This is such an interesting title, so you only get as far as the cover and ALREADY you have been seized by the ...throat !!?
What lies behind this choice? Well, getting even darker, or just 'curioser and curioser', it is the Husband, Thomas Carlyle HIMSELF, who chose this phrase which, when made a little more complete, reads thus:
"...a brave woman, and, on the whole, a 'Necessary Evil' to a man."
Thomas Carlyle to his wife on her forty-third birthday.
...on the whole, a Compliment...an admission of his OWN need; an affectionate compliment between Equals rather than a back-handed compliment, I feel. A voice speaking honestly from a Life's experience. She benefits him, and he is glad to tell her so as she will be grateful to receive it.
I first read of Jane Welsh Carlyle,( her husband I had long heard of,) in the still excellent "The Faber Book of Diaries"(paperback, 1989), edited by Simon Brett. She gets 9 of her diary entries from March through to December. I was immediately taken by her quirky style and flow and her honesty of expression. This book promises the same as it has plentiful quotations from her, her husband and several friends and relatives. MORE TO COME