Where do I start? I am astonished that this book is so relatively obscure, how it's not listed with Hardy's other famous novels, how there are hardly any commentaries on it. I think it is an amazing, refreshing, unusual book and I utterly loved it. I was up until three in the morning to finish it.
So, where do I start. Let's start small. One of the merits of this book is what it doesn't contain, what flaws of nineteenth century novels in general and Hardy novels in particular it avoids. For one thing, the word ”undulation” appears only once, even though there were several paragraphs where I imagine Hardy was sorely tempted to use it. Perhaps at the time he wrote this, he was aware it was his pet word and so he restrained himself. He also restrained himself with regard to the not-so-humorous dialogues-between-simple-country folk which blights some of his novels (anyone remember than endless scene in the pub in Far From The Madding Crowd?). There is a little one, towards the beginning, between a milkman and an ostler, but it's mercifully short. More importantly, though, this novel is blissfully free from melodrama, lucky/unlucky coincidences, moping and endlessly agonising characters and nobody has to die to bring about a satisfactory ending even though this seems inevitable at one point.
So far, so good. Apart from these “negative merits,” the book has a lot of what I might call standard merits, things you would expect in a Hardy novel: strong sense of setting, careful characterisation, neat plot development, subtle humour. There is a lovely way in which the theme of deception is varied and mirrored on a number of levels. But what makes this novel stand out is how much it does not follow established patterns, how is breaks with literary conventions in a way that I found fascinating and very, very satisfying.
The most obvious of these departures from convention is that not only is it mainly concerned with a family of artisans and domestic servants, but these are portrayed as neither comical nor meek nor heroic but simply as a normal family who needs to make a living and whose members look after each other. Mr Chickerel, a man of discerning character and considerable intelligence, actually enjoys being a butler. The carpenter brothers are accomplished in and enthusiastic about their trade. Nevertheless they are a family with aspirations and, realising Ethelberta's cleverness, set about to improve her lot through as much education as they can give her. Good for them. They are wonderfully pragmatic and and the same time warm and caring. On the other hand, there is no feeling that Hardy satirised the middle and upper classes or used them as a negative foil. They are equally normal people with strengths and weaknesses, no more concerned with their self-interest than people generally are. I loved the scene where Mr Chickerel's connection with his daughter is discovered by his employers, how the mistress of the house says she will “of course” dismiss him and how her husband replies that she will “of course” do no such thing, that Mr Chickerel is an excellent butler, a replacement would be hard to find and so what that Ethelberta is his daughter? The wife protests that Etherlberta should have told them the truth, to which quite rationally the husband replies, “You didn't tell Mrs Petherwin that your grandfather narrowly escaped hanging for shooting his rival in a duel.” Good stuff, good stuff.
And then there is Ethelberta herself. Rarely have I approved so much of a novel heroine. She likes to enjoy herself as much as the next person, but without any complaint she puts first the responsibility that falls on her by virtue of being the smartest of her family. She is creative and artistic, but she doesn't mould herself into some romantic effigy, but with cool calculation invents a persona and a novel kind of career that will be economically viable. She takes risks, makes quick decisions under pressure, revises decisions as necessary, assesses people realistically without being unkind or judgemental, she is ambitious but never to the point of being selfish or mercenary. She loves Christopher but parts with him because he is not a feasible option in the circumstances, she does so without bitterness though she continues to have tender feelings for him and it is to her great credit that her first impulse to give him up arises from the discovery that her sister is also in love with him. She feels under pressure to marry for money and goes about it pragmatically, but she is determined to play fair and not to deceive her suitors. It is wonderful that in the kind of situation where other novels of the time would have the heroine agonise and toss and turn all night, Ethelberta turns to a philosophical treatise on utilitarianism and decides to marry Lord Mountclere because that's the best option all round for everyone concerned. She is shocked to discover that her new husband keeps a mistress on his estate and decides to flee, but not in a haphazard way and with a view to become a woe-is-me victim of male wickedness, but with a view to securing an advantageous stance from which to negotiate a tolerable arrangement for the future. When this plan does not succeed, she doesn't despair, but sets about to make the best of the situation. And, oh how delicious it is to hear what she makes of it! There is no romantic compensation for her disappointment, no virtuous martyrdom, no sad decline or bitterness and, wonderfully, the less-than-perfect elderly husband does not die. Instead she uses her wit, her energy and her management skills to gain control over the household and the respect of all therein. Lord Mountclere does not exactly become a henpecked husband, but she is clearly in charge, and this is to his advantage, as both his health and his finances improve under her management. Yes, my lady Ethelberta, who has been so good at maths ever since she was little, has her own office and keeps the ledgers and cash books, all power to her! Instead of the typical choices for Victorian heroines (true love, death or endless moral chastisement), Ethelberta makes a successful career out of her marriage.
Other characters are similarly refreshing in their failure to comply with narrative convention. Christopher, instead of endlessly pining for Ethelberta or alternatively turning his former love into hatred, remains a friend and well-wisher. He even goes as far as standing in for her brother when the latter deserts her, but then when Ethelberta doesn't turn up he doesn't go in for some desperate heroic rescue, he simply shrugs his shoulders, says he's done his bit to help and goes home without much fuss. This is admirable. Likewise admirable is Faith. When she first appears, she seems destined for the role of the stereotypical selflessly devoted spinster sister, but as it turns out, she is on the whole more interested in her own scholarly pursuits than in her brother’s heartaches.
I also really like how the title of the book works in so many different ways: it can refer to the hand for which her four suitors are vying, to the hand that writes the poems, to her handwriting (which is contrasted with that of the viscount) and finally in a figurative sense to the way in which she plans and manages her affairs and those of most people around her. Instead of Providence or Fate or the Hand of God or whatever, Ethelberta truly is the mistress of her own life by virtue of her determination, intelligence and firmness of character. Feminists should worship her...