Dating Mr. Darcy

by Sarah Arthur

Any girl who has seen Pride and Prejudice or read the Jane Austen novel knows that the much misunderstood Mr. Darcy is the ideal gentleman. But is it possible to find your own Mr. Darcy in today's

Genres: Nonfiction, Christian, Romance, Relationships, Christian Non Fiction

224 pages, Paperback

First published May 9, 2005

About the author

Sarah Arthur is a fun-loving speaker, Christy Award finalist, and author of numerous books for teens and adults, including the bestselling ONCE A QUEEN, the first in her acclaimed Carrick Hall Novels. Among other nerdy adventures, she has served as preliminary fiction judge for Christianity Today’s Book Awards, was a founding board member of the annual C. S. Lewis Festival in northern Michigan, and co-directs the Madeleine L’Engle Writing Retreats. She lives in Lansing, Michigan with her husband and two preteen sons.

Reviews

[Laura · Rating 4 out of 5]

A spiritual look at the books of Jane Austen and how you can learn a thing or two from the feisty characters and their actions.

I found this book equal parts amusing, insightful and inspiring. I had never looked at Lizzy and Darcy's relationship as anything more then a good story, but Sarah Arthur showed me how much I can learn from their example. I rather liked the quotes in the sidelines of the book, they were an added bonus. This book is perfect for any teenage girl who is trying to be a lady and needs to see things through a different perspective. For Pride and Prejudice fans this book is a must, I'd heartily recommend it.

*Taken from my book reviews blog: http://reviewsatmse.blogspot.com/2008...

[Allanna · Rating 3 out of 5]

A cute little non-fiction read.

It's like a dating guide from an Austen-loving, kind older sister. There are some little jokes combined with sound advice of how to best become the Elizabeth Bennet you are inside (strengthening your relationships with family and friends and God) so you will be prepared to recognize your Mr. Darcy and, in doing so, your "Pemberley Potential" (aka, your future successful and happy realtionship).

Seriously, where were books like this when I was young and stupid?? I SO could have used a guide like this!!!!!

[Jeannie · Rating 5 out of 5]

Very interesting! The focus of this book is essentially applying what we can learn from the relationships and character development in Pride and Prejudice to our lives. After this, Arthur points out in a fun, light-hearted way why women love the timeless Mr. Darcy. She includes quotes from Pride and Prejudice and fun--but informative--personal/self-help quizzes. I loved this book, and if anyone would like to borrow it, I would lend it to you (for a short period of time).

[Emily · Rating 3 out of 5]

Okay, I read this book due to the title and due to my love for all things Jane Austen. Then I was so pleased with the contents. The writer is witty and it is a interesting and easy read. I think all singletons should give this book a look, especially those who are looking for their Mr. Darcy.

[Sammi · Rating 3 out of 5]

It's pretty good advice for girls wanting to learn "sensible romance". It also talks about pride and prejudice (always a plus.) I like that it talks about haveing faith while dating.

[Lois · Rating 4 out of 5]

Some really good points about why our relationships with God, our family and are friends have a big impact on any romantic relationship we might enter...

[Shanna Klutts · Rating 4 out of 5]

Really enjoyed this devotional and practical journey. Did the study with my daughter and her friend. They enjoyed dreaming up their own Mr Darcy whilst examining their current relationships, and their relationship to God and one another. Great insights and good, practical advice as only Jane can give.

[J · Rating 2 out of 5]

So...I actually did think this was a novel...it's not.

[Alaina · Rating 2 out of 5]

Definitely not my cup of tea.

[Becky Van Daniker · Rating 3 out of 5]

At first I read this book because of the title and that I love anything Jane Austen related!

If you're someone who struggles with making wise decisions when it comes to dating or a pre-teen/teenager, then I would highly recommend this book. I enjoyed everything that Sarah Arthur had to say and she made it fun. I wish to see more books like this out there.

I already held to a lot of the views in the book so it didn't really teach me anything new personally, but it's definitely a book I want to use with my daughters (when I have them after I'm married in the future of course!) to teach them about dating. It was definitely a light read and a great reminder for those of us who haven't found our Mr. Darcy's yet.

I received this book free of charge through the Tyndale Rewards Program and I was not required to write a positive review nor I was compensated in any way. All opinions expressed are my own.

[ChelC · Rating 4 out of 5]

I like how Sarah Arthur related romance to the way we should pursue God and how God loves us. I love the focus on how the way we date and who we date effects not only ourselves, but our family, friends, and our faith. There were a few things I didn't agree with that the Author made comments about in the book. I can see how she perceived that idea, but I personally do not believe that it was accurate, due to the fact I have seen otherwise. I think this book does a great job of outlining how our relationship with our potential spouse should look like and how we should view it ourselves.

[Micaela · Rating 4 out of 5]

Absolutely loved this book!

I am a huge Pride & Prejudice fan. When I discovered this book I could hardly wait to read it. The information was so poignant, fun, and heartfelt, with biblical truth woven throughout.
The title did give me pause at first, as I don't support the "dating game" mindset. However, I found Sarah's book to be a useful one, as the principles she discusses can be applied to courtship.

I definitely recommend this book!

[Autumn]

Dating Mr. Darcy was extremely informative. It talks about not only what to look for when searching for your "Mr. Darcy", but also how to make sure you have your Elizabeth Potential (EP). You have to work on yourself and know your own issues before you can judge someone else's. How will you find Darcy if you aren't even close to being Elizabeth? I would definitely recommend this book to everyone.

[Jessica · Rating 3 out of 5]

Really fast read. Probably because the last third of the book is a "self exploration" with questions for the reader to answer. I don't really want to answer them at the moment, but I think I might sometime in the future.

[Ella J. · Rating 5 out of 5]

This book is wonderful.
It deals with your relationships with someone you are dating or courting and how other relationships effect it.
Note:You don't have to be in a relationship for this book to be useful

[Sue · Rating 2 out of 5]

It has good questions for anyone to ask in a relationship. I found the religious aspect to be a bit much. Several parts were repetitive which I found annoying.

[Kemily · Rating 5 out of 5]

Amazing. You all need to read it!!!!

[Megan D. · Rating 5 out of 5]

Good advice for keeping a healthy relationship using examples from Pride and Prejudice and the Bible! This was actually very insightful!

[Bec · Rating 3 out of 5]

Cute but outdated

[Laura]

SO far I have liked reading this book, I was given this book as a Christmas gift.