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How to STOP Caring What People Think of You: The little book on how to stop caring what other people think of you and start living your life the way you want to live it
The greatest prison people live in, is the fear of what other people think. Not caring what people think of you is one of the fundamentals of happiness! When you worry too much about what others think of you, you stifle your creativity, your individuality, and your ambitions.
In this short, no fluff book, you will learn why we have strong tendencies to worry about others opinions, why it is insane, and how to break free from that mindset. The book also includes 20 actions you can start taking today to propel you from a worrier to someone who takes action toward their goals and purpose without caring what others will think. This is a transformation we should all make in life, so grab your copy today!
In this short, no fluff book, you will learn why we have strong tendencies to worry about others opinions, why it is insane, and how to break free from that mindset. The book also includes 20 actions you can start taking today to propel you from a worrier to someone who takes action toward their goals and purpose without caring what others will think. This is a transformation we should all make in life, so grab your copy today!
21 pages, Kindle Edition
Published May 10, 2019
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June 28, 2022
Motivational/selfhelp
Half hour read. For such a short read it's quite good. I'd recommend it.
Simple, easy to understand with a list of challenges at the end to get you started.
I definitely would have liked a bit more depth to help me not only understand why i should work on trying to stop caring what others think, but also help me understand better how i can program my brain to do so. But with the small amount of pages this one has, I can't say i think it ought to have explained all that. I'm not sure that would've been realistic without making this into a seriously sized book.
Anywho, it's clean, I enjoyed it and it gave me plenty to think about. It's a good, quick read.
Half hour read. For such a short read it's quite good. I'd recommend it.
Simple, easy to understand with a list of challenges at the end to get you started.
I definitely would have liked a bit more depth to help me not only understand why i should work on trying to stop caring what others think, but also help me understand better how i can program my brain to do so. But with the small amount of pages this one has, I can't say i think it ought to have explained all that. I'm not sure that would've been realistic without making this into a seriously sized book.
Anywho, it's clean, I enjoyed it and it gave me plenty to think about. It's a good, quick read.
June 20, 2021
While I appreciate a short and simple text, this felt exceptionally surface level to me. I know a few people appreciated the basic and clear writing, but it made it feel like we would never get to the heart of the material. I will say that sometimes it is important to have common sense tactics and thoughts laid out for you in order to see that your mindset and what you are doing is coming from the right place. My favorite line was 'We all have this ideal self in our heads that we are constantly bumping against the external world for validation. We are fortunate enough to understand our mental models and change them if they don't serve us.' Basically, do the work.
October 24, 2021
ok but fairly generic
Not a lot to say, it was like reading a short magazine article - not a lot of substance to it.
Not a lot to say, it was like reading a short magazine article - not a lot of substance to it.
July 17, 2021
Very short book but also simple to read. A lot of common sense and something that you should always stand by. If you don’t want someone to do it to you don’t do it to anyone else.
I’ve always been a people pleaser I guess and majority of the time I care about what other people think but I’m on a voyage of personal discovery as dramatic as that sounds but I will use this book to help me care less about what people think of me. All that matters is my opinion of myself and I’m definitely working on that right now.
I’ve always been a people pleaser I guess and majority of the time I care about what other people think but I’m on a voyage of personal discovery as dramatic as that sounds but I will use this book to help me care less about what people think of me. All that matters is my opinion of myself and I’m definitely working on that right now.
October 23, 2021
My decision
I really liked this book. I will tell you I am 71, been a nurse over 40 years. Nurses are known in the profession " to eat their own". I never could do that, I loved to teach them. This year I found myself in a sad, bad spot and ended up quitting my job and retired. This book helped me so much and I never really doubted my decision, I did not like it, but I knew I was not going but on my own decision. Thank you for this book.
I really liked this book. I will tell you I am 71, been a nurse over 40 years. Nurses are known in the profession " to eat their own". I never could do that, I loved to teach them. This year I found myself in a sad, bad spot and ended up quitting my job and retired. This book helped me so much and I never really doubted my decision, I did not like it, but I knew I was not going but on my own decision. Thank you for this book.
January 9, 2022
Came across your book by chance on a Sunday evening whilst relaxing & trying to forget I had to return to work the next day to a job which I feel undermined & not appreciated in even though I try my hardest to be helpful& to get on with people. I have for a while been saying to myself that I shouldn't care what others think & to do more to make me happy. To see someone else writing about how I felt & how to start to slowly change things really helped. Thank you x
January 10, 2022
I don't remember if I paid for this or not. If I did, it was a complete waste of money. Just obvious tips and a very short book.
Still, I admire Russell. Not for this book. More the fact he bleated on about how important it is to not care about what others think of you or your work. He then wrapped up by saying we should leave a review as he cares what we think...
This is my review. 1 star. I got nothing from this. The tips are just common sense.
Still, I admire Russell. Not for this book. More the fact he bleated on about how important it is to not care about what others think of you or your work. He then wrapped up by saying we should leave a review as he cares what we think...
This is my review. 1 star. I got nothing from this. The tips are just common sense.
May 2, 2022
Stop Caring! I will always be judged and that is okay…
If this tittle calls your attention, then read it. I am sure you will get some good advice out of this one. People will always judge you without knowing what is happening with your life, and those who you believe to be good or friends are the ones really criticizing all the negative aspects of you, but will not point out your positive actions.
If this tittle calls your attention, then read it. I am sure you will get some good advice out of this one. People will always judge you without knowing what is happening with your life, and those who you believe to be good or friends are the ones really criticizing all the negative aspects of you, but will not point out your positive actions.
June 3, 2019
Hort and to the point!
For someone who doesn't learn through reading well. I appreciated the shortness of this book. I'm a shadow of my former self because of my own self critic. I look forward to putting the techniques into action. I carry a mirror so I can tell myself off when my inner critic starts an argument.
For someone who doesn't learn through reading well. I appreciated the shortness of this book. I'm a shadow of my former self because of my own self critic. I look forward to putting the techniques into action. I carry a mirror so I can tell myself off when my inner critic starts an argument.
October 15, 2021
great insights and action points.
This little book is a great guide to being your true ,authentic self. The people pleasing aspect is invaluable insight. Your genius is right there for the manifesting. What others think of you positive or negative is their concern not yours. Great book Russ.
This little book is a great guide to being your true ,authentic self. The people pleasing aspect is invaluable insight. Your genius is right there for the manifesting. What others think of you positive or negative is their concern not yours. Great book Russ.
September 21, 2022
A really good read
I read this book with an open mind i fly d quite a few things in it that related to me and have me a push to be who i want to be and do
It's mostly the things you know you should do but it's written with easy to understand sentences that make you just to go out there a grab the world
I read this book with an open mind i fly d quite a few things in it that related to me and have me a push to be who i want to be and do
It's mostly the things you know you should do but it's written with easy to understand sentences that make you just to go out there a grab the world
July 5, 2021
Insightful
A short well written guide on how to stop being so concerned about what others think, or constantly seeking others validation, something I am very guilty of and then to take action &life your best life for you alone free of the shackles of others opinions.
A short well written guide on how to stop being so concerned about what others think, or constantly seeking others validation, something I am very guilty of and then to take action &life your best life for you alone free of the shackles of others opinions.
August 24, 2021
Super Helpful
LOVED this quick read. I don’t usually post reviews unless I feel really strongly about them…this book is life changing. I plan on printing out my notes to read them again and again.
LOVED this quick read. I don’t usually post reviews unless I feel really strongly about them…this book is life changing. I plan on printing out my notes to read them again and again.
January 10, 2022
Quick & Concise
Great points made, good starting point for people who care about what other people think of them. It’s a cruel world but everyone will have opinions, it’s up to us how we react to them.
Great points made, good starting point for people who care about what other people think of them. It’s a cruel world but everyone will have opinions, it’s up to us how we react to them.
June 25, 2022
I saw this on kindle unlimited and thought yeah why not, it’s the smallest book ever but I am actually so glad I chose to read this. I am left feeling motivated and inspired to do better.
I would recommend this to everyone who is lacking in motivation!!
I would recommend this to everyone who is lacking in motivation!!
August 13, 2022
Great book.
A must-read for anyone struggling with defining themselves. I love this book. Short and to the point (like me, except I'm not short).
I would recommend it to anyone at any time in their life. Universally relevant.
A must-read for anyone struggling with defining themselves. I love this book. Short and to the point (like me, except I'm not short).
I would recommend it to anyone at any time in their life. Universally relevant.
March 11, 2021
Excellent
A short, easy to follow and enjoyable read offering clear, concise guidance and many valuable insights on the subject matter.
A short, easy to follow and enjoyable read offering clear, concise guidance and many valuable insights on the subject matter.
March 23, 2021
Good read
Short sweet and to the point. It's a good read if you are in this mindset and need a bit of reassurance that you are not alone in feeling this way
Short sweet and to the point. It's a good read if you are in this mindset and need a bit of reassurance that you are not alone in feeling this way
April 5, 2021
Worth reading!
Clear, helpful advice. I am glad I read this book and I couldn't put it down after starting it. It's liberating!
Clear, helpful advice. I am glad I read this book and I couldn't put it down after starting it. It's liberating!
April 16, 2021
A lot of common sense.
June 13, 2021
nice little book
easy to read 👌 no fancy words , simple and plain. everyone should read it only takes a little of your time.
easy to read 👌 no fancy words , simple and plain. everyone should read it only takes a little of your time.
June 26, 2021
An quick read
Such a quick read full of common sense tips that every person should read. There are no tips on how to do them. So it's really good but really too short
Such a quick read full of common sense tips that every person should read. There are no tips on how to do them. So it's really good but really too short
July 28, 2021
A helpful little book with some great ideas. A good starting point to help you reflect on your interactions and sometimes your dependence on other people’s opinions.
August 9, 2021
Good short read
Good short read for when you need a little positive talking with your inner voice. Some good quotes to help change your mindset.
Good short read for when you need a little positive talking with your inner voice. Some good quotes to help change your mindset.
August 13, 2021
I dont care
Short gets to the point
Noticed I already do some of these
Good advice on dealing with random people. .
Short gets to the point
Noticed I already do some of these
Good advice on dealing with random people. .
October 9, 2021
Going quick read
Good quick read. Some really useful tips and tricks to practice in day to day life. . . . .
Good quick read. Some really useful tips and tricks to practice in day to day life. . . . .
December 29, 2021
Good read
It's a very good book, buts it's very short, Just basic tips on, stop worrying what people think, alot of the tips are common sense
It's a very good book, buts it's very short, Just basic tips on, stop worrying what people think, alot of the tips are common sense
January 3, 2022
Good read
Really good information in this book. It gave tips and advice to support a transformation in mindset. Would recommend and read again
Really good information in this book. It gave tips and advice to support a transformation in mindset. Would recommend and read again
January 7, 2022
A great helpful short reqd
Loved the matter of fact approach. It will be fun to try out the weird thing,and fully agree it matters not what others thunk.😀
Loved the matter of fact approach. It will be fun to try out the weird thing,and fully agree it matters not what others thunk.😀
January 11, 2022
Short and punchy
Crear, concise, shot and packed. Essentially, just what you need to know... no BS... Quick read. Worth revising once a year...
Crear, concise, shot and packed. Essentially, just what you need to know... no BS... Quick read. Worth revising once a year...
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