There's nothing worse than a loved one being missing, presumed dead. Are they really dead? Will they be coming back? If they do, what will they be like? Will they be the same? Will you be the same towards them? Will you still love them or just the memory of who they once were, who you once were together? Is it wrong to try getting on with your life, moving on to someone new? And is it fair to that someone new if they know in their heart (and in yours) that they're second best?
So many questions. While I was rooting for the H and h, I couldn't help feeling sympathy for the OM.