way it changed both Cassie and Jett. I don’t want to give anything away, so I won’t say any more than that. The romance did take a back-seat at times, but I think the author stayed true to the story rather than writing to preconceived genre expectations.
My one slight criticism was that I felt the resolution was a little out of left field—almost as though there was a scene or two missing. But in all other ways, this was an excellent debut, and I’m looking forward to whatever’s next from Melissa Ferguson.
I received a copy of this novel from the publisher. This has not influenced the content of my review, which is my honest and unbiased opinion.
December 30, 2019
This was not at all what I judged it to be… which means I was pleasantly surprised. I love comedy, but I’m not the biggest romance fan, so yes, I realize when I sign up to read a rom-com, I might get more romance than I bargained for. But this was totally not the case. There was a lot of heart-wrenching depth to this story as foster care was a very big thread woven throughout the story.
The Dating Charade is a hilarious yet deep read. I cannot even count the times I actually laughed out loud while reading it. It was just the read I needed.
The romance was actually not the main focal point of the story, which I personally liked. It was there and it was something the characters were concerned about, but there really weren’t many uncomfortable scenes. Okay, there was one, but it wasn’t between the two MCs… yeah, it was really an unnecessary scene in my eyes, [spoiler] as it involved Jett interrupted while in the bathroom and the whole scene was basically him undressed and seen by another woman [end of spoiler]. Yeah, that scene could have totally, totally been left out, as it showed the chaos, but I think a much more G-rated situation could have occurred. Besides that, I don’t remember anything specifically, but then I will openly confess that I was more involved in the kids’ stories than in their romance.
The spiritual content really wasn’t deep at all. I guess they did pray, but it was more of a flippant, “Okay, God, I need You” (which I don’t have anything at all wrong with—it’s just when that is basically all the spiritual content). Oh, and there was a church service, but it was more the before/after service than the actual service that was honed in on.
Definitely a 4.5 star-book in my books. ;) I’ll probably find time to reread it.
*I received this book from the author and happily provided my honest review*
The Dating Charade is a hilarious yet deep read. I cannot even count the times I actually laughed out loud while reading it. It was just the read I needed.
The romance was actually not the main focal point of the story, which I personally liked. It was there and it was something the characters were concerned about, but there really weren’t many uncomfortable scenes. Okay, there was one, but it wasn’t between the two MCs… yeah, it was really an unnecessary scene in my eyes, [spoiler] as it involved Jett interrupted while in the bathroom and the whole scene was basically him undressed and seen by another woman [end of spoiler]. Yeah, that scene could have totally, totally been left out, as it showed the chaos, but I think a much more G-rated situation could have occurred. Besides that, I don’t remember anything specifically, but then I will openly confess that I was more involved in the kids’ stories than in their romance.
The spiritual content really wasn’t deep at all. I guess they did pray, but it was more of a flippant, “Okay, God, I need You” (which I don’t have anything at all wrong with—it’s just when that is basically all the spiritual content). Oh, and there was a church service, but it was more the before/after service than the actual service that was honed in on.
Definitely a 4.5 star-book in my books. ;) I’ll probably find time to reread it.
*I received this book from the author and happily provided my honest review*
December 12, 2019
I read this one, turning each page and just hoping that the story would develop into the expectation I’d had going in.
The story was odd, there certainly was no “rom-com” this has so many serious elements to the individual lives of the two MC - and so little actual interaction between the two of them. Most the time it felt like I was reading two different stories about two separate individuals facing the new ‘norms’ that came suddenly into their lives.
So many plot issues too. At times I’m doing a double take thinking.. “wait, what?” confused over something that just didn’t add up to an earlier statement. Pretty sure they had only three dates, but there’s something about it being their tenth? When did that happen? Ok so, amongst all the dramas they were facing with the children - anything really between the two of them was totally lost. Sadly. I kept waiting for a deeper connection. Chemistry, quite simply more interaction. It just wasn’t there. I finished it, but at times I just felt frustrated. The book needed a little more editing.
If you’re not hoping for a romance you’ll probably really enjoy this. Though with a title like that I think you’ll be expecting it. Hilarious? Hardly. Serious and challenging issues each of them are facing, yes.
Thanks to Netgalley for the eARC. This is my honest review.
The story was odd, there certainly was no “rom-com” this has so many serious elements to the individual lives of the two MC - and so little actual interaction between the two of them. Most the time it felt like I was reading two different stories about two separate individuals facing the new ‘norms’ that came suddenly into their lives.
So many plot issues too. At times I’m doing a double take thinking.. “wait, what?” confused over something that just didn’t add up to an earlier statement. Pretty sure they had only three dates, but there’s something about it being their tenth? When did that happen? Ok so, amongst all the dramas they were facing with the children - anything really between the two of them was totally lost. Sadly. I kept waiting for a deeper connection. Chemistry, quite simply more interaction. It just wasn’t there. I finished it, but at times I just felt frustrated. The book needed a little more editing.
If you’re not hoping for a romance you’ll probably really enjoy this. Though with a title like that I think you’ll be expecting it. Hilarious? Hardly. Serious and challenging issues each of them are facing, yes.
Thanks to Netgalley for the eARC. This is my honest review.
February 10, 2022
3.5 stars
This wasn't on my radar because I'm typically not a reader of romcom's but it was on my library's catalog and so I thought, "why not?"
The first half of the book for me was confusing, but I found once I got to the middle of the book, I began understanding what was going on. And, of course, liking it a lot more as well! It's not often that(at least to my knowledge) that adoption is a theme in fiction writing, but it's one I would like to see more of. It could be that I don't read enough to see other novels bring up the issue of adoption. My focus might be a tad small. However, I thought the cover design was very clever and it worked well to draw my interest.
Will I consider reading more by this author, yes!
This wasn't on my radar because I'm typically not a reader of romcom's but it was on my library's catalog and so I thought, "why not?"
The first half of the book for me was confusing, but I found once I got to the middle of the book, I began understanding what was going on. And, of course, liking it a lot more as well! It's not often that(at least to my knowledge) that adoption is a theme in fiction writing, but it's one I would like to see more of. It could be that I don't read enough to see other novels bring up the issue of adoption. My focus might be a tad small. However, I thought the cover design was very clever and it worked well to draw my interest.
Will I consider reading more by this author, yes!
January 24, 2020
“I received a complimentary copy of this book. Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own”
Is not a bad book,but I didn’t connect with any of the characters and found the story very bland. I like the kids that are present in the story and how the author deal with them but is was not enough to make me like the book. It took ages to read the book and I admit that I skim read the last 100 pages so I do not reccomend this book after all.
Is not a bad book,but I didn’t connect with any of the characters and found the story very bland. I like the kids that are present in the story and how the author deal with them but is was not enough to make me like the book. It took ages to read the book and I admit that I skim read the last 100 pages so I do not reccomend this book after all.
March 16, 2020
Sure fire way out of a reading slump! When you’ve read every trope out there told every which way possible, something truly unique begins to feel a bit mythical. Enter, The Dating Charade. Thoroughly unique in its premise, I was intrigued from the very beginning, sucked in before their first date, and in tears by the time it all came together.
While technically classified “Christian romance,” I’d call this inspirational at best. Light on faith elements, but heavy on real life. Sure, the plot is totally implausible and unlikely. That’s what makes it so fun.
But Ms. Ferguson vividly paints the realities of life-with-three-kids for the unexpected newbies. Poignant moments like her trying to braid Black hair for the first time or his finding baby poop all over his coat. The painful parts of the foster care system. Plenty of comedic relief. Sweetness in their relationship. All of it got me in the feels, y’all. Definitely a book to nab if you’re in the mood for something fun and thoroughly different.
I won a paperback here on Goodreads, but also happened to pick up the ebook on Hoopla through my library system. Neither influenced my review.
While technically classified “Christian romance,” I’d call this inspirational at best. Light on faith elements, but heavy on real life. Sure, the plot is totally implausible and unlikely. That’s what makes it so fun.
But Ms. Ferguson vividly paints the realities of life-with-three-kids for the unexpected newbies. Poignant moments like her trying to braid Black hair for the first time or his finding baby poop all over his coat. The painful parts of the foster care system. Plenty of comedic relief. Sweetness in their relationship. All of it got me in the feels, y’all. Definitely a book to nab if you’re in the mood for something fun and thoroughly different.
I won a paperback here on Goodreads, but also happened to pick up the ebook on Hoopla through my library system. Neither influenced my review.
December 4, 2020
Promising debut!
There were several cute scenes in this novel, some of them laugh out loud funny. The way that the romance begins and ends was very well done. On the flip side, the speed at which Cassie and Jett went from going on a first date to believing they'd found their soul mate was rather quick.
The two older ladies in the novel were tons of fun. Overall, a good read and I look forward to reading the author's sophomore novel.
There were several cute scenes in this novel, some of them laugh out loud funny. The way that the romance begins and ends was very well done. On the flip side, the speed at which Cassie and Jett went from going on a first date to believing they'd found their soul mate was rather quick.
The two older ladies in the novel were tons of fun. Overall, a good read and I look forward to reading the author's sophomore novel.
January 16, 2020
I was extremely excited when I first saw this book, but I feel like the title/description/cover/etc. didn't really prepare me for the story inside. Everything about it screams "rom-com," and while I'd had prior warning that the romance was overshadowed by the kids (which I was totally okay with, by the way), I felt like the comedy element was also overshadowed, especially near the end, by some of the serious issues involved in the kids' situations. Not that there weren't comedic moments, and plenty of them, but I was not expecting the depth of heartbreak in certain parts, and the whole thing left me feeling a little down. I definitely applaud the author for tackling realistic issues and not sugarcoating the tough things no one thinks or talks about when it comes to foster care and adoption, but it wasn't what I was expecting, which I'm sure contributed to my disappointment.
Some other things that bugged me: The sometimes absurd lengths Cassie and Jett went to to hide the kids from each other. It really got ridiculous a couple of times. But more importantly, I never got a sense of closure after their argument near the end. Were they supposed to not have meant what they were saying? Or changed their minds afterward? It was never explained or really cleared up, and I'm not sure how their relationship re-started if they didn't get something that major straightened out. There was also at least one major plot hole (or what felt like one to me) in a critical scene that really threw me for a loop.
However, even with all that, it might get a half-star bump over "I liked it" if not for a couple of scenes--one in particular--that edged across the line of what I consider appropriate. I realize that parents of small kids have to deal with things like bathroom interruptions and incomplete attire while racing to prevent catastrophe, but just because it happens doesn't mean it's appropriate for me to read--or picture, which was very hard not to do in a certain situation, especially when it was referred to over and over and played up as much as it was. I really, really don't need that image, and for that reason, I'd be hesitant to recommend it.
I know that's a lot of negatives, and a lot of it is built on faulty expectations of what exactly I was getting into when I started it. On the positive side, I thought the author did a fantastic job of creating likable and layered characters, and was very real about some tough (if a bit unexpected) issues. Even though this one wasn't quite my cup of tea, I'd be willing to try another book from her.
Content--embarrassing scenes following children walking in on their uncle in the bathroom; mentions of children's accidents; mentions of drug and alcohol abuse; mentions of abuse and neglect, and illustrations of the consequences on children; mentions of injuries, wounds, and blood; mention of a married man going on a date with another woman (immediately squelched and doesn't recur)
Some other things that bugged me: The sometimes absurd lengths Cassie and Jett went to to hide the kids from each other. It really got ridiculous a couple of times. But more importantly, I never got a sense of closure after their argument near the end. Were they supposed to not have meant what they were saying? Or changed their minds afterward? It was never explained or really cleared up, and I'm not sure how their relationship re-started if they didn't get something that major straightened out. There was also at least one major plot hole (or what felt like one to me) in a critical scene that really threw me for a loop.
However, even with all that, it might get a half-star bump over "I liked it" if not for a couple of scenes--one in particular--that edged across the line of what I consider appropriate. I realize that parents of small kids have to deal with things like bathroom interruptions and incomplete attire while racing to prevent catastrophe, but just because it happens doesn't mean it's appropriate for me to read--or picture, which was very hard not to do in a certain situation, especially when it was referred to over and over and played up as much as it was. I really, really don't need that image, and for that reason, I'd be hesitant to recommend it.
I know that's a lot of negatives, and a lot of it is built on faulty expectations of what exactly I was getting into when I started it. On the positive side, I thought the author did a fantastic job of creating likable and layered characters, and was very real about some tough (if a bit unexpected) issues. Even though this one wasn't quite my cup of tea, I'd be willing to try another book from her.
Content--embarrassing scenes following children walking in on their uncle in the bathroom; mentions of children's accidents; mentions of drug and alcohol abuse; mentions of abuse and neglect, and illustrations of the consequences on children; mentions of injuries, wounds, and blood; mention of a married man going on a date with another woman (immediately squelched and doesn't recur)
October 26, 2020
Well, that was a whole lotta fun!! And hilarious. Exactly the kind of read I needed at the moment, something crazy and fun. I wasn’t sure I was gonna like this or even finish it because I don’t usually read rom-coms. But I wanted to at least give it a try. I ended up really enjoying it! I’m just gonna make a totally random list of things I liked because I’m not really feeling a structured review for this one.☺️
What I Liked (in no particular order)
-The kids!! Especially Jett’s side. (Jett and his kids melted my heart) Oh my goodness, they were just so stinkin’ adorable and funny. And all of the chaos that happened whenever they entered the story... Soo much fun!
-Jett and Cassie. I just liked how their relationship was really laid-back and like friends... but more. Plus, they’re just really cute and funny together. I also liked them individually as well. They both have jobs that require sacrifice and unselfishness, and they do that.
-DONNA JENE AND EDIE! Oh my word. Those two were hillllarrriouss! I was laughing so hard whenever they were around. I loved them so much!! 😂
-The dialogue. It felt natural and realistic.
-The charades, of course. The chaos and the craziness that happens when neither of them have experience raising kids. It was great. (Especially when Jett takes the kids to church. Now that was funny! Oh and the pickle situation? I was laughing wayyy to hard.)
-The epilogue!!! Awww, I loved it!!
Things I Didn’t Like As Much
I don’t really have that much to dislike. But if I did, it would probably just be that it took me a while to get into the story. The beginning, before the charades happen, was a little boring for me. But that didn’t last too long. Once I got into the story, it was fun!
There was one scene that was really awkward (I was still laughing but it was still awkward😂) I don’t know that I’d say it was a dislike, necessarily. Just... weird?
The content was clean. YAY!!!
There were some tough, deeper elements in the story that I didn’t expect but it added depth to the story and characters.❤️ It gave the story a balance between ridiculous fun and real life.
Anyways, I enjoyed this a lot! More than I thought I would for sure! I didn’t know what to expect and I was almost afraid it would be the funny that’s the “forced funny” (if that makes sense) but it wasn’t at all. I had so much fun reading it.
What I Liked (in no particular order)
-The kids!! Especially Jett’s side. (Jett and his kids melted my heart) Oh my goodness, they were just so stinkin’ adorable and funny. And all of the chaos that happened whenever they entered the story... Soo much fun!
-Jett and Cassie. I just liked how their relationship was really laid-back and like friends... but more. Plus, they’re just really cute and funny together. I also liked them individually as well. They both have jobs that require sacrifice and unselfishness, and they do that.
-DONNA JENE AND EDIE! Oh my word. Those two were hillllarrriouss! I was laughing so hard whenever they were around. I loved them so much!! 😂
-The dialogue. It felt natural and realistic.
-The charades, of course. The chaos and the craziness that happens when neither of them have experience raising kids. It was great. (Especially when Jett takes the kids to church. Now that was funny! Oh and the pickle situation? I was laughing wayyy to hard.)
-The epilogue!!! Awww, I loved it!!
Things I Didn’t Like As Much
I don’t really have that much to dislike. But if I did, it would probably just be that it took me a while to get into the story. The beginning, before the charades happen, was a little boring for me. But that didn’t last too long. Once I got into the story, it was fun!
There was one scene that was really awkward (I was still laughing but it was still awkward😂) I don’t know that I’d say it was a dislike, necessarily. Just... weird?
The content was clean. YAY!!!
There were some tough, deeper elements in the story that I didn’t expect but it added depth to the story and characters.❤️ It gave the story a balance between ridiculous fun and real life.
Anyways, I enjoyed this a lot! More than I thought I would for sure! I didn’t know what to expect and I was almost afraid it would be the funny that’s the “forced funny” (if that makes sense) but it wasn’t at all. I had so much fun reading it.
December 1, 2019
Okay, so first; WOW!!! I've loved books and I've laughed reading books but never so much as this one. This book? I have no words! It was messy, sappy, happy, and wonderfully one of the best books I have ever read! Laughing so hard my jaw and stomach hurt I couldn't put it down, which is why I'm writing the review at two in the morning. Yeah, I'll sleep after I finish sighing over this one of a kind book. It's truly one of my favorites, maybe one of my top five favorites all time other then the Bible. Coming in third after Unbroken by Laura Hillenbrand and A Forgotten Truth by Chautona Havig, so pretty high up there!
The kids were adorable, their little antics of toothbrushes, toilets mixed with toddlers, jumping from couches, waking their Godfather Sunny, and everything else was so adorable especially the part with the bathroom. 😉
The older ladies . . . Edie and Donna were the best fictional matchmaker EVER! Truly!!! The suit? Oh my goodness that was hilarious! The beginning was funny enough but it kept getting better and better with every scene. I'm not sure if the kids or the ladies were cuter and more mischievous.
My only complaint would be that the spiritual content was slightly lacking but that was all right since I think the author was trying not to seem too preachy which it wasn't.
Yes, there is a lot of hard content but that's all right. It was never too bad but there are many mentions of abuse, abandonment, running away and other things.
And that Valentine's miracle, that was spectacular! I just can't say about enough to give this book the credit it deserves! The romance was sweet and sappy, the plot hilariously purposeful cliche and wonderful.
I received an ARC of this book in exchange for my honest review and I'm truly happy to provide it.
The kids were adorable, their little antics of toothbrushes, toilets mixed with toddlers, jumping from couches, waking their Godfather Sunny, and everything else was so adorable especially the part with the bathroom. 😉
The older ladies . . . Edie and Donna were the best fictional matchmaker EVER! Truly!!! The suit? Oh my goodness that was hilarious! The beginning was funny enough but it kept getting better and better with every scene. I'm not sure if the kids or the ladies were cuter and more mischievous.
My only complaint would be that the spiritual content was slightly lacking but that was all right since I think the author was trying not to seem too preachy which it wasn't.
Yes, there is a lot of hard content but that's all right. It was never too bad but there are many mentions of abuse, abandonment, running away and other things.
And that Valentine's miracle, that was spectacular! I just can't say about enough to give this book the credit it deserves! The romance was sweet and sappy, the plot hilariously purposeful cliche and wonderful.
I received an ARC of this book in exchange for my honest review and I'm truly happy to provide it.
December 2, 2019
Loved this charming and hilarious debut novel by Melissa Ferguson. There were many times hat I laughed so hard that I struggled to catch my breath and I devoured it in a couple of days. The only thing I would have loved more of is a few more chapters of Jett and Cassie together on the page :)
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