This text explores what life was actually like for women in the turbulent period between the French Revolution and the First World War. In their own words they describe their childhood and education; courtship, marriage and homemaking; sex and motherhood; work; marital breakdown; and widowhood. Their voices speak to us with clarity and poignancy, revealing their strength of feeling, their courage, and their humour. The picture that emerges is an immensely varied one, set against a background of stark inequity, both between the sexes and between women of different social classes. And it is far from static. The dramatic events that altered women's lives over this restless century are recorded in the letters home of working girls, the songs of mill workers, the speeches of women campaigning for their rights, the quiet voices of numerous "angels in the house". It is to all these women that the modern feminist movement can trace its roots, in the Victorian kitchens, factories and parlours from which it sprang.
This book doesn't really feel like a proper academic source; however, for a general overview about conditions for women during the long nineteenth century then Perkins' book is a good place to start. It dispels many myths about the Victorian woman as well as reveals many of her secrets. All-in-all, it's a good read.
"On average, women of all classes married between the ages of twenty-three and twenty-six; men between twenty-five and thirty" (Perkins 2).
"By marriage, husband and wife became one person in law - that that person was he" (Perkins 73).
I am very impressed by this book. I bought it secondhand out of curiosity but with it being older and nonfiction I wasn’t sure if it would be dull. I found it thought provoking, surprising, and at times it felt humorous. The first chapter was all about how unwanted a girl was in pregnancy. Someone in that time period even called being pregnant with a girl “would be a blank” pregnancy. It talks about how girls weren’t treated the same as boys by their parents. Which is interesting when I personally feel the same way in 2023. Moms always baby the sons and it makes me wonder if this is part of the reason mothers and daughters don’t get along. Maybe there’s some generational trauma there. There were also some very interesting domestic violence cases in this book that shocked me. For example, one man hit his wife so hard she died because she wouldn’t give him beer money and the court decided no jail time because he was provoked. Like WTF! And that was one of many cases where injustice was shown to a murdered wife. This book did me thankful for the feminist before me that fought for the rights I currently have. At the same time, I see women in different countries currently are still fighting for these basic rights which is devastating.
It was a bit difficult, made even more difficult by pages in the wrong places. (And from what I can see it's from the printing, not from a former lender). But it was interesting to read about the cool and brave women.
Really excellent look at the lives of Victorian women from birth to childhood; this book is not bogged down in academic language but is very readable. Best of all, most of the evidence in the book consists of the written and oral accounts of Victorian women themselves.
Excellent portrayal of women's history in the Victorian era- discusses the roles of women according to their social class and further delves into education and opportunities of women in this era. A lot of the views are quite shockingly different from what we believe today... For example- it was believed that women should not be highly intellectually educated, or it would interfere with their ability to reproduce children. Society has come a long way, needless to say.
Informative, clarifying where some current assumptions about Victorian women go wrong (and quite in line with Gathorne-Hardy in that respect in spite of a considerable difference in time!) due the lack of perspective, as a whole quite a meaty read.
Recommended to everyone who wants to broaden knowledge about that era in relation to women and interaction with society and the other gender.