I picked up this book knowing that I probably wouldn't like it, but I was hoping that it would surprise me. It didn't. The illustrations are exuberant, colorful, and lively, and there are lots of great messages about kindness and creativity, but the constant message of "BE YOU!" grates upon my soul.
Books like these bring out all of my snark, because why should you "BE YOU!" with no sense of direction or guidance outside of your own thoughts and feelings? After all, Hitler was true to himself! Hitler followed his dreams! Just because you have an inclination, thought, or desire does not mean that it is something you should exuberantly embrace and follow.
The page that bothered me the most was the one that shows one person walking in a different direction than three others. The text said that it's good to think for yourself, because it takes you "in the direction of YOU!"
SERIOUSLY? What if the three other people are walking towards a joyful celebration, while you're walking off the edge of a cliff? By all means, think for yourself, but think for yourself because you want to head in the direction of truth, not because you want to follow the direction of you. What if you're wrong or misguided? What if there is information that you don't have, and will never get, because you're not willing to listen to anything but your own heart? What if, on some days, you're a jerk? It's completely unfounded to assume that simply "being yourself" is the panacea for the world's ills.
Most people will find this vibrant book special and inspiring, but my sense of confidence in the inherent goodness of mankind is absolutely nil, so I hate it when books teach children to follow the beat of their own drum no matter where it leads them. History is full of examples of people who went against the tide, thought for themselves, made decisions according to their internal compasses, and destroyed themselves and others with them.
Although this book is designed to inspire future creators and world-changers, not the next Hitler, its underlying message is out of sync with the nature of reality. It is simply not possible for someone to be themselves at all moments without sometimes being a jerk. It's important for children to have self-esteem, express their interests and feelings, and maintain a sense of honesty about who they are, but enshrining their feelings as the guide to all goodness is a superhighway to disappointment and relational dysfunction. I wish that this book could have encouraged the best in children without promoting such a delusional view of human nature.