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696 pages, Hardcover
First published January 1, 1861
Reader, believe me! Lady - wife - mother! Should you ever be tempted to abandon your home, so will you awake. Whatever trials may be the lot of your married life, though they may magnify themselves to your crushed spirit as beyond the nature, the endurance of women to bear, resolve to bear them; fall down upon your knees, and pray to be enabled to bear them - pray for patience - pray for strength to resist the demon that would tempt you to escape; bear unto death, rather than forfeit your fair name and your good conscience; for be assured that the alternative, if you do rush on to it, will be found worse than death!This is not at all true. It's true in books like this and Anna Karenina*, but in real life of course there are going to be plenty of cases where someone (of either gender) is like "This other person is way better than my spouse" and they're totally right. When authors invent stories like this, where the other person is a cad / rake and the lady's new life wicked sucks, they're not accurately describing the world - and they're directly contributing to the subjugation of women. (Sorry to sound all "I just took Women's Studies 101 and learned a new word" there, but this is a real problem with Victorian literature.)
