Discover Why Men Come on Strong Then Suddenly Lose InterestIf you are currently dating, at some point you’ve probably been blindsided and left utterly frustrated after a great guy suddenly lost interest in you even though he seemed so passionate in the beginning. Maybe you’ve been completely heartbroken after a long-term boyfriend suddenly started pulling away from you.Sadly, as unfortunate as these dating situations are, when they do occur, most women tend to act in counterproductive ways that only end up pushing their guy even further away, maybe even for good.What to Do When Men Pull Away, Become Distant, or Try to Ignore YouNo woman can change the reality that any man, no matter how interested or invested he may first appear, can potentially pull away and lose interest in her at some point. Although this is the reality, a woman can, in fact, change the way she deals with such situations.While you might not be able to control a man’s behavior, you can control your own. Being in control of your emotions, especially when a man’s behavior threatens your future with him, will make it easier for you to influence his heart and make him see you as an irreplaceable, high-value woman.But in order to effectively influence a man’s heart, a woman must possess a deep understanding of how men think – why they lose interest and what scares them away from a blossoming relationship.How to Decode Male Dating Behavior and Finally Understand MenThe thing is, a woman can astronomically increase her chances of dating success by doing one simple understanding men. Rather than responding in desperation and frantic fretting, when a woman truly understands male dating behavior, she becomes far more confident and capable in dealing with men whenever they pull away or attempt to ghost her.Fortunately, in this insightful little dating book for women, you’re going to get an inside look into how men think when it comes to women and relationships. You're going to learn the secret reasons why men suddenly lose interest, what causes men to fall in (and out of) love with a woman, and how to prevent that special guy from disappearing on you.Here’s what you’re going to learn BIGGEST reason why men pull away whenever you start giving them MORE of your love and attention.The seven things that make a man feel as if he’s "just not ready” for a SERIOUS relationship with a GREAT woman.What to do (and what NOT to do) when the man you desire suddenly starts losing interest in you.The six man-repelling behaviors that SCARE men away on a first date. ( You’ll finally understand why many guys QUICKLY lose interest in highly educated, smart, and successful women.)Exactly what goes on in the mind of a man who suddenly “BREAKS THINGS OFF” with a woman he deeply cares about.The nine ways good-hearted women unknowingly CHASE men away by “Coming on Too Strong”. ( Avoid these "red flag" dating behaviors if you want to keep HIM chasing YOU instead.)What to say and do to STOP an on-coming break-up in its tracks to potentially SAVE the relationship.The twelve TIME-WASTING signs that reveals when a man sees you as his “PLAN B” and nothing more. ( Knowing these signs will keep you from being seduced into a DEAD-END relationship with an emotionally unavailable man.
Bruce Bryans writes books for men and women who want to become both irresistible and irreplaceable romantic partners to the opposite sex. This is the focus of all of his books.
-dont disclose unpalatable info about self -dont come on too strong -dont try to win his approval -dont nag/remind him of poor communication habits early on -dont be needy, fill your life with interesting things -dont become passive or slightly interested, show healthy amount of interest -dont sext before relationship, makes it seem like it'd be only a hookup -dont chase -if they pull away after chasing and your reciprocating interest, they weren’t interested in the first place or your passion scared him -if the second, dont chase- let him chase and follow his lead -Reciprocate and follow his lead, dont chase or initiate -Dont be hyper masculine -o bossiness, lifestyle obsessed, career obsessed, accomplishment focused, gold digging, high maintenance, self entitled, -Men want kindness, compassion, passion, tenderness, sensuality, nurturing , patience, fidelity, dignity -Be receptive, responsive, interested, appreciative -Let him pursue you -Dont control anything/any outcome -Dont give instructions, let him win -Look feminine, be warm, flirt -dont talk about work, dont be cold/professional on dates -Test his consistent show of strength, confidence, capable, intelligence, love, devotion, dominance over other men to feel safe
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Listened to this via audiobook. The first half enraged me because it felt like the author was saying that women need to change their entire personality to get a man and that I don't agree with. The second half had some very valuable info I felt. So not all was lost I suppose
Its a shame how men's brains are developed like this but its the hard truth to know if your trying or are in the dating phase. Would strongly reccomend for younger adults/teens as well so they don't fall for this type of behavior thinking "he's the one".