Where to begin? An astonishing book that immerses us in the late 1800’s in the United States. It’s a history lesson, a snapshot of the times (post Civil War) and a page turner. It goes all the way back to the Puritans to lay some surprising groundwork about the treatment of women and to explore societal beliefs about marriage, families, and sex.
The story features a famous extramarital affair (him, not her) between a young woman and a prominent Kentucky politician. It went on for 10 years. After bearing children by him, and forced to give them up, after waiting for him to come through on his promise to marry her, Madeline finds herself bereft when “The Colonel “ marries someone else. So she sues him for $50,000 and a big sensational trial ensues.
It’s a watershed moment because, as it turns out, many many people are fed up with the double standard that exists for men and women when it comes to sex. Basically men can do anything they want, but if a woman is caught having sex outside of marriage, she is literally ruined. In addition, as all wars do, the Civil War changed society drastically. For one thing, there was a lack of men, so many young woman were remaining single. Also the economy was booming and needed labor. As women began working in shops, factories, and offices, they became vulnerable to sexual predators whom society and the law did nothing to control or punish. Really, as a young woman, unless you were under the protection of a husband, father, or brother, other men considered you fair game.
Madeline’s lawsuit and trial gave voice to all this and the newspapers covered every sordid detail. The public devoured the story and, as it turned out public opinion was on her side. This was the time of Susan B. Anthony and feminist groups were fired up. Places that were trying to help abandoned, illegitimate babies began speaking out about their work. Women from all walks of life were fired up- from the highest levels of society to the lowest, as well as decent men. This is the Me Too moment of the 1890’s.
The book has 50 pages of notes and bibliography. I can only imagine the time and work that went into this project. I feel very grateful to Patricia Miller for preserving this story.