李银河说爱情

by Li Yinhe

This book is 40 compulsory lessons about love and the sociologist and scholar Li Yinhe will tell you the nature of love, marriage and sex. This book is the fruit of Li Yinhe's research of marriage, family and sex for 40 years, a systematic summary of the author's research and reflections. She thoroughly tells the topics of love and sex, standards of choosing spouse, extramarital affair, sexual minority, reproduction concept, sex education, women independence, etc. From the conflicts between personal wish and norms or customs to the tension between liquidity of emotions and fixity of marriage, the author tells marriage systems from home and abroad, attitudes towards love and changes and trend of attitude towards sex, offering a glimpse of love in different cultures and expanding the readers' views towards sexual relations. And she also gives detailed interpretation of the plight in marriage, love and sex and related social hotspots.

296 pages, Paperback

Published August 1, 2019

Reviews

[Vicky · Rating 4 out of 5]

通俗易懂又有深刻力量。李銀河主張別把性神秘化，要用自然乾淨的態度接受它、享受它。這點非常值得傳統中華家庭長大的我們去學習，把之前有意無意內化的毒瘤清掉。讀了本書更能體會到愛情的意義和生命的完滿如此密不可分，因為只有當我們有機會實現理想中的自己，才能真正擁有平等而又激烈的深刻愛情。

[Zi Li · Rating 4 out of 5]

3.5

[Lorraine · Rating 3 out of 5]

被书名误导了，极其不适半路放弃。但也记录一下当kpi吧。尊重李老师，只能说不对路。

[Julian Mok · Rating 4 out of 5]

全书读下来，依然认为这是一本十分优秀的，适合青少年人群、中老年人群以及接受教育不够多元化的人群的性教育读本。李银河老师深入浅出，从婚姻制度、爱情、性、婚姻生活、生育、性别六个角度对其中可能存在的一些观点与问题作出资料数据的分享与个人研究观点的表达。此书一定程度上还是值得推广的。

[Mei · Rating 3 out of 5]

流畅易读

[Sylva ᐝ · Rating 5 out of 5]

真想让所有人都读到这本书。若大家都认同性的自然、健康、快乐，都意识到现存男权社会的各类双重标准并从自身开始改变，总有一天我们会迎来一个更平等，自由和快乐的社会。在这样的社会里，男性不必非得是阳刚的，女性也不必非要娇俏可人，我们能自由落在黑白区间内的任一点处，成为真实的自己，如此也就少了许多不必要的悲剧。