Clean YA Romance
Tori Rodriguez is a popular half-Colombian cheer co-captain struggling with the stress of competitions, keeping up with school, being there for her 11-year-old sister and maintaining the perfect persona her mother and school status demand of her (specially her appearance).
One day, she collides with new boy computer geek Noah and he thinks he's got her all figured out. Tori couldn't possibly be just a normal person, no, and his preconceived judgement, alongside his fearless teasing set them off on what was supposed to be a course of dislike. But what happens when they get to see more sides of each other and see that people are just regular humans with their own struggles? Humans who can't be divided into neat drawers.
It was acceptable. There are stereotypes. The bffs are very one-dimensional again - I feel like I barely know who they are, aside from their labels - and Tori and Noah didn't get much development. Their banter was cute-ish, but their relationship felt rushed, hollow and Tori's feelings disproportionately too invested. I wish we had more friendship and the girls actually coming together. Real friends have private jokes and anecdotes, things that show their closeness.
This book has stereotypes:
- the popular cheerleader (who's popular who knows why if some people assume she's the evil queen B) who has limits when it comes to who she can get along with, based on laws only Hollywood cares about;
- the helicopter rich white mother pushing her daughters to be popular prom queen-cheerleader, who care too much about appearances, putting cheer over academics and who hasn't worked a day in her life, except for fundraising meetings. We are forced to ask if she cares about them at all, since she judges people for their background and no-brand clothing;
- the overworking father always away on business, which leads him to not be there for his family or find a balance alongside his wife, so her controlling issues don't put unnecessary stress or complexes on her daughters - he can't even read the mood when something is wrong;
- the computer hacker new boy who assumes Tori is a stereotype while teasing her and is perfectly fine by himself, not lonely at all, or concerned about his obvious lack of any aesthetical sense (I mean, seriously, you don't need to care about fashion, you just need to make your Goodwill and comfy clothes work, Noah).
Even so, I liked how the relationship between the cheerleaders was handled, when they're working and discussing cheer or private topics. They are very supportive and willing to listen, as you would expect of a sport that demands individuals to work as a precise machine. No backstabbing or meanness, no being fake. They motivate each other, they give each other a break, they're human beings. As they should. Imperfect but not deep down rooted evil. Also, Tori and the captain, Mia, are not interested in drama, discouraging bullying, as older teens should. Mia specially doesn't care about school politics, she's very down to earth.
I don't like how the book makes it feel like Tori owes the BFFs every truth. You have no obligation to tell your friends everything, and keeping stuff to yourself isn't lying. If you don't want to be lied to or lied by ommission, then stop forcing a subject someone is unwilling to talk about. Being friends gives nobody the right to poke their nose in everything. Thanks for coming to my TedTalk.
So yeah, Lena is super nosy. Girl, chill down and Tori's guilt is unjustified. You can open up, you don't have to. I don't want young people to get the wrong idea about what friendships entail. You support each other, even if you don't share everything, because relationships are about give and take. But you shouldn't give just to get something back.
My other complaint: too much crying.
Lastly, I liked how Tori handles the issue of Isabelle's weight gain and physical changes, when faced down with her mother's control. She is 11, her body is going through changes that are perfectly normal. We all have a body type our genetics are inclined to. Maybe she'll be curvy, who knows. You must teach your kids to eat healthy, but never make them feel bad for their body or wanting to eat a treat. I don't know, how about not indulging them on sugar, carbs and chemicals all the time when little, and introducing them to a variety of food types?? Worked for me.