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Be the Girl
Almost sixteen-year-old Aria Jones is starting over. New postal code, new last name, new rules. But she doesn’t mind, because it means she can leave her painful regrets behind. In the bustling town of Eastmonte, she can become someone else. Someone better.
With the Hartford family living next door, it seems she will succeed. Sure, Cassie Hartford may be the epitome of social awkwardness thanks to her autism, but she also offers an innocent and sincere friendship that Aria learns to appreciate. And Cassie’s older brother, Emmett—a popular Junior A hockey player with a bright future—well … Aria wishes that friendship could lead to something more. If he didn’t already have a girlfriend, maybe it would.
But Aria soon finds herself in a dicey moral predicament that could derail her attempt at a fresh start. It is her loyalty to Cassie and her growing crush on Emmett that leads her to make a risky move, one that earns her a vindictive enemy who is determined to splinter her happy new world.
With the Hartford family living next door, it seems she will succeed. Sure, Cassie Hartford may be the epitome of social awkwardness thanks to her autism, but she also offers an innocent and sincere friendship that Aria learns to appreciate. And Cassie’s older brother, Emmett—a popular Junior A hockey player with a bright future—well … Aria wishes that friendship could lead to something more. If he didn’t already have a girlfriend, maybe it would.
But Aria soon finds herself in a dicey moral predicament that could derail her attempt at a fresh start. It is her loyalty to Cassie and her growing crush on Emmett that leads her to make a risky move, one that earns her a vindictive enemy who is determined to splinter her happy new world.
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K.A. Tucker
68 books25.1k followersK.A. Tucker writes captivating stories with an edge.
She is the internationally bestselling author of over thirty books, including Ten Tiny Breaths, The Simple Wild, and the Fate & Flame series, Until It Fades, Say You Still Love Me, and Keep Her Safe. Her books have been featured in national publications including USA Today, Globe & Mail, Suspense Magazine, Publisher's Weekly, Oprah Mag, and First for Women.
Ten Tiny Breaths, The Simple Wild, and A Queen of Thieves & Chaos were Goodreads Choice award nominees.
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Ten Tiny Breaths, The Simple Wild, and A Queen of Thieves & Chaos were Goodreads Choice award nominees.
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December 1, 2023
Yup, I'm doing it. To counter the low star-trolls (because the book isn't finished yet) *shrugs*
October 4, 2025
i dont think i would ever want to relive my high school years, but goodness, this story made me super nostalgic for a simple teenage life, where all i had to worry about was school, friends, and the boy i was crushing on. its been a long time since a contemporary YA book has made me feel that way.
this was cute, sweet, a bit juvenile at times (i think KAT writes adult fiction better), but just overall a wholesome story with a good message that every teenager should hear.
anyone who loves the “boy next door” trope, autism representation, dogs, canada, and feel good vibes will really enjoy this!
↠ 4 stars
this was cute, sweet, a bit juvenile at times (i think KAT writes adult fiction better), but just overall a wholesome story with a good message that every teenager should hear.
anyone who loves the “boy next door” trope, autism representation, dogs, canada, and feel good vibes will really enjoy this!
↠ 4 stars
January 14, 2019
4 stars!
Be the Girl is a ya/coming of age story with an important message. It was heartbreaking, heartwarming, and a story of forgiveness, moving forward, and it's a book that made me think and feel.
Aria and her mother move across country for a fresh start. They are moving in with her mom's older uncle, Merv, who is a bit grouchy but lovable all the same. Aria is starting a new school where she knows no one, but she just happens to have neighbors that are in the same school as her, Cassie and Emmett. She is attracted to Emmett right away, and she and Cassie become fast friends. Cassie is autistic, and the sweetest and most fun girl. Emmett is her big brother and loves her and worries about her equally.
Aria is not the same girl she used to be. You can see that as plain as day through her journal entries. I wasn't sure what happened to her in her past, but when we found out, I was a bit shocked. I wasn't expecting that twist. I loved how she took what happened and let it shape her in a positive way. That is not easy to do.
Emmett was amazing. I completely adored him. You don't meet many guys his age that have such a big heart. He's a popular guy, an athlete, but he's the sweetest. Seeing him with Cassie showed it even more. He's protective of those he loves and doesn't tolerate mean people. He was my favorite character in the book by far.
Aria's journey was not always an easy one to read. KA Tucker hit a topic that's not easy to write about but that's prevalent in today's society, not just with teens, but adults and children also. This is definitely a book that needs to be read. The writing is fantastic, the story is poignant, and the characters were imperfect but showed a lot of growth. This was another hit from Tucker and one I would recommend to all!
Be the Girl is a ya/coming of age story with an important message. It was heartbreaking, heartwarming, and a story of forgiveness, moving forward, and it's a book that made me think and feel.
Aria and her mother move across country for a fresh start. They are moving in with her mom's older uncle, Merv, who is a bit grouchy but lovable all the same. Aria is starting a new school where she knows no one, but she just happens to have neighbors that are in the same school as her, Cassie and Emmett. She is attracted to Emmett right away, and she and Cassie become fast friends. Cassie is autistic, and the sweetest and most fun girl. Emmett is her big brother and loves her and worries about her equally.
Aria is not the same girl she used to be. You can see that as plain as day through her journal entries. I wasn't sure what happened to her in her past, but when we found out, I was a bit shocked. I wasn't expecting that twist. I loved how she took what happened and let it shape her in a positive way. That is not easy to do.
Emmett was amazing. I completely adored him. You don't meet many guys his age that have such a big heart. He's a popular guy, an athlete, but he's the sweetest. Seeing him with Cassie showed it even more. He's protective of those he loves and doesn't tolerate mean people. He was my favorite character in the book by far.
He’s the most beautiful guy I’ve ever laid eyes on, even more so now because I know he has a heart. He’s not a hot jerk; he’s not full of himself. He’s … Emmett.
Aria's journey was not always an easy one to read. KA Tucker hit a topic that's not easy to write about but that's prevalent in today's society, not just with teens, but adults and children also. This is definitely a book that needs to be read. The writing is fantastic, the story is poignant, and the characters were imperfect but showed a lot of growth. This was another hit from Tucker and one I would recommend to all!
October 18, 2020
I don't know how to start explaining what this book made me feel - but I really want to convince you (especially if you have children - it's not erotic) to read this book and then pass it on to your children - because it's message was so important!!! 🙏
This story might not really happened and the plot is a fictional invention of the author, but I'm sure there are a lot of boys and girls who can identify with it's subject... Bullying. 💔
📚 “𝗔𝗻𝘆 𝗿𝗼𝘀𝗲 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝘀𝘂𝗰𝗰𝘂𝗺𝗯 𝘁𝗼 𝗿𝗼𝘁, 𝗴𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝗿𝗶𝗴𝗵𝘁 𝗰𝗼𝗻𝗱𝗶𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻𝘀. 𝗕𝘂𝘁, 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗲𝗻𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵 𝗮𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗶𝗼𝗻, 𝗶𝘁 𝗰𝗮𝗻 𝗰𝗼𝗺𝗲 𝗯𝗮𝗰𝗸 𝗯𝗲𝘁𝘁𝗲𝗿 𝘁𝗵𝗮𝗻 𝗯𝗲𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲.” 📚
Aria Jones has a past that she is trying to get away from and start a new life. Why? This is the real question ... 💛
She moves with her mother to a new city and lives next door to Emmett Hartford, the handsome athlete - and his sister Cassie, who is diagnosed with autism. Aria connects with them immediately, but even though she never stops thinking about Emmett, they can't be more than friends, because he has a girlfriend - until everything gets complicated... 😬
📚 "𝗧𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗼𝗼𝗻𝗲𝗿 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗳𝗶𝗴𝘂𝗿𝗲 𝗼𝘂𝘁 𝗵𝗼𝘄 𝘁𝗼 𝗹𝗶𝗸𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿 𝗼𝘄𝗻 𝗲𝘆𝗲𝘀, 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘀𝗼𝗼𝗻𝗲𝗿 𝘆𝗼𝘂’𝗹𝗹 𝘀𝘁𝗼𝗽 𝘁𝗿𝘆𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗼 𝘀𝗲𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂𝗿𝘀𝗲𝗹𝗳 𝘁𝗵𝗿𝗼𝘂𝗴𝗵 𝗲𝘃𝗲𝗿𝘆𝗼𝗻𝗲 𝗲𝗹𝘀𝗲’𝘀” 📚
When I started this book, the plot felt pretty predictable to me and I thought I knew exactly what was going to happen... but it turned out to be a real surprise. Wow, I really did not expect that twist!!! 😱😭
There were some things I didn't like (in the plot and the writing) but despite that, I really enjoyed myself and this book definitely made an influence on me. It had such an important lesson - we all make mistakes, but does that mean we can't learn from our mistakes and change...? 💛
This book address a very important, sensitive and relevant subject, that we all need to talk about more. 🙏
• I listened to the AUDIO version. 🎧 The narrator, Katie Shore, was amazing and totally made me feel part of the plot.
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January 15, 2019
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‘BE THE GIRL’ Is a full length, standalone ‘romance’ novel by author ‘K.A. Tucker’
A heartbreaking tale of redemption. Aria will be starting her new school in grade eleven, a school where she doesn’t know a soul, no one knows her or what horrors she’s left behind.
A new identity, a new beginning, A new start. Finally a time to leave all her memories buried in the past.
They arrive in a town called Eastmonte where she and her mother will be living with her eighty year old uncle, she can become someone else. Where she strives to become someone better.
It doesn’t take long for the neighbours next door to introduce themselves, Cassie whom has autism, and her gorgeous brother Emmett who is in grade twelve. One of the popular hockey players at the school who has a bright successful future ahead of him.
As we watch Aria as the new girl navigating her new life, you can’t help but applaud her maturity as she tries not to stoop to the bullying that occurs around her even though we see her inwardly struggling when she finds herself in a similar situation that changed her life forever back at her old high school.
I think Carrie had a positive impact on Ari, seeing how she was getting bullied maybe was the catalyst to making her own her past mistakes, it was liberating seeing the change occur in Aria, she turned a negative into a positive.
There were so many positives I can take from this book, so many heartfelt moments, so many feels when it came to Cassie’s family and how they dealt with an autistic teenager. I loved Cassie, her highs and lows, her way of thinking. Her happy disposition.
I applaud K.A. Tucker for taking on this sensitive subject, she did true justice to the ugly side of bullying, she tackled this beautifully.
January 21, 2019
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5 STARS
I adored this story,I had so many feelings while I was reading it!K.A. Tucker did an amazing job capturing the issues most teenagers are dealing at school.The set up was perfect and the characters made me ache for them.
It was a sweet story that has a deep meaning!It's a story that should be read from everyone.I could easily relate and connect with the characters, I felt like I was back at school.I adored Emmet , Aria and Cassie.
Be The Girl was an inspiring story, I recommend it to everyone.This is a must read!
5 STARS
I adored this story,I had so many feelings while I was reading it!K.A. Tucker did an amazing job capturing the issues most teenagers are dealing at school.The set up was perfect and the characters made me ache for them.
It was a sweet story that has a deep meaning!It's a story that should be read from everyone.I could easily relate and connect with the characters, I felt like I was back at school.I adored Emmet , Aria and Cassie.
Be The Girl was an inspiring story, I recommend it to everyone.This is a must read!
October 8, 2025
4.25 stars
Be the Girl was a fantastic, emotional, and thought-provoking young adult novel. It was a wonderful read — satisfying in every way. Touching moments, laugh-out-loud scenes, and characters I genuinely loved made this novel a true winner.
There were so many things I adored about this book.
Aria is a complex heroine with a dark past, yet she’s approachable and genuinely kind. Cassie, adorable, hilarious, and completely unique, easily stole my heart. And her brother Emmet — swoony, a perfect mix of popular jock and guy-next-door charm — was ideal boyfriend material for any teenager. These three were the heart and soul of the story.
As expected from KA Tucker, the supporting cast was perfectly chosen. Down-to-earth and relatable, they rounded out the world beautifully: protective parents genuinely invested in their kids, a grouchy uncle with dry humor, a lovable dog, and teenagers who were undeniably kind.
The ending, however, came way too quickly for my taste. I wasn’t ready for it to be over, and I could have easily read another 100 pages, especially since Aria and Emmet’s relationship was just beginning — I wanted, no, needed more of them together.
The one thing that irked me was the big secret that was hinted at but only revealed at the very end. I just knew it would break my heart — and probably everyone else’s. I hate having such unresolved tension hanging over my head throughout a story. I’d rather have a shocking OMG moment hit me unexpectedly than have a secret teased from the beginning and dragged out until the final pages.
Nevertheless, I’m officially a fan of all things KA Tucker, and I just hope she writes quickly — because I’m already ready for her next novel!
Be the Girl was a fantastic, emotional, and thought-provoking young adult novel. It was a wonderful read — satisfying in every way. Touching moments, laugh-out-loud scenes, and characters I genuinely loved made this novel a true winner.
There were so many things I adored about this book.
Aria is a complex heroine with a dark past, yet she’s approachable and genuinely kind. Cassie, adorable, hilarious, and completely unique, easily stole my heart. And her brother Emmet — swoony, a perfect mix of popular jock and guy-next-door charm — was ideal boyfriend material for any teenager. These three were the heart and soul of the story.
As expected from KA Tucker, the supporting cast was perfectly chosen. Down-to-earth and relatable, they rounded out the world beautifully: protective parents genuinely invested in their kids, a grouchy uncle with dry humor, a lovable dog, and teenagers who were undeniably kind.
The ending, however, came way too quickly for my taste. I wasn’t ready for it to be over, and I could have easily read another 100 pages, especially since Aria and Emmet’s relationship was just beginning — I wanted, no, needed more of them together.
The one thing that irked me was the big secret that was hinted at but only revealed at the very end. I just knew it would break my heart — and probably everyone else’s. I hate having such unresolved tension hanging over my head throughout a story. I’d rather have a shocking OMG moment hit me unexpectedly than have a secret teased from the beginning and dragged out until the final pages.
Nevertheless, I’m officially a fan of all things KA Tucker, and I just hope she writes quickly — because I’m already ready for her next novel!
February 13, 2023
I’m soooo mad Right now.
This book started off great. We had autism representation as well as a focus on bullying and fighting against it.
Then the romance started and I was already not enjoying it as much anymore. In my opinion there was a lack of chemistry between the characters and I wish we had more focus on the family story but then it got really really bad.
I don’t like bullying at all. I don’t like bullies and I genuinely don’t understand why you would want to bully other people so badly.
I hated AJ. She was great and then boom: ruined. I understand that people can better themselves and grow from their past mistakes but bullying someone so hard that they kill themselves is not a simple mistake.
You ruined someone’s life and it could have been completely preventable by you just being a decent human being.
I get that now she is preventing Cassie from being bullied but I would NEVER look at the person the same again after finding out something so horrible about them.
I hated the ending. I hated this.
Trigger warnings for this book are:
Bullying, ableism, suicide, drug abuse, cyber bullying
This book started off great. We had autism representation as well as a focus on bullying and fighting against it.
Then the romance started and I was already not enjoying it as much anymore. In my opinion there was a lack of chemistry between the characters and I wish we had more focus on the family story but then it got really really bad.
I don’t like bullying at all. I don’t like bullies and I genuinely don’t understand why you would want to bully other people so badly.
I hated AJ. She was great and then boom: ruined. I understand that people can better themselves and grow from their past mistakes but bullying someone so hard that they kill themselves is not a simple mistake.
You ruined someone’s life and it could have been completely preventable by you just being a decent human being.
I get that now she is preventing Cassie from being bullied but I would NEVER look at the person the same again after finding out something so horrible about them.
I hated the ending. I hated this.
Trigger warnings for this book are:
Bullying, ableism, suicide, drug abuse, cyber bullying
This entire review has been hidden because of spoilers.
January 27, 2019
i really was expecting this to be more along the lines of the Simple Wild and,,,,,,,,,,,,it wasn't
like not at all
which is disappointing.
what's also disappointing is that i didn't connect with the characters or find the premise of the book to be interesting. the dialogue was awkward and the themes were cliche and i just COULDN'T
definitely won't be writing off K.A. Tucker from my list bc i just adored the simple wild too much, but i think i'm going to be sticking to her NA books
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buddy read with my bby, 🛋️🥔
k. a. tucker ruined my life with The Simple Wild and if this book is anything like that one, i will be devastated (in a good way)
like not at all
which is disappointing.
what's also disappointing is that i didn't connect with the characters or find the premise of the book to be interesting. the dialogue was awkward and the themes were cliche and i just COULDN'T
definitely won't be writing off K.A. Tucker from my list bc i just adored the simple wild too much, but i think i'm going to be sticking to her NA books
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buddy read with my bby, 🛋️🥔
k. a. tucker ruined my life with The Simple Wild and if this book is anything like that one, i will be devastated (in a good way)
January 19, 2019
4,5 risky move stars
First the most important thing about that book: I gobbled it up in one day and completely loved it!
Second: my friend Melanie, huge KA Tucker’s fan will be in heaven as the male character is a hockey player (high school) living in Canada but has already been recruited to attend college in Minnesota! How great is that Melanie right? That book is made for you!
Now it will be very difficult to write the review without giving away any spoiler but I am committed to write this without one hint to big reveals! Because a big part of the fun reading this book is guessing WHY Aria and her mom are starting over.
What happened to Aria?
I guessed something traumatic happened but I was right …and wrong! I won’t tell more about the plot.
What I will do is write about the characters, about what that book made me feel, about some “non spoilerish” topics broached in the book.
Aria is very easy to love. She is that soon to be sixteen years old girl starting fresh with her mother and now living with her great uncle Merv.
Her new neighbors have two kids. Cassie who has autism and is a really solar girl and her big brother Emmet who is the boy next door every teenage girl would fall for.
Aria will soon feel very protective of Cassie, so different but so loveable. Except that some kids don’t react smartly to other kids being different. My blood boiled like Aria’s every time I witnessed one of them hurt sweet Cassie, either by ignoring her, either by making fun of the girl.
Aria will be the new girl at school and as every new beginning for a teenager this will feel daunting. Lucky for her Emmet and Cassie will take her under their wings.
Aria could be any unsecure teenage girl who has experienced something that left her mom being overprotective and closely monitoring her interaction with others. You feel that she needs to get back her mother’s trust. She really wanted to do things properly. Yet as every teenager she also wanted some freedom.
Emmet was truly the epitome of good guy. Not only was he handsome and smart but he also was great with his sister. He was kind with every odd kid at school. Always ready to protect. So empathetic. If I had been attending Emmet’s school I would have fallen for the guy. Hard.
I really loved how KA Tucker portrayed Cassie. She was different but so lovely. KA Tucker did not try to hide the worry having a child with autism causes to a family. Parents worrying how the kid would fare once adult. Big brother worrying who would protect his little sister once he’ll be away attending college. These are kids needing special attention, taking a lot of energy from their families but also giving back plenty of love and joy.
All along I was following Aria’s new life, wondering what happened to her, trying to guess. I was crossing my fingers in the hope that she would get to be with Emmet even if I did not know if it was in the plan as he had a girlfriend. But a new start and love story are far from the only purpose of the book.
It goes beyond a simple easy and sweet YA story to read.
The book shows that some actions have consequences. That even the good intentions can sometimes have disastrous effects. That plans can backfire.
It also challenges us asking if everyone can make mistakes and deserve a second chance, some redemption. Does being in a dark place excuses your behavior? When you do something wrong does it make you bad?
If you want a story that makes you think and ponder. A story that will challenge you and your beliefs. A story that will have you wondering if you are ready to understand, to empathize, to forgive. A story that will flow effortlessly even with serious topics being discussed then you really, really, really should go for this book!
Have you read K.A. Tucker's books before?
Thanks for reading.
Sophie
Find me on:
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“This is not supposed to be happening again.”
First the most important thing about that book: I gobbled it up in one day and completely loved it!
Second: my friend Melanie, huge KA Tucker’s fan will be in heaven as the male character is a hockey player (high school) living in Canada but has already been recruited to attend college in Minnesota! How great is that Melanie right? That book is made for you!
Now it will be very difficult to write the review without giving away any spoiler but I am committed to write this without one hint to big reveals! Because a big part of the fun reading this book is guessing WHY Aria and her mom are starting over.
What happened to Aria?
I guessed something traumatic happened but I was right …and wrong! I won’t tell more about the plot.
What I will do is write about the characters, about what that book made me feel, about some “non spoilerish” topics broached in the book.
Aria is very easy to love. She is that soon to be sixteen years old girl starting fresh with her mother and now living with her great uncle Merv.
Her new neighbors have two kids. Cassie who has autism and is a really solar girl and her big brother Emmet who is the boy next door every teenage girl would fall for.
Aria will soon feel very protective of Cassie, so different but so loveable. Except that some kids don’t react smartly to other kids being different. My blood boiled like Aria’s every time I witnessed one of them hurt sweet Cassie, either by ignoring her, either by making fun of the girl.
Aria will be the new girl at school and as every new beginning for a teenager this will feel daunting. Lucky for her Emmet and Cassie will take her under their wings.
Aria could be any unsecure teenage girl who has experienced something that left her mom being overprotective and closely monitoring her interaction with others. You feel that she needs to get back her mother’s trust. She really wanted to do things properly. Yet as every teenager she also wanted some freedom.
Emmet was truly the epitome of good guy. Not only was he handsome and smart but he also was great with his sister. He was kind with every odd kid at school. Always ready to protect. So empathetic. If I had been attending Emmet’s school I would have fallen for the guy. Hard.
I really loved how KA Tucker portrayed Cassie. She was different but so lovely. KA Tucker did not try to hide the worry having a child with autism causes to a family. Parents worrying how the kid would fare once adult. Big brother worrying who would protect his little sister once he’ll be away attending college. These are kids needing special attention, taking a lot of energy from their families but also giving back plenty of love and joy.
All along I was following Aria’s new life, wondering what happened to her, trying to guess. I was crossing my fingers in the hope that she would get to be with Emmet even if I did not know if it was in the plan as he had a girlfriend. But a new start and love story are far from the only purpose of the book.
It goes beyond a simple easy and sweet YA story to read.
The book shows that some actions have consequences. That even the good intentions can sometimes have disastrous effects. That plans can backfire.
It also challenges us asking if everyone can make mistakes and deserve a second chance, some redemption. Does being in a dark place excuses your behavior? When you do something wrong does it make you bad?
If you want a story that makes you think and ponder. A story that will challenge you and your beliefs. A story that will have you wondering if you are ready to understand, to empathize, to forgive. A story that will flow effortlessly even with serious topics being discussed then you really, really, really should go for this book!
Have you read K.A. Tucker's books before?
Thanks for reading.
Sophie
Find me on:
Wordpress: Beware Of The Reader
Facebook: Beware Of The Reader
Facebook group : Beware Book Boyfriends Alert
Instagram: @bewareofthereader
Twitter: @BewareOffReader
May 27, 2019
5 Stars!!
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Tucker has done it again! She has crafted a lesson into a story and we all need to hear it. Be the Girl is a book with a story that should stick with the reader for a long time.
Be the Girl was about a lot of things. It was about starting over, and learning from mistakes. It was about bullying and disrespect. You can try and bury the past... but it always has a way of coming back around....
Aria moves across Canada with her mom to go live with her Great Uncle. Its a fresh start for the both of them. You can tell that she has been through something- the more you read- the answer becomes a little clearer. They move in next door to a family who has a son and an autistic daughter.
This story was something I feel like everyone really should read. Being a teenager for me was hard- but that was a long time ago and I know being a teen these days can be hell. With the internet and technology, social media platforms.. its easy to be bullied because the haters have something to hide behind, and without thinking about it- that makes it easier for people to be shitty. This book brings light to that.
I really enjoyed the characters each and every one of them. The flow of the book moved nicely and I was able to finish it in one setting because it consumed me. I recommend this one to all!!
⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
Tucker has done it again! She has crafted a lesson into a story and we all need to hear it. Be the Girl is a book with a story that should stick with the reader for a long time.
Be the Girl was about a lot of things. It was about starting over, and learning from mistakes. It was about bullying and disrespect. You can try and bury the past... but it always has a way of coming back around....
Aria moves across Canada with her mom to go live with her Great Uncle. Its a fresh start for the both of them. You can tell that she has been through something- the more you read- the answer becomes a little clearer. They move in next door to a family who has a son and an autistic daughter.
This story was something I feel like everyone really should read. Being a teenager for me was hard- but that was a long time ago and I know being a teen these days can be hell. With the internet and technology, social media platforms.. its easy to be bullied because the haters have something to hide behind, and without thinking about it- that makes it easier for people to be shitty. This book brings light to that.
I really enjoyed the characters each and every one of them. The flow of the book moved nicely and I was able to finish it in one setting because it consumed me. I recommend this one to all!!
January 14, 2019
Title: Be The Girl
Series: Standalone
Author: K.A. Tucker
Release date: January 21, 2019
Cliffhanger: No
Genre: YA, contemporary romance
This was a really hard one for me to rate. To say that I have mixed feelings is a huge understatement, most especially about the main character Aria. I read a lot of young adult books with teenage characters, so her age isn't an issue in general. I knew this would be set in high school with personalities and problems related to that transitional time in life. It's what you would expect with a coming of age story. I'm not going to lie though, Aria was 15 years old for the majority of the book and at times her personality was more silly than what appeals to me in YA.
I tend to zone out and miss notes. I can’t help it, though. He has a hot neck. I didn’t think that was a thing, but it is definitely a thing.
I think I like Emmett. Like, REALLY like him. But maybe you already guessed that. He’s easily the hottest guy in school. Maybe on earth.
Age appropriate, yes. Relatable to me at this time in my life, no. Her reaction to Emmett was your typical giddy schoolgirl crush on the hot popular jock. It didn't have a huge impact on my overall enjoyment, but I was finding it hard to connect with her because of it. That's just a personal preference though, so it's not going to phase everyone.
On the other hand, Aria seemed to have maturity in some ways that were beyond her years that I respected. After moving to Eastmonte with her mother to start fresh, they meet their new neighbors, Emmett and Cassie Hartford. Cassie is close to their age, but is on the autism spectrum and there is a childlike innocence to her that makes her different than your average high school student. Not only does Aria immediately show her respect, but she goes out of her way to include her and offer her friendship. At school, rather than joining a clique, she befriends people who are a little bit odd. The people whom everyone else doesn't take the time to know as a person before passing judgement and censure. So she may have been a bit giddy, but I really started to warm up to her.
I would say that the main theme of this book is bullying/cyberbullying and it really shed light on the devastation it can cause. So many teens take part in tormenting others and making their life a living hell, and don't think about the consequences of their actions. Treating their hateful behavior as if it's a game, they don't think that the worst possible case scenario can result from what they're doing. With how prevalent this social epidemic is now more than ever on social media, I applaud the author for tackling it.
Everyone has an ugly side. It’s only ever a matter of how well they keep it hidden, and what makes it appear.
Throughout the book, there are lots of clues that Aria has run from some sort of scandal that resulted in some mental health issues. She tries to compartmentalize her old life from her "new" one, and convince herself that with her new school, all of her old problems are erased. In other words, she's in denial big time. Avoiding the uncomfortable feelings she doesn't want to focus on anymore, and trying to reinvent herself. I just knew that somehow the skeletons in her closet would be uncovered, and it was only a matter of time before she had to confront them again. Then the twist finally comes and knocks you off your feet. No way, no how did I expect the secret that she was hiding! It took me completely off guard and shocked me. It was something that had me re-evaluating everything I thought about her up until that point.
I debated with myself if I could even like this heroine after finishing, and whether or not she fully showed character growth to suit me. Some of her actions at her new school showed that despite everything she was trying to put behind her, she still made careless choices she shouldn't have. But I came to the conclusion that I suppose it doesn't really matter what my opinion is of her in the end. The message is impactful, and it was told in a way that makes you sit up and pay attention. Be the Girl explores a lot of light things that typical teens would feel and experience in young love. It also digs into a heavy topic, showing the permanent effect bullying can wreak on lives. It's a story that many will not only appreciate, but need to hear.
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January 21, 2019
Be The Girl is my very first FIVE STAR read of 2019 and it'll be up there as one of the best books I'll read this year without a doubt. I've been struggling to find a story that would blow me away this year, a story full of richness and depth and relatable characters that would reach out and grip me with intense emotion and an unforgettable storyline. (Not too much to ask, is it?) Well I'm thrilled to say I finally found it. Be the Girl is moving and heart wrenching, thought provoking and romantic. It's a story full of regret and redemption, unconditional love and friendship, and IT IS EXCEPTIONAL.
There are so many nuances to this story, I don't even know where to begin. Read this book because of the sweet YA love story. Read this book because of the teen angst and maddening dynamic that'll take you right back to high school. Read this book because it's eye opening. Because it's rich with messages of empathy and forgiveness. Read this book because it'll make you a better human. Read this book because of Cassie and all the things her blinding light will teach you. Read this book because Aria's story sends a powerful, hopeful, unforgettable message we all can relate to in some way. Read this book because Emmett is the kind of character we hope our daughters find and our sons grow up to be. Read this book because it'll change the way you look at the world.
Be The Girl brought tears to my eyes more than once. It filled me with an overwhelming sense of giddiness because I had finally found a book that I couldn't put down, never wanted to end, and won't stop thinking about anyone soon. The youthful romance between Emmett and Aria gave me nostalgic feels of first love and unsettling emotions and raging hormones and it was both delicious and complicated and I loved every second. This is a story that resonated with me because I could see myself on these pages. I've been there, in the dark places, and as painful and unsettling as those feelings were when they came to the surface, this story is a testament to the fact that things do get better. People do grow and change and learn from their mistakes. It's a potent, necessary reminder that you're not alone and that all we really need is a desire to understand each other. What a beautiful world we'd live in if we simply sought understanding instead of isolating ourselves from what looks a little different.
What a brilliant book KA Tucker delivers with Be the Girl. What a wholly unforgettable story this was. One of my goals for this new year was to stop spending my time reading books that are anything less than exceptional and this book, my friends, is simply extraordinary.
There are so many nuances to this story, I don't even know where to begin. Read this book because of the sweet YA love story. Read this book because of the teen angst and maddening dynamic that'll take you right back to high school. Read this book because it's eye opening. Because it's rich with messages of empathy and forgiveness. Read this book because it'll make you a better human. Read this book because of Cassie and all the things her blinding light will teach you. Read this book because Aria's story sends a powerful, hopeful, unforgettable message we all can relate to in some way. Read this book because Emmett is the kind of character we hope our daughters find and our sons grow up to be. Read this book because it'll change the way you look at the world.
Be The Girl brought tears to my eyes more than once. It filled me with an overwhelming sense of giddiness because I had finally found a book that I couldn't put down, never wanted to end, and won't stop thinking about anyone soon. The youthful romance between Emmett and Aria gave me nostalgic feels of first love and unsettling emotions and raging hormones and it was both delicious and complicated and I loved every second. This is a story that resonated with me because I could see myself on these pages. I've been there, in the dark places, and as painful and unsettling as those feelings were when they came to the surface, this story is a testament to the fact that things do get better. People do grow and change and learn from their mistakes. It's a potent, necessary reminder that you're not alone and that all we really need is a desire to understand each other. What a beautiful world we'd live in if we simply sought understanding instead of isolating ourselves from what looks a little different.
What a brilliant book KA Tucker delivers with Be the Girl. What a wholly unforgettable story this was. One of my goals for this new year was to stop spending my time reading books that are anything less than exceptional and this book, my friends, is simply extraordinary.
January 26, 2019
★★ 4.5 stars! ★★
I honestly don’t read young adult novels very often, but when I do, I want them to be written just like this one: with solid writing, powerful messaging, and a happy ending. Tucker nails her YA debut with Be the Girl, and it’s one that I would recommend for adults and teens alike.
Aria Jones is adjusting to so many life changes for only being a 15 year old. After her parent's divorce, she and her mother move cross-country to live with her crotchety yet lovable great-uncle—who happens to live next door to Emmett, the hot high school hockey player. On top of all that, she has to navigate the tricky waters of starting a new school and making new friends.
Aria seems to be adjusting to her new life, but through journal entries, you learn that everything wasn’t always so wonderful for her. There is a twist in this story that I didn’t see coming, but it makes the story that much more impactful. Life for students is so much harder with the invention of social media and this book is a big, flashing warning sign to any parent who reads it.
I absolutely adored Emmett and his big heart, but his sister, Cassie, stole the show in several scenes. Her personality is larger than life and I couldn’t wait to see what fresh perspective she was going to share next.
I was so curious to see how a talented and skilled author like Tucker would treat a young adult novel and I have to say, I’m impressed. She created a storyline so relevant to today’s society that every teen and adult should read it. It’s one of those books that you will find yourself thinking about long after the story has ended.
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I honestly don’t read young adult novels very often, but when I do, I want them to be written just like this one: with solid writing, powerful messaging, and a happy ending. Tucker nails her YA debut with Be the Girl, and it’s one that I would recommend for adults and teens alike.
Aria Jones is adjusting to so many life changes for only being a 15 year old. After her parent's divorce, she and her mother move cross-country to live with her crotchety yet lovable great-uncle—who happens to live next door to Emmett, the hot high school hockey player. On top of all that, she has to navigate the tricky waters of starting a new school and making new friends.
Aria seems to be adjusting to her new life, but through journal entries, you learn that everything wasn’t always so wonderful for her. There is a twist in this story that I didn’t see coming, but it makes the story that much more impactful. Life for students is so much harder with the invention of social media and this book is a big, flashing warning sign to any parent who reads it.
I absolutely adored Emmett and his big heart, but his sister, Cassie, stole the show in several scenes. Her personality is larger than life and I couldn’t wait to see what fresh perspective she was going to share next.
I was so curious to see how a talented and skilled author like Tucker would treat a young adult novel and I have to say, I’m impressed. She created a storyline so relevant to today’s society that every teen and adult should read it. It’s one of those books that you will find yourself thinking about long after the story has ended.
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February 13, 2019
4 ⭐'s
K.A. Tucker has had me sucked in since Ten Tiny Breaths so I couldn't resist reading this story even if it is a YA/NA story.
Aria's been through some rough times in her young life and her mother decides to give them a fresh start moving hours away from their old lives and right next door to hunky Emmett.
Aria's crushing right from the beginning but I quite enjoyed their friendship. Emmett's sister, Cassie, is autistic and that adds a whole other level to the story.
K.A. Tucker loves to throw twists into the story and this one is no exception. I enjoyed how it was handled even if you could figure out some things. There is a strong message to the story as well and happily, it doesn't come across as too preachy.
I loved the relationship between Aria and her Mom. They have certainly gone through something together and come out the other side for the better.
The ending was great and of course, left me wanting more.
K.A. Tucker has had me sucked in since Ten Tiny Breaths so I couldn't resist reading this story even if it is a YA/NA story.
Aria's been through some rough times in her young life and her mother decides to give them a fresh start moving hours away from their old lives and right next door to hunky Emmett.
Aria's crushing right from the beginning but I quite enjoyed their friendship. Emmett's sister, Cassie, is autistic and that adds a whole other level to the story.
K.A. Tucker loves to throw twists into the story and this one is no exception. I enjoyed how it was handled even if you could figure out some things. There is a strong message to the story as well and happily, it doesn't come across as too preachy.
I loved the relationship between Aria and her Mom. They have certainly gone through something together and come out the other side for the better.
The ending was great and of course, left me wanting more.
January 23, 2019
It seems there's a bit of a wave right now for authors to move out of their normal genre, and write "YA" books. But most of the books I've read about teenage love are not necessarily intended for young adults, but books that are intended for adults. KA Tucker's newest book, BE THE GIRL is the exception. This truly is YA, and as a parent of two young adults, BE THE GIRL is a book I would encourage them to read.
Tucker takes on a subject that has become a buzz word in our time, bullying, and does it in such a way, that at some point the reader begins to gain a little understanding behind the motives of the bully. We may not agree with the actions taken, but a bit of understanding does occur. We see how easy it is to get caught up in the wake as things begin to snowball. While at the same time, I had so much empathy for those that were being bullied. I was so angry on their behalf.
Something Tucker also does brilliantly, is the creation of the character, Cassie. From the descriptions of her mannerisms to her voice inflection, it was clear Cassie was born from love. (One of my favorite parts in the book comes when Cassie asks Aria if they will still be friends next year when Emmett goes away to college. Those paragraphs were written with such love and evoked such compassion, I couldn't help but cry.)
BE THE GIRL was poignant, funny, heartwarming and redemptive, it was about looking past each other's differences and accepting others for who they are. But above all, it's about being kind to one another.
I was provided a review copy by the author. This did not influence my opinion of the book nor my review.
Tucker takes on a subject that has become a buzz word in our time, bullying, and does it in such a way, that at some point the reader begins to gain a little understanding behind the motives of the bully. We may not agree with the actions taken, but a bit of understanding does occur. We see how easy it is to get caught up in the wake as things begin to snowball. While at the same time, I had so much empathy for those that were being bullied. I was so angry on their behalf.
Something Tucker also does brilliantly, is the creation of the character, Cassie. From the descriptions of her mannerisms to her voice inflection, it was clear Cassie was born from love. (One of my favorite parts in the book comes when Cassie asks Aria if they will still be friends next year when Emmett goes away to college. Those paragraphs were written with such love and evoked such compassion, I couldn't help but cry.)
BE THE GIRL was poignant, funny, heartwarming and redemptive, it was about looking past each other's differences and accepting others for who they are. But above all, it's about being kind to one another.
I was provided a review copy by the author. This did not influence my opinion of the book nor my review.
January 10, 2019
It’s been a week since I’ve finished and I’m honestly still at a loss for words. Be The Girl was a punch in the gut. It made me reevaluate my time in high school. What kind of girl was I? How did I treat those that were different than me? It really made me think. Overall this is a relevant YA which thoroughly explores major issues facing teens today. It’s not all troubling teen times there’s also love...love between friends, sisters, neighbors, family and first love. Job well done as always Kathleen!
January 21, 2019
Reviewed on: Ashes Books & Bobs.
K.A. Tucker became one of my favorite authors last year when I finally checked Ten Tiny Breaths off my TBR list and was able to read an ARC of The Simple Wild, which made my favorites list of 2018. I'm impressed with K.A.'s easy writing style and relatable storytelling. I was eager to check out Be the Girl, especially since this will be published Independently of Atria. While my attention has recently drifted to more traditionally published books, my heartstrings are still tugged by Indie books.
Guys, Be the Girl is an important book. It's likely one of the most influential YA books I've ever read. The topics discussed here are incredibly important and there are things I wish I could discuss in greater detail, but for the sake of avoiding spoilers, I need to keep certain points mum.
I especially enjoyed the beginnings of each chapter starting with a journal entry from our main character, Aria. This added an element of mystery and a link to past events that kept me eagerly turning the pages, particularly in the beginning of the story. This allows readers to get to know her on a more personal level, rather than reading her through interactions with friends and family members. My thoughts on Aria as a character are up in the air at this point. One thing I can truly say is that she seems like one of the most realistic teenage characters I've ever read.
The hero of the story to all readers will be Emmett, without a doubt. He's the guy everyone wants to know and be around in high school. The guy you would assume is a jerk, due simply to his magnetism, only to discover he has a soft heart. I couldn't help but love the guy. The ways he showed his care for his autistic sister, Cassie, were incredibly heartwarming. Emmett made me want to be a gentler person!
I could go on and on about each character, but I don't particularly enjoy reading reviews about characters I've yet to meet myself, so I want to dive into the meat of the story without giving too much away. The first half of this book flew by as I was baited each chapter with interesting tidbits that made me eager to see what would happen next. As the story drew on, however, I felt it became a bit predictable and found myself reading faster if only to get to the twist. One of the things that is a challenge for me with YA books as an adult are the mundane life scenes - going to school, coming home, doing homework. I hate for my age to start showing, but these scenes bore me. This was no fault of K.A. Tucker's, as this book fits smack dab in it's intended genre. This aspect only reflects on my personal enjoyment.
Despite my three-star rating (due to my enjoyment, not the story), because I find myself moving further away from YA every year, I believe this book will be well received by readers of all ages. Its importance in informing the young and old of the bullying teenagers face in the world today is unparalleled. If I was a teacher, this book would be recommended to students constantly and hopefully very rarely on my shelf. K.A. Tucker did an amazing job of bringing real-world issues to life with her characters and making me feel such intense empathy toward kids growing up today. None of us are perfect, but with the help of books like this one, maybe we can slowly become better people.
K.A. Tucker became one of my favorite authors last year when I finally checked Ten Tiny Breaths off my TBR list and was able to read an ARC of The Simple Wild, which made my favorites list of 2018. I'm impressed with K.A.'s easy writing style and relatable storytelling. I was eager to check out Be the Girl, especially since this will be published Independently of Atria. While my attention has recently drifted to more traditionally published books, my heartstrings are still tugged by Indie books.
Guys, Be the Girl is an important book. It's likely one of the most influential YA books I've ever read. The topics discussed here are incredibly important and there are things I wish I could discuss in greater detail, but for the sake of avoiding spoilers, I need to keep certain points mum.
I especially enjoyed the beginnings of each chapter starting with a journal entry from our main character, Aria. This added an element of mystery and a link to past events that kept me eagerly turning the pages, particularly in the beginning of the story. This allows readers to get to know her on a more personal level, rather than reading her through interactions with friends and family members. My thoughts on Aria as a character are up in the air at this point. One thing I can truly say is that she seems like one of the most realistic teenage characters I've ever read.
The hero of the story to all readers will be Emmett, without a doubt. He's the guy everyone wants to know and be around in high school. The guy you would assume is a jerk, due simply to his magnetism, only to discover he has a soft heart. I couldn't help but love the guy. The ways he showed his care for his autistic sister, Cassie, were incredibly heartwarming. Emmett made me want to be a gentler person!
I could go on and on about each character, but I don't particularly enjoy reading reviews about characters I've yet to meet myself, so I want to dive into the meat of the story without giving too much away. The first half of this book flew by as I was baited each chapter with interesting tidbits that made me eager to see what would happen next. As the story drew on, however, I felt it became a bit predictable and found myself reading faster if only to get to the twist. One of the things that is a challenge for me with YA books as an adult are the mundane life scenes - going to school, coming home, doing homework. I hate for my age to start showing, but these scenes bore me. This was no fault of K.A. Tucker's, as this book fits smack dab in it's intended genre. This aspect only reflects on my personal enjoyment.
Despite my three-star rating (due to my enjoyment, not the story), because I find myself moving further away from YA every year, I believe this book will be well received by readers of all ages. Its importance in informing the young and old of the bullying teenagers face in the world today is unparalleled. If I was a teacher, this book would be recommended to students constantly and hopefully very rarely on my shelf. K.A. Tucker did an amazing job of bringing real-world issues to life with her characters and making me feel such intense empathy toward kids growing up today. None of us are perfect, but with the help of books like this one, maybe we can slowly become better people.
May 31, 2019
I really enjoyed this YA read.
January 18, 2019
4.5/5 stars
K.A. Tucker is one of my favorite authors. So I was very excited to read her newest book. I had no idea what this book was about as I did not read the book blurb. All I knew is that it was a YA story.
The narrator is almost sixteen-year-old Aria Jones (1st person POV). The book takes place in Canada. The story starts with her and mom moving cross country from Calgary to a place in Ontario an hour away from Toronto.
Aria and her mom are moving in with her mom's 80 year old uncle. Their new next door neighbors have two teens: Cassie (sweet, kind girl with autism) and Emmett (star hockey player).
Aria has a secret. This is hinted at throughout the book. It is the reason for the cross country move.
Things that I liked about this story. Hockey. Emmett is in his last year of high school. And he is a star hockey player with scholarship prospects at US universities. I enjoyed the hockey aspect of this story, especially what went on in the stands during the games.
Track/running. Running also factors into this story. And I really enjoyed how it played into the story. Although I wish that we had gotten more of the school track team.
Autism. One of the main characters in this book is 15 year old Cassie. I absolutely loved this character and how she was portrayed. I think that she added so much to this book.
Dogs. I am not even a huge dog lover, but I just loved the stuff with the animal shelter and everything to do with dogs in this book.
The book deals with serious issues that many teens face. And I think that this story is an important one. There are characters in this story who are awful. But just because you do a bad thing does that mean that you are a bad person? Is there a difference between someone who is horrible and vindictive vs someone who grows and learns from their mistakes?
This book was so much more meaningful than I was expecting. And I liked that the author waited and let us get to know all of the characters before telling us the secret.
The epilogue was really good. And the author's note/acknowledgments at the end were significant.
I was absolutely not expecting this book to deal with such important issues. This book is significant and it will make you think.
Complimentary copy provided in exchange for an honest and unbiased review.
K.A. Tucker is one of my favorite authors. So I was very excited to read her newest book. I had no idea what this book was about as I did not read the book blurb. All I knew is that it was a YA story.
The narrator is almost sixteen-year-old Aria Jones (1st person POV). The book takes place in Canada. The story starts with her and mom moving cross country from Calgary to a place in Ontario an hour away from Toronto.
Aria and her mom are moving in with her mom's 80 year old uncle. Their new next door neighbors have two teens: Cassie (sweet, kind girl with autism) and Emmett (star hockey player).
Aria has a secret. This is hinted at throughout the book. It is the reason for the cross country move.
Things that I liked about this story. Hockey. Emmett is in his last year of high school. And he is a star hockey player with scholarship prospects at US universities. I enjoyed the hockey aspect of this story, especially what went on in the stands during the games.
Track/running. Running also factors into this story. And I really enjoyed how it played into the story. Although I wish that we had gotten more of the school track team.
Autism. One of the main characters in this book is 15 year old Cassie. I absolutely loved this character and how she was portrayed. I think that she added so much to this book.
Dogs. I am not even a huge dog lover, but I just loved the stuff with the animal shelter and everything to do with dogs in this book.
The book deals with serious issues that many teens face. And I think that this story is an important one. There are characters in this story who are awful. But just because you do a bad thing does that mean that you are a bad person? Is there a difference between someone who is horrible and vindictive vs someone who grows and learns from their mistakes?
This book was so much more meaningful than I was expecting. And I liked that the author waited and let us get to know all of the characters before telling us the secret.
The epilogue was really good. And the author's note/acknowledgments at the end were significant.
I was absolutely not expecting this book to deal with such important issues. This book is significant and it will make you think.
Complimentary copy provided in exchange for an honest and unbiased review.
January 21, 2019
I received an e-ARC from the author in exchange for an honest review. Review and blog tour can be found on *Milky Way of Books*
Be the Girl was a story that surprised me in many ways. From the characters and their complex emotions to the high school drama and above all, bullying. Not to mention Cassie, the sweet soul!
As a person has been a victim of bullying in middle school, I believe that there should be more awareness, especially now when technology offers more means to be a bully while staying anonymous and believing that nothing touches you.
K.A. Tucker has written in a very realistic and emotional way about people who struggle every day, learn from their mistakes and grow up in the process; and also they find love and understanding. There should be more books like this one. Highly recommended.
Be the Girl was a story that surprised me in many ways. From the characters and their complex emotions to the high school drama and above all, bullying. Not to mention Cassie, the sweet soul!
As a person has been a victim of bullying in middle school, I believe that there should be more awareness, especially now when technology offers more means to be a bully while staying anonymous and believing that nothing touches you.
K.A. Tucker has written in a very realistic and emotional way about people who struggle every day, learn from their mistakes and grow up in the process; and also they find love and understanding. There should be more books like this one. Highly recommended.
February 7, 2019
Loved it!
This author blew apart two things I don't normally enjoy, first person present tense and young adult stories.
This author blew apart two things I don't normally enjoy, first person present tense and young adult stories.
March 17, 2024
A very cute YA romance from K.A. Tucker!
October 19, 2020
BE THE GIRL deals with some important and heavy subjects and it’s a thought provoking story about the many sides of bullying. Not about the black and white but the part that makes us all take a step back and think that it’s so easy for all of us to do it, even when we are thinking we are on the “right” side. If there’s one take away from this is to evaluate your choices and always think how the other side feels.
This is also a story that left me very conflicted about how I feel in the end. I don’t really want to give a hint of a spoiler because I think it’s best experienced without having any idea of what’s coming. But let’s just say I’m not sure I can forgive and forget. I think K.A. Tucker told this story and this lesson in a great way and I’ll probably be pondering my feelings on this ending for a while. I highly recommend you give this one a try as well. Believe me, it’s not going to be your typical YA. It’ll be a punch in the gut when you least expect it.
This is also a story that left me very conflicted about how I feel in the end. I don’t really want to give a hint of a spoiler because I think it’s best experienced without having any idea of what’s coming. But let’s just say I’m not sure I can forgive and forget. I think K.A. Tucker told this story and this lesson in a great way and I’ll probably be pondering my feelings on this ending for a while. I highly recommend you give this one a try as well. Believe me, it’s not going to be your typical YA. It’ll be a punch in the gut when you least expect it.
January 31, 2019
4.5 Stars
This was an incredibly emotional read courtesy of the most lovable secondary character who stole the spotlight and my heart...Cassie. I couldn't help but love this adorable girl.
There are many issues woven into this amazing story. However, bullying and dealing with autism are the primary focus which the main characters, AJ and Emmett, deal with daily. As a reader, I was pulled into their drama, curious to discover hidden secrets, and heartbroken over certain circumstances. This read certainly had all the "feels"
I went into this blind, not so much of a hint of what is was all about, and I'm so glad I did. Be the Girl was a beautifully written story that will stay with me for a long time.
This was an incredibly emotional read courtesy of the most lovable secondary character who stole the spotlight and my heart...Cassie. I couldn't help but love this adorable girl.
There are many issues woven into this amazing story. However, bullying and dealing with autism are the primary focus which the main characters, AJ and Emmett, deal with daily. As a reader, I was pulled into their drama, curious to discover hidden secrets, and heartbroken over certain circumstances. This read certainly had all the "feels"
I went into this blind, not so much of a hint of what is was all about, and I'm so glad I did. Be the Girl was a beautifully written story that will stay with me for a long time.
January 16, 2019
**ARC provided by author in exchange for an honest review**
I don't read as much Young Adult novels like I used to, but if one of my favorite authors decided to write one, you know I'll be one of the first ones in line to get a copy. I won't go into the plot of the story, because I think the blurb gives you the perfect insight into the story without spoiling it. I will go into how the story and characters made me feel. The characters were really great and Cassie in my opinion stole the show. She is such a beautiful and innocent person, and I would've loved to meet someone like her in high school (or now). She will always be honest and what you see is what you get with her. And that isn't always the case, and especially in high school people can be absolutely awful. When Aria moves to a new town, Cassie is the first one to adopt her as her new friend. She always can't stop talking about her great big brother Emmett. He was such a great guy and very protective of Cassie. Aria develops a crush on him right away, but who can blame her.
I think Be the Girl is a very important book for people to read because it sheds light and creates awareness on certain topics that is very relevant especially with social media. It also show the other side, which I loved. I thought I had this story all figured out, but then the author hit me with a plot twist and left me speechless. This book had me on edge and in tears a couple of times. I do wish the book was longer, or that the last couple of chapters weren't that fast-paced. It left me wanting more, and I kind of want a New Adult sequel. The connection between Aria and Emmett was there, but not enough that I 100% believed in it. But on the other hand, I also kind of liked that because it felt real. They are teenagers and they still have a lot of growing up to do. K.A. Tucker did an amazing job with this book and it was obvious that it was personal to her. I really hope she will write more books in this genre.
I don't read as much Young Adult novels like I used to, but if one of my favorite authors decided to write one, you know I'll be one of the first ones in line to get a copy. I won't go into the plot of the story, because I think the blurb gives you the perfect insight into the story without spoiling it. I will go into how the story and characters made me feel. The characters were really great and Cassie in my opinion stole the show. She is such a beautiful and innocent person, and I would've loved to meet someone like her in high school (or now). She will always be honest and what you see is what you get with her. And that isn't always the case, and especially in high school people can be absolutely awful. When Aria moves to a new town, Cassie is the first one to adopt her as her new friend. She always can't stop talking about her great big brother Emmett. He was such a great guy and very protective of Cassie. Aria develops a crush on him right away, but who can blame her.
I think Be the Girl is a very important book for people to read because it sheds light and creates awareness on certain topics that is very relevant especially with social media. It also show the other side, which I loved. I thought I had this story all figured out, but then the author hit me with a plot twist and left me speechless. This book had me on edge and in tears a couple of times. I do wish the book was longer, or that the last couple of chapters weren't that fast-paced. It left me wanting more, and I kind of want a New Adult sequel. The connection between Aria and Emmett was there, but not enough that I 100% believed in it. But on the other hand, I also kind of liked that because it felt real. They are teenagers and they still have a lot of growing up to do. K.A. Tucker did an amazing job with this book and it was obvious that it was personal to her. I really hope she will write more books in this genre.
January 15, 2019
This review was originally posted on (un)Conventional Bookworms
*I received a free copy of [title] from [publisher] via Author. This has in no way influenced my voluntary review, which is honest and unbiased *I knew Be the Girl would break my heart! Bullying is such an ugly word. And now - with all kinds of social media, those who are bullied must feel like it never stops.
Be the Girl is such an important story! And I have to say, Tucker managed to tell it with so much tenderness and tact, it was beautiful - even when it was ugly! Aria moved across Canada with her mother to live with her great-uncle. And it was clear from the beginning of the story that there was trouble in her past. Big trouble. Coupled with a father who had a second family - and who left Aria and her mother behind without a backwards glance. Things had been so bad that she had even changed her last name before moving.
Be the Girl is about starting over. But it's also about not being able to bury the past. And again, Tucker weaved such a fantastic story, with characters that grew exceptionally. Characters who wanted to be better. Characters who understood how precarious high school can be. All the characters were well developed, and I think that's part of what made the story so incredibly strong.
Be the Girl is a necessary story, and both teens and all people who have contact with teens should read it!
*I received a free copy of [title] from [publisher] via Author. This has in no way influenced my voluntary review, which is honest and unbiased *I knew Be the Girl would break my heart! Bullying is such an ugly word. And now - with all kinds of social media, those who are bullied must feel like it never stops.
Be the Girl is such an important story! And I have to say, Tucker managed to tell it with so much tenderness and tact, it was beautiful - even when it was ugly! Aria moved across Canada with her mother to live with her great-uncle. And it was clear from the beginning of the story that there was trouble in her past. Big trouble. Coupled with a father who had a second family - and who left Aria and her mother behind without a backwards glance. Things had been so bad that she had even changed her last name before moving.
Be the Girl is about starting over. But it's also about not being able to bury the past. And again, Tucker weaved such a fantastic story, with characters that grew exceptionally. Characters who wanted to be better. Characters who understood how precarious high school can be. All the characters were well developed, and I think that's part of what made the story so incredibly strong.
Be the Girl is a necessary story, and both teens and all people who have contact with teens should read it!
January 14, 2019
Be the Girl is a story that will stay with you long after you’ve finished it. Tucker has crafted an adorable story that packs a punch you won’t see coming. Be the Girl is a story about bullying, regret, and redemption. Regret and forgiveness go hand in hand, so feelings about the end of this novel may differ greatly person-to-person.
I’m usually not a fan of high school stories because I usually find them tedious with all their petty high school drama. However, Tucker expertly crafted an adorable romance within a much more poignant story about bullying, inclusion, and forgiveness.
Be the Girl seems like your typical high school romance novel with a little something more. I fully expected Tucker to touch briefly upon bullying and its consequences since the main character’s past, but I was not expecting what Be the Girl actually delivers. At a certain point in the novel, the story becomes so much more and it is absolutely incredible. There is an obvious shift in tone and direction that, in hindsight, is inevitable, but so well written.
One of the characters is a fifteen-year-old girl named Cassie who has autism. I’m not an expert in autism, but Tucker’s portrayal is well informed and genuine. Also, the characters’ reactions and actions towards Cassie are authentic and informative. There are so many moments where Cassie is the highlight of the scene that I would give her the breakout role award for this novel.
Be the Girl prominently features a romance, so there is some of Tucker’s signature chemistry and tension, though it is rated PG.
One of the things I loved most about Be the Girl is the fact that it’s set in a town outside of Toronto. I can count on one hand the number of books I’ve read that have been set in a Canadian city. Tucker is from the Toronto area, so I’m excited to see more of her novels set in and around Toronto!
Overall, Be the Girl is a breath of fresh air when it comes to YA novels set in high school. Tucker has created a novel with characters that are competent yet naïve and a highly relevant story about bullying and forgiveness all housed within an adorable first love romance.
** I received an ARC from the author in exchange for an honest review.
February 13, 2019
Aria is the new girl in town. She and her mother packed up their old life in Calgary and moved to rural Ontario to start afresh. We are given many hints about some traumatic event, which has her mother monitoring Aria's every move and decision: no social media of any sort, and texts on her cell phone are routed to and reviewed by her mother. What on earth happened to make Aria lose almost every shred of her personal privacy? This story has a twist, which I sort of saw coming, given that I have now read several of this author's books, but it was still a riveting read.
I think social media has made life so much harder for teens: here, the usual teenage dramas in Aria's life were magnified by the powerful tools of social media which, in the hands of angry or vindictive users, can have devastating results. In this story, Aria will be scarred by her own social media drama for the rest of her life. How she finds redemption, in her own and her new friends' hearts, makes for a great read. (Loved the metaphor of the rose at the end!)
This story also addresses autism. Caring for and raising an autistic child/family member usually places a huge emotional and financial burden on the entire family. This aspect was very well depicted here. Cassie is very much loved by her family and school mates, but in this story, we see that not every classmate is as supportive or understanding of her special needs.
I agree with a previous reviewer that this book should be read by everyone. I believe the author, in her acknowledgement page, reveals that one of her daughters is autistic, so we are receiving a first hand account of what life is like for an entire family dealing with an autistic child. There were no mournful violins playing in the background. Cassie is a lot of work, and we see each family member suffering from frustration or guilt at times when Cassie becomes difficult or demanding, but there is no doubt that they all love her and will make every sacrifice to be there for her. I highly recommend this novel!
I think social media has made life so much harder for teens: here, the usual teenage dramas in Aria's life were magnified by the powerful tools of social media which, in the hands of angry or vindictive users, can have devastating results. In this story, Aria will be scarred by her own social media drama for the rest of her life. How she finds redemption, in her own and her new friends' hearts, makes for a great read. (Loved the metaphor of the rose at the end!)
This story also addresses autism. Caring for and raising an autistic child/family member usually places a huge emotional and financial burden on the entire family. This aspect was very well depicted here. Cassie is very much loved by her family and school mates, but in this story, we see that not every classmate is as supportive or understanding of her special needs.
I agree with a previous reviewer that this book should be read by everyone. I believe the author, in her acknowledgement page, reveals that one of her daughters is autistic, so we are receiving a first hand account of what life is like for an entire family dealing with an autistic child. There were no mournful violins playing in the background. Cassie is a lot of work, and we see each family member suffering from frustration or guilt at times when Cassie becomes difficult or demanding, but there is no doubt that they all love her and will make every sacrifice to be there for her. I highly recommend this novel!
February 28, 2019
Even though I haven't read young adult in a long time I decided to read this because of the author which I love very much.
But at the end it was to young for me. Sadly, because the topic is very universal and important. But the characters were very hard for me to connect, believe or care.
With such an emotional subject of bullying I expected to feel more but overall I just missed the mark with this one.
It is really important that subject of bullying is a major plot line in books.
It is really important to read about characters like Cassie the autistic girl.
And that is something that should be main thing in this book and still I don't feel it is.
Mainly I find lead character Aria which is voice of the story a mean girl who is unbelievable in her redemption. Emmett and her have very insta love-lust thing going on. He is very caring brother but on the other hand typical teenager. Cassie is only character that I enjoyed reading and mom and older uncle too.
I love what author tried to do with the story and I would say the targeted audience are teens and preteens. This was just not for me. I'm sure many will enjoyed it because KA writing leaves you no other choice.
This is definitely a book you could share with your kids or younger siblings...
But at the end it was to young for me. Sadly, because the topic is very universal and important. But the characters were very hard for me to connect, believe or care.
With such an emotional subject of bullying I expected to feel more but overall I just missed the mark with this one.
It is really important that subject of bullying is a major plot line in books.
It is really important to read about characters like Cassie the autistic girl.
And that is something that should be main thing in this book and still I don't feel it is.
Mainly I find lead character Aria which is voice of the story a mean girl who is unbelievable in her redemption. Emmett and her have very insta love-lust thing going on. He is very caring brother but on the other hand typical teenager. Cassie is only character that I enjoyed reading and mom and older uncle too.
I love what author tried to do with the story and I would say the targeted audience are teens and preteens. This was just not for me. I'm sure many will enjoyed it because KA writing leaves you no other choice.
This is definitely a book you could share with your kids or younger siblings...
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