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A selection of my favourite passages
Interesting Gems
• Breast-feeding of babies by women who are not their biological mothers and allowing such babies to grow up in the deserts are some of the signs of nobility and high status among the Arabs of pre-Islamic era.
• On Aisha (R)’s room: First and foremost, it is the noble Prophetic room that shelters the Prophet's grave and his noble body. It is the only room that still exists of the rooms of the Prophet's wives. It was the room that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) wished that he should be nursed while he was sick of fever. It is the room that shelters the remains of two leaders: Abu Bakr and Umar (may Allah be pleased with them).
• On Hafsa (R): Another quality you can add to her credit is the fact that she could read and write, a quality that was very rare among womenfolk then, even among men. The new thing that attracts our attention here is that her house was the place in which the revealed verses of Qur'an written on palm branches, slates and other materials were kept. She was the custodian of the Book of Allah. She preserved it in her heart and in her house.
• The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) disliked that a man should praise himself, for the name 'Barrah' is derived from birr which means righteousness. How then can a person claim to be righteous and strut about with that name?
• Umm Sulaym was the first Muslim woman to accept a suitor's embrace of Islam as mahr (bridal money).
Important Dua and Ahadith
• “O' Allah! It is from You that I seek the reward of this calamity of mine. O' Allah! Provide a better substitute for me”
• The Prophet (ﷺ) said: "My Ummah shall continue to be blessed as long as the love of this world has not prevailed among them, and as long as there is no prevalence of corrupt scholars, ignorant reciters of the Qur'an and tyrants. If all that prevails among them, I fear that Allah may include them all in punishment."
• On Ruqayyah’s (R) death, the Prophet (S) said: "Whatever tears shed by the eyes and however much the heart grieves, that is from Allah. It is actions of the hands and words uttered by the tongue that come from Satan."
Points to Deliberate Upon
• After Khadija (R), many women embraced Islam, not in compliance with their husbands' will or out of tribal solidarity or in obedience to their fathers' command. Rather, these women, in most cases, embraced Islam independently, out of conviction and in demonstration of their right of choice
• On the demise of Prophet (S), Barakah Umme Ayman said "I am crying because the revelation from the heaven has stopped."
• They were then blessed with al-Qasim and 'Abdullah, at-Tayyib, who was otherwise known as at-Tahir. But for some Divine Wisdom all of them died in their infancy. And that was before he was commissioned as a Prophet. After he was commissioned as a Prophet, he was blessed with girls successively in the following order: Zaynab, Ruqayyah, Umm Kulthoom and Fatimah.