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The M in Man Is For Money: Reloaded: A Woman's Guide on How to Handle Men and Money in Dating and Relationships.

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Passport Cutty, the blogger, traveler, and unconventional life coach to people all across the world, follows up her debut book and returns with an enhanced edition, The M In Man Is For Reloaded. The book takes you on a journey through a rinse cycle of serial dating and personal struggles as you read how Ms. Cutty searches for and finds her purpose. Along the way, you’ll learn how to handle men concerning money while dating, living together, or just plain having a pecuniary relationship. She offers tips on conditioning men to foot the dinner bill to the household bills. You’ll gain explicit advice on which men to avoid, which men to maximize and which men to never get serious with. Passport Cutty shares her stumbles and mistakes so the reader can learn from and identify with her failures. Her honesty and authenticity will amaze you. This book is a guaranteed way to get reassured, enlightened, and learn more about your relationships with men and money.

287 pages, Paperback

Published May 10, 2019

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Passport Cutty

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Passport Cutty is an author, blogger, host and all around social media maven whom has gained her popularity from her unfiltered, uncensored and unapologetic conversations about lifestyle and relationships. Articulate and entertaining, her commentary focuses on self-growth, finances, travel and personal style to her vast and loyal following across multiple social media platforms.

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8 reviews1 follower
July 16, 2019
Why did it take me so long to read this book?!?! I wish I read this book in my early twenties. She gives so many tips on dating, managing your money, and how NOT to get taken advantage of by men. Some did point out some things that we as women have/are doing where we mess things up for ourselves when it comes to dating. I realized I was one of those people, and how to not be that person moving forward. I highly recommend reading this book
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October 18, 2019
Surprisingly the book is way more than the title. I was expecting to become a professional gold digger after reading this, but instead I received insight on so much more. Without spoiling for others I definitely recommend this book for those still in search for love and wondering why they keep ending up with “the wrong one”. It’s a very easy, fun, informative read on relationships!
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October 17, 2019
This book opened my eyes to the type of woman I was when it came to dating. It made me realize there is no shame in asking for what you want, especially when you're giving so freely. It's a must read for all women.. for confidence, reassurance and encouragement.
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October 17, 2019
This book is PHENOMENAL! Passport Cutty is a voice for the millennial generation of women tired of getting the short end of the stick.

Money is the hook but it is a metaphor for anything you seek in your interactions with men. It is funny, insightful, witty and above all practical and applicable.

A MUST READ! Perfect for the beach and right on time for the holidays!
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October 17, 2019
Good read!!! Cutty teaches how to play the game. She teaches you that closed mouths don’t get fed.
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36 reviews3 followers
July 15, 2019
Very fun and easy read, or in my case.. I should say listen. I purchased the Audible version, which she also narrated herself. She is very animated and her stories make you feel as if you were there.

The main reason I docked a star was due to the content. Some sections were identical to her first book, so I assumed that this was going to be a sequel. There were some new things in there, but not what I was hoping it would be.

I do recommend this book for any readers that have been following Passport Curry before she became an author. She still remains true to herself and the delivers messages that she thinks young women in her position should know.
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29 reviews13 followers
September 2, 2020
Woooooowwwww! This book was amazing. I knew it was going to be good from the reviews but this far exceed my expectations. There were a lot of things that I already knew but this book really showed me how much your mindset can affect you behavior. I used to approach men and money from such a conservative and terrified approach. I didn’t want to offend or seem rude. Cutty made it clear that it’s not about being rude or nice. It’s about offering your gratitude in any form that you see fit and valuing your worth. I literally started and finished this book in a couple of hours today and 10/10 recommend it. All women need to read this!
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October 18, 2019
No matter what level of dating you're on this book will help you! If you want to play the game you have to learn the rules. This is the rule book for those in the game who aren't getting their needs met financially or emotionally. Cutty tells you why and teaches you HOW! I have learned so many tips about dating AND HAVING SELF CONFIDENCE. It's not about sex for money! I have passed this book along to other women who have grown in the dating game so much. Cheers to an entertaining and educational read!
1 review1 follower
October 31, 2019
I loved the book just like the first one. It was identical to the first one with a little more information added. I was completely fine with that. This book helped me find my voice in relationships & open my eyes to a lot. Definitely changed my perspective on men the way I date. I recommend this book to all women. Even if in a relationship I think it’s still a good read & may help it. I’m so grateful to have given this book a chance. It’s like you’re having a conversation with the author. Love the style & vibe.
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October 31, 2019
This Book was definitely a great read. It was hard to come to terms with the fact that I'm the overly independent woman in my past relationships. I now see the reasons why I have failed time and time again getting the things I wanted from my man. I have been using Cutty's tips and often re-read some chapters when I see things going left in my new relationships. Buy the book it may save your life or at least your bank account... lol #busybee
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October 31, 2019
After reading the first version of the book, I had to be sure to get the reloaded version as well. Passport Cutty brings everything that most women are thinking about men and money to life. What I love most about the book is that she makes herself so vulnerable. If things haven't been working out for you with getting money from a man, read this book and your outcome will more than likely change.
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April 22, 2020
Great read!!!! I’ve been following passport cutty on twitter for yearsssss. She’s always been straightforward & the book definitely didn’t disappoint. I made my boyfriend read it also & he loved it. Lol I was in the group of the first people to purchase the 1st book with her autograph which was dope as well. Great job Cutty!!!!!!
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August 8, 2020
This book exceeded my expectations. It is well-written, witty, and honest. I appreciated the narratives of Cutty’s personal stories with the advice. I recommend it for all women, no matter their relationship status. In short: We have not bc we ask not. I would give this book to you g women finding their way in the dating world.
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October 31, 2019
This book is amazing! Don’t be fooled by the title. Cutty gives great dating tips. Learn how to understand and execute what you want from your relationships. I love the storytime no one tells a story better than Cutty!
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October 31, 2019
This is my second copy of the book. It was so good I had to put my friend on. Cutty gives the readers the best insight on the do’s and don’t on how to handle a man. I wish this book was around 10 yrs ago
1 review1 follower
December 4, 2019
Loved! Not what you think. Don’t let the title fool you into thinking you’re too good to read it. Even a good read for men. The first book was good but this one was even better. Both my copies are signed, first time I was ever pressed to do have that.
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May 5, 2020
I just finished your book and let’s just say I’m waiting for your next book. It was a great read and as someone who identify with some of her experiences, I am so proud of her! I wish her much success!
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199 reviews2 followers
September 6, 2020
Change your brain, change your game. Passport Cutty gives it to you raw. She explains the mistakes that women are too quick to make and explain why we have a tendency to fail at getting what we want!
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25 reviews
January 15, 2021
I purchased this book on audible. I love the fact that Passport Cutty narrates the book. It’s definitely a great read for women. The things she says in this book I wish I knew when I was younger. But hey at 30 I still learned something.
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4 reviews1 follower
December 30, 2021
Okay ignore how long it took me to read — I’m in college lol but seriously, look beyond the title. I got the book because of the title, but I’m it offers so much more! Passport Cutty literally drops a lot of gems. she shares the good and bad of this kind of lifestyle. Would recommend.
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December 26, 2022
I enjoyed the first half. I’m 22, I wanted to know how to get the money lol nor the life lessons at the end. But good to know, I won’t be a player too long. Lots of do’s and dont’s, I appreciate that. She put me on game and made me a little more confident
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October 31, 2019
Excellent read. Funny and entertaining. Took me back to my younger years.
1 review1 follower
November 1, 2019
Funny viewpoint. Quick read. Makes us all rethink the financial aspects of our relationships.
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December 21, 2019
She has definitely given us the jewels in this book
Her pass and personal experience is so vivid.
What a good read. Women we have the power to walk any dog.
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3 reviews9 followers
April 20, 2020
I loved this book. It was raw & real. The author really put me in many places I been before as a woman. I will recommend this book to many others. Please try this book out!!!
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28 reviews
August 17, 2021
Highly insightful, got a good scope of what it’s like for women to be looking to use a man for money. Got sort of a play by play of how to look out for those sort of women.
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June 15, 2020
Adore It! Recommending my young 18 year old to read!

Recommending my young 18 year old to read! Definitely using the tips! Keep writing & keep posting! Adore it. Love
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December 29, 2019
Great Book:

I liked the book due to her honesty and her allowing us to come into her world and share these things. For the most part this is real reality now as we speak, but to here it from someone that actually endured it is a great plus. I was also able to learn somethings about myself reading this book. I look forward to reading more of her books. Thank You.
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