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عنوان: دیدار؛ نویسنده: دانیل استیل؛ مترجم: مریم بیات؛ تهران، گلشائی؛ 1368، در 574 ص؛ چاپ دیگر: تهران، ارغوان، 1389، شابک: 9789646234901؛

574 pages

First published July 1, 1980

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Danielle Steel

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Danielle Steel has been hailed as one of the world's bestselling authors, with almost a billion copies of her novels sold. Her many international bestsellers include All That Glitters, Royal, Daddy's Girls, The Wedding Dress, The Numbers Game, Moral Compass, Spy, and other highly acclaimed novels. She is also the author of His Bright Light, the story of her son Nick Traina's life and death; A Gift of Hope, a memoir of her work with the homeless; Expect a Miracle, a book of her favorite quotations for inspiration and comfort; Pure Joy, about the dogs she and her family have loved; and the children's books Pretty Minnie in Paris and Pretty Minnie in Hollywood.

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1,448 reviews169 followers
July 2, 2017
Wonderful read! interesting and engaging storyline.. (paperback!)
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15 reviews1 follower
May 16, 2011
This was the last bookm I read. It was historical, sad, interesting and touching. The things Ariana went through, she is tough. U learn a lot by the way. I love World War II stories especially from German. It tells the tells of what people went through to be great today. From Kassandra and Walmar, to Ariana, Manfred, Ariana reaching the states, meeting the Leibmans, being mistreated and surviving, her Noel and Tamara. U just put yourself in her shoes and u see that for to fit, u need to be strong. One learns a lot
Profile Image for Patrice.
20 reviews1 follower
January 4, 2009
This was recommended by a work colleague back in 1982 and turned me off to Danielle Steele novels ever since.
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6,754 reviews357 followers
October 29, 2025
This review was written in that dim corridor of days between the 22nd and 28th of October, 2025 — a week blurred by the hiss of oxygen and the slow drip of IV lines at Bellona Nursing Home & Diagnostic Centre Pvt. Ltd. I was then a reluctant guest of illness, recovering from an infection that had seized both lungs and kidneys. Forgive, therefore, the infrequent tremor in my language; it bears the soft delirium of painkillers and the fragile clarity of a mind half-dreaming between fever and thought.

The Ring begins not with love, but with loss — a loss so immense that love becomes its echo. Reading it beneath the mechanical sighs of the oxygen machine, I found myself tracing the same circularity the title promised: love turning into death turning into memory turning into text. Steel’s 1980 novel stretches across generations, continents, and wars, but what it truly documents is the haunting of history—how trauma travels like an heirloom, passed down through gestures and silences.

In the story of Ariana von Gotthard, the privileged daughter of a German general who falls in love with a Jewish writer, we see Steel attempting her most ambitious act yet: translating the spectacle of history into the intimacy of emotion. This isn’t the sentimental Paris of her earlier works, but Berlin under siege — a world where ideology corrodes love from within.

Ariana’s journey from innocence to exile feels almost biblical in its inevitability. Yet, like Kristeva’s notion of the abject, her suffering isn’t just historical; it’s ontological. She becomes a body that history expels — the unwanted remainder of a civilisation devouring itself.

Reading this while tethered to IV lines, I felt an odd identification with her suspended state — a life both sustained and threatened by tubes, borders, and the slow circulation of something alien inside the veins. Ariana’s exile is not unlike illness: both are betrayals of home.

In The Ring, Steel uses the symbol of the heirloom ring — passed from mother to daughter — as a Derridean trace, a signifier that never fully lands. It signifies love, yes, but also guilt, inheritance, and the impossibility of closure. Every time it changes hands, it loses and gains meaning, like a sign caught in translation.

There’s a moment early in the book when Ariana’s mother, desperate and defiant, presses the ring into her daughter’s hand as their world collapses. It’s a simple gesture, but Steel’s prose, for once, trembles with restraint. “Keep it,” she says, “so you’ll remember who you are.” I paused there, my own hand half-numb from the IV needle. What do we keep, really, when everything collapses? What part of the self survives the wreckage — the memory or the scar?

Steel, who often writes in broad emotional brushstrokes, finds unexpected subtlety here. She lets history itself become a lover — violent, possessive, jealous. Ariana’s love for Manfred is not just forbidden by politics; it is unthinkable within the symbolic order of her time.

And that’s where Kristeva would whisper: the semiotic — that primal, feminine pulse beneath patriarchal law — erupts here as love. Ariana’s defiance is not political so much as maternal and bodily.

She carries within her the memory of a world before division, before names, before the borderlines of race and nation.

Barthes’ shadow flits too across the text — particularly in the way Steel writes about letters. The war separates lovers, and what remains are fragments: notes, postcards, and words that travel farther than bodies can. “I wait for you in every hour,” one letter says. In Barthes’ A Lover’s Discourse, waiting becomes the purest form of love — a performance of faith in language itself. Ariana’s letters, like mine written in my head to a world outside Bellona, are proof that desire survives absence, though altered, weakened, perhaps even purified by it.

The novel moves inexorably toward tragedy. Manfred’s death (inevitable as a refrain) comes not as a shock but as punctuation — the full stop history demands. Yet Steel resists despair. Ariana gives birth to their daughter, the future bearer of the ring, the living continuation of love’s syntax.

Here, The Ring becomes not a love story but a meditation on transmission — how memory survives through blood, through ritual, through objects that outlast the living. Derrida would call this hauntology: the persistence of presence through absence, of the dead through the living.

When I reached the chapters set in postwar America, I realised the story had quietly changed genres. It was no longer a romance but a recovery narrative — the reconstruction of identity from ruins. Ariana’s daughter, Arianna (the doubling of names itself a recursion), grows up between worlds, unsure which language or country truly belongs to her.

That sense of dislocation felt eerily close to my own in the hospital: the body no longer belonging fully to itself, every breath mediated by machines, every thought filtered through the pharmacological fog.

Steel writes this second-generation story with less finesse but equal sincerity. The ring passes again, and each time it does, the gesture grows fainter — like a photocopy of a memory. By the end, the heirloom is less an object than an idea: the residue of all the loves and deaths it has witnessed.

That’s when I began to understand what Steel might have intuited without ever theorising—that love, to endure, must become abstract. It must shed its body, its history, its narrative. It must turn into a symbol, fragile yet indestructible.

There’s a small passage near the novel’s close that hit me harder than I expected: Ariana, now older, sits by the sea, the ring glinting faintly in the afternoon light. She no longer wears it as a keepsake but as a reminder of endurance. “It isn’t what it was,” she says, “but it’s what remains.” I read that line again and again, until it dissolved into my own reality — my IV drip, the soft tick of the heart monitor, the hum of life reduced to remainder. Perhaps that’s what all survivors eventually learn: not how to rebuild, but how to live among remnants.

And isn’t that what literature does, too? It preserves the remainder. Steel’s prose, unfashionable as it may be, becomes a kind of secular scripture — the melodrama of survival turned mythic. Beneath its sentimentality lies a profound understanding of how trauma is metabolised into story. Every repetition of love’s loss is both an act of mourning and of rebirth.

As I closed the book, I imagined the ring itself — heavy with invisible fingerprints, gleaming faintly against the dim light of the ward. Its circular perfection mocked the linear cruelty of time. The past does not vanish; it loops. The ring, the wound, the reader — all turning endlessly, all bearing the mark of what once was and refuses to fade.

In the end, The Ring is less about the endurance of love than about the endurance of its trace. Steel, knowingly or not, writes as a historian of emotion — chronicling not the great wars but the quiet aftershocks that linger in the heart’s architecture. Reading it in illness, I felt history and body converge: both fragile, both unfinished, both ringed with echoes.

And when I finally drifted into sleep, the book slipping from my hand, I dreamed of circles—of rings, of oxygen tubes, of the looped rhythm of breath. In that dream, I understood what Ariana had known all along: that to live after loss is to keep turning, gently, endlessly, around the empty center of love.

Go for it. It makes you warm and feverish.
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1,082 reviews18 followers
September 8, 2016
I had read this off my grandmother's shelf when I was in high school, and I fell in love with the story. WWII, romance, generational saga - what was not to love? I had forgotten the details a bit, and when searching for some choices for a staff picks display, I ordered it to re-read.

I'm so happy I did. I definitely look at the book a little bit differently now, almost 20 years later. I've read A LOT more WWII fiction, but this is probably one of the books that made me fall in love with the historical genre to begin with. It's gooier than I remember, but many parts of the war, the suffering, and the huge losses the characters endured made me cry as a grown woman with a family of my own.

The books is relatively short, especially considering it spans over 40 years, but with each character and each generation I feel like they are fully fleshed out and we knew each one personally. It shows the hardships that non-Jewish Germans went through that didn't agree with the regime, and how Nazi Germany followed them as a stigma well into the 70's.

There are a lot of coincidences that lead to the end, but with so many refugees coming to America, all through NYC at the time, maybe it's not quite so coincidental. Either way, this is a story I loved, and still love, as a great piece of romantic historical fiction.
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50 reviews
February 13, 2011
First Danielle Steele book I read. The appearance of the book is so creepy because of small characters and its thickness but the author made the plot good enough to indulge myself into the story.

It has the same story with all the WWII-inspired plots that revolved around loss and hope but Steele created an in-depth plot her work that made my imagination vivid. Her difference however, is the story's numerous twists and turns and sub-stories that revolved around 3 generations of the Van Gotthards covering the pre-war, the war itself and the post-war era but despite the immense narration of it's books, Steele was able to keep its continuity.

What's also great about it that it was easy to understand and I didn't get lost in the middle. Its definitely a good read to a woman because it not only has the usual romance but it also entails fashion and elegance.

In short, a good read. It made me hunger what's going to happen next so I kept on flipping the page until wee hours in the midnight.
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42 reviews7 followers
July 24, 2019
Daniel Steele I know 🙄 BUT this is an incredible story which is partly why it’s in my favourites folder the real reason it’s here is because it is the “first” novel I ever read! This book provided me with my first chaotic reading experience you know the can’t put you down, this is the last page else tomorrow is going to be terrible kind of reads ...... I was at boarding school sitting in the middle of the night in a bathroom because it was the only place there was light 🤣 I was hooked from this book onwards and that’s what makes it very special!
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61 reviews4 followers
January 12, 2024
Read this in high school and wanted to revisit the story to see why I enjoyed it so much. I see why I did! I think this book helped me know/taught me about WWII, the Nazis, and the Holocaust. Danielle Steel was writing historical fiction before it became a thing. Great story.
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26 reviews
January 8, 2025
** 3.5 **

was gonna be 3 but the ending was so 🥹🥹🥹🥹🥹
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263 reviews
May 25, 2019
Uno dei migliori romanzi di Danielle Steel, ottima la ricostruzione storica
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823 reviews
January 29, 2025
4 stars!

This is a blast from the past, and it actually held up well. Danielle Steele writes some amazing generational family sagas, and this is one of those.

Set in WW2 Germany and finding it's way to the United States, this is a story of the von Gottard family.

What stands out most to me after I turned the last page is the astronomical impacts of war: death, loss, refugees, crimes against humanity, and just pure evil. Arianna von Gottard is the character that we follow from her childhood through her teen years, and finally her mid-life as the impacts of WW2 follow her all of her days.

I have read a lot of WW2 historical fiction and I really did enjoy this one. It ages well, and I loved following this courageous woman through her war experience. Recommended!
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1,136 reviews110 followers
August 15, 2023
Oh, "The Ring" by Danielle Steel, how I love you!

"The Ring" by Danielle Steel is indeed a captivating novel that delves into the tumultuous period of World War II. Steel's storytelling prowess shines through as she weaves a tale of love, resilience, and the enduring power of hope.

Set in the 1930s and continuing through the war and its aftermath, the story follows the lives of Kassandra Von Gotthard and her daughter, Ariana. Kassandra, a young woman in love with a Jewish man, faces the harsh realities of a society torn apart by prejudice and hatred. As the war escalates, Ariana's journey begins, marked by tragedy and separation from her family.

What sets "The Ring" apart from other World War II stories is its unique perspective. Steel focuses on the experiences of a German girl from a well-to-do background, offering readers a different lens through which to view the war. Through Ariana's eyes, we witness the horrors of the Nazi regime and the devastating impact it has on her life.

Ariana's resilience and courage are truly inspiring. Despite the unimaginable hardships she faces, she remains determined to survive and find her family. Steel masterfully portrays the strength of the human spirit in the face of adversity, reminding us of the indomitable nature of the human soul.

The symbol of the signet diamond ring adds an intriguing layer to the narrative. Passed down from Kassandra to Ariana, it becomes a tangible connection between generations, representing both the opulence and the hardships they endure. Steel skillfully uses this symbol to explore themes of love, loss, and the enduring power of family bonds.

"The Ring" is not just a story of war; it is a story of love and sorrow, innocence and loss. Steel's vivid descriptions transport readers to the war-torn streets of Berlin, allowing us to experience the fear and desperation firsthand. Through her meticulous research and attention to detail, she brings history to life, shedding light on the pain and suffering endured by countless individuals during this dark period.

While "The Ring" is a work of fiction, it serves as a poignant reminder of the real-life struggles faced by those affected by World War II. It offers a glimpse into the human experience, showcasing the strength and resilience of individuals in the face of unimaginable circumstances.

In conclusion, "The Ring" is a compelling historical fiction novel that captivates readers with its powerful storytelling and unforgettable characters. Danielle Steel's ability to transport us to a different time and place, while exploring universal themes of love, loss, and resilience, makes this book a must-read for fans of the genre.
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4,693 reviews210 followers
February 11, 2015
1 STARS

"An ill-fated affair between Kassandra von Gotthard, a married German socialite, and her lover, a Jewish writer, at the beginning of Hitler's ethnic cleansing campaign results in tragedy for Kassandra's children, especially her beautiful daughter Ariana. When her father and brother disappear, Ariana is arrested by the Reich. Facing imprisonment and repeated rape at the hands of unscrupulous soldiers who desire to humble the lovely blond, Ariana jumps at the opportunity to become a cook for a kind Nazi officer. Gradually, the two are able to put the specter of war behind them and fall in love. But calamity strikes again, leaving Ariana alone once more and running for her life. Desperately sick and pregnant, Ariana lands in New York, part of the wave of refugees brought there by relief organizations. Sponsored, then befriended, then betrayed, by the Liebman family, Ariana slowly recovers in time for the Christmas birth of her son. And Noel, a kind man who loves Ariana, gives her the strength to make a life for herself and for him, which she does, finally finding true happiness." (From Amazon)

Originally when I read Danielle Steel novels I would have rated them 3-4 STARS, but now I would classify them as 1-2 STARS. These are great for those who like mild sex, unrealistic dramatic romances and grand plots.
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1,912 reviews381 followers
January 29, 2021
Имаше едни години, когато щандовете преливаха от всякакви шарени корици и името Даниел Стийл. България беше открила този мастодонт на романтиката, този конвейр за дамски четива с всевъзможни сюжети, някои значително по-глупави от други.

Смях не смях, и баба Даниел си е имала по-добрите писателски моменти в тази специфична пазарна ниша, особено в по-старите и книжки (после го удря съвсем мързеливо през просото).

Германия, навечерието на втората световна война, заварва семейството на общо взето почтен немски бизнесмен все още летящо върху розовите облаци от миналото благоденствие. Дъщерята с поетичнито име Ариана ще се сблъска с нацизма, поражението на Германия, търсенето на ново начало отвъд океана, преследвана от стигмата да е германка.

Имаше даже и сериал, не беше лош. Нито една нервна клетка не ми умря по време на прочита преди доста години, та съм запазила приятен спомен от баба Даниел в случая.
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216 reviews14 followers
March 7, 2020
If you’re dragging logic, high expectations or a social conscience to Danielle Steel’s sweeping soap opera, then you’re in the wrong pew.
With the exception of one month in a Nazi prison cell, heroine Ariana rides out WWII Germany comfortably swathed in gowns, jewels (including, of course, the titular ring) and furs. After a while though, Berlin falls and Ariana has to travel a long way to America. Everyone she meets is struck by her stunning beauty and aristocratic airs, including the wealthy Jewish family who takes her into their home (and hearts) after mistaking her for a concentration camp survivor.
A handful of wild coincidences bring romance, reconciliations and (what else?) the Courage To Love Again. ‘The Ring’ is the paperback equivalent of Kraft Mac & Cheese. Shamelessly enjoyable.
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276 reviews
March 23, 2014
I used to read this author's books many years ago. last year I was given 3 boxes full of her books which I have been slowly working my way through! I find its very easy to recognise a Danielle steel book and I have to say she always delivers. I thought I had read this book years ago but once I started the book I obviously had forgotten the storyline as it was all new to me. I enjoyed the storyline and it was very easy it to read. the only thing I find is that you tend to know. the outcome way before the end of the Book.
recommended!
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16 reviews12 followers
January 15, 2013
Read it years ago, and i remember weeping my heart out ! Steel does that to you.. her universality lies in writing about issues which are humanistic and real.
1 review
October 9, 2021
This is the very first time i read a book from Danielle Steel and i absolutely loved “The Ring” !. I’ve always found history so interesting and captivating. We all have learn in school or read about world wars ,they were difficult,destructive,misarable,painful and scary,we all know that ,but with this book I can feel this,like if I lived in that cruel ,dark time of history. U can understand through the characters and the history of this book how much pain, damages and scars a war can bring ...
Moreover, the passionate love stories on this book are so thrilling and made my heart flatter and sometimes even cry. Danielle writes so beautifully and emotionally about love and shows us that true love can come at every moment,unexpectedly and that love is a powerful feeling that gives u hope,makes life be seen differently and more cheerful.
And Ariana ,this strong brave teen,lady,women,old women…she’s the definition of courage,even though life threw her down several times,she never gave up and found real happiness. This is a classic but this book reminds me of the quote ”… After a storm there is always a bright upcoming day… “ .
I would totally recommend this book to everyone who likes history,passionate love stories,tragedies,and real life touchable events. One of the best book i’ve read!
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180 reviews1 follower
February 15, 2025
As a long-time fan of Danielle Steel's novels, this one did not disappoint. True to her style, she makes the reader feel happy, then sad, then happy again. You get all the feels. I appreciate how you get to stay with a character throughout her whole life.

There are a lot of WWII historical books out there, but this one is more of a historal fiction romance. She doesn't go into gory details about the atrocities that occurred during WWII. Instead, she tells the story with the war in the background. At times, it is still heartbreaking and heartwarming because it is impossible to ignore the war and the impact it had on Europe. Although it is a long book, it is easy to follow and read.

I did appreciate that this story was told from the perspective of a German woman who survived the war. It offers a unique perspective by highlighting the notion that not all German soldiers believed in the Nazi propaganda.

If you enjoy Danielle Steel, then you will enjoy this story. It's one of her older books that follows her successful best-selling formula. If you have not read any of her books, I highly recommend you check her out. You will be absorbed and whisked away to another world, usually a world of excessive luxury and wealth.
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216 reviews5 followers
November 23, 2017
Una historia conmovedora, o es mejor decir dos historias conmovedoras, la de Kasandra y la de Ariana, una trama que atrapa, que emociona y que lo lleva al suspenso. Me encantó, tanto, que empiezo a extrañarlo.
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119 reviews
August 6, 2019
Ideal stuff from her loved it and enjoy all her books easy reading and after a hard read my guilt pleasure
Author 12 books4 followers
June 29, 2023
I remember reading this book many years ago. I still remember the plot, so it says something about the book. I thought the book had a message. I think it’s one of her better books.
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12 reviews
February 18, 2022
Really good book! Didn’t think I would be into this genre, but the book was surprisingly hard to put down. Made me super emotional, almost started crying in peet’s coffee when I finished it.
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1,034 reviews90 followers
December 26, 2017

libro tan fascinante como dramático. me ha gustado porque tiene un trasfondo histórico muy interesante, se ambienta durante la época en la que inicia la segunda guerra mundial en Alemania, dividida en dos arcos interesantes: por un lado tenemos en la primera parte la historia de cassandra, su matrimonio con Walmar y... su doble vida. de 1934 a 1938 si no me equivoco. a partir de ahí continuamos en el segundo libro con Arianna Berlin, la hija de ellos. el libro termina hasta la décadad de entre los 80 y 90. Ariana tiene que sufrir los estragos de este terrible momento mientras buscan una manera de escapar y sobrevivir. pero las cosas no salen bien, y ella sola necesita enfrentarse a pérdidas, llantos, obstáculos inimaginables que la harán cada vez más fuerte. es completamente recomendable, nunca antes había visto una novela contemporánea romántica como sólo danielle Steel sabe hacerlo.
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78 reviews4 followers
January 24, 2022
Multiple points of view all tied into one story. Nazi germany and everything happening around it. We read through the point of view of an entire family and it just blows my mind. Great writing.
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November 6, 2010
This was the first Danielle Steel book I ever read and changed my reading habits forever. This book is very moving and heart-breaking whilst also showing you that being strong isn't always easy. Could not put this book down
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January 7, 2015
this novel very good
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2,121 reviews37 followers
January 6, 2016
read years ago...still check it out of the library from time to time....one of my favorite books
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