-dont disclose unpalatable info about self
-dont come on too strong
-dont try to win his approval
-dont nag/remind him of poor communication habits early on
-dont be needy, fill your life with interesting things
-dont become passive or slightly interested, show healthy amount of interest
-dont sext before relationship, makes it seem like it'd be only a hookup
-dont chase
-if they pull away after chasing and your reciprocating interest, they weren’t interested in the first place or your passion scared him
-if the second, dont chase- let him chase and follow his lead
-Reciprocate and follow his lead, dont chase or initiate
-Dont be hyper masculine
-o bossiness, lifestyle obsessed, career obsessed, accomplishment focused, gold digging, high maintenance, self entitled,
-Men want kindness, compassion, passion, tenderness, sensuality, nurturing , patience, fidelity, dignity
-Be receptive, responsive, interested, appreciative
-Let him pursue you
-Dont control anything/any outcome
-Dont give instructions, let him win
-Look feminine, be warm, flirt
-dont talk about work, dont be cold/professional on dates
-Test his consistent show of strength, confidence, capable, intelligence, love, devotion, dominance over other men to feel safe