You want some cheese with that WINE? Geeze Louise, I cannot even with these two. I can understand the fem protag being scarred from the way her family treated her as a dependent young person, it was shit, there’s no denying that, and I can see her feeling obligated to help her family when they say they “need” her (though if it were me, I would have dropped them like a turkey sandwich that’s been left out for a week, right into the garbage). What I can’t stand is the fem protag whining about how shitty her family is all the time as a grown woman. She CHOOSES to continue picking up her phone and coming to their aid, she doesn’t have to depend on her parents anymore, she can cut them off, but because she’s made the decision to continue contact and always rushes in to help and she knows she’s being used, I don’t want to hear her bitching and moaning about how they treat her. You knowingly picked the bed with the termite infestation and the fleas and the bedbugs to sleep in, now you have to suck it up and deal with what comes after. The book didn’t start out this way, but within the last hour or so (audiobook), the fem protag’s tone has changed and she’s got this new “poor me” thing going on, which I cannot stand. I can also tell her sister deliberately sabotages her life and her major life events and it is burning my biscuits that the main chick is not aware enough to start asking the right questions.
The male protagonist also irritates me. He’s also an enabler and he lets his cousin and his cousin’s fiancé lead him by the nose when it’s his money and his connections that are helping them out. He has no pressure to keep bailing his cousin out and yet he does, and I don’t understand why. If the reason were deeper than “his mom depended on my dad for support now I support him” I would be more accepting, but that reason is about as deep as a puddle and doesn’t really address his motives. Why does he feel it’s his obligation to help his cousin out?
The two of them together have so far been pulling their hair out and complaining about the hoops they need to jump through when I’m silently screaming at them that they can throw a crap wedding together and tell their families to take a long walk off a short, but totally picturesque and wedding worthy pier.
Too angry with the MCs and there are no redeemable side characters to hold on for. I’m done.