La grâce au quotidien

by David Mathis

Écouter sa voix. Lui parler. Appartenir à son corps.

Trois principes simples qui façonnent toute notre vie chrétienne : écouter la voix de Dieu, lui parler par la prière et vivre l’Église avec son peuple.

Ces « moyens de grâce » ou « disciplines spirituelles » sont parfois perçus comme de simples routines de notre quotidien de chrétien. Et pourtant. Ce sont des canaux au travers desquels la grâce de Dieu coule dans nos vies. Nous ne contrôlons pas l’approvisionnement de sa grâce, mais nous pouvons marcher sur des chemins le long desquels il nous a promis sa faveur. À nous de profiter régulie rement de ces chemins de bénédiction. Ce faisant, nous connaitrons Jésus et nous nous réjouirons de sa présence. Telle est la finalité ultime de chacune de nos habitudes de grâce.

David Mathis est pasteur et rédacteur en chef du site de Desiring God.

Genres: Christian, Christian Living, Theology, Nonfiction, Faith, Christianity, Discipleship

256 pages, Unknown Binding

First published February 29, 2016

About the author

David Mathis (MDiv, Reformed Theological Seminary Orlando) is executive editor at desiringGod.org and an elder at Bethlehem Baptist Church in the Twin Cities of Minnesota. His seminary experience includes Reformed Theological Seminary and Bethlehem College & Seminary, where he now serves as adjunct professor.

Reviews

[Peter Yock · Rating 4 out of 5]

Quite a good read. Reading this book’s like spending time with an old friend. By his own admission, the author is a John Piper Junky and has worked alongside Piper for years. So it’s kind of like he’s tried to boil all of Piper’s teaching on daily habits down to a simple book. But it works.

I found his categorising of all the spiritual disciplines into three main categories REALLY helpful, even if that means he ends up with heaps of sub chapters. The broad categories make this book excellent. I also really liked his emphasis on being realistic about what’s sustainable in the chaos of day to day life. It’s all very scripturally based too.

This book would be great to read with someone who’s been a Christian for a year or longer, and especially great for helping someone establish new godly habits. I can see myself using it in one to one ministry with uni students and young adults.

[Collin · Rating 5 out of 5]

Ok this book totally changed my perspective on the gospel. Really it was the introduction that shook me, but it reintroduced me to the gospel and I’ve since been living in so much more freedom and grace than I have been for the majority of my Christian walk. The book itself paints spiritual disciplines in a whole new light that shuts down the lie of legalism that so many of us would never say we believe, yet subconsciously live. I did at least until I read this book. Anyway, it’s an easy short read. Please please read it!

[Glenna · Rating 4 out of 5]

A really helpful book on the importance and utilization of spiritual disciplines, both corporately and individually.
Whitney’s Spiritual Disciplines for the Christian Life is perhaps a bit more accessible for the average reader. But there’s a lot of good stuff in this one. Mathis’s chapter on receiving and giving correction/rebuke is excellent.
His “hook” of hearing God’s voice, having His ear, and belonging to His body so closely mirrors the approach I took in my book, Everyday Faithfulness. It was encouraging to see him travel a similar path through his book. I would call this book the “big brother” to my own. ☺️

[Matt · Rating 2 out of 5]

A very simple summary is that this book is a mile wide and an inch deep. The author pointed out many important disciplines in the Christian life, but each was skimmed over to the point that it seemed like a lot of fluff with no actual substance. It was a mashup of thoughts which lumped the Great Commission and the ordinances of the local church together as personal disciplines of the Christian life. I also believe that the author’s premise as stated in the title was never developed. The connection was never made between “enjoying Jesus” and the “spiritual disciplines” he tries to get you to embrace.

The issues with the book arise partly from the lack of substance and partly the author’s style. As I was reading, I felt like I was sitting at a “spiritual pep rally” and the author was trying to pump me up and get me caught up in the emotion of experience instead of intelligently reasoning with me and teaching me from the Word of God.

The biggest disagreement overall was that the author presented these disciplines as a “means of God’s grace” without truly explaining what he meant by the phrase. As I read the book, it seemed to me that everything was being presented as a way to “unlock the power of grace” or to “receive God’s grace” – including the ordinances of the local church (which he termed sacraments, and his theology indicated that he does indeed believe that there is a special grace imparted when one partakes).

I did glean several things from the book as there was the random good point and application, but overall I would not recommend it – especially to one new in the faith which seems to be the target audience. If it had not been required reading for a course, I would have stopped after the first chapter.

[Emma Bing · Rating 2 out of 5]

I wouldn't recommend this book to anyone, especially to someone new to Christianity. Habits of Grace was a requirement for a course I was taking and, if it wasn't required, I wouldn't have finished it. The way the author chooses to explain some concepts was ridiculous, not to mention that the section on fasting was just down right concerning. If you're going to read this book, make sure you're not taking in what it says without pausing to consider if the message is accurate or not.

[Darlene Nichols · Rating 5 out of 5]

Sometimes you just need small, practical reminders to refresh and refocus your heart toward growing in Christ. This book did that for me.

[Christian Barrett · Rating 4 out of 5]

Mathis provides a helpful foundation for engaging the disciplines of grace. He connects these to the fullness of the Christian life by emphasizing the importance of living within Christian community. This may be a great starting point for someone who wants to understand what it means to be a Christian

[Ben Taylor · Rating 5 out of 5]

One of my favorite books, makes my top 5 for books I would love for every Christian to read if able. Over the last 8 years and counting I regularly go back to Habits of Grace as a resource.

Spent several months going through this one with a few guys on Saturday mornings, and there are not many better books for a group study format. Mathis communicates glorious realities of what it means to seek Jesus through the spiritual disciplines in a way that is easy to comprehend and stokes the heart to action.

[David Puerto · Rating 4 out of 5]

Un muy buen libro sobre disciplinas espirituales. Las divide en tres grandes categorías: oye Su voz, háblale al oído y participa en Su Cuerpo. Muy buenas recomendaciones y muy realista. Un buen punto de partida para aprender y practicar los hábitos de gracia.

[Elizabeth Santelmann · Rating 4 out of 5]

It’s hard to figure out what the plan is for the spiritual disciples are. Is it something we do to be closer to God or a means a grace that he draws near to us?

I loved the way that David laid out a case for these rhythms of grace in the life of the believer.

If you’re a seasoned Christian, the first couple of chapters I think it would still be worth your time and money.
The later chapters are practically laying out how it could look in the life of a church and believer. If you’re a new believer or rediscovering grace after legalism I think these chapters would be encouraging.

[Jason Braithwaite · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book is everything I want and need to help me better understand and apply the big 3... hearing God's voice (his word), have him hear (prayer), and belonging to his body (church and fellowship). Can't wait to dive deeper into this text with church family!

[Brian Pate · Rating 5 out of 5]

Wonderful introduction to the spiritual disciplines. Gospel-filled and practical. Read with 2023 RTIM interns.

[Josiah Coolen · Rating 5 out of 5]

so good!! felt really encouraged reading this

[Hanna Lee · Rating 5 out of 5]

Easy to read, very practical, and a straightforward reminder of the various means of grace the Lord has provided for us. He mentions often Donald Whitney’s spiritual disciplines, which also is a helpful read on this topic.

[Erica Rasmussen · Rating 4 out of 5]

This is a good reminder book of the essential spiritual disciplines and gives fresh perspective on the “why” behind it. Definitely recommend for anyone struggling in their Bible reading, prayer, or fellowship!

[Eva · Rating 5 out of 5]

Every Christian should read this book. It is amazing! David Mathis provides a unique perspective on the spiritual disciplines that moves away from legalism and instead towards how to enjoy Jesus. His ideas are practical and doable, full of grace and flexibility. I can actually apply things I learned amidst a crazy life. The Lord has taught me much through this book and I don't think I'll ever stop recommending it.

[Kristen Rosener · Rating 5 out of 5]

What a fantastic book. As a recovering legalist, my understanding of the gospel was deepened by reading "Habits of Grace," and for that reason, it is one of my Top 5 favorite books of 2023. There is so much practical encouragement in HOG that will shape your understanding of the gospel, as well as bolster you in times of spiritual drought or discouragement. If you want to pursue godliness, you will need to form and cultivate habits of godliness (prayer, Bible reading, Scripture meditation and memorization, fasting, and fellowship). This book will aid you in that pursuit.

Some meaningful quotes:

“Chosen before time. Called with effect. United to Jesus in faith and repentance. Adopted and forgiven. Justified. Sanctified. Glorified. And satisfied forever. This is grace gone wonderfully wild. This is the flood of God’s favor in which we discover the power and practice of the means of grace."

"Bible reading is like watching the film in real time. Study is like going through a clip frame by frame. Meditation, then, along with Scripture memory, is for lingering over particular frames and pressing the significance to our hearts and into our lives."

"Meditation that is truly Christian is guided by the gospel, shaped by the Scriptures, reliant upon the Holy Spirit, and exercised in faith. Man does not live by bread alone, and meditation is slowly relishing the meal."

"God's words of instruction are to saturate your life, give you direction, shape your mind, form your patterns, fuel your affections, and inspire your actions."

"Learn from personal conversations, read books, take classes, watch educational videos, and listen to recorded audio. Diversify your sources of learning."

"Grace sanctifies. It is too wild to let us stay in love with unrighteousness. Too free to leave us in slavery to sin. Too untamed to let our lusts go unconquered. Grace's power is too uninhibited to not unleash us for the happiness of true holiness."

[Matt Ecton · Rating 5 out of 5]

The first time I read this was nearly a decade ago as a new convert learning how pray and read his Bible. This time was years later now as a young pastor. I was pleased to find it just as profitable each time. Mathis is admittedly indebted to Whitney’s more popular book, but I think I slightly prefer this one overall.

A few of Mathis’s strengths are 1) his brevity; 2) his organizational scheme, explicitly tying each discipline back to the Word, Prayer, or Fellowship; and 3) his emphasis upon corporate worship as THE most powerful means of grace in the Christian’s life (chapters 13-18 on Fellowship are perhaps the best in the book).

This is a book I’ll continue coming back to over the years for refreshment and reinvigoration in the spiritual disciplines.

[Sarah · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book is fantastic, I would highly recommend it to all Christians who want to grow in "habits of grace", which the author defines as "God's word, God's ear (prayer) and God's church" and honestly who doesn't want or need to grow in these areas. I think this is a book that I will keep coming back to. There are so many practical tips I have already re read a few chapters but I need to go back and think practically about how I am going to make changes to my everyday life. A brilliant book.

[Jacob Prince]

This is the best book I’ve read on spiritual disciplines. While it may not go into great detail or pragmatically on individual disciplines, it builds frameworks that are grace-filled, approachable, and refreshing. It makes the disciplines seem like skiing rather than cross country skiing- includes some effort but moved by a greater force, the grace of God.

[Allison Bailey]

David’s grace-filled approach to the disciplines was refreshing. His approach addresses the heart behind the disciplines throughout, allowing the reader space to gaze on the beauty of the Lord, and to respond in light of that. Highly recommend. I also loved his inclusion of fellowship as a discipline not just for a chapter, but as a third of the book. A small view of the church, David has not.

[Bridget · Rating 4 out of 5]

Comprehensive, straightforward, and practical. A good, simple way to cover a lot of core disciplines without being overwhelmed.

“His grace is essential for our spiritual lives, but we don’t control the supply. We can’t make the favor of God flow, but he has given us circuits to connect and pipes to open expectantly. There are paths along which he has promised his favor.”

“…our heartbeat in the habits we develop for hearing every word, speaking every prayer, and participating in every act of fellowship is Hosea 6:3: ‘Let us know; let us press on to know the LORD.’”

[Kailie Smith · Rating 5 out of 5]

An easy read that provides practical insights and encouraging notes on how to implement habits of grace. Helpful for the new and seasoned Christian to hear God’s voice, have His ear, belong to His body, and more. A book I know I will come back to often for refreshing perspective on the spiritual disciplines!

[Raquel Najera · Rating 5 out of 5]

Una excelente, profunda y práctica forma de abordar las disciplinas espirituales, confrontando el corazón y dando ideas prácticas de cómo abordarlas.

Mathis es honesto al exponer el reto pero también el gozo y la dependencia que necesitamos día a día de Cristo. Basado en la Escritura nos ayuda a ver cuan grande es el gozo de Encontrarnos con nuestro Salvador día a día.

[Mikayla · Rating 5 out of 5]

This was an amazing book. The chapter are short and to the point, so I never got tierd of a subject. It had so much encouragement, and actually made me excited to try new things in my spiritual walk instead of feeling guilty for what I am not doing.
Highly recommend this to all.

[claire · Rating 5 out of 5]

another dad rec, thanks dad! nice quick read, full of practical applications, and paints spiritual disciplines in an entirely new light. 10/10

[Erin · Rating 5 out of 5]

So encouraging.

[Bambi Moore · Rating 4 out of 5]

I try to re-read Don Whitney’s Spiritual Disciplines book from time to time but substituted this one for it on my reading list this year after I read a review by Tim Challies. Very glad I did! Habits of Grace builds on Whitney’s book with fresh illustrations and a winsome style that greatly nourished my desire to continue pursuing Christ through the means of grace He has given us to know him and be known by him.

Part 3 was probably my favorite, regarding fellowship of the Body of Christ as a spiritual discipline, as well as beautiful explanations of the sacraments.

“When our fellowship is not simply a network of loose Christian relationships, but anchored in a particular “covenant community” as committed members together in local outposts of Christ’s kingdom, we come closest to experiencing what those first Christians did, when people didn’t just drift in and out of the community, but were either in or out—and those who were in were pledged to be the church for each other though thick and thin. Covenant community is like Christian marriage in that it is within the framework of stated commitments and promised allegiances that life in relationship is guarded, nourished, and encouraged most to thrive.” p. 150

[Cheryl Linebarger · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book is outstanding! It's a thorough look at the spiritual disciplines (Scripture reading, prayer, fellowship), and yet it is not a difficult book to read. I've longed to read Donald Whitney's, Spiritual Disciplines for the Christian Life, for many years but found it hard to begin. David Mathis includes many references to, and quotes from, Whitney's book, which did two things for me. First, it let me know that though his book is easy to read, it's still covering the spiritual disciplines in depth. Second, it gave me the confidence to try and tackle Whitney's book later this year. Though I've just finished Habits of Grace, I plan to put it right back on my shelf of "books to read" for a second reading. It'll be fun to see if the passages I've highlighted in this first reading will be the same ones I'd highlight on a second reading, or if, as I suspect will happen, I'll be highlighting entirely different passages. Note - If you do read this, read it from John Piper's foreword right on through Mathis's Epilogue. Don't skip a thing!

[Em Ledford · Rating 5 out of 5]

This was an excellent resource on the spiritual disciplines that never came off as a “technique” driven self-improvement book. From top to bottom, everything the author penned was saturated in the grace that we receive from Christ— everything else will follow.

I would recommend this to all Believers at any level of spiritual maturity & expect myself to return to this book regularly.